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So today i was at my gfs place and as i walk in to the room she was on fb. she closes it quickly, but i notice she had a chat open and there was lots of hearts on the screen.
obviously when she leaves the room i look at it as im really curious and turns out shes talking to some guy from her home town (pretty far away).
i noticed a few months ago (they don't really talk that much) he mentioned he wanted to come visit our city, but right away my gf mentioned she was seeing me. but she still keeps acting friendly to the guy and making the heart emojis and stuff.


i dont know if this is something i should pay attention to (i think they have had sex before?) or not cause i have lived most of my life without any social contact whatsoever. i dont know if either of them is being wierd.

is this even worth mentioning to her? not sure what to do
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if you tell her you snooped through her computer the first thing she will do is get mad and butthurt. thats how you know shes cheating and you're a cuck
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>>17383517

i really doubt im a cuck he lives too far for it to make much sense.

i just feel like #2 now, but that also goes against how she acts when she's around me..

im just confused
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>>17383508
Break up with her

Literally, only solution, don't know how else to say it.

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>meet guy in class
>we get assigned together to study and shit
>turns out we have same interests, pretty cool guy
>told me he was gay 3 days ago
>not surprised at all, has long blonde hair that is way to well taken care of, also told me once that he does squats and a bunch of low weight exercises, and in general is just girly as fuck
>we were walking along the beach last night just playing pokemon go
>he tried to hold my hand
>didn't know how to react, just pretended I didn't notice he tried to grab my hand
>he drives home after an hour of walking around like idiots together

He sent me this text twenty minutes ago:

>Hey anon, sorry about me trying to hold your hand, I just really like you and got caught up in things, I don't know if you're gay/bi/straight or whatever and I should've asked before I made any kind of move. I apologize if I made things uncomfortable.

Thing is, I'm 21 and I don't really know what I am. I fucking LOVE grills, not so much personality wise most of the time, but I still really like them, pussy is just mind blowing. But every now and then I see some girly ass dude in person, or online and I think "that wouldn't be so bad".

How do I respond to his text if I'm kind of on the fence about this shit? He definitely fits the category of the kind of guy I'd consider putting it in, but I don't know if I can actually go through with it, or what he actually wants.
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>read up to "told me he was gay"
Ok fair enough, I'll keep reading
>read up to "playing Pokemon Go"
Absolutely disgusting, abort.

Seriously though either date him or not but make it clear if you are into him or not. Also, he sounds like a cool guy but if you get involved with him and decide you don't like guys it may be awkward between you two (in class, with assigned groups). You have to make a choice.
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>>17383538
>Absolutely disgusting, abort.

Yeah, I don't like it that much, I just started playing with him and I uninstalled it after discovering niantic is owned and run by someone who used to sell out to nsa/cia constantly, and also launched a satellite for them.

Anyways, yeah he is pretty cool. I wish I could know how it'd be like being with dudes without actually having to try and be with a dude, so I don't end up fucking with him unintentionally.

Maybe I should tell him I'm sort of curious but unsure?
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>>17383550
Just have sex with him and find out. make sure he's clean. You don't want HIV.

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So I most likely will hang out with two girls this Sunday. One of them is taken, the other is single.

The single is def a cutie. But I feel I may be stepping on frontlines here. In other words, what am I getting myself into?

Will this be the usual universal rule of two women sticking to each other like glue, unwilling to latch themselves off from one another even if a single man is available? Or will they concoct a devious plan and essentially "play hard to get" level: Mastery?

Tell me...
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>Hello, I'm someone you've never met! Please help me guess what two people you've never met and have zero details about will do in the future.
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you're gonna sperg all over the place. stay home, masturbate, play vidya, and then go to bed
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>>17383501
Why would you need that much detail? I'm talking about a general idea of what two girls would do in a social setting. Three is different, they wont feel so bad, so if one leaves, there are still two. But what about two women?

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I met this guy online three yeara ago. The moment i started talking to him, i developed a crush on him.
Until this day, i still have a crush on him.
In 2014 we became closer and had been exchanging i love yous.
Were not in a relationship and we dont have a label or anything but the way we are to each other just makes it feel like we are, like we are a couple. Some of my friends even mistook us that were dating.
He isn't like those sick perverted guys you usually meet on the internet. He's a decent man.
It just kinda frustrates me sometimes because im at an age where you want to experience to have a romantic relationship and all and if i ever wanna have a bf i wanr ir to be him cause he's honestly the only one that i want.
And even when he feels the same for me (h admitted to it) he still clearly does not want to try things out you know. He didn't tell me but i can feel it.
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YOU HAVE TO SUCK... his fucking COCK! Cooooocccckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
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You haven't really asked for advice, here, but I'll give you some.
You never want to be dating someone you met on the internet, especially if you've never even met him.
It sounds as though you're quite young; you absolutely don't want to be getting hung up on someone like this, when you should be having fun with real people.
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>>17383450
Not OP, but I met a guy online a couple years ago and we have exchanged "love you"s and talk like we're a couple. Should I suck his?

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I am currently still in school and going into higher education and i do not know which kind of major i should really take. I am guessing any kind of job which you can do alone mostly would be fine. Bonus points for jobs that you can even do at home.
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Pretty much doesn't exist. You could do well being a freelance graphic designer/freelance Web developer but it's a long road of working in studios before you work a client base big enough to go out on your own. Also these industries kinda make you stagnate if you work alone.
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Software engineer, or really any kind of computer programming.
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Writing jobs can be done alone and online.

Accounting is typically solo work, but you'll still have to interact with people on occasion

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ok guys

I like this girl, but she's weird as fuck.

>never uses her phone, maybe writes only 1-2 times a day
>never says anything
>unless it's during school where teacher asks a question she's the first to answer
>is really fucking intelligent, had the 2nd best grades in our year
>apparently has absolutely no self-confidence as far as I can tell

Everytime I wanted to ask her out, someone got in my way. Like I wanted to ask her out once during a get-together of our class before finals, and we were alone for 5 minutes, as I wanted to ask her I hear her friend yell her name. She had 2 friends who were orbiting her like two furious fucking moons, I never had the chance to ask her out.

Fast forward after finals, I just decided that I need to go from 0 to 100 because apparently, this woman is autstic and won't understand unless I make it completely clear that I like her.

I've approached this girl on WA multiple times and just asked straight up if she wants to go out with me, but everytime she was already out with friends (which I've confirmed, since she was out with our classmates mostly), I've asked her again, and so far it looks like a positive, I'm still waiting on a definitive answer though.

I am asking you guys however, was it the right choice to just go full force? Honestly this woman is probably the most unusual in her behaviour, all of my prior experience just doesn't apply here.

tl;dr
how do I into a relationship with a weirdo
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>>17383340
Good on you for displaying confidence but it sounds like she's just not interested in you. You've made the move on more than one occasion and she's chosen her friends over you.

Time to move on.
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>>17383381
I'm definetly moving on if she gives me another negative

I even messaged her "listen just fucking say no if you don't want to" once, she literally apologized for not answering and explained herself

so either
A: she's a manipulating psychopath playing with my feelings
B: she's actually busy

you see these occasions were some special ones, for example she went to an Europapark with them, she'd have to be mad in love to call off one of her last occasions with people she knew for 3 years just for me

she even said yes once, but then our teacher called us on the for a get-together, on the very day we were supposed to have a fucking date, it's like somethings telling me "you can fuck right off anon"

then she went back to a vacation with her father, and came back yesterday

thanks for replying though, if it doesn't work this time I'm surely doing the next try like this again, women are just too much trouble
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>>17383420
>listen just fucking say no if you don't want to
Kek

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2 weeks ago a girl i met took me home from the bar and i was so drunk i couldnt get hard, but i didnt want her to know. So i ate her out, left my clothes on and I was super drunk and almost fell asleep while cuddling. Then she told me i should go. Since then she hasn't messaged me back.. I sent 2 messages but nothing,. Should I send one final one to apologize? I get she probably doesnt want to see me again and thats okay, but it might be weird if we see eachother at the bar again. what if her guy friends try to beat me up for some reason? I do feel really bad about letting her down.. it sucks because Im really good at sex and disappointed her
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>>17383330
It'll be more wired if you apologise.

She took you back to hers for a one night fling, that is all. Regardless if you could or couldn't get up. All she only wanted you for was that one night.
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>>17383330
nah man, forget about her completely. she has no interest, you were a one night stand for her
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What's wrong with eating girls out now?

Dear christ, you guys are super insecure, no wonder you get all kinds of erection problems.

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My 8 year old nephew just said "You're never gonna have a wife" while I was coddling his baby brother.
I doesn't bother me THAT much, but it made me apparently it did so enough to make a thread about it here.

When my parents and my sister tried to scold him, I pretended to not let it bother me and say, "forget about it, don't make a deal out of it."

I'm sure I'll be fine, but it's certainly on my mind at the moment.

How should I go about this.

pic unrelated
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Was that because you have a virgin-looking face or what?
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>>17383333
I may or may not.
I'm not going to post my picture on here.
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>>17383329
Your nephew might be bullied at school. Someone at some point told him he'd never have a girlfriend/wife so he's using that against you. Why he chose to use that against you, I don't know. You may just come off as a beta male (even to 8 year olds).

Something to think about and maybe try to remedy to improve yourself and maybe help your 8 yo nephew as well.

Hi everyone landed myself in a really bad position. the short of it is that I lost my job and have no money to pay rent with. I also have begun worsening my emotional problems despite being on medication. I used to play video games with friends, I went clubbing and drinking with people I met locally. now I feel nothing I don't react to going hungry and have done very little to save myself, now I need 500 in a week's time or I will be evicted. money is going to change my situation, and I have enough sorry's to last a lifetime. I ask if there is anything left the world can say, any last chance solution to my problem or am I going to die before I get evicted? thank you for your consideration and comments
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I'm sorry to hear that OP.
Let me start by sharing my own little river of cries
>32
>been registered homeless for 4 years
>business in fine art
>sleeping at my business venue most nights last 3,5 years
>my business has no revenue
>owe several years of rent

Plenty to see yet OP. It's not over. You can take a couple of rough years for the sake of telling your grandchildren a better story. Just be creative.
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>I used to play video games with friends, I went clubbing and drinking with people I met locally

congrats?

do you have parents or anything? killing yourself is not the solution to getting evicted, my friend. Unless there is more you are not telling us about.
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>>17383286

what's your business anyways? Are you a starving artist?

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Is it a good idea to accept a job offer when depressed?

I've been suffering from a pretty bad major depressive episode for about 11 months straight, it made it very difficult to get anything done at my last job, which led to me being fired (and thus more depressed). I'm in therapy right now, but I can barely afford it and even with the job I was offered I would still be in the red every month but not by that much.

Is it worth it?
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it'll give you a reason to get out of bed every morning, occupy your mind. by all means, go for it.
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Do you think you can handle the job?
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This was quite literally what lost my last job since the medication negatively impacted my hours I could work, and in the end I ended up burning a friends reference and lost an amazing spot at McDonald's.

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> Be me
> Norwegian
> During may this year
> Girl enter inside apartment steal tv and phone
> She tell me if i grab her i'll be rape her
> She get away with all
> Until here
> I told police and so report the woman
> Woman arrested
> Woman's family despise me

How do improve relations with the women family? I hat conflict, and do no wan't fight or kill. Pic no relation.
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Why the fuck would you want to improve your relationship with the thief's family? Bitch stole you
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/pol/ is wrong: Norwegians are the true Scandinavian cucks
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>>17383214
>be descended from some of the most feared people history
>used to make blood sacrifices to gods of old
>used to explore for the sake of exploration
>used to kill for the sake of killing
>if somebody wronged you, it was paid back in blood or money
>watch them turn into fucking cucks
>watch them turn their backs on the old ways
>watch them turn into some of the weakest and most pathetic nations on earth

I used to want to go to the place my greatgrandparents were from.

Not anymore.

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Is there any forums on this internet with true good intelligent psychologists?

I've been talking to the most intelligent psychologist I know but it just keeps convincing me that what I know and how I think makes it so I will never truly enjoy life unless I'm mind controlled and made delusional so I don't know the problem exists and just ignore it. Like Not caring about people being ruined. Basically telling me that I have to make the scenario worse to be happy.

Like killing the only good in the universe.
I try to find help with a scenario I was born into. If I ignore the scenario then the bad situation just gets worse as people go on with existence not addressing the problem. It's like A scenario where by everyone doing nothing about it they're telling me to just accept it and keep being made a fool of to those with no morality and an inability to comprehend they're ruining themselves and everyone.

I feel like when others are trying to tell me that I'm wrong, delusional etc. that they don't understand what pieces of shit they are and will forever be as they're basically telling me to just keep being a victim.

I'm being molested and have been since I was born.

: to harm (someone) through sexual contact : to touch (someone) in a sexual and improper way
: to bother or annoy (ruin) someone or something)

It's like people and reality enjoy molesting us and get amusement from the process.
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>>17383101
Battle network megaman is the only good megaman.
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>>17383107
>>17383107
You're acting like a faggot soul and as such seem offensive to the concept of desirable life. When a man tries to find help with a serious problem and all he gets are creep guys trying to mount is manhood and paint it with their stupid shit it's kind of irritating.

Acting that way is like trying to make something cruel and evil seem funny.

This species is a part of a problem and when you act like that you're only making things worse for everyone.

The design of our language and maps are not good.

I would like to ask you and those like you to not keep making the problems this species is facing worse. If you're doing so on purpose then you have a seriously deranged sense of morality which is detrimental to all life on this planet. As such it would greatly contribute to existence if you'd realize such and stop interacting with others.

If you're not aware then, then may I suggest to start thinking about the concept of good/desirable. Because In a way you're kind of saying that you only want friends and companions with really stupid people that don't care that being with someone like you makes them disgusting to all that is good in the universe. It's like saying that youre the type of person that won't help people understand things about reality and just want to receive a form of pleasure from trying to ruin/molest them.
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>>17383188
I'm sure he'll have a sudden epiphany now that you gave him a (you) that big. I mean it's now like he doesn't care about what you have to say about his way of life.

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Hello

>22
>From Murica
>Went to Japan for 3 weeks alone about 4 months ago
>Was pretty awesome, had a good time, met a lot of people, and my Japanese improved quite a bit
>In that 3 weeks I was all over the country
>Met a Japanese girl in Osaka at a gaming cafe thing
>We ended up spending a lot of time together, she spoke really good english, better than my japanese
>Went sightseeing together and did all kinds of shit
>We ended up making out on my last day in Japan before I left for airport
>That was 4 months ago
>We have stayed in contact since
>She called me today and said she wanted to come to the states to see me, so we could spend time together and that she was planning on buying a ticket within the next few weeks

I haven't seriously been with a girl since I was 20, so I'm quite out of practice. But even then, our cultures are extremely different. Is she thinking of trying to start something between us or something else? On the day I left Japan, she was glued to me, and I had to pry her off me when we kissed in order to make my flight.

She recently asked me if I just thought of her as a goodbye kiss or if I actually liked her as something more. I told her that I actually really liked her, and I enjoyed all the time we spent together.

But she lives in Japan, and I'm in the states. Should I let her come, and maybe develop an actual relationship, or should I put the brakes on? This will either end with her coming to the states more often, or me going to Japan. Though her family is absolutely rich as fuck, even by American standards.

I don't know bros I'm sort of conflicted about this. Do I say fuck it and go forward with this and obtain qt japanese grillfriend, or do I put the brakes on?
;
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>>17383078
this is the opposite of a problem
why are you conflicted?
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>>17383086
Culture differences. Thousands of miles apart. LDRS blow, and the only way it wouldn't is if one of us moved, and that wouldn't even be long term unless we married lmfao.
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>>17383099
Light Dependant Resistors blow?
anyway
I think you should carpe diem

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>have ocd
>go jogging to help myself mentally with this
>it was drizzling a bit with rain before I went so I thought no biggy
>torrential rain break out of no where
>feels like buckets of water are being thrown at me
>keep going anyway
>get to a main road where I run a long side of it
>notice a horrendous smell that I've smelled before
>raw sewege
>the drains couldn't take it
>there is raw sewege on the roads but also on the sidewalk where I am running
>manage to avoid it mostly on the side walk
>while doing this I wasn't paying attention to the road
>big ass jeep drives by and splashes it all over me
>big wave of it goes straight into my face
>get a mouth full of it and it goes into my eyes
>I instantly start throwing up everywhere

Just spent about two hours in the shower screaming, I still don't feel clean, the mental torture I am experiencing right now is excruciating. Fuck.

I spoke to a nurse on the phone to ask what to do, she said that I'll be fine but somehow I don't believe her, yes I'm asking for a second opinion here, help me.
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Go to a hospital instead of spending two hours screaming in the shower you dumb shit eater.
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You're most likely fine, if any symptoms appear over the next week then contact a doctor.
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>>17383071
But I'd feel guilty blocking up an already busy service, on top of having to wait 5 hours It isn't as simple as that.

>>17383095
Thanks man, I was told because I threw up that I most likely avoided any problems, still worries you ya know but it's like if I went to the hospital, could they even do anything without me displaying symtoms?

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Why don't women find me attractive? I've been single since January and I'm going through quite a dry season. I'm 27, I'm college educated, and I've been told I'm charismatic, confident, and witty. I do smoke cigarettes and I'm overweight, but I'm not bad looking am I?

>inb4 balding - my hairline has always looked like that, when I was a kid I looked like fucking eddy munster
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Is that you in the picture? If so, I can relate to a good portion of this.

The truth is most people have a type - for a lot of girls it's based on what's trendy, and that happens to be thin hipster guys, not to bring up the Manlet meme either but I'm 5'5" and while it's not as big a deal as the Internet would have you think, it does make a difference for your impression. Just keep at it, there are people in far worse situations who have much less to work with.
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>>17383001
You seem pretty fat.
You're not bad looking, I really like your face, but honestly being overweight is a huge turn off for most people.
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>>17383001
>I'm overweight
Other than that, you're not bad looking but no one wants to train their arse off and have a slob for a bf/gf

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