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Also I just realized this might have come at a bad time because of the election, but it really has no relation, I've been having this problem for a long time and I haven't even been following the election (since I'm not American and I don't really care)

I'm not getting "triggered" or something stupid like that. I just feel bad when I browse the Internet, even completely innocuous shit.

i don't think you can cut it out of your life completely. it's just not practical anymore. but you probably need to fill your time with other activities. *active* hobbies, friends, etc.

recently i picked up skateboarding. i skate on the weekends now, instead of just mindlessly browsing the internet and watching shitty youtube videos.

>>17751356
That's an interesting trigger, browsing what? There are a few addons you can use which completely block certain websites. Friend of mine used it to block facebook.

>>17751331

So the other thing that's fucking unfair is that we used to have this mutual friend that never wanted me to be close with her and she knew that, but she didn't care cause why would she. So this "friend" stabbed me and my other friend in the back just basically being a piece of shit human being. We excommunicated him from our group and now he basically has no one to hang out with except his miserable self which he completely deserves, but get this. He still talks to her and shit talks me all the time with no foundation. So the irony of situation is that she cut me off because I was apparently not who she thought I was, aka a bad person, and yet, she still talks to that human piece of filth and probably even got closer to him cause I'm not around anymore.

So the issue is I have no fucking way of showing her I changed. Of changing her opinion of me because I have this piece of hunan garbage constantly mocking me down.

Shit sucks man, if ppl are interested I'm willing to go into more detail. If I stay awake that is.

>>17751354
So the current situation is this:

>we didn't have any meaningful contact for a month and a half
> I sent her two across the bow texts last week and yesterday just too see where I'm at with her, but I'm pretty sure she blocked my number month and a half ago when I was text terrorizing her (one night, like 15 texts just saying I'm here if you change your mind)
>a month ago she posted a status "Hello, it's me", Adele much??? If that was meant for someone it was def for me
>I'm 18, misstyped in original post, so I'm in HS. We have a same class every Monday and last week she sat in a way turned towards me even though there were more practical ways to sit
>also in this coffee place we go after school, she sat on her tablr with her friends so she would face me
>she rarely uses skype, only 3 contacts, me and her parents. She removed me from contacts today


so yeah, idk /adv/
keep me some company, I'm feelin tonight

>>17751384

>high school

Cut contact, stop giving a shit, move on with your life.

There's other girls. You're just 'in love with her' because you're young and there isn't much else around, and you two have been forced into contact together because of the school system.

Also, quit drinking until you're 21. Not because I'm a straight-edge piece of shit, but because you don't need to be fucking around with stuff like that. It complicates things plenty already when you're full grown, and you ain't even there yet.

>>17751298
>>17751298
**Continued**

>Me: Can't just be friends
>Her: Fuck sake whatever then
>Me: Yeah fuck sake, how can we not talk and just really apologize to each other, we had such a good relationship
>Her: I'm sorry but I just don't feel the same way why can't you see that whatever I'm going
>Me: Because we're both hurt and angry, we've done nothing but argue this past month but beneath it all I feel you still have feelings for me
>Her: No I really don't why cant you see that ffs
>Me: Because if you really didn't, you wouldn't keep contacting me, arguing, or wanting to see me, or think about getting back with me last night, all these signs that you're not over me
>Her: I just want you to leave me alone
>Me: I just want you to give us another chance
>Her: You just need to let me go what don't you understand
>I know you don't want to but its for the best
>Me: Because we were each others first, we've opened up to each other about everything, and you mean the world to me, but once I let go I don't look back
>Her: I know trust me I can promise you I may regret this but its for the best, I'm not saying you have to let go completely okay because you don't
>Me: If it's not me with your with, I have to completely let you go. I don't want to, but I can't keep holding on anymore. I just never gave up with you to show you how I'm not like the rest, and how I accepted and loved you, and that you wasn't just some random girl to me. You really filled the empty spaces in me you know, and I know at times I was clingy but that's just my anxiety, getting worried thinking I might lose you because haven't had the best upbringing, but that's not fair on you to deal with and I'm sorry about that, I'll have to work on that for the future. Thanks for being nice to me, but I'll be going now, need time and space from all this
>Her: I know I'm sorry, hope your okay stay strong okay. Sorry it ended this way.

Her sister told me she wants to read those letters tomorrow.

I noticed after you left when she threw those love letters away (lol), she asked you why. If she really didn't care she wouldn't be bothered either way if you got the letters back or not.

I also notice towards the end, her saying "You don't have to let go completely", its like she's having second thoughts already. Honestly you should just give those letters to her, then just cut all contact for a while. Because you've been on/off arguing and seeing each other since the break up, you really haven't given her anytime to miss you, right now it's too much negativity. And her trying with 2 different guys already barely a month after shows she's trying to distract herself, and her acting like a bitch to you is because she's hurt from the breakup.

Just give it time, I can almost bet she'll come back once she realises the grass isn't greener.

Yep. Give her space and she'll most likely come running back sooner or later. Should pretty much always be the go-to strategy with stuff like this really. I've learned at this point in my dating life that even if they don't come back, as long as you're not some psycho abuser type they probably still lay awake losing sleep over you some nights. And that's the best kind of revenge.

>>17751238
>how do i find a job
online, mostly
>do i turn in a resume with an application
yes, with the application. not during the interview. it's a good idea to bring a copy to the interview anyway, just in case they don't have a copy.
>do i need a cover letter
yes

>>17751238
You didn't really give any background.

Experience?
Academics/certs?
Acceptable pay?
Transportation?

>>17751254
>Experience
My only experience has been with family business. It's practically nothing though since with one I worked like 2 days and the other has been a cashier sort of job but with less register operating than ehat the standard cashier job does
>Academics
HS diploma
>Acceptable pay?
Shit I just want money for gas to transport myself around and other personal pleasures while I go through college. Minimum wage is fine.
>Transportation
Car but no license. I have my exam next month

You're always going to be seen as a bad person to at least someone.

it's too late to do anything, the election is over. even if there are mass protests, there needs to be a hugely significant number of people protesting for anyone to even consider changing the results or whatever. but i don't think that's going to happen in america because the police can just shoot everyone.

based on what you're saying i feel like maybe you're a trump supporter though. if you are, you deserve to lose your coloured, lgbt, female friends. how does it feel knowing that you don't actually care about them?

if you're a hillary supporter, you're only gonna lose trump supporter friends, so fuck them.

>>17751068
My city is mostly against Trump, so that's what I go with. You should do the same, unless you live in a swinger area, which I can only imagine is a fuckfest.

>>17751042
if i want to have a fap, it will take me maybe 15 - 30 seconds to get hard while touching myself. last weekend a girl started grinding on me at a club and it was boner central pretty much straight away.

It depends if Im horny or since when I have no fapped. I have no problems with my gf making me hard. But watching porn or hentai sometimes can take me an hour or I just cant get hard. Try to not fap that much.

>>17751042
My boyfriend sometimes gets erect as soon as I get in his car when he picks me up. It's a little embarrassing, but mainly flattering of course.

I know he jerks his terk sometimes. And we're both mid twenties. Maybe you shouldn't choke the chicken as often?

that sounds like a pretty complex problem and you'd have to see a psychologist for a competent answer. My guess is that mommy and daddy didn't pay enough attention to you as a kid.

Ive been there, me personally i think my problem is this
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dependent_personality_disorder
Thats your typical self diagnoses though not by a professional

>>17751013
>so I told her I wasn't going to speak to her ever again and signed off Skype
kek. You're a child. Whoever is friends with you deserves you.

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Bump

If you're actually a girl you could probably sell them (idk where) to some virgin dude who wants a buttplug that was in a vagina up his ass; there's a market for used panties, so I don't see the difference.
Did you boil them? I think you're supposed to do that anyways to sterilize them.

boil them a bit (maybe see how much boiling the material can take), douse in alcohol if that won't damage the material.

>is it acceptable to just throw them away
why not? if you want to be green, recycle them :^) i'm sure the people at the recycling plant will love it.

or i can pay for shipping and you can send me the vagina ones.

So I may have found a way out of this mess: apparently when you transfer to another community college, they usually don't really factor in your completion rate/withdrawals at another school to determine eligibility for financial aid, at least that's what my advisor told me. Can anyone confirm?

>>17751641
Mine did.

>>17751669
Well fuck. Anyone else? If I can't get into another community college what the fuck should I do?

>>17750231

Spend 6 years in the military.
Spend 2 years as a taxi driver.

>>17750231
Uber

>>17750231
There are literally dozens of mercenary magazines and websites where you can apply for these.
Good luck getting any callbacks if you haven't been in the military

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Girls, is a guy practicing magic a turn-off ? (specially chaos magic)

>>17750175
Probably. I cannot take seriously someone who practices magic.

>>17750153
I met this great girl on tinder. She seemed basically perfect, but obviously there's always a catch. She has the h2 virus. She got it from her long term bf cheating on her and then giving it to her. Anyways, I like this girl enough to not let that get in the way of getting to know her. I'm going to wait until I feel like the relationship is gonna last before I have sex with her, but I've really fallen for her already. She's sweet, funny, intelligent, playful, and sexy

Would you ever date someone with herpes?

Have you?

Thoughts?

>>17749674
Yeah, she's retarded. If you haven't noticed until now, you were more likely retarded too

>>17749674
Some people wouldn't know intolerance if it was staring at them through a mirror. She probably wasn't worth the effort as a friend.

As a general rule, you shouldn't talk about the election beyond generalities until like 2 weeks to a month later, when no one cares about it anymore.

Or alternatively, you should talk about it frequently to get the overreacting idiots out of your circle.

You should keep controversial opinions private. Why do you feel the need to go against the grain if it serves no purpose?

Just keep quiet OP. No need to risk anything for no reward.

Religion and politics should be private relationships.

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Selfless bump.

If you're not ready for kids, you're not ready for sex.

>>17749710
fuck off

u want sum fuck?
lolyes
ok come on we go this way

>>17751569

and there is your problem.

girls are not all robots running the same software. pushing the right buttons wont work the same way every time.

it also assumes that all it takes is manipulation. if manipulation was what people think it is, there'd be no need for self improvement.

there is no script you could give that would get a girl back to your house. why? because within 5 seconds she'll go off script.

>>17751569
be significantly better looking than the girl.
you're not going to get a one-night stand unless the girl feels she's lucking out in some way.
that or roofies.