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Dealing with friends who get an abortion 2016-11-16 02:26:07 Post No.17767216
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Dealing with friends who get an abortion
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Ill condense the drama as much as possible and get to the point
>Best friend is female for like 6 years since we met in college (platonic)
>She gets a pregnancy scare
>A year later she tells me she had an abortion and didnt tell me then because she knew how I felt about abortion
>Tell her thank you for telling me but I literally cannot be friends with her because of it
>Shes super salty and blames the end of our friendship on me being manipulative and controlling (what shes saying to others)
The question is should I explain to them why we arent friends anymore. They are in a tough spot since they dont know whats going on and shes constantly trying to defame me. Im not even mad at her because I know she gets emotional and she looked really hurt after our conversation.
On one hand I feel like she told me this in confident and I should let her tell others (I dont really feel this way, but Im not into starting drama without an end goal), on the other hand, I feel like I should stop the misunderstanding shes creating.
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>>17767216
You are a dick.
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>>17767216
If that matters so much that you don't want talk to your best friend anymore then you're probably doing everyone a favor by not talking to them anymore. just ghost them.
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>>17767223
You think Im a dick. I think people who have abortions are murders. Thats not why I made this thread. Your input isnt really needed.
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How do I become more interesting and less boring without becoming autistic?
Whenever I talk to someone run out of shit to talk about and I don't know how to deal with the dead air and then they usually go to their phone or something.
It's like this with most normies. I can only converse with other autists like myself because I spent too much time on this fucking website and I can only speak in post ironic memes.
How do I talk to normies brehs?
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>>17767166
when you get to the dead air, just leave. That's the end of a conversation.
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>>17767166
Do you want friends or a GF?
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>>17767172
I want normal friends because I just realized that my current set of friends autistic weeaboos who I actually share very little commonality with and I can only relate to them because I'm also fucking autistic.
I like normies better than them t b h.
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What is wrong with my boyfriend?
>Dating about 5 months now
>Almost nothing phases him emotionally, or gets him upset at all
>Most laid back person I've ever met
>If he fails at something, he just shrugs and keeps going until he gets it right
>Never any signs of frustration or anger no matter what the situation is
>Passed out at his apartment two days ago and hit my head
>He called an ambulance, they took me away while he drove behind to the nearest hospital
>I asked them how he was
>They laughed and said he was perfectly cool when they came, like he has experience or something
At times he can be downright cold, not in a mean way, but just so fucking far gone and in his own head, he almost doesn't hear you speak. Then all of the sudden he is the most passionate guy ever, and even though he is extremely soft spoken, all your friends love him, and want you to bring him around more often.
Like, everyone I know, including my family, fucking adores him. But he doesn't interact with people AT ALL unless he is forced into a situation where he has to, then all the sudden he is mr. charming life of the party.
Am I being dumb for thinking there is more going on here than what he lets on, or what?
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Sounds like chads just smooth af.
Keeper
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>>17767127
>why isn't my boyfriend an emotional towel like me?
He reached that point where he's just lets like coast because life is crazy like that. You'll never understand that because you're a woman, and women wear their emotions on their sleeves.
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>>17767127
probably just very introverted like myself. i process everything in my mind and am a very stoic person so i don't show what im actually processing. people say im laid back but if you were my mind, you'd understand.
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hey /adv/
girl on okcupid says she's a size queen
how do I know if I am size enough?
sorry for english, not my third language =]
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why would want to date a girl that calls herself a 'size queen'? Jesus.
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>>17767126
This.
Also women are shit at recognizing real size, if you're confident and boast it and actually have a decent sized cock, she'll think you're a "big one"
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On this I only discuss with my friends.
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Ok, so I'm actually pretty surprised this isn't a common thread on here (maybe there's a specific board where it is common) but long story short, I'm considering moving to Japan. Before you vomit, allow me to elaborate.
I'm not just moving there just for anime or whatever. I am actually fascinated by the culture there, for one. It is really intriguing to hear about all of the social customs there. Also, I despise Western women and everything they stand for, so Japanese women seem to hold promise. It sounds like their women aren't entitled bitches. And as for the men, crime is very low over there. A culture built on politeness and respect is appealing. The pop culture is a bonus. It sounds like a culture I would definitely be interested in.
However, I hear all kinds of stuff about how they treat foreigners over there. It sounds like I will never be considered true "Japanese" if I go, since the country is so homogenous. but from different experiences I have heard, you won't be an outcast if you make friends and establish a social circle. I'm aware that I would have to learn all of the social customs and work culture. I'm in college right now getting an electrical engineering degree, but I'm not even sure if they want to hire foreigners. I'm prepared to spend the 2200 hours it takes to learn Japanese, and I already can read Hirigana, so I won't be starting from scratch.
I know that Japan isn't this little kawaii utopia that many weebs try to paint it out to be, but I'm just not that happy here in America. I'm definitely gonna finish my education first, and the year I finish my 4-year degree will be the year that God Emperor Trump possibly leaves office, and if he leaves, I don't wanna be stuck in a liberal shithole like it's been for the last 8 years.
So what should I do? I should probably visit there first, but before I waste any time learning Japanese, is it even worth it? Maybe some anons made it over there, and can share their stories.
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>>17767089
>also i despite western women and everything they stand for
lol i cant wait til you move there and realize no girls want to talk to a weeb.
>it sounds like their women arent entitled bitches
nope, just so incapable of socializing that they literally have bars where men are paid to flirt with them.
>a culture built on politeness and respect is appealing
please stop you're killing me. the only time manners are used is to shame someone for not conforming to them.
>i will never be considered true japanese if i go
jesus christ, they wont considered you japanese at all you faggot
>but ill be fine if i make friends
>2200 hours to learn japanese
you havent even started yet?
this is a passing dream, jesus.
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>>17767123
and for the record, yes, I lived in okinawa for a year, imt not just some asshole hating on you for the sake of hating on you OP.
this is a 4 year away pipe dream thats clearly a whim if you havent started anything, so why bother asking?
the truth is if you hate where you live, then you just hate yourself. moving wont fix that, you need to fix whats actually wrong.
you'll just go there and make a thread on 2chan talking about how you hate the locals because they dont accept you, hate how that even though you know the language you still struggle to conversate because everythings still being translated, hate how things you took for granted in america are luxuries, hate how the constant rape and high crime rate and inability to tell everyone apart is driving you insane, and how no girls will accept your advances because its fucking japan.
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>>17767123
Hahahhaah im fucking dead
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>Girl and I, been together for a year
>Best thing to ever have happened to me
>During year I had some shit go on
>Anxiety and stress
>I asked her to take down a picture that I thought was a bit inappropriate
>No problems
>Her friends start calling me out, saying "she deserves better", etc.
>Feel like shit
>Her friends start trying to get her to talk to other guys
>Now hate the thought of my girlfriend being around other guys
>Arguments and fights unnecessarily brought upon by me
>More stress, more anxiety
>Have started to deal with it all
Anyway, last month we broke up. I've acted really desperate because, well, I'm in love with this girl. I can't tell how she feels about me at the moment but I just want to repair things. I think she still loves me but I think I may be pushing her away. I'm freaking out every time I see her talk to another guy too. I just can't get her off my mind... She says she doesn't want a relationship at the moment. I love her and I'm a loss... what do I do?
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>>17767086
OP, I know how you feel due to my own screw ups. I don't know your history with her but your first priority is to not make things worse as they are already as and do not let her talking to other guys get with you but remain vigilant. Do not let her doing that make you feel bad. You are better than them because you are you. And don't let chan culture get to you either.
How bad is you and her current relationship due to the arguments? I wouldn't bring up this issue, she and her friends may think, "you're STILL on this issue?"
What her friends need to understand is that SHE, SHE, SHE (I repeated this for emphasis) SHE was okay with taking it down. If there was no problems then her friends started it. Bringing what I said up may be risky, nobody likes their friends being called out. You need outside opinions, not your friends or her friends because your friends will side with you and her friends will side with her.
Just live and let live for now, keep being friends with her and when a opportunity comes you have go for it. I'm sure you already have apologized but you need to stop being pathetic. Sharpen yourself mentally and emotionally first before re entering a relationship because if you make the progress and succeed then you might forget about progressing and lose her again the same way you are now.
Sorry if I'm rambling I just, woo. You can do it!
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>>17767159
God bless you anon, i am not even op
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>>17767086
Let me guess. Her friend is a fatty who can't get laid?
I've seen people sabotaging their friends relationships out of jealousy.
I don't mean to poison your mind, but there could be bad intentioned reasons why her friends are trying to separate her from you.
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My poor ass has about $700 worth of cash on my debit card. I need a gaming computer that can optimally run ARMA 3 without wasting money.I'm currently using a gateway computer that can't run for shit.
S/N:DTGELAA0013420034F3000
What do?
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Also, this image.
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>>17767050
>My poor ass has about $700 worth of cash on my debit card.
> I need a gaming computer
>gaming computer
>need
I think you need a job anon, or a better paying one.
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>>17767069
Been trying, but currently, there are no jobs in my area that are well paying/give a good amount of hours a week or the jobs won't have me because I didn't exactly finish college yet.
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How bad does acne actually look? Will it ruin/damage my chances with girls? (Pic related. Other cheek is a bit worse, forehead is a bit better.) Acne thread in general.
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>>17767047
It absolutely will if you're still in high school or somewhere below. However, once you're a mature adult no one will dislike you just because you have acne - your personality and the other non-physical characteristics will play a more important role. If you let it bother you and bring down your confidence then it'll bother other people too.
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Are you less attractive because of it? Sure. Can you make up for it with personality? Definitely.
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>>17767047
>However, once you're a mature adult no one will dislike you just because you have acne - your personality and the other non-physical characteristics will play a more important role. If you let it bother you and bring down your confidence then it'll bother other people too.
>adults have different standards of ugly
Stop talking out of your ass.
>>17767518
^This
>>17767047
Yes, it looks bad. Yes, it will hurt your chances.
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Pls help write the lyrics for this song for a trans girl i found on tinder, we didnt match then i called her up on facebook. I'm an empty head retard who can't conversate but maybe she find it cute and decide to go out with me
Heres what i came up with. Trying to rhyme
when i first saw this tgirl
it was on that tinder of this world
she awakened my hacker instincts up
and i found her on facebook
she says we're nothing alike
but i really think we should go on a hitchhike
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>>17767044
40 keks
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>>17767103
Got any suggestions? I really want her
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OP, we can't help you without it sucking, we know nothing about this girl.
Figure out what you want to say first. Figure out the point, and then fit it into rhyme.
Also, don't force a rhyme. That hitchhike thing sounds clunky because you just shoehorned it in there for a rhyme.
Don't build around the rhyme. Build around the message.
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>interested in someone
>am positive they are interested in me
>find out they have kids
I don't know what to do here.
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Find someone else?
You're not a romantic comedy protag.
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>>17766995
Find someone else, it's not like you have something going on.
If you really want her, ask her out, and then when the talk of getting serious comes up, you bring up you concern.
Unless you really can't stand kids. It will suck.
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Go on a date or two to see if there's anything there to even be worried about.
If you have everything you want and need and still feel unhappy, what the fuck do you WANT? How do you make it go away?
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Therapy.
Or self help books
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>>17767018
I'm seeing a shrink and he thinks I'm doing fine. He called me today, talking about reducing our times to once per month or less, and rambled on a bit about alcohol and methods of coping with stress. He likes rambling.
Any self-help books you'd recommend?
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Like I'm not really suicidal, but sometimes when it's dark I'll just drive really really fast in hopes of hitting some big animal and dying in a deer crash, or slipping on the ice and sliding off road.
my boyfriend goes on /pol/. I tell him its a misogynistic hellhole. he doesn't believe me. help?
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Maybe /pol/ but they just hate the sjw type
/r9k/ just hates staceys
The rest are just autists that are like /r9k/ with the exception of /fit/ being full of the stereotypical "we can't get no womenz despite our bicep insertions"
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/r9k/ is even more of a misogynist hellhole, and this may be coloring his views of what misogyny is.
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>>17766950
/pol/ is a board of peace. You should be ashamed of being a miso/pol/ist.
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How can I stop seeing myself as a constant failure?
Its been ingrained in my head pretty much all my life, got decent grades in school but only my bad grades ever got mention (I don't think anyone ever said I did a good job, with anything), never managed to make a friend that lasted more than a few hours, and now I can't get a job and I just completely threw a college exam because I knew I'd fail because my shitty memory.
Its not like I don't try either. Well maybe now, but I used to try hard at everything, I never slept right in school because of studying and trying to learn, tried making friends but just ended up passing out from anxiety, and I've applied 10+ times to every job in a 50 mile radius. But still I end up having more failures than success while others just try once or twice and get everything.
This has just worn me down now, I'm tired. I can't sleep anymore, I'm always anxious, always hating myself for being such a fucking failure. I just want to do something right for once but I never can. How the hell do I even start to fix this?
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stop exaggerating.
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>>17766914
Meditation seems to be the answer to everything lately.
Do this for 5 mins. Set a timer.
Sit comfortably. No need to cross your legs.
Close your eyes.
Focus on your breathing. In and out. Naturally, no need for deep abdominal breathing.
If your mind wander to random thoughts or physical sensations, try to focus back to your breathing.
The exercise suppose to train you to pull back from negative thoughts. To observe them objectively.
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>>17766914
Stop thinking about things so much. You're clearly neurotic.
>passing out from anxiety
See? This is what happens when you're constantly dwelling on what ifs.
>only my bad grades ever got mention
When you do things right people won't notice you did anything of note.
>I don't think anyone ever said I did a good job, with anything
Why should you care? You don't need them to validate you.
> still I end up having more failures than success
No fucking shit dude, that's how life works for literally everyone. You get better at things b being bad at them.
>others just try once or twice and get everything.
You're exaggerating and generalising. Also you're comparing yourself to other people again. Knock it off.
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ITT: Ask the Opposite Gender Anything 2016-11-15 23:20:56 Post No.17766675
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ITT: Ask the Opposite Gender Anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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Is it ridiculous to get braces in my mid-twenties?
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Which one, girls?
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I'm this anon >>17766022 >>17766169
Asking about my boyfriend who doesn't always orgasm.
>>17766174
>If you still have trouble, try some butt play, it you're open to that sort of stuff.
I am open to it, but why? He doesn't seem that interested in butt stuff.
I do give him bjs but those aren't guaranteed to get him off either.
>>17766193
>What you need to do: Foreplay (we need it too), dirty talk, be into it yourself, possibly oral if you're up for it.
Can you give me some foreplay advice?
How does this guy have so much energy? He works 20 hours every single day at 70. I'm 25 and get tired after 12. He doesn't take stimulants or even drink. I take adderall and drink caffeine and sometimes can't even make it to 12 hours.
What the fuck? Why am I so low energy?
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Probrably cocaine. Also he is genuinely a happy, passionate man. He seems to get a real kick out of stirring people up.
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Working out?
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Gotta ignore getting tired.