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>>17752642
you are meant to leave her, unless you have the strength to forgive her. revenge will get you nowhere. be glad that you're better than her and call her a whore if someone asks you about her.

>>17752656
I have already left her

I could just walk away from the whole thing,
but then how do I know my next girlfriend will not do the same thing?
Where is the justice if she is allowed to just walk away

if she was unhappy she should have talked to me
and if she was scared to talk to me or she just wanted to leave me then she should have just left

>>17752670
This is why cheating fucks people up.
its going to be hard for you to trust people in the future

Wow, this board is slow.

>>17752636
>If a girlfriend argues a lot, is it because...
It's because she has she has opinions and beliefs that are at odds with yours, she has a willful personality or one of the two of you is being a fuckhead.

>If a girlfriend is submissive, does this mean...
It means she doesn't have as much conviction or drive as the people she chooses to surround herself with and doesn't like making decisions for herself.

You're overthinking at best, doing a poor job of trolling at worst.

>You're overthinking at best, doing a poor job of trolling at worst.

That's almost exactly the same response I got last time I asked a question here. Are you the same anon as replied last time? Do you remember me?

Bump for interest.

>>17752620
Where would the girls you describe hang out?

If you like a type of music, go to a concert or club and chat with people (of both sexes - the guys might know girls). If you like art, meet girls at museums. And so on.

There was a famous bank robber of the 1920s Whe he got caught they asked him why he kept robbing banks. "Because that's where the money is."

>>17752620

stop being so ego centric.

first and foremost if you dont have the time or money to join a club, you dont have the time or money to date.

second, men and women aren't meant to be best friends. they can be, it happens, surely possible, but the idea that we are meant to spend every moment with our partners is silly. until very recently man married woman, but man still hung out with man and woman still hung out with woman.

Does he work? What kind of job does he do? From my perspective masturbating is a good way to nut fast with minimal work. Sex is great and all but it's a lot of work for good sex.

My take on this he's just too tired for sex but it's possible the spark has been lost. I'd say first try to dress more provocative around the house, shove your ass in his face, try to sit in his lap etc and keep going at it for awhile.

If that does no good the only way is to talk about it. I see you tried but don't back down. At all costs avoid turning it into an argument or shouting.

>>17752632

Thanks so much for your response.

He does work, I know there are a few people off work at the moment so he's busier than usual but he has also had a few days off and nothing has come from it.

I'm quite forward as it is, I'll try to be provocative, rub against him, etc, but he normally just pushes my hands away and tells me he's not in the mood.

I don't want to follow him around like an animal on heat, it feels like I'm forcing him into it. I also understand that half the time the point of masurbation is just a bit of relief but it's making me feel like he's covering for something or hiding something from me.

I've just tried again and it was met with complete indifference and unwillingness to speak about it more in depth. I really don't know what else I can do.

>>17752638
If that's the case then clearly something is wrong. Keep bringing it up but don't start arguments about it.

The perfect timing to bring it up is when you initiate and he says he's not in the mood. Then bring up you're always not in the mood, what's wrong?

If you do this several times either two things will happen;
He'll lose his shit and tell you to go fuck yourself, which could be a solid indicator he's no longer attracted to you or maybe seeing someone behind your back, possibly..

Two, he'll break down and spill it.

The important thing is don't back down but at while don't start arguments or raising your voice. This is important, be persistent about it.

>>17752587
Take it from there or* disregard?

You fucked up.

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>>17752587
Pessmistic-lone-survivor-from-Depression-island-anon here.

I dunno, this seems like she had other plans and you shouldn't overthink it. Unless she suddenly changed her tone when you invited her or abruptly changed the topic, seems like it's all fine.

Stick to your plan and spill your beans next week, then.

(Bear in mind I have no experience with this, I only have regrets, so I'm trying to help you not to make the same mistakes I did)

>>17752580
How do you know he adds random girls, did you sneak around?

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>girls
>on steam

Makes sense to be a little bothered by it.
I mean why the fuck add people on steam that you're not going to game with? Unless you're using them to get free games it seems very stupid.

go with the flow. fuck her

>>17752570
She said you make her feel drunk.
She' fucking infatuated with you, you raging nonce.

>>17752586
my other flatmate has also said something similar i didn't take it to mean much

>>17752545
dude dont do it. fuck that man. love yourself not for anybody else but only for yourself.

you are ugly ok. am sure there must a ton of other things that you like about yourself

>>17752545
>I'm just biological trash and I'll show myself out of the gene pool.
now this is wrong, biologically there is no difference between you dying now and living to 110 as long as you don't reproduce. Think of all the good you could do in those 90 years to help society.

oh also, you say you want to kill yourself because you're ugly

this had got to be the most pathetic reason I've ever seen for a suicide. Post a pic then and let me see how much of a freakshow you really are.

Do you know what this board is about?

>>17752495
Holy shit I picked the wrong one, my bad.

>>17752493
What also has to be considered and many younger voters refused to investigate is Hillary and Bill have a long track record of shady shit and people were tired of shady back room deals. Love him or hate him but Trump is right up front with where he stands. He doesn't say one thing and mean another or enter into an agreement all the while knowing it isn't worth the paper its written on.

There is a difference in bluff and bluster and insincerity. Putin knows if he fucks around Trump isn't going to deal with him, ever but if they can find common ground on a few things and do a deal a working relationship can be forged.

No way Trump will ignore US commitments to the UN, your best deals are done through strength.

Regan brought the Soviets to the table by suggesting the US was going to build a missile defense system via space satellites that didn't even exist. Every one laughed at Regan but the Soviets didn't and had to consider the possibility he wasn't bluffing.

>>17752464
NP is not only more money, it's where the action is, especially as budgets get cut and more of what has been doctors' work is shifted to nurses and NPs.

But it also is bedside nursing plus added responsibility, and if you don't have an almost religious "calling" to work with patients, you might be happier working with computers.

>>17752464
Currently a military lab tech/medic, working towards PA.

I'd say get into informatics. I have a background in IT beforehand and that is the way of the future for medicine. It may not pay as much now but I guarantee there will be a demand for it coming down the years.

NP route, I guess that depends how much you like patient care. The autonomy thing is cool and the pay is awesome too.

Might be better off with informatics mate. It's less money than NP but is less stress and the hours won't be as grueling than as an NP, which is very important given that you've got a kid to raise.

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I dont know I need this too. I spend 98% of my waking hours on my pc.

>>17752463
>step 1: don't use the Internet as much as you currently do
>step 2: if results are unsatisfactory refer to step 1

/thread

>>17752496
idiot

>>17752455
hair product such as wax that leaves a matte finish. alternatively cum.

>>17752455
Henry

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Get an undercut.

I said that I think that maybe it isn't for me. She goes on, "what do you mean? Are you gay?". Now I stop everything, laugh and get off her completely. I say "Of course not. Maybe it's just your pussy that I didn't like" (as I said, I was pretty tired and frustrated at this point). She gets pretty pissed, I don't even realize how much and I keep going "Also, I think you're kinda... don't know how to say it", and she encourages me to go on,"selfish, a selfish lover, I mean" (I'm pretty sure I'm right, I can give you examples, if you want, from all night long where she only thought about herself, it wasn't bad most of the time, but it's true). At this point she just bursts and says to get out of her house and that she never wants to talk to me ever again. I'm pretty shocked and confused. I try to reason with her, but she says I have humiliated her and that she knows why I'll never have sex and that she pities the other girl I liked. That was a really low blow, and I just apologize and say it was not my intention to harm her feelings (and it really wasn't, she is a cool gal and I was just trying to be honest and finding what I liked in sex). She then goes on, on why I was such a jackass and that if I told anyone about what happened, they would agree with her and that I was being an asshole. I sleep on her couch for 1 hour (too early for the buses) and get out.

This happened this night (it's 7AM here now, just got home, left her house at 6AM). I'm mostly posting this because I can't exactly share this with people I know (I hope to forget, to be honest), but I'm trying to see why she would burst like that and if she's right in saying it's all my fault. Please, help me, but tell me if it was really my fault and if I should have done different. I don't like to lie, I'm pretty straight forward, but I try to be kind as it is possible. I didn't want to hurt her feelings.

Part 2/2.

Help me before I pass out feeling like shit, please.

>>17752434
You met a strange girl. Not really knowing each other or particularly caring for each other - and certainly not having had any experience together that would have helped each of you learn what the other likes - you had a not-particularly-good sexual encounter.

Big deal. Learn a couple of lessons (like that just maybe it would help to know each other a little) and move on.

You'd have to apologize for your own behavior, but she'd have to hear an apology from your friends for her to want to go back there.

>>17752420
If I was one of your friends, I wouldn't get drunk in front of the girl one of my friends want to make a good impression of. Are you sure they didn't do that on purpose?

>>17752420
why in the world would you ask a girl on a date with you and your buddies? you should apologize to her for suggesting such a dumb ass move and hope you can make it better with a real one on one date. One on One

halp

Wank and physically exhaust yourself so you don't get mentally exhausted.

>>17752341
In the morning, work out (gym or run), then shower and study for a couple of hours. After lunch take a nap (with a good alarm clock) until three. Shower again and go to school. Do some last-minute reviewing there.