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are you a qt and will you be my gf?

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>>17771408

>>17770979
One half to a full page. Well spaced lettering. Flowing Script.

Guaranteed to be an enjoyable read.

>>17771208
Thanks, friend. Well the problem with that is that I have shitty handwriting. I think If I write in cursive it will at least look somewhat better. Should I get some craft paper, rather than your standard loose leaf notebook style paper?

>>17771274
I would personally just make my own paper, it's not that hard, and looks much better than that cheap ream shit.

>I know children of schizophrenics have a much higher chance of contracting schizophrenia
Isn't the leading cause in children developing SZ when they had a parent with SZ largely to do with the environment they grow up with? I dunno how much adopting a child would help.

Either way, I don't see the rush honestly. Are you in a long term relationship with the possibility of children? Why throw the possibility away because of some insecurity? No-ones perfect and if we were all procreating for the sake of making the best seed then the world would be a different place. Stop adding to the list of things you're already worrying about, man.

>>17770992

>Schizophrenia is caused by bad parenting

You probably read that out "Toxic Psychiatry" or something else written by Peter Breggins, or Thomas Szasz, or R. D. Laing, or some other anti psychiatric nut. Nothing against you or anything, but I do what I can to stay up to date on schizophrenia research, and saying schizophrenia is caused by bad parenting isn't all that different from saying autism is caused by vaccines. There's a strong link between schizophrenia and genes, though its not the end all-be all of developing schizophrenia. I'm not about to go into this though.

And it's not about "not being perfect" its about "preventing any kids I might have from being inflicted with a horrific, severe, disabling mental illness that causes 50% of those afflicted to attempt suicide because of what they deal with. I know first hand what this disease is and what it does to people, and if this is how I can prevent it from being spread, even if I'm not sexually active, then that's what I'm going to do.

The rush is mainly because I'll be moving abroad soon and I'm not sure I know how I'd go about getting a vasectomy in another country.

>>17771024
Do psychedelics cause schizophrenia? Weed?

How useful is a used piece of toilet paper?

>>17770959
considerably less useful than a masters in Psychology

>>17770949
considerably more useful than a used piece of toilet paper.

Third point of reference: How useful is a sick walrus?

I have one. I don't recommend it.

Id go on, but I need to get to sleep soon.

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I think the best answer is who the hell knows
I acted like a real spazz and put a lot of strain on her, its incredible she has continued to interact with me at all

Even people I'm friends with sometimes take ages to respond, sometimes they never respond at all, then another day I'll text them and they are as cool as cool can be without missing a beat


I'm not gonna send her anything at all unless she texts me or whatever, if I get to friday night and still never got anything I'll just ask her what she's doing
I know one thing's for sure, I will never fuck up this badly with a girl ever again

My god, you are autistic. What advice do you even want if you're not going to follow it?

>>17771156
I dunno, just general gut feelings from people

>>17770923
stop talking to people is an option.

>>17770971
Is that really a good option?

>>17770923
This is a pretty vague problem. It might depend on the kinds of people you talk to. I'm very anti-social myself and I know it. I find it easy to reflect those I don't want to engage much with and when people approach me and we get to talking I can handle that when I realize they're honest enough or I can tolerate them. Basically, I don't talk to many, but I do talk to some, though I never engage it and that works for me. I'm straight-forward and blunt, and that alone will scare off a lot of the bullshit people out there.

However, I absolutely feel drained in crowds. When I get into a social situation I know I loathe, my body begins signalling me to go to sleep. You should ask yourself what causes it for you; are you around people you dislike a lot, or is just a quantity claustrophobic problem?

Either way, there's no real solution. You have to engage people to live in this world, but you can always cut down on what's draining you if you understand what it is

Shameful bump

No one is meant to exist

We're all just accidentally born
We didn't choose to be alive. No one was.
But we're here

You sound young because you give two very simple end games for your life
But there are more than that

Life can be enjoyable for the small things
Like, living in a place you paid for, cooking good food while listening to good music.
I challenge anyone to do that and not feel a fraction of existential happiness .

>>17770914
I understand that feeling completely, but the answer to your question is no.

You and everyone, everything around you, is a result of events preceding it. You can be someone who is a definite 'yes there is meaning' or ;no there isn't.' Regardless, the answer will always be both and neither, and I think you would be wiser to learn to think of it in that way. There is no answer. Nothing anyone does really matters because we are all subject to things beyond our control, whether it be emotions, leaders, nature, or numbers. You just do what you do with what you have.

>>17770909
I think you're an idiot for marrying someone without having the same values.

0/10

>>17770909
What's your level of mad right now?
Can you even, or can't you even?

No. Asexual means zero attraction, physical or emotional.

>>17770970
Wrong....at least Google it before you give advice. Asexual is having no care or desire for sex. My friend is Asexual and she's had 4 boyfriends. They still can desire companionship but theyou aren't that into it with sex. Like if she has sex more then 2 times in like 3 days or some shit she can't get wet

>>17771108
>Google new age hippy pop psychology sites about how you can be any sexuality u want if u just try hard enuff

no thanks, I live in the realm of facts, not special snowflake entitlement. your friend is a slut.

>>17770828

>having more game than OP
>shitty

According to your definition, every single person in the world is shit.

>doesn't want to date me
>wants to date someone else
>Wow how shitty of her

IT'S PERFECTLY ACCEPTABLE STOP COMPLAINING JUST BECAUSE SHE SAID NOOOOOOOO SHE DON'T OWE YOU SHIT

>>17770828

iktf, kinda

>>17770787
you're weak. Just start saying no to everybody. Doesn't matter what they want, just say NOOOOOOO

you did the right thing OP, because you never really know if they really want money for food

however if you're so upset, next time just lie and say you don't have any physical money with you

>>17770791
I would but I don't think that would get me very far in this world.

>>17770793
Thank you and I'll remember to use this excuse in the future.

>>17770750
Are you fucking dense?

bruh are you taking fucking business calculus

why even bother?

>>17770770

>calculus

>>17770750

Please tell me you are joking.

Nope
usually the first kiss happens before you're 'official'

Been seeing this girl for about a month now, too. She kissed me on the second date and since. You ought to try for something.

OP here
I really do want to kiss her and stuff, but im a really awkward guy and dont really want to do anything unless I know she wants it too. Should I just kiss her first and see what her response is?

>>17770666
marriage. Chicks get let go of themselves once they are locked down. If you're young, you likely already go cucked, you just gotta deal with it. Break up with her now, before you she gets blacked.

>>17770666
You don't, you're gonna get cucked

Don't worry though everyone either dies a virgin or is cucked

>>17770677
This is why I wish I had stayed a virgin.

I don't even know if I got cucked or not so I'm assuming I did.

A what now?

>>17770656
Yes.

>>17770672

a wife who wants to be a stay at home mom