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>>17769659
She probably means the opposite

Means that she probably sees herself as someone who doesn't like drama and is a special little snowflake.

It means she loves drama but wants to sound quirky and unique by saying that she doesn't

I mean. I wear steel toe boots all the time. Maybe get a motorcycle. You already know how to maintain it, so you'll skip out on a lot of expenses and people will think you're a bit cooler.

I'm not sure what the actual question is tho. Its seems like more of a rant.

>>17769651
You need to make money.
"Do what you love" is mostly bullshit. People don't pay you to do things everybody loves doing. "I don't hate every minute of my job" is what most people go for.
If you are reasonably skilled being a mechanic, keep doing that. Use the money earned to do other things you like, such as charity work, or women.

>>17769651
Steel toe boots are too heavy for you? Are you serious?

>>17769625
Makeup and a smile

>>17769625
what app did you to edit your face? post the original

>>17769635
I used no app
My face is that bad

>>17769620
Yes wtf kind of question is this?

If it's that important to them and for some reason I'm not putting in the effort then by all means just break up

>>17769620
sexting is no damn fetish ffs

Just because someone has a fetish, doesn't mean that they can't survive without indulging in it, and it shouldn't mean that's the only way they can get off

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHSHUTTHEFUCKUPYOUAUTISTICRETARD

>>17769618
what are these pictures called in your op? i would like to read them all. thanks.

Anyone else sad that Saraad is rotating out?

>>17769600
Give her your cock. It is the only way

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> my insecurities stayed and they are killing me

you are one of those rare people who are not afraid to admit this.

happiness never comes from the outside sources. heck ive seen so many poor and careless people who just enjoy life, they do some shitty jobs and dont care too much.


>I feel like she has no interest, is fucking multible Chads etc.

you are overthinking everything. and even if she was a whore, its her who is a whore, not you. why would that make you insecure?


>the feeling never goes away completely

well it will always be there, just find a way to realize it is nothing else than just a feeling.


you are on a path to get to know yourself. that is something education and fitness will never give you. dont just educate yourself in order to be considered smart, or work out just to be considered handsome. learn to move your own limits, to find out about the world within you, and around you. work out to defeat yourself, to move your boundaries, both mental and physical, not to make other people jealous or horny.

ive been there, i had my insecurities, and it ended my relationships, even with so much nice girls. you will go trough this most likely, and it will be even harder than it is at this moment. way harder. but it is the good way.

just remember, final goal is not to overcome this just to be successful and wanted, but the sole purpose of this path is finding out about yourself.

>>17769628
thanks man, you sound really wise.
I am actually working on getting my motivation from the inside, rather than from other people, mainly cause the rewards you get from society are fucking boring.
It super fun and rewarding to become really good at a skill(no matter what skill), so thats the thing Im trying to get happiness from.
Rn I want to become a good programmer and a good BJJ-fighter, not really cause of what other people think, just because its fun.
Maybe its the step in the right direction, maybe not, what do you think?

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>highly intelligent

-dumb people

>>17769597

>dumb people

you mean people who still use the defunct pepe the frog meme aka facebooks top meme of 2016

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>>17769576
>Highly intelligent
>Study hard

intelligent people don't need to study hard to understand something

It's more akin to confirming what they intuitively know and crystallizing it into to something more concrete

you can show an idiot something a 1000 times and they'll eventually get it

show a genius something and they'll understand halfway before you even finish showing them once

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also skill level
(drawing done out of imagination)

>>17769560
how are you at basic graphic design? you could try advertise freelance poster artwork, advertisements, etc

what is your CV like?

>>17769560
>>17769562

Turn furry, abandon morals, draw wierd and kinky shit
Make like 30-50 different pieces of art, with some fetish stuff thrown in.

NEETs will start sending money to you by the THOUSANDS if you are willing to draw their fetishes

>>17769558
Do something else that you like. Something that you would do less if you fap.

>>17769558
Just don't stop and try doing it while they are around. This is the beginning of your ninja training.

>>17769569
Thank you. I enjoy talking with my family members, but i don't know what I should do when they're gone.

What the fuck is a 'rare' sweater? You're delusional if you think you can get the original price for reselling a sweater

What kind of a moron buys clothing that doesn't fit them?

>>17769568
There was no size labeled I was hoping it would be reasonable or I could get a rain check but the distrubuter said they couldn't

edit: 3 weeks no contact

>>17769535
how did you even let her know lol
also is any white person involved in this story?

we're both white.

I've been keeping a journal for the past 4 years because I went crazy and that was the only thing that helped. Of course, like a retard I had to make sure it went in.

She sensed a growing distance between us and her suspicion led her to read it when I left it in my bag on accident.
Yes, I am that stupid.

>I love you. I'm here for you
They don't give a shit about you right now, they care about the dog.

Help remind them of the good experiences with the dog.

>>17769504
Yeah, i do think that reminding them of good times might not be appropriate at that stage of grieving already...
I mean, anything you say is just plain inappropriate. But not saying anything is rude af too.
I also obviously wouldn't say those statements you quoted to the parents...but only responding with a variation of "this must be fucking painfull" seems too distant too. God, why is this so hard!

Just let them know through text that you are sorry for their loss and if they need anything to let you know. Maybe mention a memory you had about their dog.
" I'm so sorry for your loss Fiancés mom (insert name). (Insert positive funny memory) I remember when I last saw him he wouldn't stop following until I threw him his favorite toy. If you need anything, don't hesitate in letting me know. We will all miss (insert dog's name).
With your fiancé just be there for him and offer to listen to them if they need to talk or take them out to cheer them up with a small treat they may like. Sometimes they just want someone to be there to show them that they care as they go through their grief.

You actually passed most of it, that's a good thing. You actually took the test in the first place, that's also a good thing. You don't want to keep working your shit job and want to improve your situation, that's another good thing. There are more positive things going for you than negative. Your self defeatist attitude won't help, you said it yourself. So flip the script and take this time before the next test to study, study, study. There must be study books and groups that will help. Even if you have to make one up yourself through craigslist. Also, you might want to check your local community college and/or high school to see if they offer tutoring for the test. It is never embarrassing to have a job and seeking to improving yourself. After you pass, and you will because you have already shown you can be successful, and enter college, you will realize that this fretting was all for naught. You just took a different route to the same destination as your fellow college students. If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Not many people have your drive or opportunity op, don't waste it. Good luck!

Math needs practice. Practice math.

>>17769502
I was thinking it was good too, I was like, "FUCK YEAH I FINALLY TOOK IT!" And then I was like, "FUCK NO I KNEW I FAILED MATH." And I've never, ever been good at math... But I DO want a better job someday, and I DO want my kids someday be proud of me as much as I want my fiance to. I have considered classes for it but I always think, like, "I dont wanna commute" (my job is literally down the block so I walk everywhere I need to go). But it might not be a bad idea... if anything else I do still have a tasc book, I have a website I studied with and the tasc site gives a list of high and low emphasis questions. I dont remember what I coulda got wrong but I know there was a lot of algebra, some diameter,, 7 gridded answers and I thik a few about area and lie two word problems. Thanks for the supporting words and actual advice anon. :)

Ask him "why are you getting all fresh?"

>>17769447
>sends me out
wtf are you in high school or community college?
I have never seen any professor do this to his student.

My teacher is chill af, if anyone in the class has problem completing the assignments he will think it's his fault and add more intermediate hints into the questions.
He's ok with 1 week late submission as long as you contact him first and show your effort.

Talk to him after class.

>>17769438

>hardest years of our lives
>WE BOTH GOT DUMPED
>a-and other stuff i guess

your own words betray you anon. you're a drama queen.

>I fell in love
>I SHOULD NOTE I HAVE PSYCHOLOGICAL ISSUES
>so i acted like an annoying stalker

>wat do

move on.

>>17769475
> your own words betray you anon. you're a drama queen.
I just explicitly noticed the dump part, because when we met and befriend we were not single, that's all. What kind of problem we met is irrelevant, fact is the year was tough. I agree my choice of word was poor.

But anyway, you're right I acted like a stalker. It doesn't change the fact that I do love her though. Any advice to recover f her?

>>17769475
bwawhahaha 10/10 post