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ITT: Questions that dont need their own thread.
Simple questions that dont need their own thread.
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Did he think we were gonna go on a date?
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>>17405527
Oh god, the cringe.
He wanted it to be a date. You made it obvious that it wouldn't be one, which is more than most women would do.
Tell us details about the "friend hangout" and how he got invited.
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I'm writing an essay on punk rock and I'm totally blanking on an academically appropriate term for 'fuck it all attitude'. please help
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>>17405550
a p a t h y
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>>17405550
http://www.thesaurus.com/browse/rebellious
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>>17405550
anarchic attitude
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>>17405555
>>17405558
>>17405559
Thanks gents these are all great and hopefully i can get some sleep soon and recharge
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>>17405550
call it an "aggressive detachment" lol
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>>17405550
PUNK RAAAAAAAAAAWWK
EVERYTHING IS SHIT
MUST EXPRESS,,,
INTENSE FEELS OF RAAAAAAAAAAAAGGEE
THRASH 20X
SHOUT OUT INCOHESIVE GIBBERISH
TURN FUCKED UP FEELS INTO LYRICS
SHOUUUUUUUUUT
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>>17405572
HERE'S SOME TRUMPETS AND NOW IT'S SKAAAAA!!!
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>>17405550
honestly considering the material you're writing about there's nothing wrong with using the term "fuck it all attitude"
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>>17405541
>i told this guy about other guy i liked who turned out to be fuccboi
>he says "hey... you know i used to like you as a person."
>Oh i liked you too
>thinks i mean i still like him
>i dont
>"we should date?"
>nah. Im moving so it wouldnt work
>"you're right"
>settle on not dating
>yay no hurt feels
>texts me he wants to "hang out"
>ok sure.
>he does something that pisses me off
>nah nvm
>still want to reschedule "hang out"
I couldnt tell for certain if he still thinks its a date. But i guess he does.
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>>17405592
Good point. That's how I wanna write my essay anyway.
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>>17405585
My ex listened to Ska. Holy fuck what a mess.
She even had a ska blog, ffs. Groupie whores. Dat ass tho.
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>>17405604
oh my god what a fucking faggot lol. Why are you spending pity time with him. Just drop him he's needy as fuck. 'that was something you couldve looked forward to' *emoticon* jesus he's trying to manipulate you into giving him pity sex or something
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>>17405604
>I liked you
>Well it was PAST tense, sheesh. What a loser.
>We should hang out
>Oh wait you pissed me off nvm
>Not gonna tell you that you've pissed me off, though. Let's "reschedule" for never lololol
>Okay fine let's hang out
He's an autist, but you're a Grade A cunt. You deserve each other.
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I slept for 12 hours. I have felt incredibly tired since. What gives? What do I do to help it?
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>>17405611
Word. I used to pretend to be into ska when I was a teenager just because it impressed slutty emo chicks.
>>17405625
You overslept. It's just as tiring as not getting enough sleep. I really hope this isn't a new concept for you.
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>>17405625
It's like jet lag. Just sleep some more until it wears off.
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>>17405632
It's not new, I've just never asked about it.
>>17405635
Alright, thanks.
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>>17405612
Yeah i texted back "please dont try to make me feel bad." Holy shit i hope he doesnt go on /adv/. He just posted "why do i even bother" on insta a minute after i posted my comment.
>>17405622
Yeah I know. Im sorry. I just didnt want to tell him I wasnt interested anymore. He said I was the first girl to ever return his feelings. I shouldve told him. And I will. He deserves someone better.
John i hope you're reading this.
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>>17405650
>He said I was the first girl to ever return his feelings.
John, if you're reading this, you're a fucking liar, too. Stop trying to manipulate this poor, stupid girl.
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>>17405661
Its not hard to believe im the first girl to like him back. This is a comment he left on a pic i posted yesterday. Guess which one is his.
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>>17405650
In the future, don't respond at all to manipulators or if you do respond, you need to be super firm in not taking their shit, You're just letting him push you over into giving him attention and pity replies.
'He deserves someone better' no, he deserves someone who wants to be manipulated.
>'don't be a whiny cunt John' 'Look man I'm busy and you're not on my list of priorities right now'
see that shows you won't take his shit and if he calls you a bitch after that you can just cut him off.
>'Please don't try to make me feel bad'
now he's gonna ignore it or apologize and say he didn't mean it, and then weasel his way in back to talking to you. spot the manipulator, If you think of being super nice to him, first think of if he would do the same for you. he doesnt deserve you letting him down nicely.
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>>17405699
Your friend genuinely registers on the autism spectrum.
As an ex-autist who used to act just like him, I'm still sure that he's lying. I also had female friends like you who had crushes on me at one point. We were just too scared or dumb to act on them when we first notice them. Or we'll reason it away, telling ourselves that she acts that way around all of her guy friends.
So no, he doesn't deserve your pity.
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>>17405699
*cringe*
What
a
fucking
LOSER
O
S
E
R
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>>17405709
>ex-autist
Anon, I'm afraid I have some bad news...
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>>17405720
HAHA
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>>17405713
said the pot
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>>17405709
>As an ex-autist who used to act just like him, I'm still sure that he's lying.
4chan autism isnt actual autism. It's not something you put in a past tense. Either you're woefully unaware of what it actually is or you're still a sperg, just one with better coping systems.
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>>17405720
>>17405724
>Responding to own post with autism
Hmm.
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>>17405724
Now we're talkin retard%
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>>17405699
Is he always like that? You said you liked him at one point, so I assume there's more going on.
>>17405713
Your post is hardly any better.
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>>17405729
What?
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>>17405729
>thinks I responded to my own post
>>17405730
>has been talking "retard" and with good reason
kek
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>>17405707
This is actually really helpful advice. Thank you. And you're right about what he said after.
>>17405709
Lmfao.
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So I am from the Czech Republic and I recently attended an English study abroad session in the UK. A British teacher working at my uni was in charge of guiding us around in the trip. She told us that she has lived in five countries and the Czech Republic is her favorite and she gave her reasons why. Is that just "dishonest" small talk or is she really thinking that way?
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>>17405741
Yeah this guy isn't worth your time honestly.
Ditch his ass imo.
The worst part is he sort of reminds me of how I used to behave, god damn I was cringy.
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What's the proper response to cracks about height?
This honestly wasn't a problem before, but this year I got into management and now people won't shut the fuck up about it. I assume it's a shit test of some sort, but how do I deal with it? Destroy them with a quip? Plot against them so that they become ostracized? Start writing people up?
I need to figure this out, because it's getting really old, really fast. My strategy so far has been to ignore it, but that hasn't really worked.
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>>17405743
It means she likes you. Why do you give a shit if she actually gets clit-hard for some dumb country?
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>>17405743
I don't see why she would lie about such a thing.
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>>17405750
Take a joke. That's what I do.
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>>17405729
>failed mrs cleo's school of psychicz
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>>17405751
I am the same sex as her
>>17405752
Could have been polite small talk. I mean, you won't go around saying how you hate someone's homeland, right?
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>>17405762
>Why do you give a shit
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>>17405732
The comment is a joke. Just a reallllly bad one. He just does things that piss me off like when we text hes making a conversation with himself and totally ignoring what im saying.
Oh my god. He might be autistic.
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I have an internet friend who I've know for 3 years who's sharing a hotel room with me for a week the US, how much of a bad idea would it be to have sex/a temporal relationship when we know we both are attracted to each other?
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>>17405787
I dont see how it would hurt?
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>>17405790
It could make things awkward and ruin the friendship forever, maybe.
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>>17405779
>The comment is a joke. Just a reallllly bad one.
I'm sure it was, but it just seemed to lack any self awareness.
He definitely has something going on, anyways. Would there be any social backlash if you went no contact with him? That's what I'd probably do in your position. I mean we all sometimes step over bound at times, but if you want to have a healthy friendship you respect what they have to say when you do so.
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>>17405771
Just a curious question
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>>17405806
Im moving away for college about 5hrs away in august and hes staying here for community. It wouldnt be too hard to cut relations. But we have a lot of mutual friends. But then again I am moving. And those mutual friends i probably wont contact again besides liking a few pictures.
I guess I can begin to set up boundaries but I cant block him completely. I couldnt be that cruel.
Thank you. You're a cool person anon.
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>>17405762
>I mean, you won't go around saying how you hate someone's homeland, right?
Says you, I mock the micks on a daily basis
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>>17405838
>micks
What are micks?
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>>17405840
oh my god
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How strange is it that all of my friends love Pokemon Go and I don't give a fuck about the game?
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>>17405862
One-o-clock, is it to the left or to the right?
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>>17405862
I dont understand it myself anon. You have to keep the app open the entire time? Wtf?
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>>17405840
Potato niggers
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>>17405870
Oh I see. Why do you guys make it clear that you hate Ireland? Isn't that rude?
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I'm I wrong that I got turned off by a girl because she had no idea who David Bowie was?
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>>17405875
We like Ireland. We just don't like the Irish.
Rude? Not really. Have you ever met a drunk leprechaun? Now that's rude.
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>>17405921
I'd be more amazed than offended honestly. Even if you have an extremely shallow taste in music you should have at least heard of him in passing.
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>>17405921
Who?
Haha jk. Are you that into Bowie that you had to turn her down? Or was it really something else?
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>>17405933
When he died it was the first time she ever heard of him.
>>17405936
I'm a fan (love his music and movies) but I was just caught off guard that someone didn't know him at all. She didn't know a lot of things that I just assumed people knew and called Joe Walsh from the Eagles as "hipster music" which was interesting.
Really I just found her to be kind of boring and too opposite of me. Her hobbies were watching Netflix and making coffee. She was a Christian, conservative also which didn't bother me as a Atheist moderate liberal but I don't know how opposite views would play out in the long run.
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>>17405921
It’s your preference. Are you sure you’re over 18 or not a manchild?
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>>17405954
Forgot to mention she was also abstinent which was pretty big.
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>>17405958
I'm 21. I guess the underlining question was if we didn't have similar tastes, views, or hobbies is that a legit thing to be turned off at least based on a first date/ first impression?
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>>17405971
yes
A lot of people have told me to "go out and meet new people" so I did. I went on several first dates with girls whom I found either uneducated, boring, and/or we were simply too different.
I have pretty specific tastes so if a girl isn't into those things, it's hard for me to find common ground with them.
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>Be me
>Traveling in this summer study German abroad program with a group of people I didn't know beforehand
>"Host family" turns out to be b&b and owners are not even interested in small talk
>Roomate is a hardcore Donald Trump fan while I support the Democrats
>Roomate likes to talk about how awesome Donald Trump is
>When I didn't really agree with her viewpoint she looks disgusted
>There is another American roomate and he is also a Trump supporter
>Likes to talk about Trump during meals together
>We have housemates from other parts of the world and they think we all love Trump because of a lack of understanding of what is going on
>When I answer them explaining how people support different politicians, the other two American housemates will be upset
What do?
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>>17405980
>I went on several first dates with girls whom I found either uneducated
I never found uneducated to be that big of a deal. I like introducing people to new things. It would be uninterested in learning that would really kill things for me.
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>>17405971
Oh that`s a different way to put it. It seemed like you turned her off because she didn`t know some famous guy? I personally don`t give a duck about famous people unless they are very very impressive to me. I don`t care if someone else doesnt know them. Anyway, preferences are preferences.
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Been learning how to pick up women and tried it out with great success. Got her to give me her number, and even set up a night to go out together. My snooping has uncovered that she is 18, and much closer to 18 than 19.
Should I be worried about taking her virginity? Like, do girls tend to get clingy or freak?
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>>17405982
>we all love trump due to a lack of understanding
>Trump supporter
>female
Stop being a cuck, get on the MAGA train and stick your dick in that find republican pussy.
Seriously, stop caring so much, it makes you look like a run-of-the-mill thin skinned democuck
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>>17406015
I am a girl myself
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>>17406002
Lol, yeah I was assuming you saw this post: >>17405954 were I went more into the bigger reason I was turned off by her.
Part of me was thinking it could be a great time introducing her to artists and bands I like and she doing the same. But I also just found it so fucking weird that she didn't know a very influential and popular artist. At least from her mom or something who would have grew up with his music. I dunno the fact that she didn't bother to dive a bit deeper into music or get out of her comfort zone with it could be another reason. But that might be overthinking it.
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girl here. when i make friends, i always worry that they will think that i am too annoying (i am always the one initiating conversations on whatsapp) or what they actually value the friendship less than i do. am i being too self conscious or what?
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how to cure internet addiction?
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>>17406065
it just means you have low self esteem (like I do)
I was in the exact same position as you, but basically I realized that I never cared that much about those people after all. Real friends (no matter who starts the convo) you can talk for hours on end, or not talk at all and enjoy the fact that you know the other party will respond if you just talk to them
Basically give up on the fake friends or don't take them seriously.
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>>17406004
>Should I be worried about taking her virginity
Hahaha I can't tell if you're being serious.
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>>17406079
Stop paying for internet or like a substance addict just lock yourself into a hotel room and detox.
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>>17406243
I need it for coursework
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why post in this when you can make a thread and get more views and answers? I doubt people go to the middle of this thread and answer the several unanswered questions.
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>>17406966
some questions dont deserve their own threads lol
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I used to have a dog that I absolutely loved, but my family was in turbulent times, lots of fights, my dog was old and died, I feel guilty because I felt like the dog loved me and in the last moments of it's life it was surrounded by human misery.
Any ideas on how I can feel better about this? I don't want a new pet, I'd get depressed about it.
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Why would my ex suddenly remove me from Facebook months after she breaks up and then blocks me the next day whilst keeping me on every other social media and snapchat and still looks at my stories every time?
Just wondering DESU.
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Two years ago, a friend gave me a scrapbook as a present (it looks like pic related). I never used it as I don't keep/use scrapbooks. The scrapbook looks like it cost more than $20.
Recently, I went on a wonderful excursion with my friends. We were asked to submit a journal regarding our experience. Should I use this scrapbook for this journal assignment?
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>>17405527
He wanted a date. He thought you would. God that reaction of his.
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Should I feel bad for being easy?
I swear a guy could just smile at me and tell me to have a good day and I'll be thinking about him all week.
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Hey, going to ask a girl out on a first date, need some ideas for stuff to do. Or should I stick with dinner?
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>>17407092
Depends on what's near you man. I prefer taking girls to do something fun or different. Try mini golf or going to some caves or something.
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>>17407092
Ugh. Go to the boys ask girls thread and read the op post
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girl here. if i ask my older friend if it is ok to talk to my older coworkers of the opposite sex on facebook (no flirting), would she think of me as stupid?
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>>17407110
Why do you need permission?
>>17407060
Have you ever had a boyfriend?
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>>17407122
Because I don't know if it is a good idea or not. I don't wanna flirt, but I dont want my older coworkers to misunderstand. This is my first job, so idk what is appropriate and what is not
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>>17405527
Don't hang out with him one-on-one. Even if he says it's just as friends, he'll be hoping it'll magically lead somewhere else, and it'll just end in tears.
Also all these emojis, this guy is a massive faggot holy shit.
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>>17406966
>why post in this when you can make a thread and get more views and answers? I doubt people go to the middle of this thread and answer the several unanswered questions.
I do, I love threads like these. See the 'ask the opposite gender' generals, it's actually much easier to get an answer in threads like these so long as you're really concise.
Making threads, you regularly get glossed over because no one sits staring at the catalogue looking for new threads. In a thread like this, everyone who's currently posting will see your question.
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>>17406977
Volunteer at shelters, take up dog walking/pet sitting etc.
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>>17407004
Yeah sure, why not?
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>>17405699
>that entire fucking wall of text for a lame-ass joke
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>>17407122
>Have you ever had a boyfriend?
Nope
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Is using iPad as if it was a Kindle bad for my eyes?
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>>17407296
Its like the same thing
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>>17407296
>>17407305
It's totally not the same assume it's e-ink or whatever the fuck the call it on the Kindle. The backlight on a screen is what cooks your eyes.
Don't read too close. Dim the backlight. Don't use it for reading in the dark for long periods. Read in a well lit area. Use the iPad's nightshift thing to shift the screen towards warmer colours. Easier on the eyes.
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I have a forest in my backyard that I would love to go into, clear out a space, and make a camp/ shelter. Ive asked around and the general consensus is that I can do so without getting in trouble. Ive been told its "common ground". I live in TN and I have not found anything online that is a definite yes or no. Am I allowed? Would I get in trouble, if found?
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how to get more referrals?
my link:
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>>17407691
Grey area: you are not technically allowed to manipulate the envioment of an area you don't own, but if you clear a small space for a tent and put a shelter I'll bet you that people will use it without complaining.
You can't expect it to be your own, since it's common.
And if you are unlucky, someone will get angry enough to call the forest department on you and you will be looking at hefty fines and whatnot for destruction of nature or something like that.
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>>17408042
It'll just have to be underground then.
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how do i improve me self-esteem? I have a meek demeanor and poor self esteem due to bullying and depression. I suspect I lose out so much on job interviews despite good credentials bc of my race (I'm black) my appearance (I am nearly 24 but am i short, stubby woman and look like a high schooler, even in a suit), and my poor self-esteem.
Where the hell do I develop self esteem without alcohol?
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>>17408187
Take a good hard look at yourself. I mean really tear into yourself. And find those things you can change for the better and work to change them. Self esteem comes from KNOWING yourself.
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I posted before.
This was a stupid reason for my dad to get mad right? I've always known my dad is at least a bit autistic but i just want someone else to confirm. Heres him getting legitimately mad because i said no when he asked me to catch pokemon for him.
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Should I go to friend's play or stay home and save money for something else.. .
Should I ask for advice or lurk
I'm registered for uni got accepted
Regret decision dont want to go to uni because I no longer want to pursue degree in psychology...
I don't know what to do....
I don't have car, no license no job...
I want to die...I'm not that smart....I don't want to go into debt....
Please help....
I don't know what to do with my life anymore....
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>>17408223
what message app is this?
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>>17408321
Message+
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Should i tell a person i love them even though i already know they are not interested in me?
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>>17408426
No. You're just setting yourself up for failure
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>>17408426
Want closure and the satisfaction of being brave enough to say that? go for it. But dont try to pretty up your words last second like they will change the fact they arent interested in you. IF they dont like what you got to say plain and simple, no amount of bullcrap you throw on it will help in the long run.
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>>17408446
>>17408458
Wouldn't it be good to make things clear though? Literally the only reason I'm considering this
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>>17408464
How do you know they aren't interested? If they have told you to your face or they know for a fact you know they dont like you: dont. It'll just make them uncomfortable.
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First off all, I don't know if I'm bi or lesbian. All I know is that I'm in love with this girl. The only problem is, I have a weird fetish for old people, like real old (60+) in which I am attracted to male or female. But I have never been attracted to a male my age. What does this make me? And what do I do? Considering I'm in love with a girl AND her father..
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>>17408484
I can tell they are just from the way they behave.
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Co-worker of mine (who I've never spoken to 6 to 7 months into the job) starts talking to me out of the blue. Also, she would have a big ass cheesy smile on her face when she sees me and hugs me all of the time. Problem though, she seems confused in what she wants. Tells me she's not interested in seeing someone but recently posts snaps involving couples and even saying that she needs a man to keep her company (she's traveling Europe). I talk to her a lot on snapchat to the point where I feel like I'm annoying her but she always answers back genuinely. We get into stuff about what she wants to do for her future because she doesn't know what to do for a career (all she does is travel). Anyway, I'm genuinely interested in her because she's very down to earth and a warm person, should I try asking her out or would it be a waste of time? Also, I'm on the same boat in that I also don't know what to do for my future. She's 21 and I'm 23 and we both work minimum wage jobs at the same place.
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>>17405862
Same boat here anon. I just don't get the appeal in it.
It's okay though, the fad has already begun to die down.
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Bumping with my question.
I make frequent visits to New York. I met this girl at a wedding and we exchanged numbers. We've been talking non stop for a couple of weeks until now. We got into some really deep relationship talk last night and I asked her what she thought of me. She said I'm basically perfect, a great person and a great listener, but she's not ready for a relationship and won't be for quite a while. I told her I was completely cool with it and I'll wait till she's ready. I can guarantee she doesn't have a boyfriend. This morning I woke up and I called her, she didn't pick up. I sent her a message on Snapchat and she read it but didn't respond. Why is she ghosting me all of a sudden?
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Anyone have tips on how to help my gf improve at riding cowgirl? She says she wants to get better and i'd love to help
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>>17405521
I'm kind of bitter that I'm losing friends because they get bf's/work. But that is a poor excuse because I have other friends that still talk to me and they have both a job and a relationship.
When I do ask the *friends* what's up, one says she is 24/24 busy yet I constantly see her online on facebook chat(and since she got a bf, she doesn't enjoy spending time with me and prefers spending time with him), and the other one is also constantly online but mostly plays vydia so she is afk, she either responds late or at all. She had her dick moments though, as in not even wishing me Merry Xmas and some other things.
How do I get over this feeling?
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>>17408728
Jeez I'm going to be honest but you sound fucking annoying
Get some new friends stop being clingy. Maybe it's time for you to get a job/occupy yourself with something other than waiting for people to text you back on a chat app. Are you a guy or a girl?
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>hang out with this guy through tinder
>he says we should hang out again
>we do
>get food, drinks and make out a little, he spends the night at my place. I have a really great time with him, seems he enjoyed himself too
>drop him off at his place the next morning
>text him saying I had a good time and that he should let me know when he's free to hang out again
>says that he'll let me know
>that was three days ago
Should I just give up?
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>>17409196
wait a full week, then give up.
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Would it be weird to invite a colorblind guy out to an art museum?
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>>17409204
I don't think it would. Colorblind people don't see the world in shades of gray, you know. Though it would be awkward if he simply doesn't like art.
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Is this positive affirmations stuff bullshit, /adv/? It seems so cringeworthy and ridiculous; on the other hand maybe the fact that it's impossible for me to say anything good about myself with a straight face is a worrying sign.
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>>17409196
I feel kind of weird you had to pick him up.
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>>17408639
if she's not ready for you now, she'll never be ready for you. it's entirely likely she found someone else, or has decided she had better put some distance between the two of you. move on, look for someone else, don't sit around waiting for this girl. it sounds harsh but it's my honest advice.
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Its been about 5 months since my ex broke up with me and since then i notice I still have her brother and mom on Facebook.
Lately ive been thinking more and more of deleting them from my Facebook. On the other hand, it feels kind of childish. On the other hand, i probably will not see them again anyway and when ever i see their name pass by, it does remind me of my ex.
Wat do
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>>17409235
Seems to work for some people, but it just made me feel worse because I knew I was lying to myself.
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>>17409235
>>17409348
they work for some people but not for others. I often found that I felt like I was lying to myself when I did them. for me the solution was to try and find the most positive thing I *could* say to myself that I could halfway make myself to believe. like if there was an affirmation that said "I'm wonderful" and I wasn't really feeling it, then maybe I could make myself believe "I'm not too bad, and some people think I'm pretty great." so affirmations can be useful but you have to use ones that feel true to you. if the canned ones you're using don't work, make up your own. the trick is to make it genuinely positive in some way, but not a backhanded compliment, if that makes any sense.
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Who here prefers reading a book over spending time online?
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>>17405982
I was studying in Germany too, but everyone I met fucking hates Trump. Where are you studying?
I was in Berlin
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>>17405521
>Who here prefers reading a book over spending time online?
This is bait right?
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