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New comer here /adv/
So, I work with this girl that is 15 years older than me, i am 20, and she is 35. She is pretty damn cute, and is pretty cool. Ive been working here for alittle over a year now, and we've hit it off quite well from the beginning.
We've hung out a few times, and she always does sexual innuendo shit with me, lots of those kinds of jokes, and asking me for opinions on her figure sometimes. and a couple times shes mentioned that she would destroy me, if we were to have sex. I dont know if it was a joke or what. She is also adamant about not letting co-workers into her personal life, but I was the exception to everyone else it seems, as i have her number, facebook, and well ive been over her house and we hung out as ive said.
We haven't done any sexy times yet, but I want to, naturally. What do you guys think? Might she be interested in me like that? I know the age gap is a bit steep, but hey, im good looking, and legal, so no harm i think.
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>>17370789
You were the exception, that was your cue.
Age is only a number in your case.
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try it out, if you don't like it don't do it again.
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Just found out a cousin is using and doent seem to have any interest in getting help. What next. He sleeps half the day and then tries to hit up his family for money. any advise
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>>17370737
>Boring af thread
>Dat get tho
It's like a fuckin melody...
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How do I figure out what I want to do with my life?
I just graduated from college recently with a BS in marketing communications (yes, really) and I need to start applying for career jobs. All throughout college I worked 25-30 hour weeks at random jobs (waiter, barista, etc), and I have some relevant marketing experience as well. My resume looks good.
But I don't know if I actually want to do anything marketing related? I always thought I wanted to work in an ad agency, but recently I've been having massive panic attacks daily and all of a sudden I feel immense doubt. Like perhaps this isn't the right course of action for me. I'm most likely going to move back to my dad's place in a month or so, work more part-time shit until I find more stable employment.
How do I figure out what to do during that time? I love animals, should I try pursuing something related to that? What sort of jobs does that even include? Please help me, I feel so confused and lost.
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I have been applying to ad agencies in NYC, for the record. I've even had two interviews, although one has chosen another candidate and the other hasn't gotten back to me.
I want/wanted to work in the accounts department, because as I understand it that job involves being a people person, and I've always felt very good at that. I love talking to people, meeting new people, and generally people tell me that I'm charming/funny. But honestly I think that's the only thing I'm good at. I could not name any other skills/talents I have outside of that. I'm not good particularly good at science or math, I am decently tech savvy (built my own gaming pc, but that's not super hard)
How do I turn "charming and likable" into a job? How do I even search for that kind of a thing? A friend of mine recommended I look into working in HR somewhere.
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C'mon /adv/ I need some help here. What am I supposed to do?
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>>17370751
Look up job interview strategies. Make ads for your local vet or park or something.
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Clinginess and fairness 2016-07-19 02:31:42 Post No.17370711
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I recently get to know a girl I used to work with at my last job that I was fired from a couples of weeks ago.
Long story short, she's really clingy, we initially started talking just because she managed to get my number from some coworker and that's why we even started talking to begin with, within a few lines of texting she already was telling me that she found me really cute and want to had something with me.
At the beginning I was really trying to avoid her advances telling her stuff like that I wasn't interested or didn't have the time, but she kept insisting.
Don't get me wrong, is not like I don't find her attractive or anything, she's really cute and under other circumstances I'd be all over her, but she being so forward towards me just pushed me back.
Anyway, since I was fired from my job, I now I had a lot of free time and decided to give her a chance to see how it all could turn out.
this was last week, and so far we have only talked through skype and have never met irl. However we are planning on going on a date next wednesday (going to a swimming pool) and we were both clear that we were interested in being more physical (kisses, huges, petting, etc) with each other.
The thing is that, since she's way too clingy, she texts me all day long with nothing to say and I'm always the one that fuels the convos and it's really tiring and suffocating.
I just had a conversation with her and made clear that I wasn't interested in something serious at the moment but however I was still willing to meet her on wednesday if she wanted to and she obliged.
My real question here is, it would be morally wrong to satisfy my needs with this girl even if I don't want a relationship with her? I already made it clear that I dont want anything official but I also feel that I'm taking advantage of her hopes of me offering a relationship in exchange..
or Should I just cut contact completely?
she's a really nice girl and I don't want to hurt her..
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needless to say that I'm your average 4chan loser.
Me 26M, she 21M.
Haven't had sex or a relationship since 2008, that's why I'm kind of desperate since the chance of a guy like me getting attention from a girl like her are almost nonexistent.
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Alright, forgive the vagueness.
Basically a friend of mine told me something personal and said not to tell anyone else in a specific circle of friends. However I have found out they had already told someone in said circle of friends.
So why make out like I'm the only person who knows? Makes me wonder how many other people they have told and made out like they are the only one. Not even sure how to feel. Kind of angry? The thing in question was supposedly a big deal to them and we agreed to never mention it again (it's nothing neegative/trauma like), so I felt like a really close friend. Now I'm just wondering if this is a game they play to lead people on.
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>>17370710
>found out they had already told
Who are they?
People have done this to me, and it's probably a test. I started distrusting who did this though.
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>>17370710
its a drama scheme "hey dont tell anyone i told you this but". they actually dont give a fuck who you tell and probably dont want to look like a snitch. my ex used to do that.
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>>17370731
They as in the person who told me the secret. Was just being unspecific here as to the gender in case they read this board
>>17370779
You're misunderstanding. Basically it's like this.
John fucked his sister. He says, "hey anon, I fucked my sister, but don't tell anyone about this, I'm trusting you as my friend. Also we'll never talk about this again. I then later find out that Daniel, another friend of ours, knows about this and that John probably had the exact same conversation with Daniel.
(This situation was made up to try and convey the point)
So why tell me and act like I'm the only person who they would tell this to and that I should tell nobody, if they have already told someone else.
Yo here's something a bit less depressing as a change on this board.
I'm thinking about starting up a podcast/radio hybrid. It'd be downloaded like a podcast, but have the format of radio in which I would speak about things and then play some music. I would edit it all together using either audacity or something less amateur-like.
This is something I'm doing for fun for myself to work on my speaking and it's a creative outlet, probably won't even put it out on the internet for anyone but a couple of close friends.
Now a couple of questions regarding this is as follows:
First of all, the microphone I'm currently using is an AT2020, the USB+ version. Haven't had it for very long and I've got until next month to return it in case I wasn't happy with it, so I'm wondering how well suited it is, if anyone is familliar with it. I'm pretty pleased with it so far though.
2. Any good examples of what to think of? Such as how long i should speak between the songs. Trying to get the whole thing to about an hour, so having real radio shows as a blueprint of sorts could help.
3. What sort of theme could work? I'm thinking a "late-night" vibe.
Any advice would be helpful really when it comes to audio editing.
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>>17370705
The only advice I can give you is do the kind of show you want to listen to, not what you think people want.
It'll come off way better like that.
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What's the best way to deal with cognitive dissonance?
For example, holding onto to the hope that something might happen, but at the same time realizing that you know it will never happen and wanting to put it behind you because it's taking over your life and stopping you from being productive and doing other things
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>>17370698
nothings wrong wth a little motivation to get where you want to be. theres a positive side and negative side to everything. for example im dumb as fuck but im still trying to geti nto a universtiy.
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>>17370702
not really the answer I need but I appreciate the insight anon
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Is there anyone else here who was a very insecure, emotional/depressed teenager, but who grew into an extremely stoic, unemotional, and content adult?
I remember being a teenager and always having something to feel unhappy or depressed about. It's not that my life is that much better (in fact, my problems as a teenager were pretty irrelevant.) It's more like nothing really gets me down, and I tend to feel pretty content with life regardless of the circumstances for the most part.
It seems like so many people in my social circle are overlyemotional and prone to blowing everything out of proportion. When I see someone complaining about their feelings or how they think they're inadequate or whatever, it's hard for me to sympathize with them. Just seems like they're making a big deal out of nothing.
Am I right here or am I just a cold-hearted and uncaring piece or shit?
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>>17370679
Worry about your personal issues before others,
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Exactly. As of now its strange to know that we are called 2 sided freaks.... I get out much and i listen things...
Once i come to these momments. I realize im just stuck behind my past...or should i say " i had no experience ".....
Right now in living with some fukers and my mother. Theyre ok but they tend to be more younger than me....
Anyways
Experience is wealth than those take them
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What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
However, it could also be said that you lived vicariously through your colleagues that appeared to be overly dramatic. You were on the sidelines while they were living life.
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Alright I'll try to keep this one short and sweet.
I started talking to a girl about two months ago. She seemed a little too dramatic for my tastes, but she was hot enough to let it pass, and she seemed smart and funny. Plus, she had an overactive sex drive, at least as far as I could tell. She would constantly message me in the evening about wanting me to come over, and sometimes I did, but nothing ever happened. She'd want to have sex, but I said no, keeping it to making out and the like. Plus, I usually could get my dick sucked anyways, so I wasn't about to complain.
(The only reason I wouldn't do it with her is that she insisted on raw-dogging it and that she was on the pill; I believed her as much as the general public believed bill Clinton when he said he didn't get a bj from Monica.)
Anyways, last week we ended up fucking, after her finally convincing me when we agreed to use a condom. The sex was horrible; she came in less than a minute and she couldn't make me come at all. I still stayed the night, pretended everything was alright until the morning when I left. I stopped texting her at this point because I didn't want to deal with her drama or her in general.
However, she decided to keep texting and snapping me despite me not replying. This was ignorable, up until the point she sent a snap of her and her ex after fucking. I ignored it, but it hurt more than it should have.
Now she's still bothering me sending me I miss you texts and the usually bs.
I don't believe her for one second, but I want some help anons; what should I do? Should I just straight block her? Find a way to get back at her anonymously?
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>>17370675
She's crazy, move on. Also, if you remotely are trying to "get back" at her, you too are crazy. Be a bigger person, and let that shit go. Don't cross the crazy line.
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>>17370675
So you were straight-up ignoring her because you had no interest in being with her. And yet you still got jealous and offended by a picture of her with another dude. And now you want to "get back at her?"
Make up your mind, dude. Either you're interested or you're not. If you're not, remove yourself from her life. If you are, find a more mature way to express it than getting "revenge"
When you look someone in the eyes, which of their eyes do you tend to look at? Personally, I tend to look into people's right eye whereas many folks I've asked tend to look into people's left eyes.
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I switch between the 2. But i also feel uncomfortable looking people in the eye for too long
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I live in a pretty shit household where the middle child, also known as the black sheep of the family, is pampered to the max. Has no responsibilities whatsoever, constantly goes to extreme lengths to get attention (has dropped to floor and cried in several stores if he doesn't get what he wants (keep in mind this kid is about to hit high school)) nobody and I mean nobody likes him in school/neighborhood/whatever, is seeing a civil court case about a fight he started with some kid and police got involved several times. Yada yada you guys get the gist. Shit kid. The thing is our parents don't do shit to discipline him at all only because he has some problem or whatever with his legs. They let him roam around doing whatever he pleases 24/7 and I see it as my role to discipline the shit. I have another brother with autism and (let's call him shitfuck) shitfuck bullies him whenever they get too close; tripping him, stepping on the kid, etc. and does the same to his sister so as the only adult who actually cares about what's happening I give him the same exact treatment he gives to them but only if he starts shit. I don't care if it's directed towards me but I can't stand seeing it to others. Still my parents got his back 24/7 and bullshit ways why they won't do anything to shitfuck at all. "We aren't defending him at all" they say all the time and he constantly lies saying I hit him when I'm out with friends or literally on the other side of the house and they believe him and go out of their way to beat the shit outta me. I'm 18 and want to help out my sister and other brother out because they're always getting shit from him but I can't do much because I'm scared of getting kicked out and I don't really have anyone that will let me stay with them even for a night. Any advice please I really don't know what to do..
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>>17370616
Get you and your siblings to explain this to your parents together.
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Anyone got any experience beating internet addiction? I've got a lot going for me if only I could get away from this fucking screen
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>>17370615
Just think about all of the things you could accomplish if you spent less time on the internet. Pretty much everything you do on the internet like going on 4chan wont change your life forever, but the things you do outside of the internet will change your life the most (Doing good in school, going to college, getting a good job). I know it wont be easy, but try cutting the amount of time you use the computer by a little bit every week and eventually you might be able to just let go of the computer whenever you feel like it. Also, try finding a hobby you enjoy like playing an instrument or writing and drawing. Anyways, good luck on all of that.
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>>17370615
Find something better worth your time.
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>>17370615
What kind of area do you live? You could just pick a direction and walk until you're too tired to walk anymore, then get an Uber back. It's actually pretty fun.
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How to be homeless as a high school student 2016-07-19 01:50:46 Post No.17370582
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How to be homeless as a high school student
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Hey /adv/, soon to be homeless person here.
Basically I cannot live with my father anymore. He says he's gonna kick me out and I'm leaving in three months even if he doesn't go through with it.
I have a job and should have ~3000 dollars by the time I leave. So I have time to prepare and some money to throw around.
Even though I will be homeless I will be finishing my schooling no matter what. I also hope to hold down a part time job over the school year.
I know it is possible for the savvy and well informed to survive well without a roof. What I'm asking for is whatever advice you can give me on living a homeless lifestyle indefinitely.
Thanks in advance.
Pic related somewhat I guess.
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What year of Hs will you be entering
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>>17370600
My final year
So I'm a guy and I'm really into this other guy. We've been friends for about 5 or 6 years now and he knows I like him. He's also gay, but he never really said anything regarding me confessing to him. I still like him a lot, how do I go about bringing it up? Or is it a lost cause?
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So you told him how you felt, directly? And he didn't respond?
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>>17370627
I told him how I felt and then he didn't talk to me for a while. When we started talking again, he said he just had to focus on college that he was sorry he didn't respond for a long time and missed me. Nothing really about how he felt
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So I was playing my xbox 360 and my mother accidentally kicked it, and it made a grinding sound. It played fine, and I shut it off. Now it won't turn back on. Any ideas on how to fix?
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Reset with neodymium block rubbing over all sides