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Long story short I managed to convince a girl to have sex with me. During she struggled to make me come and at times I couldn't maintain an erection. She thinks it's her fault. I reckon it's actually mine. Apart from going to a doctor which I plan on doing what can I do to stop that happening again?
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stop being so nervous, you fuck.
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>>17413073
Figured it was that so I guess the next time it'll be easier but if it happens again i don't know if it's actually a problem I have.
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>>17413064
Deathgrip, stop fapping so much
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My husband and I have been married for 4 years, we're both 29 I'm pregnant. We've had long discussions about whether or not this is the right time to have kids( our financial situation isn't exactly ideal.) But it is something we both agree we really want.
I love my husband very much, but I made the conscious choice to have another mans baby. Before you call me a monster, let me explain.
My husband is wonderful, handsome, kind, funny and I love him dearly. Two years ago his mother died of cancer and his father has extremely advanced alzheimer's (he's only 62). His family has a long history of mental health problems and various heritable illness.
The child's father is a guy I grew up with, he's a trauma surgeon, he's tall, handsome, smart. Our families have been close for 30 years, his parents are in their 80's and still healthy and happy, they run marathons.
Isn't it more important that I have a healthy baby, than keep up some 5000 year patriarchal tradition of genetic heritage? Which by the way means NOTHING in reality. My best friend married her boyfriend when she already had two kids and he loves them dearly, he's an amazing father to them, genetics mean nothing.
I'm scared my husband will find out and the last thing I want to do is hurt him. But I don't want an abortion. People might not understand but I feel like having this baby is the right thing to do, I've already thought of names.
I know I'll get hate for this post, I'm not a bad person honestly.
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>>17413036
Please stick to the topic at hand.
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>>17413026
Obvious b8 if anyone responds to this seriously you need to be removed from the gene pool
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To shave or not to shave 2016-07-31 14:36:48 Post No.17413008
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I am Asian. I have a swimsuit similar to pic related. Today I went swimming for the first time in six years. A few strands of my pubic hair was poking outside of my swimsuit after I swam. Should I shave my pubic hair?
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>>17413008
Why do asians generally not shave? Which country are you from?
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>>17413013
I am from Singapore and I live there
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Trim it. You don't have to shave it but trimming it will keep it from poking out
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Hey guys
>20 years old
>broke
>maybe 1 friend
>below average social skills
>want to commit suicide
Honestly the more i think about it the more suicide seems like a sane option.
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what method of suicide is best to hide your dead body?
i dont want people to see my corpse
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>>17412977
Drown yourself.
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>>17412983
ive considered it but drowning is one of most painful
I recently played Overwatch, and a player invited me to join them in a group. I just assumed it was someone my age, maybe 18-25. As I talked to the person more, I found out they were a 14 year old Indian girl. I've always found Indian women attractive, and I admit it when this girl started talking to me over the mic, I was very turned on. She was actually a good player and had a very high pitched, young sounding voice. I felt awful but listening to her voice turned me on.
Am I a bad person for this?
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>>17412945
High pitched within relativity is attractive to many males. Hell just take the Dark Souls 3 bird talking about Pickle Pee.
I don't think you're a peadophile as you didn't see her in person and I would imagine you would know from being around children in person. I would recommend however for your own sake to cancel any future contact with her, not for risk reasons as that's impossible geographically, but for connection reasons. Gamers have been and many still are rather neglected of social interaction and sometimes you will try to find other venues even if not appropriate.
Also worst case you would be an Ephebophile (teenagers) rather than a peadophile (toddlers). If its of any consolation, the overwhelming majority of males I would imagine have felt some element of attraction to teenagers who were better developed than others. Entire industries in the US and other areas are built around attractive teenagers.
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>>17412945
Wait still she's 18 and blow her pussy out harder than a elephant fucking a house mouse
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>>17413040
Is it bad that I want to do that now?
>>17413035
I just wish the age of consent were 14. I've been attracted to girls in public and then realized they were probably 15-16.
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I look pretty good. But i'm mostly at home and i'm shy as fuck. How can I meet a girl that way? :/
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there is a reason why you are mostly at home
ask yourself if you can handle a relationship first
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>>17412955
I'm mostly at home because I have no one to go out with. I have friends, but most of them are just like me. I try to encourage them to come out with me but they do not like 'the outside world'.
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>>17412969
are you a neet?
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Did I fuck up, /adv/ ?
I am not a violent man and I have a lot of friends and acquaintances. But last night, after heavy drinking, a known asshole was spouting racial slurs, knowing that I was there (I am half asian half white). I have a close relationship with my mother and I couldn't stand him disrespecting her (and mine aswell but mainly my moms) ethnicity and i lost it and punched him 5-6 times rapidly in the face whereupon he fell unconcious. I didnt know if he woke up cause I ran the fuck away after that.
He's a known asshole and nobody liked him anyway and nobody stopped me during or after it and nobody found his racial jokes funny.
How fucked am I now? I live in a fairly SJW place but if he decides to call the cops how screwed am I?
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>>17412916
If you live in a SJW place and beat someone up for racial slurs I doubt you'll get in trouble
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>>17412916
People like this tend to not call the cops with tuff like this.
SJW on the other hand, you raped him and 10+ other woman, and 2 transgender.
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>>17412916
Imagine if you started talking about how black lives matter and Trump is a fascist and someone assaulted you. How would that person be perceived? As a hothead who is either an out of control drunk or a violent psycho who can't manage his anger. Every ten year old has a high def video camera in his pocket, are you sure you want to risk an assault charge because some asshole hates niggers and won't shut the fuck up about it?
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23yo male
Have a merrit degree in science which means I didn't do a final year project but God 70% in everything else.
Have a shit job which earns 17k completely unrelated to degree. No job experience.
Live with parents
Suicidal
Have a gfs of 1 year who I really love but I honestly feel like she could do so much better than me.
Have onlyou a few good friends
Always happy and keep a good poker face.
Weed smoker
Any advice. Just thought.
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>Always happy and keep a good poker face
Why do you need a poker face if you're always happy?
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How are you suicidal and always happy at the same time? You dum-dum.
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>>17412912
I'm totally not satisfied with my life's quality. Hence Suicidal. And therfore asking for advice to improve it.
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the girl i am dating left the club with another guy last night. she told me about it. She went home on her own because he bought her a taxi. She wanted to stay out. why the fuck would she tell me this. to be fair, we are not exclusive yet but still, if you're trying to give a relationship a go, why would you even do this. im thinking about just dropping her. She never really goes clubbing, and i was her first fuck in two years. dont know if she is just oblivious or i am being cucked. would appreciate any advice. thanks.
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>>17412899
So did they hook up or are you upset about the fact that they took a taxi together?
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>>17412914
they didnt get a taxi together. he got off, dont know why. im upset that she led someone on. if she wants to give it a go with me, i dont see why she would do this. as far as i know you dont leave a club with a fella unless you wanna take things further. pisses me off because im putting in alot of effort and she is just going off doing this.
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>>17412932
Consider it a gr8 shit test 10/10
...and please tell me you know about shit tests.
How do you go about building a sense of self-worth when you have nothing going on for you?
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>>17412883
Take someone else's self worth
along wit dey phone and dey shoes nigga
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you need something going for you. set a goal and fight for it
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>>17412889
Like what?
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How do you know if someone is interested in you? I have no idea how people work. Asking directly seems awkward.
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ask them out
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>>17412833
it seems awkward because it is awkward.
Ask them out on a date. if they say yes, they like you.
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nobody likes you
what substances do you have to rely on if you are allergic to alcohol and cant access to drug providers
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>>17412825
Instead of taking drugs or drinking, how about doing something useful with your time?
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>>17412828
what is useful?
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>>17412835
learn a language, do sports etc.
anything that makes you a better person in the long run.
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Miscategorised my eyesight on provisional
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>few months ago applying for my provisional
>asks if I need glasses to see 20m away
>say yes
>turns out I don't
>now I have to wear glasses to drive
What do?
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>>17412817
Jusr wear them. It will be on your licence, if you ever get stopped and aren't wearing them you can have your licence suspended.
Besides, if you need glasses at all (shortsighted), it is safer to wear them at all times in might be relevant.
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Test your eyesight, and If it turns out to be okay then you'll have it documented
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>>17412824
Yeah I'd wear them anyway but I'm not comfortable with the requirement. Is there a way to get it changed? I wouldn't even mind reapplying and paying the fee again.
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How to not be boring on a first date 2016-07-31 12:58:46 Post No.17412811
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How to not be boring on a first date
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I go on a lot of first dates and I just don't know what to talk about. So I stick to boring questions about the girl's life, hobbies, career, etc. it's fucking boring to me, and as a result I'll bet the girl feels bored too.
My friends, girls and guys, think I'm fun and hilarious to be around and tell me to be more of myself, and not be scared to push the limit with my conversation pieces. The problem is that while I can be funny, a lot of my jokes could turn someone off if they're easily offended (family guy/South Park/ any famous comedian on HBO type of shit), and I'm dead scared of saying the wrong thing and my date secretly turns out to be some religious zealot /radfem/robot with no sense of humor and flips a shit. Because of this fear, I struggle to find a happy medium, so I become boring in conversation.
Should I just say fuck it and just be me on a first date? Loud, swear, poke a little fun at my date, make an innuendo, maybe make a meme reference, and not be scared to be offensive?
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>>17412811
let's examine this scenario
solution A: you keep being boring
-this wields no result, as you are boring
solution B: be your edgy "welcome to my twisted m3m3"self:
-your date is a robot/radfem/zealot. you now know that you don't want to date her! Success!
or
-your date laughs. you now know that you can date her! Success!
In any case, you're too young to even be here, you edgelord
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>>17412811
If South Park has taught you anything, it should be fuck being politically correct.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4S2HRYYZoko
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>>17412827
>In any case, you're too young to even be here, you edgelord
That's what your mom said while I was balls deep but I still busted inside anyways faggot
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Hey. I need some help.
Ever since I was a kid I excelled in at least one aspect of my life. I've been getting very good academic results, my writing in French was compared to one of a writer when I was in high school by multiple teachers, I've also always been very good at overall analysis and logic.
Until a few months ago. I've been isolated for a long time to the point my sense of identity is close to non-existent. My emotions are very weak, though I can still cry and experience emotional stimuli. All of a sudden, one day, everything stopped being enjoyable or interesting from my perspective. It's been getting worse. I'm now eating myself alive over the fact I barely pass IQ tests online, whereas I had an IQ of 135 at the age of five, and grew up in an intellectually stimulating environment. Same thing with critical thinking, I barely pass the online ones, though I was renowned with most communities I stuck with over my youth for my ability to reason more clearly than others. (I'm sorry if this sounds like bragging, that's not the thread's point)
I'm going to start university (chem engineering) in less than 30 days. I'm worried as to whether this sudden mental block will affect my results. What do you guys suggest I do, aside from getting therapy as I have very mixed opinions about this, to bring back my cognitive capacities? I've been trying to read more, but I sometimes find my thoughts lost in the middle of the sentence. I've started learning the piano recently, as I've read that enhances the connections in one's brain. Whenever I see a developed argument or an eloquent sentence, I think to myself this could never come out of my mouth, even though I've issued a lot of impressive things in the past.
Is this a mental block, or has my intellect truly, irreversibly regressed? How should I deal with it?
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>>17412804
>All of a sudden, one day, everything stopped being enjoyable or interesting from my perspective. It's been getting worse.
You also feel hopeless/helpless and have a hard time concentrating.
Congrats, you have symptoms of depression. Time to see a doctor.
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>>17412809
Not really. I don't feel hopeless or helplessness, I actually try to keep a positive mindset to counter my negativity. My depression is very different from other people; my feelings are simply very limited. It's actually better than feeling lonely and sad about myself during brief flashes of self-awareness, which is what I equally fear.
I do have a hard time concentrating, though.
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Oh, and your intellect isn't damaged. A few weeks (2-3, usually) on meds should bring you back to normal. Therapy will help for the long term.