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The best advisor for this sort of thing would be a dermatologist. Have you talked to any? If not, that's a good start.

>>17767558
Mix coconut oil and baking soda and use as a face scrub. Leave on for 5 minutes daily. It brightens your skin and gets rid of acne, and acne scars. Only thing that worked for me. Google it it works :) half and half coconut oil/baking soda ratio

Make sure it's extra virgin coconut oil. Coconut oil has tons of benefits for the skin since its anti bacterial. After moisturize with coconut oil and mix a little tee tree oil in it. Tea tee oil is anti fungal and will dry out the acne

Hope this helps!!

>>17767558
Drink water. Im talking 4 liters a day. And run like 3-5 miles a day. You dont really see cross country runners with acne though some of them have shit diets.

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>>17767549

>>17767549
OH MAN THAT'LL TEACH HER

>>17767549
Idk use her email to register to a bunch of porn sites or something
Don't do this on your own computer/internet connection obviously

>>17767521
I did eight years and left at O-5 (yeah, I came in with an advanced degree). My take on the service is that it depends on your personality. I was in a position with a significant degree of autonomy (I could technically give an order to someone with stars on their shoulder in my little domain) and it was still a tough time for me (because I was stupid enough to give an order to someone withs tars on their shoulder). If you thrive with structure, don't mind doing what you're told without asking follow up questions, and are willing to do a very difficult job for poor pay but excellent relationships than its a good decision. It was the wrong decision for me, but I know a lot of folks who could honestly say its the best thing they ever did.

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>>17767539

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https://www.thebalance.com/military-commissioned-officer-promotions-4055887

>>17767548
I came in middle of 2003 with everything done for a clinical psych doctorate but the internship I'd applied for. O-5 was literally two promotions during eight years when they couldn't find the people they needed. You'll never hear me saying I earned LTC, but I sure as hell didn't turn it down.

>>17767481
Have you asked her how she feels about the possibility of you two dating? If you are close friends for three years then you might be seen as just a friend.

>>17767486
It's complicated.

We've gone through a couple of periods of not talking for various reasons (she was never mad at me or anything).

She used to be aware of my feelings for her. Ofc she saw me as just a friend. She probably knows I still have them now. Idk we haven't talked about it.

>>17767494
Hm, I don't know my dude. How long ago was she aware of your feelings? Is she looking for a relationship now?

If it was a couple months ago to a year or more you may be able to try again but you have to do it in a way where your not seen as a friend but a potential boyfriend/husband later on if that makes sense. (after all, why date someone if you have no intention of marrying?) Don't try to be a nice guy about it, I'm sure you already know about the dangers of acting as a fedora tipper. Just come out with it straight to her. Be sure to make it clear you WANT her not that you NEED her. Girls don't want NEEDY guys ya' dig?

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nope not normal
shes dying
you are too

id go in depth but if i stay in this thread i might catch it as well
god speed anon

pls

It's stale semen from the last guy she fucked.

>>17767407

No, you try to be hero and do right but they is hold you down, but in soul, you strong, yes, good, one day pay.

Perhaps try to be an hero next time?

>>17767414
Thanks mate.

>>17767418
I will be more often

>>17767406
Perhaps you could just kys op? You sound like a faggot who's jealous because he's a kissless virgin.

>>17767415
This.
You made the wrong choice threatening to kill a cat on 4chan.
Just shoot yourself in the fucking mouth and be done with it you insufferable cunt. You sound like a serial killer so do the world a favor and purge yourself from it.

>>17767406
You sound like an autist, OP.

>>17767400

What's the difference between being lazy and not having motivation?

>>17767410
op has no ambition
you usually have a goal in mind that you put off when youre lazy but hes just lost

>>17767446

Is that really the case though?

You are telling me if I handed OP a mil, a beautiful woman, and made him a sexy lethal stud with 150 IQ he would say no?

Basically, it comes down to him thinking its unrealistic, right?

It's unrealistic for most people.

So, back to the question.

>>17767382
>I don't think they are going to have a change of heart anytime soon
And ninetieth will you.

On a serious note, go to police college, get your security license, work a security job and then apply when your 27. They don't really do many hires before then. "Life experience" is the excuse. I am not a cop, but I have friends who are cop and plenty of guys who are trying to become one.

On the bright side you can keep reapplying to the military while you wait.

>>17767917
If they didn't accept me now, why would the military accept me in the future? I don't quite get that.

Apply at at 27? I'm 19 now, getting close to 20. I'm not going to wait around 7 years doing security gigs.

>>17767952
Just offering possibilities.

I dont know what else to say. That's how policing works in Canada. Google it if you don't believe, I remember even one of the opp websites stating 27 was about the age they hire. I wouldn't do it either. Seems like a lot of time to waste.

You're not an asshole, but you do seem to have a stick up your ass

>>17767346
Ha! Faggot

>>17767346

>ive never been on youtube

guys do make up challenges all the time its fun. you really do need to lighten up, its makme up, it can't change your sexuality, so why cant you have fun with it?

>>17767341

of course anon. i am a leet hacker, and like all leet hackers i just hand over my highly illegal but super fucking simple information over to any doofus who wants some free money.

why wouldn't I?

Shit no. I know this isn't a free society yet. I just want to learn man. I don't mind putting in the work. I barely sleep anyway.

Sometimes I just need the financial freedom to sit down and focus on what is important. I could talk for days about my reasons for this, but honestly no one really cares. I just need help becoming free...

Have you been looking for another job?

>>17767345
I've applied daily to several places. My top two wants I've called on a semi regular basis without getting annoying in the hopes they'll look at my resume. One of them has had the post up for over two months so I'm considering talking to them again in the morning and saying, listen, we both want this.

I'm not one of those weirdos that wishes something would change without trying to change it. I've been trying, hard. Before I got this job I hunted for three and a half years without success. But now we're all going to lose our jobs again and my bills tell me I've got until around the new year to get this shit together or go live under a bridge. It gets worse because if I go down, so will my best friends, who I live with. They can't afford our bills on their own. If it weren't for them, I might have already given up.

>working in sales
God op why did you have to remind me of that nightmare?

>>17767310
Rock her world in the bedroom and she'll submit just fine.

>>17767310

Dependency comes in many forms.
Addictions, crutches, Stockholm syndrome, necessity (does not believe they have other options), etc.

Really, more psychologists need to do in depth studies on dependency.

What it all comes down to, is one word; "need".

She can no longer just simply want you, she must need you. That is what you're asking for.

Her behaviour contradicts that. It seems like she needs you less than you need her. Clearly, she has something going on well enough to feel as though you're easily replaceable, so, sabotage everything that gives her confidence;
>Find a way to make her overhear guys talking badly about her appearance (I don't know how, that's your problem). Make it so you're not so easy to replace. That maybe she isn't attractive as she thinks.
>Sabotage her friendships with males, same with colleagues.
>sabotage her job, setting her back.
>Basically ruin everything for her, and be the only think left standing. Be her rock. The nice stable rock when everything else is blowing the fuck away.
>Then be distant as fuck. Absence makes the heart and all that shit... she needs to have withdrawal symptoms from you before she'll fully need you.
>From there, manage time carefully. Spend enough time with her to keep her happy, be distant enough so she keep on feeling that "need". You'll get this through trial and error.
>If you don't spend enough time with her, she'll be cold turkey, and either recover from her addiction to you, or suicide. If you spend too much time with her, she'll feel suffocated and react unpredictably - you're a drug, manage the dosage right or shit will hit the fan. Don't let her overdose on you, don't let her ween herself off of you.

You shouldn't, enjoy your wizard status and spend your life doing things you actually want to do. And maybe during that time you're striving for self-fulfillment, you'll meet a girl who isn't a complete cunt and you won't have to compromise yourself to be with her.

>>17767305
>Why should I want to bother with girls

As much as no one other than red-pilled people like to admit it; Sex.

It's literally the only reason. They're all man-hating feminazis anyway. All this talk about how we only care about looks, but the moment we call them out on their hateful personalities we're labelled "misogynists".
All they are are holes.
Holes surrounded by a creature that hates us.

It's simpler not to deal with them and be a virgin, so if that makes you comfortable, go for it.

>>17767313
The thing is that you have to actually try to date the girl who isn't a complete cunt, bothering with girls is part of that.

Get off 4chan and hit the boring books. Best advice I can give you. Sincerely, Anon

>>17767266
>Should I bother to go to the lecture at all? Or is studying from the book (Atkin) in the library a better idea?

Do both. The classes bring up lots of doubts that the teacher can explain.

>>17767339
The problem is that the last time I went, the concept seemed to be quite straight forward but when the stuff involving 2nd and 3rd law came in, I didn't even know where to begin asking my question. I was so confused and overwhelmed that I was just sitting there and felt dumb.