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>>17771722
Yes.
Tips: fucking wait and pray you have good genetics. If you have the right genetics that kind of build it will take literally a decade.

>>17771722
>Attainable natty? If so any tips?

healthy bulk and hope you have good genetics. most people cant get a build like that natty, they end up starting to get fat.

He's on steroids tho

>>17771721
Actually you've got it backwards. CS funnels you into a job in CS and nothing else. Psychology gives you a lot more options, from academia through counseling to such purely business areas as HR, sales, management, etc.

>>17771834
are you trying to justify why you studied psychology instead of CS or are you just retarded ?

>>17771834
So in that case, the obvious decision would be psychology? Still not quite sure though

>>17771713
She's not interested, move on. It's just Tinder.

>>17771713
guessing you're green. i wouldent say you sound like a fuckboy. she just doesent sound sure about you, and honestly she sounds a bit apathetic. women are often like until you have been speaking to them for a few days. its annoying but its how it is.

Stop spilling your spaghetti. You shouldn't have mentioned " hanging" twice so soon. If you have HBO you could've just let them know you do and the implication is there. Don't apologize, but you may have missed your chance with this one. Let conversation flow;ask about themselves not what they like. You end up writing yourself into a corner.

>>17771649
I can relate to most of this. I feel like an alien and at times it's gotten me to want to kill myself. I'm hoping a skydive can somehow break me out of it.

Is this the intj circlejerk thread?

>>17771649
I don't think the depression fucked you over nearly as much as the lexapro did.
Habits trained during the depressive period are probably going to stay with you for a while, although different kinds of therapy might help.

t. 8 years ongoing depressive anxiety, stopped medication 6 months ago

>>17771596
You don't.

>>17771596
>man leaves wife for me
>the leaves me for a new chick
I wonder where the sign was that the relationship was going to end horribly.

>>17771596

As >>17771617 stated. Because if she cheats on him for you, she will do it again but with someone else.

Life is about spreading our DNA, thats our primal intstinct. In my opinion making babies is the neaning of life. Its all a game OP, we live to die, and the only thing we leave behind are kids. By not having kids, youre ending your DNA. Wiping you from existence forever

Life is about struggle.

I think life is about trying to find happiness. Mostly by connecting with people and trying to spread happiness and stop suffering.

>I want to die trying to fix this piece of shit

sounds like you're doing just fine already

>>17771508
Not advice. It was a manner of speach.

>>17771502
You don't. If she caused this whole mess, abandon her and leave her to rot. She ruined a good thing. However if you caused it, you have to call it off and leave her to get your own act together.

Enjoy that 0 pal

Well at my university, having your cellphone on you during an exam is misconduct, whether you used it or otherwise. Unless it's a shitty candybar phone, you're probably going to face consequences, because even if the call log and your messages are empty or show that you didn't send or receive anything during the exam, you could have been on the internet for all they know. Sure, they could get information from your provider, but that's more effort than it's worth. Plus, if your university is anything like mine, you were probably reminded repeatedly to check you don't have your phone on you.

what do you mean by caught, they looked at you or they went over and talked to you?

Did the exam officials actually see you looking at your phone? did they tell you they saw you looking at your phone?

If yes, be emphatic that your phone was off and you didn't look at it.

If not, I would just try to be honest with them. You forgot that you had your phone on you, panicked when you realized it was on you, and that made you nervous so you tried to take it off your person.

>>17771419
kek Ive seen this bait before. Its a fun thread. Basically stop taking butt creep shots anon. Wheres the one with the bar stool.

>>17771422
>Basically stop taking butt creep shots anon

>implying

>>17771419
Where in the netherlands is this exactly?

I can't handle anymore and lately I am just being rude back to people and it seems they are dealing with it. I do have anxiety and I used to have bad social anxiety, but I have slowly overcome it now.

>>17771405
Nothing you can do about your boss. Basically do some extracurricular work for your job and prove you are smart. Grades dont mean anything. Talking to your professor more gives them more chances for them to think you are stupid. A smart kid with bad grades is unmotivated. A dumb kid who ask for help all the time to get a b is still dumb.

>I work for this old racist bitch of a woman. She keeps giving my hours to either her favorite boys or this typical black woman who hates doing anything which requires energy.
>racist bitch of a woman
>typical black woman
but the old lady is the racist jesus kid wtf

You aren't boring
You're boring to them

Understand the difference

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>>17771370

Is this just bad luck then? I mean, how come that so far everything what attracted my dates in the first place, wasn't enough to hold on to them in the initial stage?

I am aware that I can't do the same old schtick all the time if I wanna hold on to a girl, but so far I couldn't even get second dates until now.
Girl said she's into theatre and culture and doing shit, nature, hiking, so I thought I either take her to a play or to a longer walk along some riverside here in town at night, that's sort of romantic and shit, but I don't wanna bore her away too, fuck me.

Or are girls just so shallow that they pretend to be cultured and interested in shit, and if you actually do that shit, talk about that shit and participate in that shit they realize that they don't care?

>>17771360
>What do I do to stop being boring?
I already found the problem here
>I just always wanted to fit in, be friendly to everyone, helpful, considerate
Everyone hates these people. They are the ones who will never argue with you and always try to pacify everyone when there is an argument. God you remind me of that fag from college I hung out with
>yo what do you want to do today
>hurr whatever you want to do
Fuck I hate people like you.

tell her about the gentle curve of ur penis

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>>17771354

Start off by complimenting her on domething she posted or tell her what made you choose her profile. Something like, "hey thanks for accepting my invite or whatever it is,! I really was interested in your profile when I read you are into photography and dinosaurs. I have been wanting to get my own camera for a white perhaps we can go out to buy one. Want to meet at the dinosaur exhibit at the museum on la brea?" Pick something or two from the profile and start the conversation there and that will lead to other things. Following the example, she can say " oh I've been to that museum it's Kane, I've really wanted to visit the one in the other city." " oh yeah, I hear that city has one if the best beaches too, perhaps we can take photos there together with my new camera. " Just a suggestion, good luck!

>>17771342
You do know you can end a relationship amicably, right? Relationships end, it's normal, no one ever said you had to be with her for the rest of your life. Not feeling any passion anymore is a completely reasonable reason to breakup.

>>17771351
>you can end a relationship amicably
but...how though?

Just talk it with her. Be honest about what's going on.
It's probably going to suck a lot, but you'll both get over it. The sooner (and the cleaner) you do it the better. Any time you spend in a relationship that doesn't make you happy anymore is not only a waste of your time but also of hers. If she still loves you, she'll need a lot of time to recover, but in the end you'll thank yourself for what you did.
Just go and be honest. Don't let her expectations (or anyone else's) define what this relationship has to be. You're both young, you'll be fine.

>>17771332
What about your life do you want to improve? List them, both the minor and majors.

Same here man, though I started trying to fix my problems.

Got my mental health checked out and am now drinking medicine + know whats wrong with me.

Trying to get back on track with my college classes (hopefully I wont get kicked out) this is my first day of trying.

Started chatting with girls for the first time in years.

For me, the key thing was to think really hard about my life and what needs fixing, making a list of stuff I need to do, figure out and just doing them one by one.

I believe in you OP. Even though I just took the very first steps to a better life, it's better than nothing. If a loser like me can get off his ass and start making changes, so can you!

>>17771337

No friends since high school. Mostly likely due to social phobia

Never had a girlfriend or so much as a date for same reasons

shit part time job, can't seem to land an interview to get a better job. Not even sure if my field (Information Technology) is even really a good fit for me

Due to shit employment can't afford to move out of my parents house and get my own place or room with someone

Various psychological hang ups (such as the social phobia) that get in my way of accomplishment anything listed above

Improve physical fitness. This is probably the least troubling thing as I am not even overweight but could definitely use more exercise to improve my physique. I do go to the gym at least twice a week but I haven't seen much improvement

are there any people out there who were depressed like me that are making it happen?

Take solace in the small things
Growing out of of a depression is like rolling up a shallow hill
It gets easier as it goes

Take one day and buy some good food
And then cook a good meal while listening to music

It grows on itself
Do small things for yourself and it's like a snowball rolling down hill

No one's 100% happy or satisfied with their life..
When I was in your place I would just find stuff to fill my time and also maybe get passionate about them.
Get a job, go to the gym, start playing an instrument, meet new friends.
Don't even think about doing this all in once or even in a year, it's something you so gradually and eventually the bad thoughts will vanish since you're so busy and content with what you do.
Good luck