How the fuck do you make friends in school/workplace?
Like friends that will spend their free time with you and do fun things?
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>>17452798
by being fuck awesome
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>>17452798
Talk with the people you want to be friends with whenever you can. Find common interests. Invite them to hang out.
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Never offer your contact info. Apparently, doing this makes you seem too needy of attention, if you're a guy. I'm just learning this now.
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Mutual friend setting me up? Should I go for it? 2016-08-12 04:41:13 Post No.17452762
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Mutual friend setting me up? Should I go for it?
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Best friend's girlfriend told her friend about me. She's been doing this thing lately where she tries setting me up with her friends before even telling me about it. I'm indifferent to it because I have been single for a while and it wouldn't really hurt to let her do it.
She told me that one of her friends thinks I'm really cute and wants to meet me. I honestly doubted I'd find the girl attractive before she sent the photo. She's like a 6/10 in pictures, which let me clear up is not bad by any means. She's cute, but I'm not sure if she'd be my type. She's a musician that plays small gigs, and according to my friend, she's got her shit together for her age.
Only concerns are
>I'm 19, almost 20, freshman in college. She's only a few months into 17, and a senior in high school.
>We'd be an hour and a half apart. Granted, this is not a huge deal, as I think I could handle a LDR if this thing takes off. She still goes to school in my hometown.
>According to my friend, she's really interested in meeting/talking to me. For some reason to me this waves a huge red flag. I think it's mainly because my first relationship I ever had started like that. Girl messaged me on FB, we hit it off, and she ended up extremely dependent, clingy, and unable to control her emotions and think with a level head. It ended horribly. I don't want to repeat that.
Should I go against my instinct and give it a shot with her?
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give it a shot bro, maybe she just has a great first impression of you for whatever reason. or ask her on the first date why does she think you are cute/wanted to meet you. nothing can go wrong
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>half an hour distance
>LDR
lol no
Anyways worst case scenario it goes nowhere.
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Go for it, she's too far away to be a problem but close enough for fun times.
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What kind of game is she playing?
A few months ago, i met a cute girl and went on a few dates with her. On the second date, she came over and was all touchy feely with me and we ended up making out and cuddling during a movie. Things seemed to be escalating, but then on the day we had plans for a third date, she flaked and i never heard from her again, without ever knowing why. I texted her once, gave her one last call, but nothing, so i deleted her number, facebook, and instagram.
The other day, she liked a pic of me on instagram. My stomach fucking jolted at the notification. Really?! All these months, after she completely ignored my attempts to reach out, and she likes my shit knowing i'm going to see it?? That's fucked up, i didnt even know she was still following me. She never liked any of my shit until now.
But i said whatever, she probably liked it by accident anyway.
But now she's liking every picture that i post! What the fuck is her problem? Don't worry, i'm not going to hit her up again, i can't anyway, i don't have her number anymore. But why is she doing this?
Btw all the pics i posted recently have been me being out and about, just having a blast. Today i posted one of me on top of a mountain, overlooking the world like a king. Think she's now realizing she fucked up because i'm awesome, or is she just being a cunt?
Has anyone been in a similar situation? I'm just puzzled really. She can keep seeing me not give a shit about her and liking my pics all she wants, she can go fuck herself.
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>>17452728
She has someone else.
Just because she hanged out with you and was all touchy doesn't mean she isn't do it the same thing with other guys when you are looking.
If you as me, if a girl puts out easily, it doesn't mean you are special, it means she doesn't care who she does it with as long she gets the attention.
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>>17452760
Yeah, i know i'm not special to her, i said i never heard from her again. Tell me something i don't know.
What i want to know is why she's being an attention whore out of nowhere after shunning me.
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>>17452775
Because she can and has literally nothing to loss.
If I were you I would just block her and move on with my life.
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How do you handle bitchy behavior from your gf?
My gf always snaps at me for every little thing I do wrong. If she's having a bad day or is frustrated about something else she takes it out on me. Maybe I didn't cook something the right way or she doesn't like how I drive. She'll find something to get mad about. And then she'll boss me around and tell me everything I have to do, or just tell me to go away because she's irritated at me, sometimes she even hits me.
Usually I just go along with it and she'll apologize for it later. When I show any sort of reaction to it she'll either get more angry at me or downplay it. I love her to death but I also feel like I'm not respecting myself by letting her act this way towards me.
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Stop acting like a little bitch. She knows she can treat you like one and she does it because you won't do anything about it. Tell her to get her shit in order before she get's in the door and if she doesn't like how you do things then she can take a hike. Show some balls anon.
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>>17452727
Fuck her in the eye until she stops
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>>17452747
finally some good advice
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So I want to look into learning new languages in my spare time. Spanish and/or Japanese.
Are there any good (and preferably free) resources that I can use online for either one?
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>>17452701
>good
>free
Sorry friend, but all the truly good resources cost cash. Rosetta Stone.
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>>17452723
>Rosetta Stone
>Good
Go find a natural speaker at one of the restaurants and befriend them
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Hola
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I'm in a dilemma and I need help
>gf and I in a pretty good relationship
>long distance but we see each other a good amount, just saw her for a month
>some good news came up and I might be able to move her here next week before her school semester starts
>some issues could delay it till the end of the year though
So here's the thing, if delays happen I think she might break up with me because she doesn't like it when we're not actually together in real life.
So what should I do because I love her a lot and I just want to think ahead of time just in case I can't move her down here next week. Thanks for the help.
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Just tell her how you feel.
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>>17452694
literally the only thing you can do
>try to move next week
>talk to her if it doesnt pan out
im not a believer in long distance, but if shes not in this. shes not in this, regardless of the context.
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>>17452694
Talk to her about it. If she can for sure move in eventually and she loves you too she'll wait. If she can't than she doesn't really love you and is looking for an excuse to break up. Or you disappointed her multiple times before so she just doesn't believe you anymore. Seriously just fucking talk to her, you guys know the relationship better than any strangers on the Internet and if you can't even talk about your concerns than why are you with each other
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Give me ONE (1) good reason why I should not drunk text this chick who I', 90% sure wants to fuck, "do you want to fuck"?
She's literally told me she's had feelings for me and that she misses me.
Catch is she's black tho
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>>17452656
I got nothin'...
Press on, sailor.
Ask her to send us some nudes, while you're at it.
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>>17452656
>raping animals
Disgusting.
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I had my very first pap test about 6 weeks ago, and lost my virginity about 1 months before that.
While losing my virginity was quite painful and difficult, it was after the pap test that I got a constant internal pain in a very specific point. I did keep having sex after that, but that pain does not go away.
My bf tested himself for stds, nothing came up, and I don't have any either.
I'm going to the gynecologist, but it'll take me some weeks before I can actually go to that session, I'm still worried and sort of in pain.
Any idea of what is probably causing that pain?
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No. But it's good that you're getting it checked out. I'm pretty sure everything will be alright, and even if something's up, you're taking the steps to take care of yourself.
Most people are too stupid to do that.
I love you, Anon. Be safe, and always use protection.
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Anon I want to fuck you
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nobody has any idea of what could it be?
Also, I'm 26 if that matters
>be me
>after class today
>Chatting with this 9/10 QT 3.14159 from one of my classes
>she looks like a Stacy but she's actually a Catholic girl from a really close knit family.
>STEM major
>she asks me what I got on our midterm
>"92%" mean was 71%
>"wow that's really good anon"
>ask her what she got
>63%
>chuckle at her
>she playfully hits me on the shoulder and says, "it's not funny!!!"
>continue talking for another 5 minutes
>goes really good
>feeling cocky as fuck
>ask her if she wants to study together over the weekend
>"definitely" as she grabs my phone out of my hand and proceeds to put her number in it
>a few nerdy guys were standing next to us
>they look at me and then at her ass as she walks away
>feel alpha as fuck
>literally the best I've felt in years
>mfw
How do I proceed? I literally have no idea what to text her as I haven't texted a female in years.
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hey, i was thinking we'd get an early start, you could come by my place at say, 11am?
or if you want to push it for later, etc. word it whichever way reflects what you want. that being said, have some 'distractions' ready so you dont have to do all that much studying.
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>>17452643
also a few learning lessons you shoudl take form this
>literally the best ive felt in years
if you really do mean literally, id reflect on that. one success with a girl should not be the best feeling you've had in years. otherwise you set yourself up for years of misery.
also
>looks like a stacy but shes actually a catholic girl from a really close knit family
maybe you shoudl stop judging people based on such things. while looks help shape a person, they can help shape people to be completely different. they say ugly people are nicer cuz they have to work to make people like em. on the other hand there are plenty of evil fucking ugly people cuz being ugly has made them resent life. beauty works the same way. some people let it spoil them. others still manage to be great peopel. most of us are just in the middle. and i know a 'stacy' has a certain kind of attractive, not the general kind, but again, it doesnt really tell you anything other than how they look.
its okay to judge a book by its first chapter. but not its cover.
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Send her a link to a song that you like and then see what she says, it gives you something to talk about, and you get to know her a little better.
>inb4 autist
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Bleeding nonstop... wtf 2016-08-12 03:38:26 Post No.17452641
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Hoping that another anon has experienced this before. I have a problem with my period. I soak two overnight maxi pads in about 6 hours without birth control.
>17
>Bled for two months straight
>Mother says it's normal after the one month period.
>Dad is freaked out about how long i had been bleeding, takes me to get seen.
> Doctors scold both of us for not being sooner
>Doctor sends me to the ER to see why the fuck I am bleeding
>They find I am actively bleeding and prescribe me Birth control to get it to stop. Works well for a while and I end up stopping use because I'm a dumb fuck.
When I hit 25 I started bleeding and bleeding badly. Two overnight maxi pads in 3 hours. Huge fucking clots This time after 2 weeks I get seen because I wasn't about to go through 2 months of that crap.
>Doctor looks at the amount of blood on the pad she had me sit on, then both her and her nurse looks at me horrified telling me I have to go to the hospital right now.
>Pumps me with two bags of estrogen which gets it to stop for about 5 hours (I was released after hour two because we thought it was over)
>Midnight the horror begins all over again
>Next few months we struggle to get it to stop. The BC pills just do not work so she put me on Skyla (IUD).
> Effectively stops the period.
>Never was actually told what was causing the bleeding
>IUD makes sex painful every few months
Around 5 month ago (We are on year two of three with the IUD) I started spotting and randomly bleed It's getting heavier with each "Period" and Now every two weeks or so I will find huge blood stains in my Undergarments.
Has anyone had this shit happen to them because I am honestly terrified of going back to the doctors at this point. Neither times they gave me an answer and with the Periods getting heavier it appears to me that the IUD is starting to become less effective
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Maybe you are a hemophilic?
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>>17452650
Wouldn't that mean I would bleed constantly when cut?
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>>17452654
I think so, but I am not a doctor. Hemophilic women usually suffer from what you are talking about, the non-stop heavy bleeding during periods.
How do you stop having acquaintances and start having proper friends? Like ones that actually invite you to stuff instead of it being mainly one-sided
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Bumping for interest
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>>17452599
Start having conversations with these acquaintances, chat with them after school/work, strike up conversation when you have a little break, ask deeper and more meaningful questions (not excessively), and don't work to be someone else, but work to benefit them. Act in a fashion that the person you want to be friends with would appreciate, tell a joke they'd like or be serious and down-to-earth to match them. Don't change who you are but from time to time work to benefit them in a selfless way. Also invite them to things that friends do. Ask if they want to go play basketball together, or host a small house party, or invite them to do whatever would be interesting and fun. The easiest solution to be friends is to just treat them like friends.
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>>17452704
Not the OP, but I've done all of these things over time and all it has really done is gotten me used for my hospitality.
I guess a better question would be how to find people with souls and a conscience that actually do these things, too.
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I lied on my resume but got a callback for an internship, how do I prepare for the interview?
The lies
>GPA higher than it is
>said I had an internship when it was just an unpaid school mentor program thing
Those are the only ones, am I fucked or can I still get the job? This would be my first real job apart from minimum wage slave jobs
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>>17452552
lmfao they won't give a shit about your GPA.
if they ask about your mentor program thing, spin it off as a legit internship and really play up the role that makes you a good fit. i doubt they'll go searching it up about it or call anyone
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We need way more details than this. Basically, did they request a transcript? If not, you're probably fine. However, if you didn't send in your resume, and just emailed someone a few details, they may ask for it later. You're completely fucked if they do.
And they will likely call whoever your direct overseer was for that program. You can still likely play it off, don't lie outright about it, just spin and exaggerate. It helps a shit ton if you can talk to your boss from the program and ask them to help you out.
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>>17452589
Thanks for your answers. No transcript request, just sent my resume. I'm still friends with my supervisor from that program and she actually owes me a favor so things could work out.
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I think I took to many hydrocodone too quickly, have had surgery recently so I had surplus, what do?
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>>17452551
call a hospital. tell them how much you took. make sure you tell them it was an accident. ask them what you should do.
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>>17452551
911. Call it quick before it really hits.
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As an ex-user, you'll be fine. Do not drink alcohol. It is very likely you will throw up but if you don't and it feels good then have a good time.
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Of all places, I've somehow come to my final resort and I need some advice from you guys.
I'm a high school senior, and throughout my high school experience, I'd say I had so much fun. Ive always been active in theatre, band, learning multiple languages, reading, etc. And I'm overall an artistic minded kind of guy. However, I was recently accepted to Berkeley, and of course I'm going there.
The problem, however, is that I'll major in music. How fucked am I? I figured I could just teach high school band. It's hard to switch majors at such a school.
I think I fucked up. I love music, really, but I don't want to be a waiter all my life. Please give me some hope.
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It's not impossible to switch majors there. You said you enjoy languages, you could study a language or linguistics, or both. Don't feel locked down to one specific thing. I went to a demanding school, changed my major after freshman year. Just graduated with a degree in physics, with minors in math and Spanish linguistics
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>>17452544
Unless you think you will make it big as a musician, or your dream in life is to play in an orchestra and you are already amazing, you should probably switch.
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>>17452560
this
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Is it normal for your cock to flex when it experiences pleasure?
Like when I'm hard and brush my hand against the head/shaft it flexes tight in response to this. Completely involuntarily.
But sometimes I do voluntarily flex my dick because it feels damn good, especially when I jack off. Do it during sex too.
Done it for as long as I remember.
Is this normal or have I trained my cock to do this?
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>>17452542
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you mean it twitches kinda? that is normal. everybody does that.
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dude its your pc muscle
its all good
enjoy having a penis