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if it's a good facebook yeah

this means friends of friends (if you friend real life friends on facebook) will be able to friend you. some of these people might be women who want the d. it's also unusual to not have a facebook.

>>17382641

>it's also unusual to not have a Facebook

JUST
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In theory, if only because many people "facebook stalk" potential meetups before hand for safety. You'd be surprised how many red flags people post publicly online. If I came across a dude without a fb, I'd probably be slightly more hesitant to meet him or at the very least I'd take much longer in talking to him and getting a good feel for him before I met him in person than usual.
But this only works if you actually use it of course. If you don't want one then don't get one. Its not that big a deal

>>17382623
Ignore her. What ever her reasons are, they are not good.

>>17382623
If you didn't know each other well, and you were silent for a year, then I'm pretty sure she does want something. But whether or not it's help with a job or an ego boost, there's no telling. Just be prepared. If I were you, I probably wouldn't go just because there's nothing to really gain.

>>17382629
>>17382631

interesting. these are my feelings exactly...

try growing up. get some hobbies that don't involve a video game turned meme.

>>17382622
If you don't want to git gud then you'll encounter this in any multiplayer game. Some people are just shit at games. Your friends are douchebags for throwing you under the bus, unless they exclusively play ranked.

your friends are douchebags or you are the douchebag

eitherway, get new friends.

dude 5.5 inches in diameter sounds normal. are you sure you don't have body dismorphia?

>>17382551
You look lankly as fuck because you are a spooky skeleton
>no matter the excercise I do I'll still be weaker than the average male with a normal bone size
literally doesn't matter, you arent competing in strongman or some shit

>>17382563
Literally everyone I've ever met my age has bigger wrists than me, even girls. My like 9 year old cousin has the same size wrists as me.

become a man and teach your new son or daughter the ways of the world.

>>17382543
>What should I do?
Are you sure it's your kid?
Maybe is a rapefugee one :^)

>>17382547

>Be a man!

yeah, no.

Do what you want OP, you don't have to be together with your partner to raise a child.

And if you don't want to raise the kid, you can not acknowledge the kid.

Though it may have some social consequences.

Also, wear a condom next time dumbass.

>>17382499
You simply don't talk about it. If she talks about it, you ask her not to. That also means you can't bring up politics with her, either. Just because you're together doesn't mean you should or have to talk about controversial things. My folks have been married for over 30 years and they are at polar opposite ends of the political spectrum. They just don't talk about politics, because there's no point. You're not going to change the other person's mind, so you're wasting your time and causing needless arguments.

If you have someone good, you overlook the bad, as long as the bad is something insignificant. This is insignificant, because it has no impact on your day to day relationship. Significant bads are things like cheating, lying, laziness, etc.

>>17382499
>sweet
>anti white

Hahahahahaha

>>17382514
Anti white might be a stretch

She's just into the whole diversity crap. Like we went and saw the maze runner for whatever fucking reason, and afterwards she was like "I'm glad there was a diverse cast and not all white people :^)"

>>17382491
It's about money. You're struggling with money, so your choice should be about which type of goat will provide you with the most money, while costing the least amount of money.

Logic dictates that keeping a goat alive and feeding it for years for its milk will cost you more than culling goats when they become of age, and simply breeding more.

>>17382491
Get sheep. They're easier to take care of than goats because they have a herding instinct. You can breed the ewes every year and sell the lambs, and wool in a decent commodity online.

What kind of investment are we looking at for either option?

If you have regret, then you wanted to do something but didn't.

You know that you weren't okay with that exchange, but out of fear and a lack of self-confidence, you kept it to yourself instead of standing up.

Don't be afraid of conflict, Anon. It's how we grow.

>>17382480
you can't date every woman you see, but in this situation if you wanted to look nice you should've made a joke about that old men, just to see her smile, then leave

don't be afraid of brief chats with people you don't know, most of the time is something that will die there but sometimes you may make a friend... or know a girl

>>17382487
Maybe you are right. But i dont know them, so why should i start a fight?

a)If i say something and they know each other this would be really awkward, or it could end up with me getting hurt/ getting in conflict with police. If i say something and i actually help her i could become her personal hero.

b)If i say nothing i stay safe but may feel bad for a short time.

Option b) seems to be the safer one.

Maybe i should write the supermarket an e-mail about this situation? I could help the girl without getting directly involved and stop feeling kinda bad.

Would this be a good thing to do?

>>17382407

We're not going to do your creative writing homework for you.

Play some Pokemon. You'll feel better.

>>17382414
i am, im sitting on facebook to clear the air, all my friends look up to me and it is extremely hard to type or even call her because i haven't been in the situation before

>>17382419
My man please do not tell this girl you almost killed yourself because of her. Please do not fucking so that.

>>17382357
Get fed up with your own behavior and simply stop being clingy.

>>17382357
It takes a lot of self awareness in the moment. Break the habit one conversation at a time.

>>17382394
How do I work on achieving this. A lot of it comes on automatically

She is.

If you havent made a sexual advance during the 4 years then I think youre stuck in the friendzone.

If you tried touching/holding her at any point AND she was receptive to it, then she is waiting for you to make more advances.

If you tried touching/hold her and she was UN-RECEPTIVE, then she wants to stay friends.

http://youtu.be/sOu6u4hG07k

Thread song

>>17382347
>i'm very disabled in ways that leave me unable to do much work, period. i can only type for short periods of time and cannot use the phone.

If your "disabilities" are social anxiety and adhd, suck it up because those are meme-ass conditions. If you're actually disabled and can't type because you have arthritis and you can't talk on the phone because you're deaf, then I'm sorry I can't help you. Maybe become a motivational speaker for people with disabilities.

>>17382360
Automatically assuming the guys conditions and then telling him he's fucked. Yeah sounds about like /adv in 2016.

>>17382347
>i could probably spend a few hours a day working tops.
>i don't really need that much money. I think $30k-40k a year would be perfect for my needs.

Consider prostitution. I mean, seriously? You want 30-40k a year for working only a few hours a day? Not gonna happen.

If he is being friendly, he's into you.

>>17382332
false, he can just be friendly
but if he's into you and he knows his shit he'll make you know, if he's a bit more awkward... show a bit of interest, something more than usual, if he reacts too positively he's into you.

>>17382340
How do I show a bit of interest? My only experience with romance has been middle-school bullying-you-because-I-like-you -shit. I am not a smooth operator.

>>17382288
>my gf had a wild past but wants to pretend she's different
>I'm not shaming her

Holy shit fuck right off anon. You are such a beta bitch honestly.

She's probably going to truly try to be different but somewhere down the road she'll ache for what she was doing most of her life.

>I'm not shaming her

Where the fuck do you think you are tumblerite? When someone does something shameful, you shame them.

I got cancer just reading your post god damn.

>>17382288
>>17382288
>gf had wild past; wants to be "grown-up" with me

haha nigga you need to drop her ass right away. I'm not even going to read the rest. You're literally the "oh I have to settle for someone" type of guy who gets cheated on constantly. Uncuck yourself.

whether "safe" or not, you are her choice. on the other hand, if you feel pale compared to "john", maybe you really are a bit of a boring type. idk - if you see yourself as that type of guy and don't like it, you should work on being a more attractive person

pokemon go ;)

Take a tablecloth to a park and sit in the sun. Bring lunch and eat it while you watch park-goers do their thing. Ideally, you bring your laptop/phone/real life friends so you can talk to people while you chill.

>>17382180
Idk man I'm in California its 100°F+ outside today.
Something outside that's inside maybe?

I know the feeling. I've been trying to get out more also.

I think outside people do things with other people, the problem is I have no friends.

You could go for walks, maybe go for a drive?