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Sup /adv/. I'm 19 & I work for little caesars. I've been working here about 2 years 3-4 months, I started as a crew member, was promoted to assistant manager, then store manager, then co-manager (I asked to be demoted because I wasn't experienced enough to be a store manager) and now store manager. I've been managing the store I'm at for about 4 months, and I really do not want to work any longer. I could go into depth on why, but it's not that important, so I'll just summarize it by saying that the job is detrimental to my mental and physical health.
I live in the US, so I don't have to give a 2 weeks notice. I probably should. It's gotten to the point that I don't really care.
Thoughts/advice?
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>>17386787
*** I don't want to work for little caesars anymore; I'm going to start going to college soon and after a month or 2, if I think that I can both work & go to classes, I'll find a different job (obviously not LC because I would rather stab myself in the eye)
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Dude you're 19 you are still a kid. If you feel like this job is draining you then you should quit. You should spend these years living, not slaving away for 10 bucks and hour. Trust me the memory's of experienceing life is way more valuable than the money you are making right now.
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>>17386886
thank you

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When a girl you know flirts with you repeatedly, does that mean she's at least partly sexually attracted to you? I guess what I'm asking is, have you ever flirted with anyone that you were ambivalent about or just considered a friend?
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OP here, I have autism, btw. Obviously
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>>17386782
probably. don't take it too seriously and have fun with it.
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the answer to this comes down the line.

play along and try to get things deeper and you will find out if she is serious or not.

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Do any other anons suffer from thoughts of conspiracy? I have a hard time distinguishing what's real anymore. Basically, I smoked a lot of dope, got hacked and keylogged, was institutionalized a few times for paranoid and suicidal thoughts, I made some really dumb posts on social media which people may or may not have seen, and now it seems to me as if my former friends and acquaintances, celebrities, other anons, law enforcement or authorities, and other unseen agents are conspiring against me. Even memes that I see on 4chan, I sometimes believe are relating to me and my situation. I know I have psychosis or schizophrenia and that my delusions are irrational, but I can't seem to shake them. I believe that my phone and internet connection are being tapped and that surveillance planes are monitoring me. I blame the high-grade medicinal pot that I smoked for a year or so. Should I keep my thoughts to myself and lay low until all the drama blows over, or confront people with my beliefs?
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>>17386773
Are you taking antipsychotics?
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>>17386773
Yes, Abilify injection and Seroquel, but they don't seem to be helping. With every day that passes, my delusions manifest, and I get the sensation that others are closing in upon me.
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This definitely sounds like paranoia. You should see a psychologist, or better yet a psychiatrist. I'm not sure if weed can actually cause it permanently, but THC is present in it and it I know THC can cause anxiety and delusions, as well as some other stuff.

Do you have any family history of paranoia that you know of?

I know it's hard to logic your way through this, but you obviously can see that this is having a negative effect where it was not present before. You should get help for it. You don't have to live like that, in constant fear. The real world is not like that.

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How do I offer my sister a foot massage without it being weird/awkward?
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Follow up question: how do I record children at the playground without being arrested?
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>>17386762
Become a master manipulator.

Get her to offer her feet to you, while thinking it was her idea.

That's the short version.
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Are you trying to be weird on the sly?

Just say "Hey, want a foot rub?"

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Anyone here ever had really bad self-loathing issues? I know it comes with depression, but even when I'm having periods of relative happiness I never like looking in the mirror. It seems like it never goes away no matter what I do. Even if I start working out again or try to talk to women or whatever it's always there in the back of my mind, like a little voice just saying "you're a piece of shit who isn't worth it"

Anyone know how to overcome this without going to therapy? I live in America and am currently unemployed and living with my dad so that's not really an option.
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>>17386750
iktf
explore therapy techniques online if you cant afford to go irl
you probably need to change your thought process. its hard. its basically "fake it til you make it."
tell yourslf youre worthy, nice, decent, whatever you need to hear. try to do it every day. even if you have the bad thoughts, try to plug in some good ones too.
shit like that
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>>17386750
cognitive behavioral therapy
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Therapy

cbt and mindfulness meditation has improved my depression and anxiety a lot.

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It's my birthday today, since it is after midnight.

I am pretty depressed. Life really doesn't seem to have any meaning. Why live, when I do not plan on reproducing, and any actions I take will be negligible in one hundred years?

Existential Crisis aside, what should I do for my birthday? My dad ordered a small cake, and my cousin is coming over to hang out.
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>>17386746
>Why live?
Live for the things that bring you joy, and becoming your strongest self. At least that way, you will have died trying. Watch Neon Genesis Evangion.

Having some pride in yourself is a good thing.

>What do on bday?
Bust out the N64.
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>>17386757
I forgot to take off my OP tag. Sorry.
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>>17386757
evangelion*

i'm sorry op i'm shitting in your thread with mistakes

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I don't even know why but I really don't like girls. Not even in a gay way I definitely am sexually attracted to them. Like I see a group of girls all dressed up walking to a bar or something and I feel annoyed. Or they're all talking nonsense and being loud and I just want them to die. Not literally but you know what I mean.

I've never had a girlfriend or had sex but somehow I've flown under the weirdo radar my whole life. I've always been funny and relatively charismatic but when a girl comes along they just ruin everything. They're not funny, they're not charming, they're just pretty and that's about it. I don't like to feel this way about them but I just do. What's my problem? Maybe I need therapy?
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>>17386674
You either need therapy to handle your emotions and continue on in the real world;

or /pol/ if you want to abandon all outside life and basement dwell forever.
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>>17386674

Are you me? I literally feel the same way.
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no one gives a fuck if you like them or not like
shut up and save up for plastic surgery make someone to like you

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I'm housesitting for a family and I fucking killed 3 of their fish.

The family has only owned the fishies for a few weeks. The dad left out an example of how much I was supposed to feed them, and I did it religiously. I noticed on the fish food jar it was way too much but I did exactly what I was told, even took a picture of the example.

What do I do???? It's 11 pm here, they come back tomorrow.

i know this is stupid but i'm a womanchild, please help me
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Buy the same fishes again?
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>>17386657
i can't find them on the store websites nearby. fuck me. but they're just little brown fish so it shouldn't be too bad to reimburse.....fuck

anyways this is minor but thanks i have no one else to talk to
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Own to it and tell them you either aren't going to bill them or you're discounting the cost of the fish.

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I have bipolar disorder.

Why shouldn't I go NEET?

See /adv/:
"Dating a bipolar? Are you stupid? Never date crazy, it's not worth it."

I feel subhuman. 4chan reflects what people feel but are too polite to say.

You all think people like me would be better off dead.

I am in favor of eugenics for this reason.

Why should I bother trying to keep up social standards when everyone judges bipolars as people who'd be better off dead anyway?

Pic unrelated, but I want her to slash my throat.
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Why do you care about eugenics? No one will remember you as a hero who offed himself for greater good. There are dumb people breeding all the time and single mothers who can't properly raise a child. World has enough problems with or without you.

If you aren't happy with yourself get treatment
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>>17386642
>4chan reflects what people feel but are too polite to say.
That's bullshit. 4chan reflects what a vocal minority thinks, most lack a normal social life as well, so their opinions on issue involving people tend to be based on lack of personal experience.

But to come to your questions...

>Why shouldn't I go NEET?
Outside of the financial downsides, it'd be a pretty unfulfilling life if you're not mentally challenged, and sorry to break it but BDP doesn't qualify for that.

>Why should I bother trying to keep up social standards when everyone judges bipolars as people who'd be better off dead anyway?
It's easier to live life that way.
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How am I supposed to attain any respectable level of success when I want to beat a hole in the wall for no apparent reason. My moods are out of control.

My dad was abusive and sociopathic and ending up like him would be the end of me. He's evil, something I never wanted to be. And if my genetics dictate that associating with people would only end in me hurting them, then

Why shouldn't I give up on trying to live honorably and merely collect disability as a video game and anime addicted shut-in?

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Is it possible to live in nyc as a waiter? I mean if people can live in nyc on there own while doing unpaid internships it should be possible right?
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No NYC is overrated anyway. It's like fucking Disneyland now. Why don't you do some basic research before creating a thread.
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sure, but you'll need to work multiple jobs and live paycheck to paycheck with no savings. Very difficult to get an apartment for under 1k rent a month, even in really shitty areas.

and people don't survive on their own while doing unpaid internships, where the fuck did you hear that? If anyone's doing that in NYC they're only doing so by being dependent on others or having a trust fund.
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>>17386640
>tfw living in metro and minimum wage with no future

need a jew daddy

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I've been caring for my mother all my life.

She's slowly falling deeper into dementia and I don't know what to do. She is lashing out and screaming at me and this keep happening. I feel like I am slowly going crazy because of it.

I don't know what I can do. She's also my source of housing and pretty much everything else. I don't know how I could leave.

I just feel like I am losing it.
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put her in a nursing home, sell the house to pay for it and use the rest for yourself
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>>17386643
the house is rented, though
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>>17386624

First off, mad respect for taking care of your mom

It's a common effect of progressing dementia for people to lash out and not be themselves. Just remember it's just the disease. It's not them.

You should look into respite care, they usually offer primary caregivers a few weeks of a free home health nurse to come in and let you rest for a bit.

Also, see a doctor, they can offer you more

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Really at the lowest point of my life right now. I don't think I'll be able to take on the weight of university, as I barely had the grades to get in. I am looking for serious advice on joining the canadian military. Anyone here want to share their past experiences? I'm not really sure what do...
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>>17386593
Sorry for the name, my extension is not working properly
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what fucking advice do you need?

just talk to a recruiter
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>>17386598
I'm looking for someone who wants to share their past experiences, pros, cons. What to enlist in i.e Air force, infantry etc.

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I started taking antidepressants and now I can't get off anymore. I just spent the last 5 hours masturbating without success. It's been a week since I've gotten off and two weeks since I started the medication. Has anyone else had a similar experience? Will I get better?
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I've had a similar situation. What are you taking?
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Decreased libido is one of the more common side effects of I'm guessing Zoloft is what they gave you. They usually start with Zoloft or Lexapro

You'll get your nuts back when you discontinue the medication after a few days

There are a million antidepressants out there, it's just finding which one is right for you
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>>17386563
Prozac.

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i am 21 and i never had sex before and i am a really sexually active person. And i mean really sexually active. This is no joke but every hour all i think about is sex sex sex and most of the time it isnt just sex but really unusual strange nasty sick sex like anal cream pies, sloppy vomit blowjobs, farting in face, rimjobs, nose licking, and just everything that is sick to most people. So the problem is that most of the time and i mean pretty much every minute i have straight up boners out of nowhere and i cannot get rid of them even if i do think of somethibg else. and they are not regular boners either they are boners that feel like my penis is going to come off and it actually really hurts because i get that damn hard. At night before i sleep i actually spend about 4 hours pleasuring myself. And i sometimes masturbate around 15 times a day. Now is there a way i can help my erection problem? I try not to think of sex especially at work but i keep getting full on throbbing boners that sometimes actually hurt bad as if i seriously need to masturbate and like i said feel like my penis is going to come off because i rage that fucking bad. So is there anything that can stop this? Please help
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Personally I don't see the problem.
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embarrassment is supposed to solve that for you
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>>17386600
Yah i know i am going to get crap for this post but i just do not know what to do about it

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How can I be funny ?
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>>17386546
Note: the longer you stay on a Western Mongolian Political Cartoons video repository, the more warped your humor will become.

I.e. your_here_4evr.gif
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>>17386546
Just tell really shitty puns when people say something.
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>>17386546
Joke about yourself. Say things that are funny in a serious way.

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