How do you stop being jealous? I look at other girls, and she looks at other guys. How could I possibly get upset at her when I instinctively do the same thing?
Love is stupid as fuck.
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By building up your self-confidence. If you truly believe you're the shit then nothing affects you, your ego is an unbreakable steel wall. Insults bounce off of you, criticism is taken well, your ideas translate into action...and you don't feel jealous.
Listen there is only one underlying reason why you would feel jealous in a romantic context: you don't want your girl taken away from you. See her laughing and having fun with a male friend, passing by an obviously attractive guy and looking at her to see if her eyes are looking at him and they are, ...the bottom line is you're afraid she might be happier with someone else and leave. Because you don't think you're the shit.
Logically you know you're being hypocritical. You look at other girls and she looks at other guys. You could catch her flirting with the cashier and get mad but you might not realize you do the same shit with the opposite sex all the time. Most flirting is subconscious.
You need to get in control of your emotions and to do that you need to build your self-confidence. Honestly there's no one guaranteed way, you just have to keep thinking about the reality of the situation, how you will react no matter the outcome, and truly internalize the idea of being okay no matter what.
Your girl is dating you for a reason. If she wanted to leave she could have, but she hasn't. Own it. Also realize that nothing good lasts forever, but it's up to you to make it last as long as possible.
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Do you think talking to a therapist online (via skype or something) is as good as seeing one in person?
I have a lot of issues with anxiety and depression currently, but I really need to work on my anger issues the most. My anger is making me miserable and I'm afraid I might seriously hurt somebody one day.
I know I have to get therapy and work this out, but I live in a small town where there aren't many therapists and they're all pretty expensive. So I'm thinking about looking into online therapy. Good idea? Anybody have any experience or recommendations of websites to go to for something like this?
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Try it, look within your budget.
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>>17370163
Online will never be as good as f2f, but it can still help a great deal if you're honest and humble. Go for it.
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I'm interested as well. I'm mostly self conscious and don't want to be seen going to therapy.
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Me and this girl have been taking for a while now. And just this passed week we confessed our feelings for each other. But she says she would have to talk to her dad, and that her dad is scary with this type of stuff. She also said she already talk to her mom, but I'm doubting that because wouldn't a mother bring that to the fathers attention that their daughter likes a guy? I'm 17 about to turn 18, and I haven't really been lucky relationships. I'm just wondering what I should do about the whole situation. Since idk the average time it takes for a girl to build up nerve to talk to her dad about dating someone. Its been close to two weeks since she said she'll talk to him, and I'm about to start community college(while working) and she about to go into her sophomore year of high school. We are running out of time to get to hangout for long periods of time
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Explain the urgency of your situation to her.
For future reference, don't mention your age here unless you are eighteen.
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to quit being perverted and watching porn and reading hentai, is it healthier to try and masturbate just to a face? will it make me less kinky and cure erectyle dysfunction?
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Cut it cold turkey for the best gains.
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Second this. Start deleting shit and even putting locks on websites you visit often and then try to get occupied with something else.
Like with drugs, the brain tries to find better stimulants to get the same high that you got with regular porn through other, less common porn and before you know it you're masterbating and fantasizing over something you might have said was gross at one point or you get in a position that you didn't think getting into was possible.
For example, I started looking at trap porn and other "not-normal" porn to get the same amount of stimulation that I got from just looking at a regular couple or even simply a naked female. I suddenly stopped to get away from my addiction and then found myself only wanting to get turned on by a woman and only a woman and not men looking like women and Hentai women and crap.
It's different for everybody though, so while doing cold turkey also don't be afraid to realize your true sexual identity through this potential sexual meditation.
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Who says you have to jack off?
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Help adv I feel terrible. I am applying for jobs, got an interview for a place I'd really like to work. Passed three roubds to get the final interview and did really well. This is where I screwed up though. HR had emailed me the night of my last interview stating they had chosen me as their final candidate and that I just need to pass administration in the company anymore, but I didnt notice the email. I usually check every day, but the next day was unusual: my grandparents were visiting for the whole day and I had a migraine in the evening. I had been previously contacted via phone call so I was waiting for a call, not expecting an email. Well... I answered the email after a day and a half but I'm worried it gave the wrong impression of not being interested in the position or of laziness of not checking my email. What should I do? Would it be ok to call HR and explain? I answered the email on Friday and havent gotten a reply since.
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>>17370123
Go there in person and explain.
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Lexapro Withdrawal (Cold Turkey): Dizzy And Lightheaded 2016-07-18 23:28:26 Post No.17370121
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Lexapro Withdrawal (Cold Turkey): Dizzy And Lightheaded
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So, hello.
I've been on Lexapro for about 4-5 months because i've had depression, severe anxiety and panic attacks. My psychiatrist prescribed it for me.
I was in the dosage of 10mg, when i suddenly forgot to take it one day. I was thinking about going off it, so i didn't took it anymore. it has 4 days and i felt nothing wrong.
However yesterday, 5 days after i stopped, during the night (When i sit in my computer to play some games and browse 4chan), i've started to feel extremely dizzy and lightheaded.
This didn't happened today during the day. However, as soon as i came back from the street (I was riding a bike and eating with some friends), i've started to feel it again, even worse than before.
>I'm almost passing out, and I notice a delay or a bad feeling when I turn my head (As if I lost my balance), I feel like I lost the strength of some muscles when i try to move them. My eyes also burn.
I think I'm sleeping normally. As i'm on vacation from my university, i'm sleeping at 1am and i wake up at like 10am, and i stay in the bed for a bit before starting my day.
Can this be related to lexapro or i shouldn't worry at all?
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It's easily possible. Drugs like that take a long time to build up in your system and a long time to get out. That's why they suggest you tell your doctor before stopping.
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>Can this be related to lexapro or i shouldn't worry at all?
Don't get medical advice from 4chan. Go see your doctor.
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Last few weeks have been really rough, I'm in med school and my gf of 8 years is in Air force boot camp. I was getting letters regularly from her but now its been 3weeks since my last letter, what gives? We plan on gettung married after my school and her 2 years. How do I keep myself positive?
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>>17370098
Assume there was an inconvenience and write something back.
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Whats your happy place, anon? 2016-07-18 23:15:10 Post No.17370092
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Whats your happy place, anon?
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>On the way to my dad's house there is this road
>about 2 mile stretch, practically unused so great roads
>any time something is wrong, I take 10 minutes to drive there and just see how fast I can go
>Police have seen me do this but haven't done anything yet
>Started thinking they realize I do this to cope with stress
>But I cant tell anyone about this road
>I would an hero if I wouldn't be able to do this anymore
>Because no matter how much goes wrong in my life
>No matter haw many people play with my feelings
>No matter how many times I fuck up
>No matter how many times my car doesn't work when I want it to
>When I'm on that road
>It works when I need it to
Whats your happy place, anon?
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Getting piss drunk with my friends and having the best banter together :)
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When she is next to me. The root of all my problems and sadness, is ironically the cure to them all.
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I have a habit of lying to my fiancee, and now she wants to finally be done if I can't give her a reason to stay. Sorry if I can't express too much right now, but I feel like I'm falling into a million pieces. We wanted to have a family together, we were so in love, but now I've gone and fucked it all up over things that weren't worth it.
I want to change, and I want to never ever tell another lie so I can just be with her forever. But she won't believe me because she's lost all trust. I don't know what to do. If she leaves, I'm going to be such a wreck, and I want to treat her better and not take her for granted.
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She'll leave. But if she loves you she'll think about how much you love each others and come back. It happened to me, if she really loves you she can trust you again. But you have to give her some time.
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please /adv/ how do i maintain my sleep schedule? for the past 6 years I have never woken up at the same time. I woke up at 5 and will try to sleep at 9 (16 hours) how do i absolutely keep it that way (give or take a few hours)? i'm 19
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Alarm clock or force yourselg to get up. Do it for 3weeks straight and youul be good
Wine helps induce sleep too
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Which is more sad? Paying an escort for sex, or paying her to listen to you talk about your problems and pretend to be your friend for a bit?
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Why not do both?
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>Which is more sad? Paying an escort for sex, or paying her to listen to you talk about your problems and pretend to be your friend for a bit?
Good escorts do both within the hour.
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restarting dating w girl?! 2016-07-18 21:36:38 Post No.17369842
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restarting dating w girl?!
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Ok guys I need some adv to see if it's still possible to restart this relationship/dating.
>month and a half ago
>slide in DMs
>smoking fucking hot
>go on 4-5 dates
>super strict mom, no more dates at night (she's 17)
>she's very timid, even after moves are made
>no kiss
>no chemistry
>feel bored by her
>abandon ship and tell her I'm not interested
>ended it in a sort of dickish way, but the most straight forward way
>In the back of my head I feel like I'm going to regret this when summer comes
>those instagram summer selfies start rolling in
>try to hit her up yesterday
>Hey! (:
>Her: Hey, what's up?
>How've you been?
>noreply.png
Fuck. I feel like a thirsty sex hound whenever I see her photos. I haven't had any other women since we dated and now I'm regretting leaving her behind hardcore. Is it possible to restart our relationship?
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you are thirsty dude
and you found a girl you particularly wanted to fuck
she sounds really difficult, posting Instagram selfies but not even being a cock demon
find one you are equally attracted to who doesn't spend the shit out of you
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I fucked your mom and she gave me the clap! What do I do now?
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Get fucked by my dad to complete the circle
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Start chan directly in /b/
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I feel like a monster, i've seen so much things in a really poor time.
I expected, i found, but i stayed, it was sort of fascinating, but now i feel like a syndrom has taken some part of my soul. Like a numeric ghoul.
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The fascination passed after a while of watching and not actually participating in the jackoffery.
A tow truck driver from AAA massively scraped/took chunks out of my front bumper in a few different places. Has anyone had anything like this happen and can i expect them to fully fix it?
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I'd wouldn't be surprised if they have some clause that covers them from damage caused by towing at your request.