I know I'm probably not going to get any responses, but

>>17729694
Early teen same-sex crushes are totally normal and common - even more common among girls. Two things are happening to your brain and body at the same time - sexual awakenings and the first real steps away from family in search of friends. And almost inevitably they get a little jumbled together. Totally harmless.

>>17729714
Ok, but that doesn't exactly explain why I have no emotional feelings for women. Is that just an unrelated thing then?

>>17729758

You probably just haven found the right woman.

I know I haven't. I've had mild moments where i found an interest in a woman, but that quickly fades and all I really think of them is sexually or platonic. But that just might stem from my issues in self loathing.

Just because you don't romantically like women doesn't mean you're still gay or anything.

>>17729758
I dunno man, wanna just do an amateur therapy session? How's your relationship with your mother? Did your parents get along and stick together?

>>17730112
Not sure if you're being sarcastic, but I don't really have a good relationship with my parents. That is, I mostly get along with them, but they're pretty emotionally distant and vice versa.

>>17730123
Nah I wasn't really being sarcastic. The relationship between your parents, and your relationship with them, has a pretty big impact on how you approach relationships. That doesn't mean you can't change, it just determines, like, your baseline starting point. So your parents were emotionally distant, and you can't connect emotionally with women

And though it sounds cliche, >>17730110 is right too. You just have to keep an open mind, keep looking, and accept that a real, deep, emotional and romantic connection is a rare thing. The saying is "once in a lifetime" and that's not entirely bullshit. Anytime I've had casual sex, it's been a very lackluster experience much like you described

>>17730131
>You just have to keep an open mind, keep looking, and accept that a real, deep, emotional and romantic connection is a rare thing
But I've already accepted that it's pretty much never going to happen, so why even try anymore. I'm not just talking about a deep emotional connection though, I mean any kind of connection at all. I just have no desire to do anything with women except fuck them when I'm horny. That's why I thought it might have something to do with my past when I was a teenager. I don't even think I liked any real girls the entire time I was in high school. It was always just porn that did it for me. Though I did have crushes on a few girls in college, but that never went anywhere.

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>>17730149
>I thought love was only real in fairy tales
>Meant for someone else, but not for me...

>>17730152
Legit feels

>>17729694
You have a fucked up sexuality. You are aromatic homosexual pedophile. You are also an aromantic hetrosexual. This technically makes you bi, but nobody will understand. Don't bother explaining it to anyone. You might eventually develop feelings for women, but at 27, I dout it. You also might go batshit insane later in life after a divorce and rape children. I don't recommend it though. There are, however support groups for problems like what you have.

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>>17730913
>aromatic homosexual

>>17730152
LOVE WAS OUT TO GET ME
[do dodo do dodo]

>>17730925
Jesus anon. It's 2016. People are allowed to like smelling fags

>>17730913
>homosexual pedophile
How am I pedophile when I'm not attracted to children? I was wen I was a kid myself, but are you saying that's not a normal thing?

Also, it isn't entirely true that I have no feelings for women, because like I said I did have a few crushes in college. But I haven't felt something like that in a long time, maybe because I've realized that I will never have any success with women and I'm just blocking it all out without even thinking about it. But I honestly don't really know.

>>17731513

Theres something in philosophy, that goes something like whatever you are aiming at you wont achieve, yet will achieve other things. So focus on improving other aspects of yourself and you will make progress towards a meaningful relationship.

>>17731574

And in case it sounds like bulkshit, I can testify that it definitely has some merit. I started trying to improve every aspect of my life for things that would make me the kind of person to be in a relationship, then after that I actually formed a relationship, which is still ongoing (5 years later, though we've hit a pretty bad spot now, but it is related to self development of both of us).

Nah senpai

You must me greek

>>17731722
What?

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You could just be aromantic anon. If that freaks you out you could always go to a therapist and talk it out.

>>17732400
What exactly does aromantic mean?

>>17729694
The thing is that you are straight now. I think that your past doesn't allow you to live the now and the future. You are maybe stuck on it,wondering if it was normal,if that makes you gay etc. but as another guy said when you are teen things like that can happen. So forget about the past, men don't attract you,so you are a Man. The fact that you can't get close to a girl emotionally doesn't mean that something wrong is going on to you. I guess that you just haven't find the right one. Before my current relationship,which is my first one (we are 5,5 years together) I had some crushes as well but I couldn't make a relationship and I though that something wrong was going on with me. I was thinking that I will never have a relationship with someone that I will love. But after meeting my current relationship,I felt so much in love,and feelings that I never knew came up! Because I met the right person for me.
>>17730131
I also agree with this,
my parents have distance with me and that makes relationships harder,because you are not used to get/give love,hug etc,but when you meet the right person, you will start to change!
So don't worry! You are a normal guy and keep an open mind and the love will come when you will think that it will never happen to you

>>17732443
Nothing. It's a dumb tumblr word.