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>be with girl for little under a year
>we are doing great and I was ready to be her bf. This is around december of last year.
>confused because she was still going through stuff with her ex
>reel back the bf plans to make sure things we going to be ok
>for 6 months we are fwb but a little more
>during this I am there for her at every possible moment and help her through everything. Basically a bf without the title.
>during our relationship she expresses she wants to meet my family and friends at some point
>tell her she will at some point but not anytime soon because my senpai and friend situation is difficult. Not to mention my own life. This was around january and feb of this year.
>fast forward to now.
>she calls things quits because she deems that i treated her well but some things were missing e.g she couldn't meet my senpai and friends
>tells me she still wants to be friend which I'm cool with but I still want to be with her
>tells me its going to be a while before she hops into another relationship
>couple weeks later shes tells me she seeing another guy to give him a chance before she gives me another chance.
>figure this is because she had been to his house and met his parents.
So what is the best course of action here? Ive been trying to chillout and just keep working on myself but I just have a feeling I could do something.
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>couple weeks later shes tells me she seeing another guy to give him a chance before she gives me another chance.
On which planet is this acceptable?
You serious mate?
Considering you were never officially togther that made her even more non-chalant in case things actually went wrong/not to her liking and she could just break it off
Tl;DR
Kill yourself my man baka desu
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>>17385893
Now what do you actually recommend?
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ditch that bitch. if she gets with someone shortly after she denies you, she isnt interested in something romantic with you. She is just stringing you along
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So there's this girl I like but she's way more intelligent than me. She's knows so much about so much and sometimes I struggle a bit to keep up with her intellectually. Is it a bad idea to date someone smarter than you?
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>>17385856
It's a bad idea to date anyone at all, but we still do it all the time. Just go for it and stop worrying, just see what happens.
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>>17385863
>It's a bad idea to date anyone at all
/r9k/ pls
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>>17385856
Idk would you date a potato?
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Bored out of my goddamn mind 2016-07-23 22:45:57 Post No.17385803
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/adv/,
It's Saturday evening, and I have no idea what to do. I'm usually a workaholic, but since I've been working full time now I don't have any need to do anything today.
I can't hang out with my usual group of friends either, one of them (which I recently had a "thing" with now has a boyfriend whom she is SUPER PDA-y around, which will just make me feel like total shit and awkward. Plus, my main friend is dating her friend, so I would literally be a 5th wheel.
What the fuck can I do? I'm only 20, so I can't go out anywhere, nor do I know anyone in the area that I could smoke with or anything.
I'm so bored out of my mind, what do?
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Do you only have four friends?
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>>17385806
Basically. My other friends either are just coworkers or family.
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>>17385803
WWatch anime, read a book, go for a walk in your house, listen to musixc, watch movies, shows,
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Dealing with younger sisters 2016-07-23 22:45:10 Post No.17385801
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Hey guys.
Decided to have a poke through my sister's phone today as she left it in the car when I dropped her off at school.
Found porn in the browser history, comments about porn to a guy on whatsapp and a couple of other things that are worrying me.
She's 17 and I don't want her looking at this sort of shit to be quite honest. It's corrupting.
What do?
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>>17385801
Fuck her
We both know you want to
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First of all, you invaded her privacy. Secondly, she's 17. She's going to look at this shit regardless of whether or not you like it. It's perfectly normal to be curious about sex at her age and you were probably significantly younger than her when you first started looking at porn too.
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>>17385801
U do realize 17 year old girls fuck like mad bro
She's not a little girl anymore
1 more year and Chad Thundercock can plow her petite tender little asshole
L E G A L L Y
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And there is NOTHING you can do about that
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Hey /adv/, need some /adv/ice.
Putting my problem in a paste bin cause its too long for a post here
http://pastebin.com/xX0ga4MK
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>its too long for a post here
If it's legitimately too long for a post here, you should get professional advice, not advice from a Turkish cheesecutting board
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>>17385799
>My problem now is just what exactly our relationship is?
Kids who hooked up while traveling and did drugs; but you know it already.
>I get attached to people too much probably and maybe im expecting her to be the same level as attached?
Yes and yes.
>Should I just say nothing and then see what happens in Australia when I visit?
Yes.
>Were both young and not really in a relationship so we should just have fun while together until she comes home permanently from Australia right?
Yes.
>Should I ask her how she feels?
No.
>Also in the few months before I visit her in Australia should I text her a lot like everyday or just text her the odd time if I want to remain as a potential partner?
Rather the latter but it depends on each person.
>In otherwords how do I avoid her seeing me as just a friend or has that ship sailed when we hooked up in Berlin?
By acting more than just a friend. Thought I wouldn't expect anything serious coming out of it in either case.
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>>17385822
Alright thanks, I guess this is pretty accurate
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I've only ever slept with slightly chubby girls or even fat girls, I just can't get a break with an in-shape lady. I really don't like bigger girls, but I can't say no to how horny they can get. The sheer libido is what turns me on, and after I get rid of my libido I feel repulsed
How can I finally experience sex with a fit/average girl and get over this? I don't have a fat fetish, I can only get laid with big girls.
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What do you look like?
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Fit girls don't really have much higher standards than bigger girls, bigger girls just SEEM easier to approach because we get the impression that they'll "settle for less."
Do what you do with big girls, but with skinny girls, you'll probably be surprised that it still, in most cases, works.
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>>17385800
I got a thing about posting picks online, so won't do that. But I am decently attractive, 5'10", 140 lbs (used to be like 160-165 when younger, but now people who see me again need a double take to recognise me) supposedly I have a "manly" build which makes me look more fit than I am (I do exercise and eat healthy), a good sense of fashion, and early/mid-twenties but look a bit younger I guess.
Whenever I have a chance with a girl I actually am attracted to, not just trying to get laid with anyone, I either fuck it up somehow, she isn't feeling it, or some other dude butts in. I've made out and come close several times, but always failed.
how do i hang myself
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>>17385765
You buy a rope and go find the tree
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why do you want to hang yourself dude?
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>>17385765
You don't.
Really though, please don't, you have more to live for than you know
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Grocery store love??? I need help 2016-07-23 22:04:46 Post No.17385680
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So i am an Assistant manager at a grocery store. I am exactly 30 years old, married to a wonderful man, and a mother of a handsome charming son. So i have this employee, who barely turned 20 years old, that always seems to do subtle flirts with me. He is a funny guy and very nice and very sweet and everyone here loves working with him because he gets stuff done and makes the work environment such a great place friendly place. I know that because me and him are pretty much always working with eachother all the friggin time. so i got to know him and all. He is such a sweet person and very nice to me and respects everyone. I learned alot from working with him wich is funny because i am his boss and should be the other way. The weird part is that he really listens to me when we talk about personal things in wich my husband doesnt have this ability that much like he does. This employee always flirts with me and to be honest... i kind of like it. I noticed that he only flirts with me and gives me little glances(in wich i find cute) and jokes around mostly just me. So i dont know he might have a thing for me wich makes it alittle better i guess because i like him and i am very comfortable with him. And to top it all off he is a musician and a composer and songwriter and he plays in 3 bands so already i am falling madly for this kid but at the same time i dont want to lose my job just like everyone else. What do you think about this situation? Should i be ashamed?
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>>17385680
Honey, no. Flirt back but don't take him seriously. He's too young not to make it into anything but disaster.
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>>17385693
I know know but it is very hard to remain professional about it especially when i see him pretty much everyday and asks me how is my day is and how my kid is doing and all of the above. It is really hard
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It's only curteous to give him a handjob in the cleaning closet, and letting him suck on your tits a little.
t. 20-year old retailcuck.
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Leaving a Religion with Less Mess 2016-07-23 22:01:06 Post No.17385662
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Ever since I was born, I was raised in a religion. I grew up with faith, and eventually came to simply tolerate the religion, and now I've come to a part where I'm noticing that I don't agree with several of the teachings.
I'm not going to go so outright and say for certain that God doesn't exist or anything, but I need to leave and give myself room to think and just do my own thing as a person without regard to some longstanding moral codes or commandments that I have a fundamental problem with.
Ex: prohibition of alcohol or marijuana. In this day and age, we have so many mechanisms in place to deter people who smoke and drink from causing irresponsible harm to others. Why should our God care?
I have my own ideas about how to leave, but a few things I have to consider are:
1) Like any other organization, the members are spread out throughout my community. They go to my school, have jobs in the area, live nearby, etc
2) Being raised in the religion so long, I've become somewhat of a ranking member. I'm known to be consistent in showing up and participating in several activities and duties. It's also protocol for members or even pastors to chase after people "of interest" if they stop attending gatherings
3) I have an immediate family member who is still completely buying the dogma hook line and sinker
4) I freely admit that I'm a coward who fears making a big scene. Standing up and walking out the door would be nice, but points 1-3 lead me to think that I would get bitten back for it - or worse, they would end up involving someone else in my family.
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Conforming religion belief with social pressure is your religious belief. Accept this and form your own belief.
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>>17385662
>It's also protocol for members or even pastors to chase after people "of interest" if they stop attending gatherings
Kind of like a cult, innit.
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>>17385662
Woah. Are you me? Seriously, we're in the same boat OP. I assume it's Mormonism too on your end.
I've been psyching myself up for talking about it to my family member and then just gradually stop going to any church events. I'll probably move away soon for university anyway so that'll tie up any loose ends.
Maybe that would work for you too. Good luck man, I believe in you. When it comes down to it, it's your life. It's your responsibility to make sure you're happy, whether that means making yourself happy or other people happy.
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How to be a Professional Student 2016-07-23 22:00:47 Post No.17385660
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Hey /adv/,
I'm wondering how to be a professional student, but not appear stuck-up or like I'm trying to be better than everyone else. I would, however, like students and professors to know of and respect me.
This is as much, if not more, about attitude as it is about other things, such as clothing.
I want people to expect a firm handshake and see a slight fire in my eyes. I also want to maintain confidence when I may be going on less-than-optimal sleep.
Any suggestions are much appreciated, and I will respond to your threads in return!
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You're a student, not a fucking businessman. If you're worth respecting, then people will respect you.
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>>17385660
study a fuck ton
Ask questions in class. but not not a dick load.
study a fuck ton.
make eye contact with people when you talk to them.
study a fuck ton.
get a vibe of you prof and role with them.
Study a fuck ton.
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Pick a field where you're naturally talented. Work hard to become skilled. Don't try too hard to fit an image, or spend too much time on superficial ways of getting attention. Just be yourself, be nice to people, and focus on your goals.
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>Been binge drinking since 10am
>left hand is trembling slightly
>feeling abdominal pain/cramping
>I do this 3-4 times a week
WTF is happening to me?
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>>17385602
You suffer from a low IQ. Unfortunately one of the drawbacks is making poor choices and following through with them despite the obvious consequences.
I suggest you quit drinking. It just might help with that pain, cramping, and trembling. I mean it's a longshot but it just might do the trick...
Dumbass alchy.
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>>17385602
take antiacids and realize you are an alcoholic.
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the most intellectual people suffered from alcoholism...how is a low IQ even relevant?
I know its killing me...but I'm conflicted on how I feel about it.
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My broke (and in-debt) mother and sister are going overseas to vacation
My mom is asking me if I can borrow 1k+ in cash because if she withdraws money from overseas their going to get charged 20$
My sister is supposed to have a return to the tune of 1.9k and I can just pay myself back from that money. I am not 100% sure if this actually money she's getting because it's a T1 college tuition claim shit (i'm in canda)
I really don't want to give my money away
What do
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>>17385576
Don't do it
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Tell her you can't afford it.
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you're stupid because you're actually considering letting them borrow that money. there's a good chance you're never going to see that money again if you do let them have it
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I asked some advice from you guys recently about this girl at work. What the general consensus was is that the girl is horrible news that I should just avoid her at all costs. At first I disagreed, but after some introspection and talking with some bros, I came to your side.
I now humbly come to you all for more. For the background story I'll just copypaste my old post:
>be a quiet guy
>2 closest friends are a dude and a chick at work
>dude is super bro-tier and cool, he's average looking but is really confident and good with girls
>chick looks kind of like your typical vapid instagram model so it's easy to dismiss her, but when you get to know her she's actually really cool and funny
>Pic related, not her but looks like her. People say shes hot but I think she's okay
>as for me, I'm achingly mediocre/bland in every way, but people still like me for whatever reason
>the past few years the three of us started hanging out more and more
>one day I noticed that they always seem to arrive together, she always sits next to him, I caught them holding hands under the table
>Out of curiousity I pull my buddy aside and ask if he's dating her
continued...
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>he brushes it off, says "nah we're just cool with each other"
>they're probably keeping it discrete because we all work together
>whatever, it's none of my business
>everywhere we go, my friend pretty much dotes on her, getting her gifts, buying her food
>Her: "hey could you go get me a salad? pretty please?"
>Him: "I'm on it!"
It's kind of sad. He acts like a "bitches aint shit" type of dude so he must really like her to be acting all cringey like this
>when my friend isn't around, she then sometimes turns to me to do her little cuck errands
>"hey anon, could you run downstairs and get me some coffee, pretty please?"<3 <3
>"What, your legs broken? Fuck outta here"
>she giggles
>"awww anon, you act like you don't care but I know you love me <3"
>I smirk, shake my head and walk away
So she's been a big flirt ever since I've known her. I enjoy the flirting but I never actually thought of her romantically since she isn't really my type (I'm into shy, cute, violin-playing girls) but also she's apparently my best friend's girl and I have too much respect for him
But here is where it becomes confusing for me
>Recently her flirting has ramped up tenfold, so much so that I'm taken aback
>cuddling with me, being all lovey-dovey, joking to co-workers how she "likes me but I pretend to not know what's going on"
>Co-workers asking if I'm hitting it
>NO
>Her: "Hey anon! Lemme show you something on my phone!"
>Me acting annoyed: "What? What do you want? No I don't want to see pictures of your dumb fucking cat go away"
>she shows me some of her "private" instagram pics (underwear stuff, nothing nude)
>INSTANT BONER
>them tits
>that tight bod
>oh god I want to fuck her so bad
>I didn't ask for this
>Gotta do something, this is getting out of hand
>The next few days I start ignoring her, deliberately acting boring, uninterested
>I think it's starting to get through to her, shes less flirty and she's still doing the discreet couple thing with my best friend
>guilt sinks in
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My friends have been telling me to pull my friend aside, let him know that I'm aware of the thing between him and her, and then tell him what's been going on from my perspective.
This guy is like a brother to me. My worst fear is that he'll dismiss me and then continue on with this chick, and then hate me. And well, I'm not the type of guy with alot of friends, but I do love the little I have. He's on a straight path to getting his life ruined.
What should I do?
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Op if your friend is like brother, you should just tell him.
How bad did I fuck up?
1/2
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You didn't fuck up at all. That was handled very well.
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>>17385541
You were direct. You shouldn't have done it over text but at least you did it. That being said, do not contact her any further and move on. Don't dwell. Someone will appreciate you for you.
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What is raising a boy like? I don't know how to camp, hunt, fish, or do any manly things. I never played any team sports in my life. I didn't have a good father figure and I think it really hurt me as a kid and right up into my twenties -- I was awkward, stupid and never able to get a girlfriend or act in a confident manner.
I fear that when I become a father, I might be passing on these traits to my son. I don't want him to be as clueless and stupid as I was and I don't want him to follow the media's latest trends and turn into a tranny.
How do I accomplish this? Or am I totally unprepared and unfit for the role? Can you raise a tough, confident, assertive man without knowing how to go camping or hunting?
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>>17385519
Believe it or not camping and hunting aren't the top alpha male traits.
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>>17385519
I'm gonna raise my kids on video games and P90X.
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>>17385530
>found the pussy
>>17385534
>p90x
Sounds pretty dope. Make sure to get him on weight training though. You don't want him to be some pussy like this guy >>17385530