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>>17415283
>tfw mispelled site

>>17415283
You're looking for /b

>>17415283
You can ask for NSFW advice right here. You just can't post pictures that are NSFW.

This board has fielded thousands of questions about how to fuck someone, or eat their assholes, and all sorts of sordid shit.

>>17415238
Worry about graduating highschool first.

If you can't find meaning, make your own.

Find some ideal to strive for. That is all there is in life.

There's a girl I think about so much I tune out the rest of reality and eventually told her I wanted to have sex with her and didn't want a relationship, at the same time I want to be her friend I want something more with her and can't stop texting her, I try to focus on other things but I've gained weight and can't do anything else than sleep.

tl;dr iktfff

It's really hard. Near to impossible.

Have been friendzoned in the past, most on the times she says she wants to keep the friendship she doesn't mean it, they just don't want you too feel bad about it.

Go out and do stuff for yourself and get to know more people. That's the only way to get over someone.

>>17415202
So if i do meet new company do i just not talk to her as much as possible?

>>17415171
Those look pretty second tier.

I've heard of Purdue, A&M, and maybe University of California.

What do you study. That makes a huge difference.
America is like bigger than Europe.
Do you want to study in a climate far far colder than yours or far far far far far warmer?

Like shit, go to Texas and your temperate ass will die.
Don't worry about the American negro. Not many of them around universities. And the ones you see there are just like any other.

Are you part Maori or sea monkey? If you're not totally white, Americans get kinda edgy in public. But Uni chicks love it.
Especially your accent. My god, you'll be rolling in it.
If you're mildly in shape, your accent will have you fucking beating off girls.

Anyways, you'll do fine.
You're post grad, so you've accepted that you've ruined your life.
Try not to fuck the students you have as a TA

>>17415171
UC all the way.

Also California generally has mild weather compared to other states, and lots of things to see.

>>17415206
>Those look pretty second tier
Meh, those universities are second tier because they're partnered with a New Zealand university. My postgraduate study, hopefully, will be less second tier.

>What do you study
Biomedical Science

>Do you want to study in a climate far far colder than yours or far far far far far warmer?
Preferably warmer, but the climate isn't too big of a factor for me.

>Are you part Maori or sea monkey?
I'm half white/half Asian

>If you're not totally white, Americans get kinda edgy in public.
Even if you're not black/brown?

>You're post grad, so you've accepted that you've ruined your life. Try not to fuck the students you have as a TA
How have I ruined my life? I need postgraduate to actually get into anything biomedical as undergraduate is meme tier. Also what do you mean by TA?

>>17415121
What is an AA? Sounds like you're doing OK, will you be able to get a job with your qualification? Not sure why being in tonnes of student debt would be a good thing.

>>17415132
Yeah, it isn't, she is pretending to be better than me because she is graduating earlier, despite her autistic rush to finish college ASAP and gathering as much debt as possible.

AA = Associates degree. Basically just your standard two year.

>>17415121
She is a really salty bitch dude. Take your timeyour gonna really enjoy it in the end, while she is working 12 jobs to pay off her loans you will be enjoying life.

>>17415051
What do you like about her if you don't have conversations?

>>17415055
She's cute, very nice. We were in the same class last year and she would always stare at me. I really like her personality.

>>17415051
If she takes moments out of her day for you then you still have a chance

Mosquitoes are attracted to people based on genes. There was a peer-reviewed study on this recently.

Ticks also work the same way.

For me mosquitoes love me, but ticks won't touch me. Ticks are generally way worse.

eat b vitamins it will make your blood smell bad.

>>17415010
Has a tick once in my life, so i think they leave me alone as well. and im seriously glad.
>>17415012
will try.

>>17415001
I wish you the best, and i wish i could advise you anything at all.
I was diagnosed borderline back when i was 19, and since then i haven't found a single therapist who would agree to help me with this, expect this one guy who simply gave me some meds and told me to keep taking them
took these meds for over two months. didn't hel, didn't come back for more.
I'm traped in a hell where even i can't stand myself, not to mention my surrooundings, and i can't get out.
If there's a hope for you you're still not stuck in hell. You're still moving, unlike me.

>Getting it together has created this massive void in me

Have you thought about taking up new hobbies or a sport ?
Maybe something you can get passionate about and add some excitement to your life.

>>17415020
>i cant stand myself
You're more than the sum total of your parts, and those things you cannot stand about yourself might not even be a part of you. Imagine if someone you love became severely burned...wouldn't you still love them the same? Maybe you love their mind, or their voice, or their intentions.

Do you dislike your own thoughts? Maybe they aren't so bad. There's no way to gauge all of your thoughts in total as worse than someone else's. Personally, I have considered some of the worst things imaginable, or maybe just fantacized. I still try to love myself. You should too.

As for the therapists turning you down solely due to your diagnosis, if that's really what is happening, they're outdated and/or incompetent hacks. Continue looking for help.

A lot of people with BPD have learned helplessness, and truly feel helpless, but if your only wish at the moment is to get therapy and experience peace, I promise you can achieve that.

You're overthinking it a lot

>>17415000
when I think about last time I talked to her I just have visions of boring adjectives and emojis where words should be

I'm trying to bring out her personality, so I feel like I have to be strategic about it or something

first and last bump

>Am I just insane and misreading everything?

Possibly. How old are you ?
Where are you meeting most of these women ?

>>17415006
I'm 20

I meet then everywhere. Parties, bars, school, bookstore, vidya store, coffee shops, concert. Everywhere.

The lot of the women I meet just seem like snobs

>>17415033
You'll probably find most women around that age to be shallow. Not saying all are, but their life experience is generally school, facebook, and the kardashians...
Probably worse for your generation because social media wasn't around when I was 20.

Focus on yourself and don't worry about rude cunts.

>>17414956

literally everywhere

90% of the women I've dated have told me they have or had depression.

Maybe it's the kind of women I attract. I think more likely it's that the internet makes everyone self-diagnose with depression.

Tumblr
Be a white knight and fuck the feminist out of em

>>17414956
Have to agree with the other guy; basically everywhere. I don't know if it's society just fucking women over, but every girl I meet has literally NO interests whatsoever. Like, they all just want to generically "travel", or "don't know what they want to do". They don't really give a shit about anything STEM, they don't really care about philosophy; they never look into the sky awestruck at where/how the fuck they are

Meet with your local recruiter.

>>17414952

>join military without degree
>work on interesting research

Not gonna happen as far as I know.

>>17414952

Go to university and enroll in ROTC.

>>17414944
>mainly because it's very boring, demanding and unappealing
Then don't do it. Tinder is useless if you aren't attractive.

>My goal is to lose my virginity and get a girl these holidays
This should not be your goal. You should go out more, have hobbies, doing anything that makes you feel great in the long run

>Should I do drugs more often?
No. Maybe right now drugs aren't a problem but they'll be one in the future. You should do less drugs, think less about fucking and getting girls and doing more shit for YOU.

>>17414975
>>17414975
I am attractive, what made you think otherwise? It's boring to talk to the girls there. The girls are very basic and I don't like online talk. Drugs make it easier to stand.
Also it's easy for you to say things like do things for yourself etc., but it's not easy to be a 22 years old virgin. I want to stop being one.

>>17415031
If you're attractive then fuck some random girl on tinder. Shouldnt be that much talking involved, you dont want their life story.

"Hey baby you wan sum fuk?"
"Yes, please come over and make me scream in xtc"
"On my way sweetcheeks"

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Second pic is the pizza in the morning. :|

Sorry for triple post, but I did send an email to Corporate, including the pictures, but will probably call tomorrow too, since email is probably not the best option.

Call credit card company. Reverse charges. Pizza money is now back.

>Whines about people talking shit to him, talks shit about others

Fuck off OP

>>17414786

>cant really improve

this was your first mistake. well, your second.

your first was assuming that a humans value comes entirely from how they look.

it sucked that accutane only worked a little bit, worked wonders on my face with only two months. have you considered taking a second treatment?

i dont trust whitening products outside of going to the dentist and paying for it. it will cost you a pretty penny but could make you feel better. i have lightly yellow teeth and they dont bug me that much, plus no braces so they arent really perfect (though not fucked up either). but they are such a small not so seen part of me i dont mind.

as for general ugliness, whatever youreally cant fix with good diet, exercise, hygiene, and styling can always be fixed with surgery.

if your answer to that is a variant of:
>ID NEVER STOOP AS LOW AS SURGERY
or
>I COULD NEVER AFFORD SURGERY

than you dont care about your looks nearly as much as you think you do, you just feel like whining.

fuck ur friends though.

if you want to start, post a pic and well start make over tips, namely hair. whats your style for clothes as well?

>>17414934
How am I talking shit about others? My comment about "obese women just as ugly as I am", as far as I am concerned, is observation of reality. Obesity is medical fact, and I think ugliness is a fairly objective assessment to make. I admit it in myself.
>>17414935
I wouldn't be comfortable posting pictures publicly here. I've been rated a 4/10 on /soc/ before, though. My clothing style isn't the best, I usually wear solid-color button-downs and khakis or jeans or plain or pattern t-shirts. I've never found much of a style.
Honestly as soon as I get medical insurance that will cover it I will try another round of Accutane. I really want to be rid of this acne.

As for general ugliness, I would actually be receptive to surgery in the future. I suppose I should prepare myself for it...