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I have been with the same guy for 3 years, I know his entire family, and I am currently living with him. About a month ago, he left some bruises on my arms and since then, I have been contemplating breaking up. What do I do or how do I do this? I'm so confused.
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>he left some bruises on my arms
that's too vague. He could've grabbed you too hard during sex in a moment of passion or punched you because you he didn't like the dinner you made.
If you want advice be specific about your issues.
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Don't fall into the trap.
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Did you deserve it? Was it an accident? Need more info to give any good advice
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Friend got cheated on and doesn't know it.. Should I tell him? 2016-11-22 01:45:51 Post No.17785109
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Background; All parties involved are age 21. I've known this friend my whole life, he has been dating her for almost one year. She cheated on him with another friend of mine (also a friend of her boyfriend, we are all good friends.) I am not if she is continuing to cheat but I am about 90% sure it was not a one time thing and that she continues to hang out with the person she cheated with.
Should I tell my friend he got cheated on?
Should I wait to say anyting and see if she tells him?
Like I said all parties involved (the couple, the friend who cheated with the girl, and I) are all very close friends so this is a very sensitive situation
Please give advice with what I should do and why.
Any example situations or personal experience would be appreciated as well.
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If you love chaos then tell him. If you care about your own life, don't tell him as it absolutely has nothing to do with you.
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>>17785109
Do you have a strong conscience?
Either you don't tell Friend A that his GF cheated with Friend B to save your skin, thus resulting in an inevitable and painful breakup some countless amount of time from now
~or~
Tell Friend A that his GF cheated with Friend B, have GF and Friend B will be mad for sure, and Friend A possibly will hate you too. BUT, you may spare friend A some pain in the long run.
(Friend A may be mad because of denial, I had a close friend who resented me/other friends when we told her that her bf was showing her nudes around)
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You're a fucking dick if you don't tell him.
I've had exactly this happen to me. Love of my life, I thought, and she was fooling around with someone else on a regular basis. Friend knew. She stopped, apparently, but did it again with someone else about a year later.
If it happens once, it's pretty much going to happen again.
>oh but people make mistakes!
Yeah they fucking do, and they should be made to pay for it when they do fucked up shit.
>but it has nothing to do with you!
If you're my bro and you see a skinhead about to shoot me in the back of the head with a Mauser, do you stop him? It's got nothing to do with you. You're not affected at all if I get cranially perforated. Fuck off with that. If he's a friend, especially a lifelong friend, you tell him
Don't spin it. Don't put any intent on it. Don't say "man she really fucked you over dude." Nothing. No branding. Just plainly, factually, tell him what you know and how you know it. Anything more or anything less is a betrayal.
So I shipped out 3 packages today at USPS. (From Florida)
The first two are looking weird on my receipt, and I need your opinion/advice on what to do about it.
The first was one DS game shipped to Texas.
My receipt says the weight was .6 oz and the shipping price was $2.62
It also says "First-class, parcel service", and I got a tracking number for this one.
The second was two DS games shipped to Washington state.
Receipt says weight was .7 oz and the shipping price was $0.94. (wtf)
It says "First-class, mail, large envelope", and I did not get a tracking number for this one.
The guy at the USPS store was sort of confused about weighing/calculating the shipping, and he said "It's fine, it's fine".
So I didn't see this until now, over 3 hours later, that the second seems all fucked up.
For one, it's TWO GAMES and only .1 oz more than the other with just one?
And the shipping is only 94 cents when it's shipping from Florida to Washington?
My main issue is...I didn't get a tracking number. I'm sort of freaking out about that last part because my buyer probably thinks I'm fucking them over without the tracking number.
First-class means it should come with a tracking number, right?
So wtf happened and what am I supposed to do? Can I contact USPS with my bill number to get a tracking number or is it too late?
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Also, tracking numbers for first and third packages say they've already been shipped.
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Go in tomorrow and try to get this all sorted out. Everytime I have sent packages, I received the tracking number from my email, didn't even fuck with the print out. It's kinda scary because the customer already payed for the items but it's not a huge deal
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How'd you get it through your email?
And how could I get it sorted out when it's probably already shipped? Do you think there's a tracking # assigned that just didn't get on the receipt?
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So there is this girl that I found on the internet. Long story short I went through her instagram and want to gf her and put my dik in her. The hard part is I never met her and she doesn't know me.
This is some background. Her instagram has her first and last name so it was easy for me to find her Facebook. She really looks like a family oriented person and desu I have more likes on my dp than she does so she isn't THAT popular despite her beauty. Anyway her profile says she's single and she may have moved from a relatively small town from the north (Canadafag here) to my city.
The plan I was thinking was sending her a message through Facebook without adding her as a friend (so I don't spook her too much). I'd ease into telling her that I stumbled upon her on instagram and that I think she's one of the prettiest girls I've ever seen and would love to buy her a coffee or ramen or something when she's available. At the end I'd acknowledge that it probably is very strange that I'm sending her a weird message (said I'm not a serial killer lol) on Facebook but it was the best idea I had at the time and that if she got the chance to know me I'm actually a pretty great guy.
Does this make any sense at all??? Am I doing something wrong? Should my message be modified? Should I not send at all? I do realize she may not even read my message because I'm not her friend on Facebook but like I said this is the best idea I've got lol.
Any help would be appreciated.
>TLDR: I want girl but I don't know her but I have her Facebook account address. Send her message to meet or no?
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Uhh....
Guys?
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>>17785095
Yeah, how about no. The idea of approaching a random girl you've never even met and found randomly online on fb of all things is sort of pathetic, the content of your potential message is sort of pathetic and the whole idea all around awful. But then again, nothing to lose, really.
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>>17785279
So basically what you're saying is that I should do it, but I should feel shitty about doing it?
Fukin grade-A stuff right here. You sound like my fukin dad lol.
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Im going to kill myself 2016-11-22 01:29:26 Post No.17785085
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My life is a living hell because of how ugly I am. My face literally causes me treatment from people that I do not want, and I hate looking in the mirror. It os holding me back from meeting up with my ldr boyfriend. Im 18 now and college is stressing me out. I should be traveling and going out etc with the time off I get. Because of my extreme shyness, I still live with my parents, who are fucking cunts and baby me out of any independance. One of my short term goals is to get a part time job, get my liscense, and get cosmetic surgery. How can I possibly hide this from them? I have no friends irl and therefore no where to stay. Please do not say anything about gaining confidence. I have done volunteer work and have tried makeup/hairstyles/clothing. None of that changes my bone structure.
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You have a boyfriend who loves you, so you're doing better than me, and I don't want to kill myself. Find a hobby to get into like obscure music or something.
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You probably even aren't that ugly, just have crippling self-esteem issues or BDD. If it genuinly makes you consider suicide, go see a therapist. No one's so ugly they should kill themselves.
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I'm gonna tell you something I told myself a long time ago: If something bothers you for a long period of time, or is on your mind constantly, do something about it.
Yeah, it's the easy way out, fuck em. Put all your heart into your main objective; earn money and go with the cosmetic surgery.
Stop fucking complaining about it, and actually do something about it. You already sound convinced about what to do, why are you here.
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>was at the gym
>it's kind of a yuppie gym, lots of cardio bunnies and stuff
>there was this girl that I see a lot there
>she's very cute, 9/10, sometimes we make eye contact and I've been trying to work up the courage to ask her on a date
>she is doing a REAL routine, with compound lifts, I always see her squatting
>so I assume she wants to gain muscles or why isn't she sitting on the couch eating cheetos or doing some bullshit routine ?
Fast forward to last week:
>she asks me for a 'spot' on squats
>I don't understand, she is using the safety pins? but whatever.
>so I get behind her like we used to in HS football
>she does her set (15 reps, hypertrophy training I guess)
then she says
> I see you here a lot! wow you're really muscular! no wonder! and touches my forearm
So I tell her 'You too!'. Not in an ironic meme way, I thought you know, I was really happy that she told me that I was muscular, my work is paying off, she should be happy too right?
>she looks at me like I'm retarded
>she purses her lips and looks pissed
>never talk to me again
>no more flirty eye contact
I don't get what I did wrong why do women get mad at you for compliments
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"You too" isn't a complement, it's a polite, impersonal and automatic response. Should have thanked her and offered a proper complement. She probably figured you weren't interested, just being polite to a stranger out of necessity.
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Shoulda told her she had a nice ass, that's why she doin the squats
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>>17785033
Not him. What would've been a proper compliment that would've not caused a bitchy response? Give me examples.
Nice ass is not an option.
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>gf used to have bangs, 10/10 muh dick core
>she found the upkeep annoying so she let them grow out
>still looks good obviously but I liked her old hair 300x more
Is it uncouth to ask my girlfriend to cut her hair?
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There's nothing wrong with asking her as long as you don't act like a dick about it be prepared for her to possibly say no and deal with that in a mature manner
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Also, she knows how much I liked her old hair and feels insecure with her new hair as a result
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>>17785015
in this case leave it alone. she knows, she didn't want to change back. she wants to be comfortable with her current hair. don't be a dick
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>26
>living with my mom and stepdad
>shit fast food job
>make 600 every 2 weeks
>My mom and step dad are getting divorced and I need to get the fuck out
>no car
>no money saved
>no career aspirations other than working enough to support myself
>no gf
>no car
>no future
What the fuck do I even do in this situation?
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>no gf
thank god, that owuld only make this harder.
OP, move out. 1200 is more than enough to live off of in most areas, even here in los angeles i lived off that for years.
you might have to share a room but yeah.
flip side, one of your parents may need a roommate
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>>17785061
Not really. 1200 a month is barely enough to live in major cities unless you live with a roommate.
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>>17784988
Get a real cooking job and bank every cent you can for as long as you can live at home.
Legit cooking jobs are great if you want to put in your 8/10/12 hours and do other things. Once you get a year in a place you won't be out of work. Places hire bozos because they can't find cooks who show up on time and sober.
>>17785146
This. I live in one of the more affordable cities in the US. Moving out into a shithole 1BR will run me $1300/month for necessities alone. I won't roommate with anyone other than my brothers.
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Am I fucking up again? 2016-11-22 00:36:49 Post No.17784958
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Ok, so I am 29, I have been divorced and have a kid from the previous marriage. Now that that's out of the way, I will present my dilemma.
So I am in a serious relationship now. The divorce happened almost four years ago now. The girl I am with has been a huge part of my life for a while now. She was there to help me pick up the pieces after the divorce. She didn't push a relationship on me. It just kind of happened gradually over the last few years. We were doing great until we moved in together about three weeks ago. Now we are constantly fighting about really stupid shit. We are still in love with each other, but we don't understand what keeps causing the conflict. I try my best for her and she does the same for me. She even brings me dinner at work (since I work nights as a repairman). She and I go great together, but the second one thing goes out of whack, we are both going at it. What the hell is the problem here? We both admit to our faults, and when we are wrong. She is 27 by the way. I need to save this relationship, so I am reaching out for help. She is my best friend, and I am hers. We are both racking our brains trying to figure why the disconnect keeps happening.
Pic quasi-related. It is me at Terminus.
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It sounds like you guys are hiding what you really feel by arguing over nonsense one of you doesn't trust the other enough to how they really feel and the other is too afraid to call the first person out on it. Or maybe you guys just don't love eachother but are afraid to be alone
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Yeah, we thought about that, but that's not it since neither of us hides anything from each other. We have even discussed her feelings about my ex wife and the fact that I have a kid with her. That only bothers her because of how visitation schedules screw with a kid.
We are trying to work this out before it grows into something bigger than it needs to be.
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>>17784980
If that's true and you are both totally ok with everything and there really isn't anything being hidden at all then one of you is mentally ill
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Do I have the right to ghost this girl? 2016-11-22 00:27:03 Post No.17784931
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Do I have the right to ghost this girl?
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>Meet girl a few months ago in grad school
>Always texting me
>Would hold onto me during football games
>Send me "Miss You" Texts during break
>Multiple occasions give me baked goods
>Would tell me I'm the only person to make her feel good about herself and said her favorite times we hanging out with me
>Even asked if she could be my date to my sisters wedding
>Told myself I wouldn't develop feelings, but I did
>Asked her out
>Friendzoned pretty hard I guess, said she was seeing someone else
>I feel a little led on and don't want to talk or hangout with her, and the best way to end this shitty feeling is just go no contact
>but does that make me an asshole?
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You don't owe her anything, just do whatever helps you cope.
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>>17784931
as long as you dont do it in an asshole way. id say just go about your life without her. if she reaches out just say 'sorry we shouldnt hang out anymore' and leave it at that.
souce: just had to cut off a belgian today
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I'm a firm believing No Contact solve almost every issue where feelings are not reciprocated
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Your experience with Adderall 2016-11-22 00:23:33 Post No.17784921
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Your experience with Adderall
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I am a college student with below average grades in computer science think 70-73. Majority of my class makes A's B every quiz test. How well did adderall or anything else work for you. I do not care if it causes balding I just want to know the results did it improve your gpa? I do get distracted a lot but I do study everyday.
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It doesn't cause balding you idiot
If you don't know shit about what kind of miracle drug you want to take that you think is going to magically boost your gpa above a 2.0 then I think you have more problems than your classes
You are a retard and you can either learn how to not be a retard, or learn to go full retard and off yourself
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>>17784963
geeze why so defensive chill homie
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>>17784921
>Majority of my class makes A's B every quiz test.
No they don't, grade curves are a thing. Also >>17784963
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My gf considers porn cheating and constantly questions me if i watch it. Apparently to her, all guys watch porn and since I'm a guy, I watch it which automatically makes me a cheater. She wants to go though my history on my laptop and phone because she doesnt believe me. Apparently she was molested by a porn addict so she thinks porn is evil and everyone who watches it turns into a rapist. What do i do?
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She's insane and paranoid and it will probably only get worse from here. Run while you can.
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If she won't consider therapy for her controlling behaviour, leave.
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>>17784867
when i tell her shes being paranoid, i get "well i'd rather be paranoid than oblivious"
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>be me, 21, femanon, asian
>face of a child
>makeup doesn't help
>no boobs or butt, your 5'3" not-so-cute asian
>born in hong kong
>HK is shit so went abroad to study
>tried to do CompSci but too dumb / depressed so dropped out
>psychology undergrad
>no employable skills
>about to slither back to HK after graduation
>god i hate HK
>there isn't a place where I would call home
>feel like a stranger everywhere i go
>no friends
>literally NEET except college
/rant
okay now how do i kill myself
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I think it is time.
Good luck.
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Come get drunk with me.
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Why does HK make you so uncomfortable?
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Hello anons, so I had an lg g4 die from water damage cause I jumped in a pool with it like a dumbass, this happened around august and I was wondering if there's some way to somehow fix it this late in time. If not though should I just get another one or the lg g5?
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Did you try putting it in rice?
This really should be done immediately.
But if you leave it in a bowl of rice for like 3 days with the backplate out and battery removed, it might work again.
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>>17784861
as I've mentioned this happened back in august, but sadly the rice technique didn't work when I tried it during that time
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Phone technician here.
1. Unscrew it
2. Open it from the back to get to your motherboard
3. Unplug the connectors and take out motherboard
4. All the white spots on the board are where the water damage is
5. Take lighter fluid or alcohol rubbing, i use lighter fluid, and put some of the fluid on a toothbrush.
6. Brush the water damage white stains off.
7. Screw it back together
8. Charge the phone
9. If it still doesnt charge or come on, try replacing the battery (its probably water damaged)
10. If you leave it charged and it vibrates when you power it up, you are good. If the screen doesnt come on and it vibrates and the notification light comes on, your lcd is fucked and you need a new one.
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no money, no job looking for gf. 2016-11-21 23:32:12 Post No.17784819
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no money, no job looking for gf.
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so I want a gf. I'm not employed. is this a problem.
no job in the foreseeable future too.
can a female answer if a man has no social status, no money, no power.
will he not be chosen?
facts to consider: well breed looks 10/10, good family, well mannered and polite and respectful.
only fault is me don't like working.
but have hobbies.
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Let me put it this way: if I can date a guy who isn't a leech to his friends and family and society in general, why wouldn't I?
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>>17784819
>No money.
>Hobbies
uwutm8?
What are you hobbies?
Also, lie and say you're a trust fund baby.
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>>17784819
>well breed looks 10/10
>good family
Subjective.
>well mannered and polite and respectful.
That's amazing. Do you shower daily too? Perhaps you aren't even a convicted sex offender? What a catch!
Generally speaking you do have a chance if you're super amazing and can balance out not doing anything with your life. From the sound of it, you can't.