Is it possible to increase your sex drive somehow?
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Exercise and eating right is a start, if you don't already.
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>>17728563
Already do.
Now what?
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>>17728554
Zinc, Magnesium, Vitamin D, Fish Oil. Do some research.
Zinc especially
>https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8875519
>increased testosterone
>testosterone = male sex drive
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I honestly don't know, where to go for this. 2016-11-02 14:58:08 Post No.17728492
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I honestly don't know, where to go for this.
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I've been in a /stabled/ relationship currently with my boyfriend of eight months.
He's 16.
I'm 21.
Honestly, I know the comments I'll get. "Ew," "pedophile," "wth are you thinking."
Like seriously, why the fuck am I feeling like this for someone younger than me who can easily use a lot of excuses.
I don't know.
Anyway... the problem is that, he has commitment issues. Relationship phobia. He's been having doubts of our relationship thanks to his friends, and of course, his parents will never accept us.
He misses his ex.
I don't know whether I want advice or consult.
I love him a lot. I haven't been in a relationship like this for a really long time, and it feels so good to be in a long-term relationship.
He's been giving me articles. He wants time to think who he wants to be with.
I'm just torn.
I don't know anything anymore. Not now, I just don't know.
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How big is his dick and does he do good oral?
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>>17728498
Lmao.
Confidential.
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You're dating a 16 year old. Of course he has comitment issues.
My advice is to honestly talk it out with him. Remember hes at the most vunerable stage in his life, things are going on inside his head that are increased by hormones.
This is why it is unwise to date those who are 5 years younger than you until your both at least 18 or 20 or so.
Imagine if you will, he still has to deal with high school shit, and high school drama. And in the middle of all this, he has to deal with this very unusual relationship upon which he cannot consult his friends (maybe) or cannot consult his parents or a counseler.
So please just talk to him and let him know that you are worried
So I have a question.
I met a girl on Tinder two weeks ago and we went out for the first time on Sunday. I picked her up and paid for dinner, and the whole thing definitely seemed like a date. While eating she said she never gets kids at her house on Halloween, so I said Well, if you want to see trick or treaters you can come to my place. I get a ton"
And her response was "Actually, I think I'll take you up on that offer" he agrees and I picked her up at 6 last night. Here's the thing though, I got so many trick or treaters that we didn't get to talk very much, but were seated next to each other for about 2 hours and joking around with every kid. Afterwards she wanted to go home because she had left a giant stuffed Panda outside her house with a "please take this" sign on it. She had told me earlier that it was a gift from a guy who broke her heart,and that she wanted to get rid of it badly. After I drove her home, she asked me to wait in my car, she went to her porch, came back and happily said it was gone and then gave me a hug and said goodnight.
So here's the question. Was Monday night a date, or not? I can't seem to categorize it for the life of me.
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yes...about as perfect a date as could be.
now you need to advance it some or risk being friendzoned.
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>>17728479
Possible she wanted you to come over to hers on Halloween and have ses. If that's the case she's a bit disappointed about not getting that and may be viewing you less sexually. I'd say your appeal in the regard is dropping fast. If you want to remedy this, be forward. Now.
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I would say it doesn't matter. She spent time with you and got to see you be good with kids. Women tend to like that; speaks to certain qualities. Every beat of that story seemed important, seemed like she was enjoying herself.
You can confidently say it was a date, I think.
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She seems kinky. But i normally have higher standars. Should i smash anyway?
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Jesus anon, stick to your standards.
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>>17728449
She is fat, ugly and dresses like a schizophrenic clown.
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>>17728451
Kek. Aight. I hear that loud and clear.
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Sup folks. Sorry in advance for my engrish.
I went to Canada this summer (I'm from France) and met a girl. It was brief and it didn't happen in the ideal context (work stuff). Still, she was cute, we talked a bit, blahblah. I could tell she was being genuinely nice and I asked her fb, but I suddenly had to leave.
The thing is, I'm going back in december because of work but with more free time, but it's been like 5 months now. I tried to talk to her, asking what I could visit around the city etc and she replied instantly sending me pics with cool places and asking for how lonh I was gonna stay. She ended up saying something like "you can ask me anything anytime" but that's it. I was expecting her to say something like meeting each other because I'm a fag. Should I go straight and ask her? Or she's not interested?
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>Should I go straight and ask her? Or she's not interested?
She seems to be. Maybe she just sees you as a friend, I mean, it's a possibility, but I would bet on "she likes you".
Ask her out, but don't be too disappointed if she says "no". After all, you are coming and going, and she might want a stable boyfriend.
Talking about that, you sure she is single?
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Just ask her, you coward. What's the worst that could happen?
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I'm pretty sure she is single, but you're right. A relationship would be impossible. Still, I've had brief "relationships" in between but that brief moment with her just stucked in my mind. Even with other girls I kept thinking about her, even to the point that I didn't give a shit about distance, stable relationship, blabla. What makes you think she likes me, btw? I thought she was being just friendly, but I obviously shouldn't expect something else as I didn't even ask her to see each other.
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Dunno, I'm about to ask her directly, but that might make me look desperate and I hate it.
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I don't know if there's even advice for this but what the hell
My girlfriend cheated on my with... my sister. Yeah, that is some dr phil jerry springer shit but it's true. It hurts, it really hurts because we were in a relationship for a pretty long time and I was gonna ask her to marry me next year but obviously that's over. Not to mention it's your regular cheating.
My girlfriend were friends with my sister. I also have... well, had a pretty good relationship with my sister. She's younger than me, so I had to take care of her since my parents were sometimes busy. We were really close, now I feel like I've wasted so many years, feel like the person I thought I knew for so many is a lie. Anyway, to make this short a couple of days ago they were alone in our home (well it's now MY HOME but I doubt I will stay here much long since everyday I get reminded of a betrayal, I will probably have to change apartments), it was typical ladies night or some shit like that, they were supposed to watch some horror movie, have fun. Well, before they did that they went out to some club, had great time, got drunk, and then returned home. And then it happened. Still don't know the details and frankly I don't care. Basically I returned home very late after work and these dumb bitches didn't know I was coming home? Still trying to figure out how much they were drunk, because no sane person would do shit like that. Anyway I found them in my bed, completely naked, cuddling. I said out loud what the fuck, and - still very drunk, my gf tried to tell me it's not what you think, same with my sister. I tried to say something, but I couldn't. Just shocked, I went outside to my car and drove. I was gonna go to my parents, but I knew I couldn't face them. I wasn't ready. So I went to some cheap motel and slept there. Well, slept. Maybe for like a hour was a sleep, the rest of sobbing and screaming like a retard.
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next day I told my parents about, my gf and sister were already looking for me, said something happened. But they didn't say what obviously. I told them everything. Keep in mind, I come from pretty conservative family. I'm not a conservative but my father went absolutely crazy when I told him. He hates gays. He hates anyone who's not straight. My mother's the same. No, we didn't know about my sister, I knew her boyfriends but I guess she's bi, or something. Now I don't really care. But basically my father went fucking crazy, he literally wanted to put a fucking bullet in her head. My mom was just crying, trying to stop my father. After some time he calmed down and also started crying. I told them I can't face her, nor my girlfriend. I told them I need some time. I'm staying at my friends house now, didn't tell my parents where, I don't my sister or girlfriend to find me. very far away from my home. I blocked my sister and girflriend from phone, facebook etc I just can't face them.
My plan is to just move on. The problem is, how? My family is in ruins now. my sister and girlfriend apparently wants to find me and talk to me. My parents don't want to see my sister, I mean my parents are not that bad. They have their views but they're not kkk redneck tier, but they don't want to do anything with my sister, or my ex-gf. If somebody fucks up real big time in family, they don't wanna hear it. I don't think they will ever talk to her again. All my relatives are also like this. Got hundreds of messages from my family and friends. Everytime when I will be for some holiday, people will look at me. It's inescapable. I feel like I need to move to another country. Change fucking name or some shit like that. I don't want people to look at me like that.
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I know that some people will suggest me to face-off with my sister & girlfriend. But why? It already happened. How can I forgive them? I feel like it's not something you can just forgive. I can't look at them. I feel like if I ever met them again, I would kill them. I don't even know what should I ask here? What advice? I'm completely lost. I guess I will get a job around here, get an apartment, and then move out to another country.
sorry for a very long post guys. I tried to make this as short as possible. Not really good at writing.
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congrats on your west virginia family...all god fearin and shit but also just plain fucked up.
anyhow, chill out, be a man and just go about your business like normal.
When they try to explain, just say no thanks.
Wish them the best and move on.
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Improve your looks/brains and go to tinder, remember you must make them (girls) as confortable as possibly, but try not to be overly attached, also be more confident (that is where most people fail), Chad gets every girl beacause he is a confident handsome man that makes stacies feel more confident, but at the same time not being overly attached, try finding some male friends first (that's why brain improvment is good) they'll distract you from girls naturally, the more Chad they are, the more knowledge you'll get by noticing how they act, they pretty much follow a pattern, so dont "bee urself :^)", change the way you are and be more of a normie on the outside world, you can keep your autism to 4chin, if you think you got no skills at all, its almost 100% sure that you didnt cultivate some skills. Chad is pretty good at sports and social skills, you don't necessarily need to improve sports, but they'll get you some male chad friends, on the other hand, social skills is a must, get more hobbies than your friends and you'll stand out, with that being said, girls will see you as the "king" of your group and your friends/outsiders will see you as an awesome person, in theory it is simple, but in practice it isnt, so godspeed you Anon.
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>>17728486
Thanks for that.
The idea of going on Tinder scares me
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Stay off /r9k/.
Are you NEET?
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My gf of 9 months and I just broke up and I have exams this week - what do?
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>>17728404
Have fun bombing those exams lmao
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>>17728404
Study.
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>>17728404
Convince yourself that she never existed.
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Hey /adv/,
I got a Problem that i hope you guys can fix.
I'm 18 years old and been a single my whole life, i never really had contact with girls (only my classmates).
I got decent looks and usually girls laugh about my jokes and stuff...
I really want a gf and i got the bravery to talk to a Girl if i really think she might be something for me, i just dont know where to actually find a half decent girl who is not a basic bitch and who is actually interested in History and Stuff.
/adv/ Please tell me where i can find Girls with some sort of Brain.
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>I'm 18 years old and been a single my whole life
So sad... grow up kid.
>i just dont know where to actually find a half decent girl who is not a basic bitch
As yourself if you deserve something better. Just being a history geek is not enough.
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>>17728413
What is enough?
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>>17728428
What do you want?
If you want a loving person that can hold good conversations, you should offer at least roughly the same.
Your partner can only be as good as you are, or they would get bored with you and move on.
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tl;dr my boss is trying to get me fired at work and I don't know why
2 years ago, the civil engineering office I work for was acquired by a big international conglomerate. About a year ago, I started my career as a new civil engineer with said office. 6 months ago, the golden handcuffs came off and about 50% of the experienced people left. I don't know the official reason for them leaving, but I imagine that losing their 50% annual bonus was a big reason. The people leaving included my boss, his boss, and his assistant, so I was transferred under a new boss in a whole different department. I mostly did small random jobs for other bosses for about 4 months (so we're now at 2 months ago) when he assigns me a big but simple project. I spent about 2 weeks working on it, completely unaware that he was expecting me to get it done in 1 week. I wasn't wasting my time on it, and I honestly believe I was doing the best I could with the tools I had. One of my co-workers dropped a hint that he wanted me to get the project done sooner, but otherwise I didn't really have a clue about the severity of my fuckup. So a month after turning in the project (now we're 1 month in the past) he finally spells out the problem for me during my annual review. Even though I've only been under him for about 6 months, he's in charge of delivering it since my old boss left. Basically he spent an hour giving me a very, very politically correct speech about how I'm an idiot who doesn't understand that we charge an hourly rate for our services. The word "training" wasn't mentioned at all, but "are you really happy here?" was asked several times. He said he wanted to revisit this issue if my work ethic didn't improve in the next few months. Apparently that translated into 3 weeks, because just last Friday he had me sign a "improvement program" letter that spells out my fuckup and what I can do to improve my work ethic (basically, keep doing my job).
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Sounds like he needs a scapegoat.
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This Improvement Program letter needed to be signed by both of us, was cc'd to our Human Resources department, and said that the issues would be revisited in 45 days where non-compliance could result in punishments including termination. This sounds an awful lot like I'm being placed on probation but my boss said that this ISN'T a probation. A reasonable boss would've given me 1) a verbal warning, 2) then a written warning, 3) then probation and a notice to HR. I feel like I was blindsided by my new boss on my first and only real fuckup under him, which makes me think he's making motions to get me fired ASAP. What do you guys think?
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Sorry about the wall of text. Let me try to greentext this.
>12 months ago: Hired as a brand new civil engineer.
>6 months ago: Boss leaves and I'm placed with a new boss in a different department.
>2 months ago: I took way longer on a project than my boss anticipated. He doesn't say anything directly to me at this time.
>1 month ago: Boss does my annual review, where he tears me up about the previous project
>1 week ago: HR was notified and I was placed on a faux probation
>Am I going to be fired?
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So this guy I know went in blackface for halloween. As you might imagine, it caused quite a stir.
I cant really say he's my friend, but we've known each other a long long time. He's roughly my age (mid-40's)
So here's the deal, I am 90% sure he suffers from some sort of autism. He really cant relate to others and doesnt get the normal give and take of friendships and conversation.
Also, I know his intent was to satirise the minstrel culture, so in effect, his costume was dressing up as someone who dressed as a black guy. like the point was to ridicule the ridiculous racism of the past.
That said, who doesnt know that blackface is just going to cause a ration of shit. Ordinarily, I'd just be like - sucks to be you. unfortunately it has gotten out of hand. He has a daughter in my sons class who hasnt been in school all week because they have had death threats and he has lost his jobs. His wife is a sweet woman, but I am guessing she will leave him for being such a dumbass.
I dont know what advice I am asking for, but maybe just tell me if I should try to help him or not.
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>>17728350
Ow, that poor sucker.
I think you should stay outta this, lest you invoke the wrath of the nogs upon yourself.
Shit tho, death threats? What kind of puddle do you live in?
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>>17728350
Someone has to help him op. If it's not you, who is it gonna be?
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Dude, it isnt the black folks that are threatening him. Most of my black friends and co-workers think its stupid and he's an idiot, but its the SJW's that are all over him.
I am guessing its all keyboard bravado, but who knows.
I dont want to say where, lest I cause more shit, but...not exactly SF but not Biloxi either.
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I am a porn-addicted woman. This is not trolling, please read along.
I got introduced to porn when I was 11 at a friend's house. Since then I watched it religiously most days of my life. Like most people I started out liking pretty vanilla stuff and eventually branched out to the point where I was watching everything in sight, and since I was mostly a NEET, some days I would just watch porn most of the day, filling my brain with those images.
As a result now I am constantly horny and constantly not that horny at the same time, have trouble getting excited during sex, and my brain is all fucked. When I try to steer clear of porn I start doing dumb shit because I miss it too much and get too horny. Like I don't even consider myself bi, I think I'm straight, but when I tried to go pornless I anonimously sent nudes to guys and girls I know hoping to get replies and even tried to seduce our maid, who is 60, by doing porny shit like walking around half naked. If I see guys I'm thinking dirty thoughts like "yeah, fuck me raw" or whatever, and if I see women the same, like "lick my pussy you dirty slut." I can't go five minutes without looking for an arousing image.
I am not kidding at all in any of this, I feel addicted and like it's ruined my brain and life, but can't stop. How do I stop?
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You really need to seek psychiatric help. You are going to need long term treatment and probably clinical help.
Best of luck
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Stay away from porn and have some self control. First it will be hellish, then it will get better. Occupy yourself with something that's as asexual as possible and physically tiring in the meantime. Once you are through it, (about 3 months), your sex drive should be normal. Getting off the pill helps somewhat if you are on it.
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Show me your tits
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Hi guys do tou think my plant is ready to harvest?
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>>17728303
ur a plant lol
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>>17728303
yea dude come to my place lmao
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>>17728514
no im not sorry I meant I have a plant lmao
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I need your advice /adv/, this is getting out of hand for me and I'm willing to listen to anyone of you.
Basically, I can't get myself to be awake in the morning. I usually sleep around 11-12 and wake up around 6. But since it's like fucking 16C more often than not, I just go back to sleep because I feel cold. I wanna stop doing this but I can't help it, mostly because I don't really have anything to do before 8, which is when I leave for college. Any tips would be appreciated.
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Take warm bath or shower when you wake up, that's what I do.
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Kick off the blankets. That's literally my #1 trick for getting up in the morning. Even in a relatively warm room, the uncomfortableness of being uncovered keeps me from falling back asleep. You'll eventually be inclined to get up and throw yourself into a warm shower.
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>>17728325
>warm bath
>not cold bath
What are you?
Is it a red flag if a 23 year old male has had 50 sex partners? Does this mean I'm broken and damaged goods?
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You got herpes or what?
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People are paintings, not goods. Things that happen to you are splashes of color, not necessarily good or bad. They might seem ugly at first, but later on you might find they add something to the painting that wouldn't otherwise be there.
Find someone who either has had a lot of partners (they're out there, trust me), or doesn't mind that you have. Anyone else wouldn't have worked out, anyway.
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It means you're a slut, and probably have some issues regarding intimacy, approval and abandonment. You should get that stuff cleared.