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>make series of bad decisions with this girl in my life
>while consulting my friend for the umpteenth time about it, he tells me I've officially passed the point of sympathy
What did he mean by this?
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Hes tired of listening to you bitch about shit when you clearly never learn
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You are a lost cause, please kill yourself
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>>17453143
If I keep fucking up but never talk to my friends about it anymore, will they still judge me?
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Insomnia causing problems at work 2016-08-12 07:18:16 Post No.17453130
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I'm dealing with another bought of sleeplessness.
Yesterday I was running on one hour of sleep. Although during the rest of the month I've been employed by the company I've been a hard worker, my boss walked into my office area--I'm a receptionist; it's shared--and caught me using my personal laptop. I moved to close it, but when I saw him opened it and continued goofing around. He looked a bit disappointed as he went about his business.
Other than the screwup yesterday, I've exceeded expectations and proven myself a better employee than my higher paid co-workers--I'm a temp trying to go permanent. They spend most of their shifts playing on their cell phones or taking personal calls on the company line while I'm working or, if there's nothing for me to do, reading the news online.
Should I talk to my boss and apologize or let it go?
I've decided to stop taking my laptop to work unless there's a legitimate reason. If it's a one off mistake, I don't think he'll care in light of the office's low standards. At the same time, I don't want to look leave bad situation unresolved.
What should I do?
As for my sleep issues, acupuncture helped a bit, but I don't have the money for it now. Medication doesn't work, even if I had insurance. Tips on dealing with insomnia would be appreciated.
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Hey anon! I used to have really bad insomnia! Things that helped me was getting cardio in every day for atleast a half hour. I also found it helpful to not watch netflix in bed and only use it for sleep and sex. Also if you're laying in bed for more then 30 min get up and do something for 20 min then trying going back to bed.
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>>17453130
Apologize to your boss, explain yourself but still take full responsibility. He'll appreciate your apology and openness to admitting your mistake, and he'll likely have more grace for your if he knows your situation. Apologize in a genuine manner and be respectful in it.
As far as insomnia, there are a large amount of factors that could be responsible for your sleep deprivation, including depression, anxiety, stress, lack of exercise, poor eating habits, and poor sleeping habits. Try repetition and finding healthy patterns for when you eat and exercise.
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>>17453173
Thanks. Those are good ideas. What do you recommend for my work situation?
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I am from Switzerland. Next month I will work at an Italian car company. It is a job which will only last for a week. I have worked at this company twice before.
The last two times, I was mainly assigned to be with the Italian coworkers who were also in Swizterland temporary. I hence got to know the Italian coworkers much better than the ones at the Swiss branch. They liked to intiate conversations with me. From what I have observed, there is a lot of workplace politics at the Swiss branch and hence a high staff turnover rate - I do not know the many of the new people in charge of human resources.
I know that this is a very short temporary job, but I am worried about being caught up in workplace politics as well as my coworkers disliking me. I want to work at this company three more times in the future if it fits into my schedule.
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>>17453111
IF YOU DONT RESPOND TO THIS THREAD IN 10 SECONDS THIS TIGER WILL EAT YOUR FAMILY
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>>17453111
Its only a week. Keep your head down and dont engage too heavily. Lose yourself in your work.
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>>17453125
True. However, I am thinking about keeping in touch with some of the coworkers at the Italian branch. They shared the same niche interest as me and the last time we met we just really enjoyed talking to each other. Is asking to keep in touch with them worth the risk of being caught up in workplace politics?
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Redpill me everything about student loans.
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>>17453071
Dont take them
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You should never need student loans.
Financial aid, scholarships, parents/working to pay for it yourself, ect.
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If you can't get the money otherwise, you'll need them. Prioritize paying them off as soon as you can, don't buy anything, cheap out everywhere you can to make the payments. Don't get fucked on interest, just walk away if it's too high before you sign anything
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I'm not sure where to start:
FIRST
I'm sad. All the time. About everything. I've always been very empathetic and sensible. But ever since my highschool years I've been sad. To the point where Ive become almost dale because I truly feel bad most of the time.
I have no reason to be sad. My life is above average and I have nice people around me. This I can logically understand but not emotionally experience.
SECOND
Because of this perpetual feeling of angst sadness and crushing loneliness I've become fake with the few people I have around me. No one likes a sad 25yr old so I have to pretend I'm cheerful. Or atleast not about to break into tears all the time. I've gotten awefully good at it. Back in highschool I would just hold it, then cry myself to sleep. My mother would try to console me or help but even then I was able to logically conclude and explain to her that my sadness had no active reason. She never believed this and always tried to dig deeper thinking maybe I had an issue with someone or something.
Being this way, most people around me like me because I'm nice and try to be good to people.
Yet I've only been able to truly care for about 2 girls in my life. Both of which I lost over my sadness when they realized how I am. For example my most recent exgf literally told me she wasn't able to deal with such strong feelings. This after 3 years of being together. And I get it, because if I could I'd leave my sad ass too.
THIRD
Being like this leaves you exposed to whatever is happening. Everything hits you hard.. So from a young age I develop the knowledge to defend myself with solid arguments, plus my granfather and father are martial artists so I've always known how to defend myself because of them and training.
I'm able to both metaphorically and literally take down pretty much whoever wants trouble because of this knowledge, training, and I'm a big guy. Not that anyone is or has tried to mess with me in a long time.
Yet I'm always fearfull.
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All of these took me to
FOURTH
Drugs. I started smoking weed and eventually dropping acid. Both ideas of my exgf.
So yes weed helped me to deviate my mind from whatever dark place it would go. Yet emotionally I would still feel sick.
LSD would actually make me feel good, make me feel happy and joyful. But this is not the kind of drug you can take and go to work with. So I just stopped doing it since it had no real results and the fleeting happiness it brought felt more like an emotional hallucination than actual long lasting happyness or satisfaction. Everything felt like it had that substance I was missing. But bottom line is that is just the drug, not me. Yet I still smoke weed daily like a mofo which I'd like to do but I fear the sadness will somehow bounce back stronger or something. Since I stopped smoking for a week or so and went back to not going outside unless job related.
So I'm sad and fearful for no reason all the time plus weed addict. And yes I've learned to live with this. Work around it and such..
But I've come to the point where I want to truly change and be happy yet I have no more ideas of what to do or try.
Ive experienced a lot of goodness but almost no happiness as I see other experience. If I'm not able to change that it means that for howeverl ong I'm alive I'm gonna feel this way. This is why ive decided to give myself a deadline.
If nothing inside of me has changed by the time I'm 28 (2.5 years) then I'll quietly end my life and suffering.
I'm willing to try anything but drugs (medical or otherwise) and would like to leave weed behind.
Can anyone guide me at all? What's wrong with me? How can I approach all this?
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>person has depression
>writes walls of text about life-story and over how peculiar the situation is
First step is to accept that you're depressed and not a special snowflake. Google "how to treat depression" and start seeing a therapist.
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>>17453067
Sadness is you denying the fact that you live a good life. You said it yourself. You have all the opportunities in the world and you squander it. Why? For what? Self pity? Boo hoo, everything is depressing?
I used to be in your shoes until I truly realized I had the capability to shape my life with my own two hands and feet. The clock is ticking and I refused to waste time moping and feeling bad for myself. I used to do drugs like you as well and I quit that too because a healthy body leads to a healthy mind.
You have to shape your environment. Find happiness that is in front of you and stop comparing your life to lsrge and unrealistic ideals. Your family, friends and future. You can either mope and disappear from everyone's memory or you can have fun with your only one shot at life. I prefer the latter.
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im 18 and a 27 year old music professor wants to go on a date with me 2016-08-12 06:48:04 Post No.17453066
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im 18 and a 27 year old music professor wants to go on a date with me
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shes korean and is evidently very attracted to me but I really dont really know what to think about it
is this a common thing in asian countries?
shes cute and I like chatting with her but wow
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Yeah, fuck her brains out. Why wouldn't you?
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>>17453089
im only 18 and ive been with like only three girls man
first time I couldnt even get it up
shes 27
how am I supposed to do this
its like an entirely different dynamic from a highschool girl
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>>17453099
I don't fucking know do you want me to do it for you? Act like yourself because she apparently likes it enough. If you do well, you get poon and qt noona gf, if you fuck up, what do you have to lose?
What specifically are you even asking for from us?
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I met a really cute Asian girl and she has an asa akira sized ass and I need to fuck. How do I play it? ive never chased asians before ive stuck with latinas and white girls.
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>Asa Akira
>ass
Hello ireland
Anyway, azn girls really like when you honor their traditions, try digging a network of tunnels around her house in which to ambush her
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>>17453073
Make sure you shout
> Banzai or Satan guide my cock
or something along those lines when you charge her with your erection
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>Ireland
What?
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Is it worth it to go to /fit/ for anything at all? I'm looking to get myself as close to physically capable as a soldier without actually joining the military, and I'm looking for pointers.
All I want from here is whether or not /fit/ is worth a visit for this, or do I have to do it the hard way?
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Going to /fit/ is the hard way, it won't magically make you stronger. Just don't fall into all the traps like fat hate threads and high test and whatever other non self improvement threads are there. Read the sticky, do the sticky, and never go to /fit/ for anything else
You're not gonna make it anyway
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>>17453024
http://www.benning.army.mil/infantry/rtb/content/PDF/Ranger%20School%20Prep%201%202.pdf
have fun
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>>17453033
Of course /fit/ won't make you magically stronger, it's full of morons. Mostly I just want to figure out scheduling and shit from them, but I dunno of I trust them enough to actually do what they say.
>>17453034
Huh. Thanks for the link.
Should I go back to the psyche ward? I miss the Raisin Bran.
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>>17453015
Just shoplift easy solution
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>>17453031
That way I could get Raisin Bran Crunch. They don't have Raisin Bran Crunch at the psyche ward.
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Raisins, bran, and cereal in general are bad for you anyway.
Stay clean and eat brown rice for your carbs and fresh fruit for your sugars. Also, grapes are too sugary, eat plums instead, they taste nearly identical but are much healthier and cheaper to boot
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So my family shames me for being a gamer but I see nothing wrong with it
I'm in ok shape, could be better but I'm not morbidly obese or a hungry skeleton
I work
I go to school
and I plan to move out of my parents house in the next 2-3 years
but for some reason everytime they see me playing a game on my ps4 or PC they throw this huge fit of how Im a manchild
I dont understand why Im getting so much hate, its just a hobby that I enjoy in my spare time when Im not working or doing homework, anyone in a similar situation?
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beat your mother
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Lemme guess, they watch hours of TV/Netflix every day? Chances are, they do. Point it out.
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Anyone who says "I'm in ok shape" never is.
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I'm 24 and have never asked a girl out, I just graduated from university and I'm terrified about being alone forever.
Where do people meet girls after uni? How do I not act horribly?
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>>17452902
I'll let you in on a secret
There are girls browsing this board at this very second
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>>17452902
I'll let you in on a secret
There aren't girls browsing this board at this very second
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>>17452912
whoa wtf i hate /ADV/ now
So I have avascular necrosis in my right femur head. I used to be very active playing street soccer with my group of friends but now I can't even walk more than a mile without a buildup of pain and discomfort which lasts for quite a while. I turned to weed for pain control as they gave me no meds at least until my surgery. Unfortunately I lost self control and munchies mixed with not being able to run has made me gain 15 pounds. I counted calories and was able to lose the weight but now I have love handles on my hips which won't go away. So how the fuck do I get rid of these love handles without cardio?
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Restrict your diet to the point that your body has no choice but to turn to your fat reserves. We're talking less than 1,000 calories a day. No fun, right? Right. But that's what you're looking at.
Alternatively, you can take up swimming which is easy on the joints or whatever else is hurting you, and combine that with a restricted low calorie diet, until you have shed the excess.
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The way fat cells work is that once you have them, they won't go away, just get smaller. All you can really do is keep cutting, you're now going to be more disposed to weight gain if you pig out but it's definitely not impossible to keep the weight off, just gonna take a bit more effort.
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Don't do this, 1000 is too extreme and will burn muscle tissue long before fat and can eat into organ tissue I'd you sustain the diet long enough, and your love handles will only become more apparent with less body mass otherwise.
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>>17452894
Thanks. FPBP. Gonna be like an anorexic teen girl now. Hope your day has treated you well stranger.
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Where the hell do you find conservative women like pic related? Do I really have to go all the way down to Texas or am I just not talking with enough women? It's like every single woman by default is liberal, I just want to find someone with the same views as me.
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Fuck me wrong pic, it's Tomi Lahren. OP pic is hot too though.
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women are generally not conservative because conservativisim doesn't have good solutions for the issues that face woman.
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>>17452868
Conservative women are unattractive and should blow their heads open with a shotgun. You should too if your voting for trump. I'd rather drop LSD with a hot liberal girl. It's much more fun.
Does anyone have any experience with age gap relationships? Are they a good idea?
I'm 27 and the guy I'm interested in is 39.
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I'm a 19 year old female and am dating a 26 year old male. It's kind of a dramatic difference but it's not something we ever really think about it. It's fine.
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Acknowledge the age difference but don't let that affect your behavior. It's unhealthy to pretend he's younger or suppress thoughts and worries about age, but it's also not something that should make you tiptoe around it or take actions differently.
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>>17452888
From this anon
>>17452874
I've lived with him for a year now and we've ran into a few issues regarding where we place responsibilities and stuff. It was just him being rude about chores needing to be done. I called him out on it and he realized how I was taking his behavior and how it could be considered demeaning and was super apologetic.
But, yea. Keep communication open like in any relationship.
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GF is a weird sex anomaly 2016-08-12 05:10:15 Post No.17452821
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4.5 months, everything's been going smoothly so far. We communicate well and care for each other very much, but when it comes to sex I'm at a loss.
So here's the cliche she has a lower sex drive than me. She knows I'm horny 24/7 so she compromised by letting me do anything I want to her. She basically told me that I can use her body anytime I wanted. And I'll tell you straight up I did just that. I always made sure I got consent and sometimes I did get rejected because she just wasn't feeling it but if I had to describe her sexual side in a single word I'd say neutral. Like she doesn't care either way.
She's also never horny, or at least very rarely. On the few occasions she's horny she jumps me and quickly loses her horniness. When I start playing with her and she gets turned on, she wants me to do more and more but quickly loses the feeling again. I'm not doing anything wrong I feel, she tells me what feels good and what doesn't. It's just like, her horniness has a time limit and it resets very rapidly. I don't think I've seen her horny for more than 5 minutes.
Honestly I've stopped taking part in her compromise. As much as I want sex I really don't feel like it's right to just use her that way. I can tell she's not really into it and I'd rather make it more enjoyable for the two of us. Whenever i'm horny now, I just jack off and wait for the opportune time to get sexual with her.
I've never encountered something like this. I don't even know how to go about it. She only gets turned on by certain things (me holding her down/being dominant) but also gets bored of things quickly (can't use the same trick twice). What do you guys think?
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Could be anything.
Perhaps she is a control freak?
>In the sense that she doesn't want to lose control of herself.
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Sounds like she was sexually abused as a child.
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>>17452835
That thought occurred to me