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Why do I fall in love so easily? I think something is wrong with me.

posted a bunch of shit in the previous thread that no one will ever read because it hit the bump limit.

3 hours left.

Today i made an appointment to get my iud removed next week and then we'll try to get pregnant. I'm so excited but i can't tell anybody yet...

I'm 24 and posting ITT, what are you going to do about it?

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Yes?

Now what?

>>17707081
28 year old here. Just bought my first house and it's kinda depressing living alone again. Every day is just housework and computer games with my friends. I don't know... It'd be nice to have a girlfriend to come home to but that's a very long ways away if ever.

>>17729654

Be truthful so she doesn't run the risk of catching something. It's the right thing to do.

>>17729654
Be a decent human being and do not put your SO or a possible child in danger simply because you cannot control your sexual urge for men.

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no fucking way that's real

what

>>17729520
Literally what

>>17729520
listen to some music you like and go walk around a well-lit area like a plaza

>>17729458
Been there, done that with WoW (left around five years ago now)

Yeah, it was hard to leave, and yeah I truly miss the buzz I got from playing it (apparently it's gone a bit shit now though)... But looking back, I'm glad I left

Almost immediately I started doing things that have left far better memories (eg. driving to the middle of the countryside and setting up a few tents, getting a campfire going, and having a few beers with my mates at a moment's notice)

Just replace it with a game that's fun, but one you don't really benefit much from playing too much... Hearthstone being a good example for me

>>17729458
Limit useage of games to one or two times a day and more if you finish your work/studying. Reward yourself for finishing your work. No need to quit games if your life isn't suffering

>>17729480
>Just replace it with a game that's fun, but one you don't really benefit much from playing too much... Hearthstone being a good example for me

lol I was into Hearthstone and desu that game was way more toxic to me. For whatever reason in my city there was local tournaments every few weeks and I took that way too seriously. I placed decently but I was the outcast of the local community (I'm not a weirdo, it's just that the core of the community were like best buddies even before the game came out and I couldn't blend in well with them). I took it so seriously I remember being extremely sad for doing bad at tournaments, and it was also a moneysink. Never again.

I've been thinking about playing single-player games for highscoring like shmups or even speedrunning something, but idk doesn't give me the same buzz.

>>17729491
Yeah I need to slot my time better. But even then when I'm in a class that is really boring, I wander off thinking about the game and ways to practice and improve at it.

While I should be worrying about improving my general life, I spend more time and energy trying to improve in a game lol. Maybe I'm actually addicted.

>>17729424
i don't think there's anything you can do unless you have the guys details maybe you could report it to the police

ought to have gotten cash but i guess that's hindsight

>>17729424
You always check your own balance to confirm that they sent it to you.
You're a fucking idiot, he probably used a burner.
You remind me of a guy I know who thought he was buying a TV, he was shown the TV, it went in the back of the van in a box, the price went up, he haggled, the price went back to asking and he got out a box from the van, only it contained onions (to weigh it down), we called him for weeks asking if he knew of any onion recipes.

>>17729424
cash only cuck

Nah. To me,that says that she cares more about my feelings/self esteem than her own sexual gratification.

That being said,I'd do more digging into what she likes/ what gets her off so i can give her the real deal. Communication and such.

>>17729396
Maybe you should be asking her how you can better satisfy her.
Tell her to just be honest with you instead of acting to please you.

>>17729423
what's the point when she's a cheating whore anyway.

I thought I was doing her a favor by giving her a second chance, but it's clear to me now that I'm just simply not enough to satisfy her, and I don't even want to try now.

>>17729383

Leave her alone. There's no way this will end well for you.

Best case scenario, she gets creeped out and quietly ignores you. Worst case, you make a fool of yourself in front of everybody.

>>17729383
I added someone on instagram a year ago.
Three weeks ago I commented on a pic, where she asked "What's on your mind?" and I wrote "Secretly planning on having you join my painting course, and making you my next muse." She wrote "That sounds incredible!"

We are now friends on facebook, and she told me to look her up whenever I was in town (She recently moved)

Basically the first anon is right, but not for the reasons you think.

>>17729383
It is VERY creepy unless you have SOME sort of real-life interaction with her first. Run faster and catch up to her after class.

the last text she ever sent me was "goodbye, i love you take care'.

just randomly. seemingly no reason. She'd always told me she loved me more than anything else in the world, then that was the last thing she said to me before downing a bottle of pills off the side of the highway.

she was my mother.

>>17729314
You get by, just occupy yoursely and try to keep busy. Go out with friends, meet new people and eventually the pain will fade.

>>17729314
Was in a 4 year relationship with an amazing girl, lived together for a year and a half, because of my own existential problems and chronic pot use, she left me, although she didn't tell me this just a "I dont love you anymore". I had to figure it out through a year of therapy the probable causes. Didn't want to try fix anything or try or give me more reason then that.
She actually fell for some other dude whose into cosplay as well [her hobby after she became to lazy to draw and paint]. Although I was absolutely crushed to the point of suicide (not because of her but because of hating myself and believing if she threw me away I must throw myself away). Yeah it was a pretty dark place in my life, but family and using engagement money I was saving to buy my dream car got me through all that. This was almost 2 years ago and I can say the bullet dodged me, shes still living with her parents, sleeps on a mattress in the lounge because her room was rented out to a student when she moved out and other associated mental disorders have crept up. I'm about to graduate uni, have my own place, working a sweet job and I no longer have to pay for 80% of her shit, so came out better. Still hate myself and find it difficult to become intimate with women since but eh dont want to die anymore.

tl;dr got dumped by love of my life, used engagement money to buy dream car

>>17729297
I'm not really sure what question you're asking. You have too much going on in the thread.

You're probably not going to get both of these girls (even British girls aren't like that, are they?) so the best you can do is choose one and go for it.

>>17729297
>Is it just because she's different and would represent a new experience? Reliving the 'honeymoon period'?
It'll be this. You've been together 7 years and it sounds like your relationship's gone a little stale and you're only staying because there's no reason to leave.

>>17729297

Don't be tempted to choose your girlfriend out of laziness just because you've built a life with her. Just because you've been with someone for a while and love them doesn't make them your soulmate.

take up a hobby that improves your physique

You parents are un reasonable. Take up a hobby, that'll make pops happy. I have aspd so I can't help with the gf thing, but your Mom is unreasonable as well of she thinks youre gay because of that. Heres a middle eastern thing said a lot by my mom when family hated me "listen and forget"

>>17729263
everyone's dads think they're a disappointment, dont take that shit to heart.
If your family cant accept who you are, fuck em. Otherwise follow the usual 4chan advice, find a hobby, get a little exercise and good diet go and seek therapy if you need a place to vent. The rest comes after you improve yourself, even if its only a little bit of improvement, it takes a long time to get better its not some overnight shit.
If not there's always drugs.

b-bump

>I booked an appointment for a physiotherapist next week but is it too late?

You made the right move, you're gonna be fine, just be thankful that you have the resources to get this kind of treatment.

Also, just curious, how did you fracture your wrist?

Keep doing the exercises and you should be able to move it just fine. It may take a bit of time though.

The therapist can give you some exercises to do and it's important to do them.

>>17729243

"What went wrong?"

I don't get the question. She is not into the same shit as you, and as far as I can tell, she won't jell well with most people in the community.

What's the question?

It was probably for the better OP, she sound like she have been reading too much 50 Shades of Grey to be any fun anyway. She would probably run away crying if she knew what you wanted to do to her.

>>17729243
BDSM group or not, you still have to basically treat people like people. Typing out a list of kinks and "activities" to someone you've never slept with is not sexy or exciting, it kind of sucks all the fun out of it. That doesn't mean you shouldn't value consent, it just means you shouldn't try to preemptively get consent for every single fantasy you want to try before you've even touched each other.

Take it slower in the future. Ease your way into conversations like this. Start off with something a little more like a normal date

Well it's either because anxiety or because the tests are much harder than homework and quizzes. Which one is it? Like, can you not solve a problem during a test that you could figure out before or after it? Or the test is just harder / different from stuff you've done for homework and quizzes?

If it's anxiety consult a specialist. You may need medication. If it's difficulty try to find out what kind of problems the test consist in and study harder until you can solve those problems. Start with last years exam subjects.

Do you do practice tests and exams as part of your study?

>>17729267
It doesn't seem like the tests are particularly harder than hw and quizzes. I do get nervous, but isn't that normal for major tests?

>>17729276
No.

>>17729176

shrooms are more likely to make you uninhibited, yes. less about what you might say and more about what you might do.

>>17729176
anything you would do you can write off as "woah dude i didnt even realize i did that! those shrooms fucked me up!" worse that will happen is you will be made fun of by friends

>>17729190
What if they are also somewhere in outer space while i fuck up? Will they remember it?