My family hosted a shooting party yesterday and they told me some kid brought in his military gear over and an m16 to shot. He was shooting at metal target and the bullets were ricocheting off and hitting others (no penetration, just hitting people and leaving bruises and cuts).
Dad told him to stop shooting at it but he didnt listen, and he finally ended up shooting himself in the arm. One of the kid's relative's blew a gasket over on my family over this and is thinking about suing my family over this.
The kid was not invited but the kid's relative was, and he brought him over. I think the kid was NOT intoxicated during this, but I don't know about my father.
I believe the kid is not in the military anymore either.
So, I know there is a case here, but how bad does it look for my family? Just because the kid was stupid and shot himself on their property.
>I know there is a case here
The way I see it, no there isn't. But who knows how laws work in fucking America
Depends on state. Some states it's like "Oh my god I was tress passing on your property and wrecked my own drunk redneck ass on my ATV because your clothesline is hard to see! Gimme money" some it's like "Lol you're retarded GG faggit no money"
>>17414190
Any idea how it is in Missouri?
how to become less attached/clingy to a girl?
>>17414155
have a life outside the relationship
>>17414155
Treat her like this as much as you can without verbally or physically hurting her. Never text her first, don't give her much attention, always be busy, etc. here's the kicker, every once and a while do something sweet or spend time with her to keep her hooked. Women are ass backwards the more attention you give them the less they want you.
>>17414260
op here, are you sure? what if she doesn't even realise that i've stopped messaging her? like what if she doesn't care and i end up not messaging her for weeks
Best ways to maximize life when you've got a shit commute?
So I can't afford to move out without making pretty much the exact amount of living expenses I would have a month. What I can do is a 2 hour commute every morning and night. This sucks ass.
Has anyone else done this? I have five more months of the is job. It should lead to, or help me get, a job that will pay twice as much.
Working out has basically exited my entire life. I spend 15 hours on a train every week.
Read, listen to music or podcasts, take a nap.
get a 3ds and play games that take hundreds of hours to beat
use audiobooks to learn a new language during the commute.
Read, but not books, but stuff that will teach you something useful.
CURE MY ONEITIS
She's the only compatible girl I've met who has ever shown love for me and I've fucked up hard by waiting too long and now she's with another guy and he's on a plane RIGHT NOW to go meet her.
And I'm getting zero luck on Tinder and Hot or Not.
Travel dude, stop trying to meet people online, they are online to fuck.
Go out to events and concerts and big cities, interact with people face to face. You'll enjoy it even if you don't find a date.
>>17414097
If she's really that great, why are you wasting your time on tinder? It's too late to go for her. Your other options are to move on or wait until she's single again. I would just move on and find someone else.
>>17414097
My situation is different, but in many ways similar. I waited too long. It's been 8 years. I still think about her, and I still can't decide if I should just move on.
Hey adv.
I'm trying to red pill my dad. He makes enough money to support our family, but my mother spends so much that he can't invest in things that would help us break out of the upper-middle class bracket into better things. My house is literally filled to the brim with trinkets and shit that NOBODY uses or needs. She just bought me a pair of fucking $100 shorts that were 'on sale', they don't fit, and she can't refund them. I've told him multiple times that he needs to limit her weekly spending to something reasonable, but he won't take any action. He cares too much about what this cheating bitch thinks to do anything, and nothing I say seems to get through to him. What do, adv?
Suggest to them an app like "Mint" it graphs out you monthly spending.
if he's happy just leave him alone.
if you're determined, find out what'll push his buttons. information coupled with emotion is very persuasive. limbic system or some shit.
>>17414093
It is not your fucking money and not your business.
If they are okay with the way they spend money, it's not up to you to decide anything.
Just took a shit, wiped, and there was blood on the toilet paper as well as some in my stool, is this something I should be seriously worried about? I've noticed a tiny bit of blood on the paper before when I dropped particularly big logs but nothing like this
>>17414068
Hemorrhoids. Stop straining so hard. If you can find something to put your legs on so that you're squatting, you won't put that kind of stress on your ass. If you begin to notice dark blood in the stool or an unusual foul smell, you'll want to see a doctor. An infected hemorrhoid can turn into an anal fissure.
>>17414076
I'll try to find a footstool or something like that and give it a shot, thanks for useful advice and not just memeposting about AIDS like half this site would
>>17414068
If it's bright red it's nothing, probably just your sphincter got a cut on it or you wiped too hard or something.
Everything is moving towards and away from me. I am losing my body. My arms and legs are falling off. My head dissapears and reappears every few seconds. I threw up on the carpet. Please help me
stop taking drugs
>>17414058
10/10 advice right here
>>17414056
If it isn't drugs, it's possible it's some Schizoid thing. Schizophrenia generally develops at around 18-21 in males.
What's the difference between loving a friend and being in love?
>>17414049
Butterflies in your stomach, all consuming thoughts and scenerios of them running through your mind all day and all night, feeling of needing them more than anything. You can love and appreciate your friend but it's not as intense and you don't care about their opinion half as much
You'll know it when you experience it
>>17414049
>What's the difference between loving a friend and being in love?
Do you want to have sex with them? Do you want to hold them in a loving embrace? Do you daydream about your future together? It's something you just know.
How do I list "independent experience" on a resume? Basically shit I worked on and can show, related to my profession, that I wasn't paid for by a company.
Just call it "Independent Projects" and be done with it?
The problem is that this section would only have one subsection, which makes no sense, can I just list "Independent Projects" at the bottom of my work experience section? I mean, it's clear that it wasn't work, but it doesn't create a new section.
that's called a portfolio, you include it with your resume
>>17414062
I am not an art major.
You can call it 'Independent Projects' but make sure to describe what it was that you did and what the result was
Can you love someone and still not be happy when you are with them?
Depends on
>>17414026
Well, I do love my girlfriend, but im not happy anymore with her. Is it time to break up?
>>17414021
Give it time relationships have ups and downs and stale periods. Once you get over them then you easily remember what you love and how much you need them
How do you deal with the crushing realization that there are so many amazing relationships and opportunities that you have missed (and will continue to miss) out on by not being in the right place at the right time?
Personally I think about all the great things that have already happened in my life and how much more there is to come. Life is more about making your own path than just being lucky all the time. At least that's how I see it.
>>17414025
What if nothing good ever happens to me
>>17414039
Then that's your opinion. Some people might hear things you've done with your life and they'll wish they did something similar. Only you can convince yourself your life sucks.
How do you allow yourself to find another one when you are going through the most painful heartache you could of ever imagined?
Acceptance. Being grateful for the time you've had with someone, even if they aren't meant for you.
I've seen 3 guys this year who basically all told me after several dates they didn't want to be on a relationship, often sounding based on what had happened with an ex. Kind of wish more guys out here would be willing to try again.
>>17413985
What happened with the ex?
>>17413975
Learn to love yourself again first. Otherwise you're not ready
So /adv/, I need some information on safety deposit boxes.
ideally I would like to get one that isn't associated with my name in any way, shape, or form.
1. Is it actually illegal to get a safety deposit box under a fake name?
2. Can you get a safety deposit box with no name associated with it? Just a key.
to get one?
3. What information is actually required to open one?
I've never opened one myself, only inherited them and transferred to my account. And I feel like if I asked these questions in a bank, I would get on a list or 12.
Thank you for your time.
Got to a bank and ask for application.
If I were to guess, you can not use a fake name. This is high security shit. Hell, I have a storage facility and they ID me every time I enter.
Best options are getting someone to open one for you, or hiding your shit real well at home.
>>17413974
Man that's a nice storage facility, one of mine is just off the highway, doesn't even have a camera.
No one can open the box but yourself.
Unless you're doing something illegal, there's no reason to need a anonymous safe deposit box
How to cater to my wife's anal fetish?
With anal.
>>17413883
let her finger your bum hole. its associated with the gays but it actually feels good.
>>17413883
you know what feels real good. A great shit. Right up there with an orgasm but doesn't mean I want something else in my ass.
So I work at Costco and just got my second annual review. Apparently I'm doing horribly in every area and need to be more personable and focused. I'm an introvert and dislike small talk which is bad for this industry but the job pays the bills.
Should I just quit and drive Uber full time before they fire me anyway?
People who drive Uber quit 3-6 months in.
>>17413873
I also have a business but its not large enough yet to fully support me. It and the driving would both be supplemental while I get my IT certs to find a corporate job.
>>17413861
Just get better at socializing. Introverts aren't doomed to being loners, and this is a great chance to get in lots of practice.