op has some problems that need solving

Just say some stuff so we can rip you a new asshole.

Or help

>>17788803
That's a cute haircut and yet you still do look a look like a dude. Also a phone case is pretty lame.

So what's the problem anyway?

>>17788824
okay :)

i want to live a wholesome life and do the right things. be a good friend, make the world a better place. but i feel uncomfortable and discontented with where i am in life. and when i make strides in improving things they're very temporary and eventually i get overwhelmed and it's hard to stay at the baseline.

no idea if this makes sense. it's a feeling that won't go away and gnaws at me. also i get lonely, which i guess is okay.

>>17788835
thanks it is a cute haircut. need to get bangs trimmed again though, pic is maybe a month old?

>>17788837
>i feel uncomfortable and discontented with where i am in life
Details. Where exactly are you in life now? What exactly makes you uncomfortable? What do you even see under wholesome life?

>when i make strides in improving things
What exactly?

You couldn't be more vague if you tried, anon.

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>>17789083
>Details. Where exactly are you in life now? What exactly makes you uncomfortable? What do you even see under wholesome life?
oh idk. it's all feelings i don't really understand. guess it'd be nice to make more money and find a boyfriend. but i'm never motivated enough for any of that.

>What exactly?
was unemployed for years dealing with depression and very serious anxiety. now i work full time and go to school kinda half-heartedly. and i lost a bunch of weight. eating well, going to the gym. taking better care of myself in general.

a wholesome life would be like. idk, being nice to people and being a good role model and stuff. working hard at worthwhile things.

>>17789106
>it's all feelings i don't really understand.
Try it. If you can't summarize the stuff you want exactly, it's pretty much impossible to reach it even if it's something simple, and if you don't know what makes you uncomfortable, it's tricky to change that too. You don't even necessary need to put the shit in words (although it'd be not too bad for the sake of the thread) but you gotta understand it. (It's hard and can take time, and that's perfectly normal and cool)

>guess it'd be nice to make more money and find a boyfriend. but i'm never motivated enough for any of that.
You don't need either for a wholesome life, so it's fine. And actively looking for a partner rarely goes well.

As for improvement, sounds like you did pretty damn good. Finding the motivation for it and actually doing it is worth much more than a boyfriend. Feeling overwhelmed is pretty natural, specially if you did all the improvements fast.

>go to school kinda half-heartedly
T-there are people who do it differently? The purpose of school is learning social skills and getting a piece of paper, that makes life easier later.

>working hard at worthwhile things
Like?