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So I told my friend I like her, and while she said there was nothing bad between us or anything, I'm not sure if I should give myself some space from her or not. I haven't texted her for the past two days and am wondering if I should wait for her to text me.
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>>17413552
more details, OP
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>>17413662
Well I learned from a friend she didn't like me like that, so I just told her anyway it was bugging me, and she knew something was bugging me anyway, and she said "that's what I thought it was." She then said "feel better now?" and I said yeah. We've been close friends for about 2 years and we do tons of shit together. She comes to my place and plays games all the time. I'm torn because I feel I'm putting too much effort into her when she doesn't like me that way, but I want to stay close friends with her. I didn't have feelings for her until recently either.
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>>17413688
Well shit OP, I completely feel you, I'm in a similar situation and to be honest idk what to do either, on one hand I love her to her core, but on the other hand she doesn't see me that way, but I still am the closest person she's ever had in her life.

The issue here is that I don't feel satisfied with our relationship even though it's the best relationship both of us had ever in our lives and she knows that. She doesn't want me to leave, but also would completely understand if I do because I don't feel happy at all despite how amazing our relationship/friendship is

So OP, I can tell you this, the only time you'll be happy in that friendship is when you have hope that something might come out of it, the problem is, there probably isn't hope, but only probably.

My advice is to start focusing more on yourself, give her less attention, but when you do, act normally and most importantly happy because you need to prove to her that you don't need her and that instead she really needs you. I admit, it isn't an easy task to accomplish, but if you think it's worth it, give it a go.

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I accidentally put a Digiorno pizza I bought last night into the fridge instead of the freezer. The instructions on the box are adamant about not letting it thaw. Would it be unsafe to cook and eat the pizza at this point?
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u may burn the pizza. just freeze it again.
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>>17413530
Dude, it's a frozen pizza, it's safe even if you're eating it frozen
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>>17413530
>He let the pizza thaw overnight

You're fucked dude

You had one job

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Need help, /adv/

So I need a new power adapter for my laptop, since it died again, namely magsafe power adapter...so I've been looking on the online classifieds and apparently this person is selling one for less...

So I asked her why she's selling it, she said it's wrong one for her macbook and then i said how do i know if this is legit then she said "Probally the best thing for you would be to go to the apple store and buy it there its only $105. Not looking to convince anyone just who ever is interested not in a rush but I appreciate your interest the same and I hope things work out for you."

What do you think, /adv/? I don't want to be ripped off or buy a fake one...thanks a bunch.
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She told you. If you can't fight the doubt, go buy a brand new one. Did this matter really need a thread?
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the power adapters are the biggest fucking bullshit about Macbooks.

Make sure you wrap it up exactly as shown in your image or the pieces of shit will fall apart within about a year, without fail. Also make sure that there is no strain whatsoever on the part of the cord closest to the actual magsafe connector - try to avoid any kind of torsion at all because that will also eventually wreck it.

It's one of those "form over function" problems inherent to Apple products.
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>>17413560

yeah true, they're scam. i plan to buy this http://www.thefrayfix.com/ so they wont break

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I can't have sex with a girl because I'm either thinking about a.) how she just had a dick inside her recently and b.) how I'm ruining her for her future husband by putting my dick in her mouth and cumming all over her

What the fuck do I do? I literally lose my boner from it. Why can't I just be a selfish prick who only cares about pleasure?
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I get this pal,

Feeling like you're defiling the woman or the one you love has already been fucked by someone else, guess it comes down to manning the fuck up and realising it is literally all in our heads
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Yeah I actually feel kinda similar, it's a hard thing to get past
That's why I have never been a big fan of hooking up with some girl you just met or whatever
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>not getting off on deflowering young girls

ISHYGDDT

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What activities are enjoyable and a good way to meet people?
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>>17413473
Currently, pokemon go is the hot thing.
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Scuba diving classes
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is that a sugar glider? Its a cutie pie.

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>essentially breaking up because she's leaving the country for a year

Is there any chance this will work when she gets back?
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>>17413435
Think about that when she does. For now focus on getting a new girlfriend.
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there is a SLIM chance, but you definitely shouldn't wait for her.
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Let me put this simple - NO!

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Is he asking me out? Either way, how do I say no without coming off like an asshole?
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>>17413412
Awh. He sounds like such a nice boy. Fuckers gonna cry his heart out.

All you say is you have "other plans"
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I cringed.

Tell him that while he's a great guy, unfortunately you're not interested in him in that way. He's gonna be butthurt either way, but at least this will minimize it.
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ow god that poor faggot.
Just make your intentions clear op. Say that you're not interested.

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I met a German guy online more than a year ago. He introduce me to German culture and I started learning German. Recently, I figured out that he has probably been lying about his identity. Is it strange of me to think that meeting him was a good thing - if I have never met him, I would have never got to know this amazing culture and language?
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>>17413410
>I figured out that he has probably been lying about his identity.
Show
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>>17413475
Well that is not the main point of the thread, but his behavior had been dodgey ever since I asked him about meeting him in Germany.
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>>17413481
>Is it strange of me to think that meeting him was a good thing
No, not strange.

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Getting back into the dating game... Anyone else notice a huge disconnect w/ how well they do on Tinder vs how well they do in real life?

I'm a mid 20s dude, have a great job (think doctor, lawyer, etc) and cool hobbies. I'm told I'm ridiculously good-looking by people IRL all the time - all my friends GFs have drunkenly confessed to me how hot they think I am, and random women approach me in bars. I'm also brown (born and raised in the US).

On Tinder, I'm struggling big time. Only matches have been morbidly obese women (who I stopped swiping right on), a few chubby single moms, and bots that I missed swiping left on. Can't land a thin or even decent woman on there to save my life. Haven't landed a match in days now.

It's not a huge deal, as I can do better IRL, but it's still hurting my confidence. I've been told my pics are great by my friends and my profile is short, and not weird. I really think it's my race. Know some generic-looking, unremarkable white dudes that are absolutely killing it on Tinder. Live in a fairly white-washed, smaller city. Lots of girls talk about "hunting" "mudding" and being "country".
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>>17413401

Too many women have been raped, assaulted or robbed by brownskinned people, you even have black hookers that refuse to service black men.

You are succeding in real life because you probably don't come off as a rapist thug.

Stick to snatching women in real life, you will never succeed online due to bias and fear
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I'm not black.
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>>17413401
Because Tinder is more polarized than real life.

Women can't see your wealth and hobbies from Tinder, they just compare you purely based on looks. These things play big part in how attractive women think you are in real life while it's difficult to translate that to Tinder.
Stick to bars if you are having success there instead.

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>got gf in highschool and have been with her for six years
>her family seems to like me
>my family seems to like her
>I'm no longer sexually attracted to her
>on top of this, I don't even really like spending time with her in general as much anymore
>I feel like we've both changed over the years
>when I'm with her I pretend to enjoy myself because I don't want to hurt her
>sometimes just hope to have her break up with me first
>she tells me how angry and sad she would be if I broke up with her
>know her family would hate me
>have felt like this for a good two years now

Shit guys. Essentially, I just don't want to cause a big upset and of course there's my own selfish desire to not want to be seen as a huge prick. What do I do? I know eventually there will be pressure from her to get married and I couldn't marry her. At this point I don't want to see other people. I just want to be alone. What's wrong /adv/? How do I fix this?
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move away and don't come back
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>>17413388
Just dump her. The longer you wait, the harder it will be.
Leave her and find someone you're happier with.
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You need to be honest and upfront and simply say it's not working for you anymore. You got together pretty young and have been in what I would say is a damn long relationship so it's clear that both you and her will have changed in that time.

Both her family and yours should understand that people change and that these things don't always work out. They should be this mature really.

But yeah, all in all you need to be honest and stop it now before things get messy because dragging shit out definitely leads to bad things

100% serious question. How do I get toilets with these fuckers to flush?

All toilets at my workplace at automatic like this but I can't ever get them to flush. No, I'm not black (I'm fucking white). I don't want to be the dick that leaves poop in toilets without flushing, but I would feel retarded for asking coworkers how to flush a toilet.
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press the button
stop being a g-g-g-ghost
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There's a button by the sensor, senpai.
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>>17413385
This is 4chan

Be that dick.

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As a 28 year old virgin, do I have the ability to fill the last couple of years of my 20s with enough pleasant experiences and sex, etc. to avoid depression stemming from regret, later in life?
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>>17413370
Are u rich? Are you handsome?
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>>17413370
Yes, you can turn your life around at any age.

What stopped you this far? How can you improve it?
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Your life is your life, no matter what. Even if by some miracle you get laid every day from now until 30, you're still going to be aware that you were a virgin until 28. Life isn't some progress bar where it doesn't matter when stuff goes in, just how much.
All you can do is cope with that reality. That's the only way you won't be fucked up forever

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i want to replace my gtx 660. which one should i get under 300dollars?
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a GTX 970 should be under 300 bucks
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>>17413376
This. It's about 300 dollars if I remember right and it's definitely the best videocard you can get for this money. With it you can play almost anything on high with 60fps on 1080p.
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Get the Ghettoforce GTX

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I've been employed three times so far and all jobs have ended with me walking out. I have a lot of social problems with work, other co-workers, workplace drama, that sort of stuff. It always stressed me out.

Ideally you go to work to work. But the world doesn't always work that way. People make your life miserable because they want something out of you.

Any advice for any future jobs I might have? What do you guys when everyone is passive-aggressive and out to get you?
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>>17413333
The world actually does work that way. Sounds like you're the problem OP.

Why are you such an angry little fuck?
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Yeah you sound like a total prick who takes no personal responsibility. Get over yourself and others and just make some fucking money.
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>>17413340
>>17413336
Okay well good luck building working relationships in the future. Good to know you've never had a problem in your cushy lives

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Hi /adv/.

OP from the other day here.

Following on from my tick bite while at a music festival/innawoods here in the UK, it seems my doctor was correct and I've picked up Lyme disease from the little fucker.

Pic related is my arm this morning (inb4 puny manlet).

I feel like I've been hit by a truck and haven't been able to move much all weekend with shitty flu symptoms. I've just called the doctors again (thank you God-tier NHS 111) and I have to go in for more tests/treatment on top of the antibiotics (doxycycline) I was given on Thursday.

A word of warning to anyone out and about: cover up and get checked if you pick one of these up. This feels like absolute shite.

Anyone else had it? We get around 3,000 new cases a year in Bongland and it's more common in the states. Long term effects can be nasty as fuck.
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At least its not contagious like my herpes, be glad op
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>>17413429

https://www.lymedisease.org/lyme-sexual-transmission-2/
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>>17413318
Make sure you take probiotics unless you want to destroy your good bacteria and get a systemic candida infection.

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