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Quit drinking alcohol first off. You have to do that if you want to get better at all. See a doctor about anti-depressants. You're kinda fucked since alcohol and anti-depressants are dangerous together so it's gotta be one or the other.

You're probably underage so your degeneracy with being bi should fix itself after you've grown up.

Quit drinking. See a doctor. Grow up.

>>17415953
>You're probably underage so your degeneracy with being bi should fix itself after you've grown up.

Kek. He's right you know. Stop drinking, and stop being a faggot

>>17415936
Turn your brain off.

Go crazy, have some fun.

Invite people over, drink with them, fuck them.

>>17415919
Why would you not tell us your state, just the age of consent? Which, seems unreasonably high.

Don't be a faggot, which state do you live in?

>>17415927
Texas

>>17415919
Negro you're a pedo and you're getting catfished by the POLICE haven't you ever seen to catch a predator?
Don't want sex? Dude 14 year olds are fucking retarded don't even come here with that lame shit you just want to hit some fresh pussy

>>17415914
Nah not at all xD

Yes, there are nerves in the nipple and areola that trigger excitement. It feels nice to know he is appreciating them... also it is a nice view.

>>17415914
>squeezed
Gently, yes.

>manhandled
Yes.

>suckled
Yes.

>bitten
No.

Note: Yes automatically becomes no when done by a stranger. Do not grab random girls boobs unless you're in a weird Japanese porno.

>>17415874
>Can we not hangout until he breaks up with her?
pretty much, unless you want to be around her. just he's your friend doesn't mean you're forced to hang out with him, her, or anybody else. if he wants to hang out, tell him you don't want to be around his gf because she sucks. if all your friends do this too, then he will either see the light and drop her, or drop all of you and get sucked into her gravity well. if the first happens, great.

if the second happens, there's nothing you can do about it. he might come crawling back to you once she gets done digesting him and shitting him out. if he doesn't come back, but you hear they broke up, maybe send him a text and ask what's up. either way, give him another chance. he'll probably have learned his lesson.

>>17415892
>just he's your friend
should be
>just because he's your friend

>>17415874
Unless you can suck/ride his dick better than her, give him time. Do girls/guys night out kind of shit. It's not hard to say "Hey, want to just hang out, us guys?"

Don't sit back and wait for their relationship to crumble. Try to become her friend too, so you may see what he sees in her. She may be a bitch when you don't really know her, but what is it that he likes about her?

>>17415872
It is an amazingly small detail. He probably doesn't give half a shit.
You don't date people just for their looks. As long as you're overall attractive, you should focus more on improving your personality.
You're focusing on the nose when you clearly have insecurity problems.

>>17415872
>I sort of look like the girl in the picture
yeah right, just like every black woman thinks they sort of look like Beyonce L M A O

>>17415880
Yeah, I know I'm insecure, but he has said and done things that have made me that way.

>>17415833
Maybe ask >>17415366 because he seems to have the opposite problem to you.

write down all the things that you think a relationship would do for you. then go down the list, and for each of those things, try to brainstorm something else that would do that for you. if you can't think of anything for a particular item, come back to it later. work on the ones that you can think of substitutes for.

then revisit your list in a few months. if you still can't figure out a way to get some of the things on the list, start figuring out how to be happy without them.

>>17415833

Do you wake up and immediately worry yourself with a relationship? They are not that fucking great bro, and I am being honest when I say this.

How are women the #1 source of happiness? That's deluded, bro. Once you get past puberty and the "addiction" of mommy figures, life is actually pretty fucking good.

*or

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>>17415825
Maron, Bill Burr, Weekly planet, Baited

It could be anything. Don't try to read into it. If it makes you feel better, it's much worse for us guys. Girls are far more likely to ghost someone out of the blue.

Just remember one thing about being ghosted: there is nothing you could have done or said differently that would have resulted in a different outcome. If he/she is interested in you, he/she will contact you.

>>17415796
Yeah, well, email or not, we have class tomorrow so he's going to have to see me either way.

We usually have a conversation after class that initiate. Not sure if I'll initiate.

>>17415841
Well that changes everything. Absolutely I would talk to him as if nothing has changed. Because maybe nothing has. He could just have been busy, felt like replying later, and then thinking meh I'll see her soon anyway.

At least fuck her dude to see if she's not just using you as her emotional tampon

>>17415743
Way too much, way too fast, way too red of a flag.
In your shoes, I'd tell her she's too intense for you, and you can't stand it, and get away from her.
Or you might stay, if you want to put your dick in crazy. You're almost there anyway.

>>17415752
Don't be this cunt op. Tell her the truth and say it's a lot to handle with all the other shit you going on like college. Tell her you understand how she feels, obviously you had similar incidents, and maybe say you'll be there as friend. That's if that's what you want, and if you want her gone, I'd recommend just ripping the bandage off. She's obviously a strong enough person to have gotten this far. Just don't be a dick OP. Can this site have at least once sincere genuine person.

That's a pretty bold assumption you're making there.

Or maybe she's just a shit person. Either way, she doesn't need you to 'save' her

Jesus fucking Christ, I bet Jeffrey Dahmer would've loved to have you as a friend.

>>17415721
I am a girl. I preferred living with guys.
A bit dirtier, but far less bitchy and nicer than the girls I've lived with, not as messy, and if they had a problem with something I did we could talk and there wasn't fucking drama.
Write down a scheudle about cleaning common spaces and throw away the thrash.

>>17415721
Do you know the 2 guys? Do you know how they were living last year?
Are they/are you in relationships?
Anyway, all apartments have their share of drama, it's all about finding a compromise - check with the people involved, before thinking that they are male, and the other one is female, you have to find people with a life similar to yours, or they'll end up partying hard while you try to sleep.

living with women is abysmal. if you're a chill lady and you know these guys well it's probably going to be way better. guys tend to not be passive aggressive and more upfront about issues so small shit doesn't blow up into big drama shitfests

Love is the brain equivalent of what your penis feels about vaginas.

>>17415708
You must be 18 to post here.

>>17415776
Jokes on you, I'm a 27 year old KV.

>>17415665
Most of my girl friends have told me that this is pretty normal.

A lot of guys have this problem, especially during the first few encounters with a new girl.

I have the opposite problem, where I can't cum easily with girls. And it's often upsetting for them.

Things happen, it's not like you can control this all of the time. If she genuinely likes you it is no big deal, if she acts weird/distant towards you then she wasn't a keeper anyway because accidents happen.
If you continue to have this problem you gotta go to the doc, and understand why a girl would be irritated at that point. Overall it isn't a big deal OP. I will tell you though nothing will turn her off more than if you act like it's a big deal and THINK she thinks less of you. She told you it was fine, don't dwell on it and give off shitty vibes.
The first time my ex and I had sex he lasted 30 seconds and literally cried. It was horrible and gross. Don't be a faggot.

She understands that it's a bodily function you can't exactly control. While you might be thinking of everything you could of done, regretting not doing it, you should be accepting of the fact that it happened and the outcome was fantastic as she wasn't upset. If you feel really bad about it, talk to your gf. If someone would let you stick your dick in them, they wouldn't mind sharing how they feel.

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First of which being how terribly anxious I can feel when it comes to meeting new people. I feel comfortable talking to new people in situations of "forced" interaction (friend introducing me to other friend, partnered with someone idk for a school assignment), but in situations where I see someone I think I'd get along with at a coffee shop, for example, I can't make the push to go say hi. A) it's honestly terrifying to me, my brain and my legs freeze up at the idea of it. B) it feels so intrusive. This person is minding their own business, doing their own thing and suddenly here comes me, essentially demanding they're attention.

Second problem being, I've been really hard pressed to find something I'm genuinely passionate about as of late. Ever since I got my n64 for Christmas when I was 4 vidya is pretty much what my life revolved around, and desu I never really branched out my hobbies. And while it's admitidly my fault, now that my vidya has lost its luster I don't really have anything else, and it's made me realize a lot about myself. Mainly that I'm just a really fucking dull boring person, it's rather pathetic when "I'm in school for programming because I like video games" can completely sum someone up. I'd start developing other hobbies but goddammit literally nothing is interesting to me anymore. Is it because I've grown that lazy that anything that involved a little bit of work doesn't appeal to me anymore? I honestly don't fucking know.

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Finally, and I guess this was talked a little about earlier, is a really want to get more out of life, y'know. This is not how I expected to be spending my summer. I wanted to be out partying, going to bars, beaching it up, meeting lots of new people (which thinking about it now, ive at least been doing that) and just doing wold crazy fun shit and making memories, but I haven't been. Partially because my best friends some how grew into a group of boring fucks who literally live life on a completely different schedual than me for the most part because of they're jobs and partially because as I said before putting myself out there, approaching and talking to new people and trying new things absolutely fills me with anxiety.
Everyone around me always seems crazy excited to try new things, but I always dread them. It scares me, so much, all I think about is the things that could go wrong and whenever something makes me feel anxious it's like I lose complete control of my head and can't make the thoughts stop. And it's prominent is ever aspect of my life from my first day of college to trying new food.

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But wait, there's more. I've been super girl crazy as of late, but I simply..... can't when it comes to them. The way I am with women is crazy problematic for a few reason.

1) it simply isn't healthy to be as obssesed with them as I am. Seriously women are on my mind 24/7. It drives me batshit insane how attractive everyone is sometimes. I think it's simply because I don't really get a lot of attention from females, especially romantic/sexual attention. Growing up I didn't really have very many positive relationships with the girls I went to school with either (and it was completely my fault too, I was even more fucked than I am now).

2) Not gonna lie, women scare me. I know putting pussy on a pedestal is a disaster waiting to happen, but when a solid 80% of the females you went to school with despised you it kinda comes naturally.

3) When there's even a remote chance a female might be interested in me I get attached way too quickly. It causes me to overthink everything and become overwhelmed with anxiety at the littlest things she says, get super clingy and scare them off, like I said before I simply can't.

cont.

slap her until she agrees

Is she interested in women at all? Or open-minded sexually at all or is she pretty vanilla?

>>17415642
Not worth it desu, having 2 males and 1 female is much better.