If your partner's fetish was sexting; and you were unable to sext to their standards and/or unwilling; would you be okay with your partner sexting strangers online to fulfill their fetish.
Would you consider this betrayal? Or would you feel it was fair because you could not or would not perform.
>>17769620
Yes wtf kind of question is this?
If it's that important to them and for some reason I'm not putting in the effort then by all means just break up
>>17769620
sexting is no damn fetish ffs
Just because someone has a fetish, doesn't mean that they can't survive without indulging in it, and it shouldn't mean that's the only way they can get off
>>17769620
The answer's different for everyone, m8, some people would be fine with it and others would not. But within the context of most "exclusive" relationships, yeah, this would be a major problem. Relationships involve compromise. You're trying to have your cake and eat it too.
Try it like this - if your girlfriend's fetish was getting a REAL good dicking from a good-looking man, and you were unable to fuck her well enough for her standards, would you be OK with your girlfriend getting fucked by other men to fulfill her fetish? While still remaining in a relationship with you?
It's pretty much the same question
>If your partner's fetish was sex and you couldn't sex to their standards would it be OK for them to fuck the neighbor?
>>17769620
Personally I can think of arrangements where this would be okay with me, but it would definitely have to be discussed beforehand.
Nobody's obligated to go along with it, and they have every right to consider it not cool, but I also think the impersonal element of it being digital makes it easier to accommodate in my book. But then some people think watching porn in a relationship is cheating so who the fuck knows.
>>17769620
What am I a cuck. No I wouldn't be OK with that. At that point the relationship isn't worth it if they were willing to chat with other people just to get a fix