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How do I get rid of a oneitis? Long story short I caught her fucking either my brother or my uncle in my bathroom. She gives me permission to stalk and cheat and she does both, it's a load of shit. Now I live in constant paranoia and sometimes wracked with guilt. Think she's my brother's girlfriend now, they'll tell me I had a chance when I don't think I really did.

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>Girl cheated on me
>Lied for about a month
>Found out, told her I don't want liars in my life. Not even friends
>Hangs up the phone, never talks with me again.
>feels.exe

I know I did the right thing and that i'm better off without her. But it feels shitty to see that someone who said that loved you for over a year completely forgot everything in 2 months, kissing with other dude and then lying.

I can't get over her, and I really want to, seeing how she doesn't give the slightest fuck while flirting with the other dude doesn't help at all. Tips?

Haven't talked to her, and I won't, it just that I had really deep feelings for her and it's hard to wipe everything

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Hey /adv/, dumb question for y'all. Is it possible for me to sue my psychiatrist? I was on something like 200mg of (insert hardcore antideppressant) since I was like 12, even though I had never needed them, and the only reason my parents put me on them was because my mom was getting on them at the time and they thought it was a good idea. I had never been depressed before in my life, but once I got on them, everything changed for the worse. I had started out with that one antidepressant that increased weight gain, and I grew man tits. Made life hell for me. Long story short, after finally turning 18 I took the liberty of tapering off them, and I've been down to 50mg as of lately. But as I go down more and more, it's shittier for a week or so, but then I feel WAY BETTER THAN BEFORE. This is all without my psychiatrists knowing, because last time I saw her, she threatened to take me to court for telling her I wanted off these godforsaken tic tacs. So my question, can I sue this shit out of her for any of this?

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Self explanatory. Some FAQ
>how long were you in prison
1 year the first time 5 the second
>for what
Drug charges
>how's it feel to be a loser
I own my own business and make 100k a year now, legally.

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daddy issues? polygamy..?

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How is this going to turn out?

>I'm 31, she's 43.
>Both educated, she's nearly finished with her PhD and will begin looking for long time employment in the field
>Been seeing each other for a month now but she lives 4 hours away
>She's completely fawn over me, very much gives a shit
>Willing so far to pay her share (sometimes even more)
>very domesticated, great cook but also not a homebody
>great shape for her age and very firm breasts
>quite fun in bed (and elsewhere) and also has no qualms about a bj
>Recently tearfully told me she had a health issue several years ago and is infertile.

So how long does this go on for? What happens here? Is a long term relationship possible?

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My father was sent to prison 6 months ago for life without the possibility of parole. How do I tell my 4 year old that he's never coming home?

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So I'm a 29-year-old female and I have been in two relationships, had sex with two people and kissed three.
Is this something that I should keep to myself? Will the average guy find it weird?

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How do you make lemonade out of being a girl if you don't like sex, don't want (or have the wits) to con people, and really just want to never have to think about it again?

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Since i was very young, I've always resented my dad. He's a very angry, opinionated, obsessive person who always has to be right/justified and gets very defensive if you even try to challenge his views. He and I are just two completely different people, and its gotten worse as time has passed. I'm 20 now, and whenever he and I are alone we seldom ever talk. Whenever one of us tries, it just feels so forced and inorganic that we both give up. The only time we really talk for extended periods of time is when we argue, which is quite often. Otherwise, he just barely acknowledges me, and goes about his business, and I do the same. He's done a lot of good for our family, but he's just such an angry, agitated and argumentative person and I just plain don't like him. I hate him actually. I often worry that one day one of our arguments will turn into a very brutal fight with one of us needing medical attention. I don't want it to come to that but I just hate him so much. Even my mom and brother are getting tired of his bullshit.

Speaking of my brother, I've had a history of hitting him from when we were young and even to this day. I don't take pleasure in it and I immediately regret laying my hands on him each time it happens. Its usually a knee-jerk reaction to either him annoying me verbally or physically. It often ruins any good times my family and I are currently having, but I don't know how to stop. I feel terrible, I'd much rather be estranged from my dad than my brother. I just feel like I'm filled with such hate, I need some advice on what I can to.

Anyone out there?

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Summary: Little brother is becoming very arrogant towards parents, his grades are slowly falling and he has just no motivation about anything in life.

I don't know where to start since there is so much to talk about and that I have exhausted all other resources. You guys my last recourse and if anything fails, my brother would have to be sedated with Ritalin.

We are a little family of 4, father and mother are in their late 40s, I am 23 and my little brother 14. We are upper middle class but that's only possible because of the endless sacrifices of my parents that work 7 days a week, 12 hours a day. Me and my brother always had what we wanted. My parents have always pushed us very hard at school.

I did pretty well high school but after that, it all went downhill. I screwed up 5 years of my life, literally a parasite that only steals oxygen from other lifeforms. I had a total shock/reality check when I went to pre-university (in my region, there's an intermediate stage between high school and university). I had no friends, no hobbies, was a child (to some extent I still am), no motivation, always choked during midterms and finals (which I still kinda do right now). Only now I realize how much I hurt my parents, not only mentally or their image among the rest of the family, but their health has been severely degrading since I fucked up. I am doing better now, I am becoming a firefighter to take care of them (in a way to redeem myself) in the future but the damage is done.

I always was playful with my brother. I had some moments that I whooped his ass because of his behavior with my parents but the rest, we played legos, video games and all. To some extent, I introduced him to video games and Minecraft was his favorite (and only one) for a long time. As time went by, he started to play more and more, had no real friends by the end of primary school and was starting to respect the authority of my parents less and less.

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I recently found out that my wife is into pain during sex. Like, REALLY into it. To the point where it can cause bleeding. It's a huge problem as we haven't been intimate in years and one of the reasons why is due to me not being able to accommodate that side of her. I feel like she didn'the bring it up before out of fear of scaring me away.

I want to be able to satisfy her needs, but unfortunately pain doesn't really work for me.

I've been thinking about using classical (pavlovian) conditioning on myself to enforce a connection between pain and arousal in order to be able to re-ignite our sex life.

Do any of you have any ideas of the best way to do this?

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Hi /adv/,

For as long as I can remember, i've always had an interest in girls. Problem is, most people assume I'm straight and my family wouldn't approve if I came out. I'm in a college with a lot of bi/lesbian women but I don't know how to find them. I don't want to be alone anymore and I think it's time I find a girlfriend, what's the best way of going about this?

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I like this guy, and I've had sex with him once, but he was too big for me and I had to have him stop because it was just too much.

I still like him though, how do I mitigate this if I still want to be sexual with him/have sex with him?

>I'm a girl. We are the same age- 23

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How do I explain to my family that I want to get a nose job without sounding like a total faggot? I've been made fun of all my life for my fat ugly pig nose and it has destroyed my self esteem. I want my nose triangular and normal, like pic related, but my before is a lot worse. I don't even know if it's fixable.
I can't just come home one day with bruising and bandages all over my face. It takes a long time to heal, and hopefully it will look very different, so there's no way I can hide it.