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Election Day really set off a change in my girlfriend. She's emotionally distraught over the results and I couldn't be happier. Thing is, ever since, my girlfriend won't talk to me. She keeps talking about needing distance.
>Fine, I got hobbies whatever.

We had our first real talk tonight and she got mad thinking I was an MRA. Which is fucking retarded because I think identity politics odd for faggots no matter who you are.

It's not the first time. Any time she thinks she finds a big flaw with me she blows it out of proportion and thinks I'm an immoral person and won't talk to me. Like the time I defended lonely NEETs right to fap to anime girls. I mean who the fuck cares? It doesn't affect her at all what wrens jerk it to.
She also refuses to look at my views on anything at all sympathetically. Politics, religion, basic life philosophy, it doesn't matter. She won't look at things my way and thinks any evidence I give is biased and wrong...without needing to look at it.

So we got a girl who doesn't have any respect for me morally or intellectually and hates everything I think is important. The sex is good but who cares, you can get that from anyone. I still love her and I'm willing to tough it out but these have been long term problems between us. Normally though we get along great and she really is my best friend.

The question is, should I end it with her?

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Personal protection firearms 101. How to obtain them, how to keep the police from shooting you for having them.

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Have finals in a few days. Havent finished the syllabus. Too afraid of the outcome. So hopeless that I cannot build the courage to pick up the book and read. Almost get PTSD thinking about reading that book. What do friends? I was always an straight A student but now cant even make myself study. I am too scared to study.

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Should I / how do I tell my guy friend that i want to have sex with him?

>sit next to him in rhet class
>talk to him during class
>he touches me a lot
>touches elbow
>lightly steps on foot
Buttt
>recently broke up with ex
Buttt
>talks kinda negatively about her a lot
Buttt
>once said he was stalking her on fb. Though he was probably joking.

I added him on snapchat today and he sent me a video after class. Theres a girl i kinda talk to in my class who can ask if he at least thinks im attractive. Or i can go balls to the wall and ask him straight up. Or??? I donno. Help me get laid /adv/

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How do I become a better man? I feel like and am an edgy asshole almost all the time. I'm also alone almost all the time. I haven't had a girlfriend in years, I only have three friends who I talk to, and while I am able to be dominate in most social situations I can't help but feel like I'm too extreme sometimes. Years and years of bad experiences with people has made me rough around the edges and I don't want this anymore. I'm unapproachable and I can't approach others anymore. I also never had a father to teach me how to be a good man so now I'm lost.

>tl;dr
How do I stop being edgy?
How do I become a better man?
Is there a way to be edgy but a good man?

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Alright guys I need your advice

I have a beautiful second cousin. She's a 7.5/10. Red hair, tall, and skinny. Around 34B breast. Just turned 18 years old. Never kissed a guy in her life. Except for me, but we will get back to that later. Perfect. I'm 20. Both of our family's are close. Me and her have been close our whole life's. When we were 8 I use to make her kiss me behind her shed. We kiss every time I saw her. Id say make sure it a long one this time. Eventually she told her mom and we stopped. A little over two years ago we've have gotten really close. My family has a family reunion every year in Kentucky. (How fitting right?) last year me and her were like best friends during that week. We were by each other sides the whole week. It felt like we were dating that week.

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>Been in online relationship for 6 months
>Play WoW together every day for at least a few hours, mostly all day
>Treasure each other, love each other a ton, always do things for each other

So, today

>Hanging out after she gets home
>She wants me, we both start getting horny
>Talking about how bad we want to fuck, how fun a sex swing would be, all kinds of dirty stuff
>She's getting drunk
>We're in two voice chats, one with just us, and one with others
>Talkative bitch comes in to the other chat
>Completely takes her attention of being dirty
>She's getting drunk as fuck, these two talk for hours
>I get salty because I had a raging boner and was horny as fuck

>She sobers up a little
>Asks me whats wrong
>Tell her, she gets upset because I get mopey when we get distracted (more like cockblocked imo)
>Says she just won't get into that with me if I'm gonna get upset
>Apologize up and down
>Tells me to stop, drop it
>I do, play for a couple hours, laugh some
>She goes to bed
>Tell each other we'll see each other in the morning, I tell her I'm sorry for earlier again
>Tell her I love her, like always
>Doesn't say it back tn, but that's not too different than normal

So, I'm pretty upset adv, she's the love of my life, and I want to keep being dirty with her and being so connected. I know some of you fags are gonna make fun of me for having an online gf, but it's better than nothing.

I already sent one of her characters a mail with a gift telling her I want to learn from this, and I want to keep being her lover. I left her a phone message too. What should I do tomorrow to get back to normal with her /adv/?

Pic related, how I feel about myself

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>tl;dr
This girl friendzoned me last week (even though we were cuddling and kissing a week before), but agreed to go out with me for coffee this weekend
Is it actually a date? How should I treat it?

>full story
I met this girl on Tinder about 3 or 4 months ago. 2 and a half months of just texting and stuff, I asked her out a few times and she gave excuses, I was too stubborn to take anything short of ghosting as rejection, so I just kept the conversation going...

We hung out a few times on campus, got to know each other a little better, then about 3 weeks ago she invited over to her place that she just moved into. At first it was us and her friends, but once her other friends left, it was just me and her, we cuddled and watched netflix, and she asked me when the last time I had a girlfriend was, and the last time I had sex was. I said "it's been years since I had a girlfriend" and that I was a virgin.

She had this reaction like "No... NOOOOOO.... are you serious!?" and I kind of just laughed it off, then she dropped the subject. We kept cuddling and watched some more shit, and I gave her a kiss before I left.

At first it seemed like things were good, but then a week later I text her about to ask on an actual date, and we have a conversation that ends with her saying she thinks of me as a friend, and claiming she was drunk last week. I kind of slightly blew up at her about not treating me like an innocent charity case because I'm a virgin, but she denied it and kept apologizing.

A few days ago I brought up one of the times we almost went out, and how she canceled on me last second, and she made this comment about how she can be a little bipolar sometimes, I asked her out for coffee this weekend to make up for that last time and she said "okay :), sunday".

So is there hope? How should I treat this? A date, or a friendly hangout? Should I try kissing her again?

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Any advice on what kind of hat I should wear?

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Found a credit card. Bought some soda at the gas station to check that it's working. Trying to figure out how to buy bitcoins with it. Also thinking of buying visa giftcards with it, but worried about them asking for an ID or getting caught on camera. It'll probably be locked by tomorrow. What should I do?

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>first dates always seem to go well
>conversations go well, always able to make them laugh and talk about themselves
>never seems to go past the first date though

I've tried to think about why this is and figured it was because I'm an fat ugly shit but if that was the case then why would they agree on a date in the first place?

Girls give out their numbers like candy but is it the same with first dates? If not, what would be the problem?

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Why do girls say you creep them out, but when they see you at a public event, they always seem excited to see you, yet disappointed if you aren't attending that event, or ecstatic if you are?

I really don't get that. Why would she tell me the stuff I do was creepy to her? Yet if we happen to bump into at a bar or concert, she's surprisingly chipper and talkative. And the reason she called me creepy was because she said I was too persistent for her taste; making me way too scared to approach her in general.

So why would she be so lively and spirited as if nothing ever happened? It drives me insane, confuses me greatly, makes it increasingly difficult to get over everything, and starting scare me away from going out at all.

If someone has creeped you out in the past, why would you even acknowledge them? Why would you still be so nice and polite to them? Why would you approach them the second you see them in public? Why would you have no clear sense of fear coming from you? And why would you care enough to even have a chat?

This has really been keeping me up at night lately.

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My GF is fat.

She was curvy when we met but now she's full blown fat and I'm not sure how to deal with it. I used to love taking her out, now I feel embarrassed.

I've tried to help change her habits by going for walks, planning better meals, etc. Nothing is working.
We don't live together so getting her to workout everyday is impossible.

I don't know how to deal with it and the thought of saying something makes me feel like an asshole.

Has anyone been in a similar situation and can offer some advice ?

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Is the mere act of drinking/being drunk a sign of uncontrolled alcoholism, or is it possible to consume alcohol at unorthodox times without needing an intervention?

If I decide to have some wine with my breakfast, calculated to be OK to drive by noon, on my day off from work, am I necessarily in the need of an antabuse?

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Hello guys,
I'm here to talk about my rivalry with the guy who's been my best friend.
We had the same ideas, and a very deep connection, we wanted to be a musician and we had a band at this time. We were overall doing good even if we were fighting a lot, the artistic results where impecable and we had a connection that I never had with a friend. The thing is I was depressed, I had this tendencies to get late, to push back working on stuff,I told him about my depression of course but that's a thing he couldn't understand. One day I went a little hard on him, saying it was time for the band to split and that his work sucked and etc... we went on a huge fight over text. But I wasn't that pissed. He was. He wrote a very mean diss song about me and it hurt me so much. He sent it to all of our friends. After that we tried to work together as a team but I couldn't push our work together because I always had this idea in mind that he could betray me again. Recently, we tried to squash our beef again, but I still wouldn't push work too much : be there when he calls, nothing more. And suddenly one of my friends got in a beef with his friend, and I decided to stop answering his messages (as I did before).
But I don't feel good. He is still haunting me, and I can't move forward. Without him,I don't have the spark or the energy to go through my ideas. I feel very lost and depressed, I don't know if I want to be friends with him again and I don't know how to start building something of my own without him haunting me.