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Metrosexual Arab looking guy (central asian) facing hostility at local Gym from old racists 2016-08-11 10:15:53 Post No.17450233
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Metrosexual Arab looking guy (central asian) facing hostility at local Gym from old racists
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It's pretty amazing how people act towards me last year vs now, gotta thanks ISIS.
Anyways past week alone I have had several race related incidents at our local gym. I was on the way to the door, from a mile away I see a guy holding door open with his leg while using his phone. I didn't think anything of it. I walk in and he starts complaining I didn't thank him for opening the door.
Then same day I head to an empty machine. This fat old white guy with tatoos grabs me by my shirt and tells me he has to just do "few reps" and asked me to wait for him, mind you i was already sitting on machine and he came from no where. Instead of waiting I walked away, but not gonna lie I wanted to shove a key up that dude's eye socket.
Then again the other day I am on a machine and another white guy with tatoos and what not comes and tells me he is using that machine with his buddies, gives me this huge speech about me waiting. I left the machine.
But, these are starting to add up and become more frequent. And they make me angry because I am not a big guy, so clearly these guys are taking that as an advantage. They also continuously put me in situations where they expect me to act up but I don't, but i know what the fuck they are doing.
Also most of these guys are ugly, they have probably shit lives and nothing to prove for themselves. I myself am a loner but I am not idiot, however being in a situation where I am being dominated because of my decency is starting to piss me the fuck off. How do I deal with this shit? I am not arab, so I can't hang out with other arab dudes. I am also an atheist so I don't really like hangin out with muslims.
I am from a distinct central asian tribe, and the culture I grew up in is so different that i only mainly get along with some asian folks or northern europeans. How the fuck do I stop myself from becoming a target for these pricks?
Pic related its me. Height is 5'7 and wait is 110 lbs.
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sorry about the spelling errors. "weight" etc, you get the point.
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>>17450233
Not sure why your sexuality was mentioned but to be honest it sounds like they are just assholes.
You sound like you are from the US, stop defining yourself on race and sexuality and stop taking things so personal or as a racist motive.
Gain an open mind, socialize regardless of ethnicity and switch gym. Sounds like a bad one anyway.
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>not thanking people who hold the door for you
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So.
This should be an odd one.
I absolutely hate female leads, it seems, there's this one character who is super powerful(In a shitty webcomic I read), super cocky and has been devoid of any noticeable character growth throughout the webcomic's progression.
This, of course, makes her a shitty character and her male equivalent is a better character because of his growth throughout the series he was from.
HOWEVER
Were this female lead I hate to actually be a dude(with all the aforementioned shitty characteristics), I can't exactly imagine myself hating them. In fact I don't hate this hypothetical character, it is really as simple as that.
Am I sexist?
Pic... Kinda related I guess?
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>>17450175
Please leave, Paul Feig.
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Idk but you are a faggot for making a thread about something so inane.
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>>17450179
Could it possibly be... That I don't like seeing women be physically stronger than men?
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Yo /adv/, I just don't want to feel anything anymore. Any tricks you have so I can not give a shit the next time a female tries to conversate with me? I'm not looking for advice that can help me better myself. I'm over that. I want to become an apathetic careless asshole.
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Imagine you're talking to guy.
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>>17450144
Unless you are a sociopath, that isn't going to happen.
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>>17450161
Okay, fuck. How can I give significantly less of a shit?
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Looking for some help. I start school I'm a few days and just thinking about it makes me shake with nervousness. I dread thinking about having to talk in front of the class, talk to people. I'm thinking of taking anxiety pills, will they help me with my social phobia and nervousness?
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First day jitters. It happens to everyone. You'll be fine.
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>>17450148
No its not. It's not first day jitters at all. It literally cripples me and keeps me awake at night. I had this problem last year except it was every other day (split schedule) because in one of my classes I had no friends so I had no one to build my ego up.
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>>17450129
Dont take meds. Fix your problems naturally. Take up exercise, go out more, expose yourself. Meds are a temp solution.
Sounds like you are just naturally anxious. Try not to worry abd realize worrying is normal, even at your level. Its just a case in how you cope.
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How do you cut all ties with people who are full of shit? Friends or acquaintances that lie out their ass for no reason at all, all day long. Can tell 30 minute stories of shit that never happened.
Typically I would ignore these people but I can't really avoid a few I know because we go to the same places.
So sick and tired of hearing bullshit after bullshit lie about shit that doesn't even matter all day everyday. It's killing my vibe (and anyone else I'm with) and giving me a headache.
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Tell them to stop lying and find some love for their real selves and that you have no intention of remaining their friend because they have not done the aforementioned steps.
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>>17450126
>JUST.IGNORE.THEM
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>>17450163
Really sounds like the obvious answer. It's just something I never done before. I usually just ignore people like I said; not so good with confronting a liar. You're probably right just wish there was an easier way..
>be me
>18
>still attracted to 13yo girls
What's wrong with me? I'm still attracted to girls my age and older but lately I've been catching myself staring at younger girls.
A few days ago I was on a buddy's Instagram page and he had uploaded a photo of him and his cousins and I thought one of them was gorgeous and hot as shit. I see she's tagged so I go to her page to see that she's 13.
I feel like such a fucking perv.
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I'm 25 and still attracted to 20 year old girls.
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Worry if you're 30 and still feel this way.
Otherwise your fine, just don't do anything retarded like try to fuck a 13 year old.
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>>17450125
I don't get why people are so much worried with this.
The thing that is wicked on being a pedo is manupilating young lads to love you against their will. So just being attracted to young girls is not bad. Right, RIGHT?
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I've been talking to this girl for quite some time now
Recently she somewhat opened up to me, talking about her problems with her family and what not, but for the next few days I've been trying to text her but there has been no reply. Its really unusual for her to do such a thing.
What should I do?
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Wait and dont overthink. She might be busy or occupied with something else. Its the worst thing to hang on to waiting for a reply. Let it be for a week. If none then, then try.
Though if she has family problems, that is not gf material and a 100% red flag. Save yourself long term hurt and dont get too serious with this one.
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>>17450123
Thank you anon, I guess I just needed a second opinion on this matter
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Unsolicited dick pics will often garner a response, but you may not like it. But.... You could, also.
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How do I make my girlfriend cry during sex?
She asked me to do this today and I really don't know how. She really has no boundaries when it comes to what I can do with her, as long as it's not truly hurting her or emotionally abusing her. She wants to cry from a mix of pleasure and pain, but I have no idea how to cause this.
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>wants to cry from pleasure and pain
>won't let you cause pain
I suggest you point this out to her.
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>>17450107
Fuck her in the asshole and if she complains tell her >>17450117
Should make her cry.
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>>17450117
Oh, she wants me to slap her hard, pull her hair, spit in her face, choke her, gag her with my cock, etc....
She just doesn't want me to punch her in the face, make her pass out, or cause any dangerous pain, you know?
>>17450120
I can make her wince just with PIV sex, not sure how anal would go over. I'll bring that up next time though.
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I think my husband is cheating on me 2016-08-11 08:48:02 Post No.17450084
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I think my husband is cheating on me
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My husband has been really weird lately, his friend(who's also kinda my friend but we never talk one on one) is still a virgin at 25 and my husband has been talking about figuring out a way for him to break his duck and finally get out there and find women. This is all fairly understandable but he recently asked me if I'd have sex with his friend?
Yeah. What the heck?
First of all, I don't wanna fuck his friend, I married my HUSBAND for a reason. I don't wanna get in bed with a guy I only know through table top sessions.
He really wants me to do it though, he's been making me feel guilty and horrible about not wanting to. I feel like this is so crazy and random that he must have cheated somewhere down the line and is now trying to find a way to get me to be unfaithful as well? Or maybe he's just testing me?
I feel really uneasy about this whole thing because whilst, yes, my husband has always taken pride in doing good deeds for people close to him this is a whole other level? Right now I'm just waiting for him to say "its just a prank" or something but its been two weeks now and he's still being stand offish?
What the heck /adv/? What the heck?
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Sounds like your husband is a cuck fetishist.
I'm sorry it had be this way.
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>>17450084
Don't start getting suspicious about him cheating unless you find damn good evidence of it happening.
Don't ask a bunch of retards on the internet for their opinion, just be direct and fucking ask him why hes so insistent. Tell him what you've told us
>I feel really uneasy about this whole thing because whilst, yes, my husband has always taken pride in doing good deeds for people close to him this is a whole other level? Right now I'm just waiting for him to say "its just a prank" or something but its been two weeks now and he's still being stand offish
replacing the appropriate pronouns. also, this >>17450088
did he vote for bernie sanders by any chance?
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>>17450084
I would be furious if my bf even made this type of joke and he'd by an ex bf. If your husband wants to do his friend a favor he could take him to a massage parlor instead of pimping his wife out.
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How does one get over a crush/oneitis/infatuated?
What tips would you suggest I take to get over a chick permanently.
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Fuck another girl.
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>>17450071
Not all of us are good with women.
Any other way?
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>>17450077
Go to a prostitute.
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How do I find a nerdy fujoshi girlfriend? Can you give me advice on that? It's a big problem for me.
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>>17450060
Getting a girl is enough of a challenge for you as it is. Why try to find one with strange hobbies when you could get a normal gf to give you bjs on command?
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>>17450083
>Getting a girl is enough of a challenge for you as it is.
No it's not.
>Why try to find one with strange hobbies
Because I know myself, and I know what I like, and what sort of girl I like.
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I dunno man, I found my boyfriend on Tinder? Avoid girls who mention ~adventures~ and have a bunch of photographs where they're in a crowd of friends, nerds don't have no fuckin friends
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I've been practically living with this girl for the past two months now. We aren't dating but about three months ago we established that we are exclusive. Three days ago while on top of a mountain she told me she loved me and has for a bit. I'm lying in bed next to her right now but can't sleep because I'm insecure. She had a thing for a guy when we met but he lives in Hawaii. I was feeling weird about things (I see him text her sometimes and they're best friends on snapchat). I looked at her texts tonight. I know I shouldn't have but what's done is done. He called a few days ago and left a birthday message. She texted him that she really liked his message. That's all I could read before she came out of the bathroom.
Am I just being insecure? I think I should try to make things official tomorrow and see what she says. Who wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone they love unless they're trying to hide it?
What should I do? Thoughts opinions?
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>>17450052
Just spy some more, and try to get more evidence on what its happening there. Remember that friend wants to bone her, not be her "friend".
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>>17450074
>Remember that friend wants to bone her, not be her "friend".
This. I don't think you should bother spying on her though. Unless they've been friends for years, if not since child hood, the only reason she'd say she "really liked his message" was to express romantic interest. If it was purely platonic, she'd have only said something along the lines of "thank you". If she were romantically interested in you, and actually wanted to be exclusive, she'd have said she's dating you.
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>Cronus eats peridot.jpg
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Could you do it? To what degree? If someone knew something was wrong to do to someone else and they still did it, could you forgive them if they put forth the effort to actually try to change? Or would you just walk away from it all together?
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>>17450045
Depends what it is. Cheating, no going back.
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360 and walk away
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>>17450045
I don't really know what forgiveness is, but I'm capable of accepting the reality of a person as who they are, the reality of the past as it is, and that I have priorities higher than justice. This has enabled me to not get hung up on the past, while still being able to learn from it.
For example, I grew up in an abusive household, but I'm predominantly not mad and that enables me to put my energy to building things.
The turn the other cheek and resist not evil things can enable you to walk forward without needing to constantly look back.
None of this requires you to like the person, although that may follow, given that we tend to appreciate everything we don't have resistance to. In some ways, 'forgiveness', as I understand it, is extremely cold. It is unemotional. It allows the anger to resolve. You stop internally imposing standards on a person and strategise instead. It's a much more rational approach than asking someone to be what they're not.
People can also change, but they often need a rock bottom event to do so, and they can slip into their old behavior. Forgiving someone is not the same as trusting them. Accepting them may mean trusting them less.
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Male father figure/leader 2016-08-11 08:22:18 Post No.17450029
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I want a mentor in life. I'm 20. I want someone that has had experience and has dealt with shit. Someone that is wise. Where can I go about finding an older male 29+ that can give some good life advice not filled with bs.
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>>17450029
Nigger, we're a generation of men raised by women.
I'm 30 and have seeking a mentor my entire life. The professors at college don't give a fuck about you, your bosses don't give a fuck about you, etc.
We have to learn the hard way but it'll make us stronger for it.
Or break us down until we hang ourselves.
Watch Fight Club, you'll feel better.
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Figure it out yourself desu senpai.
Compare notes with your bros (the non toxic, successful ones - ditch the losers)
The older dudes in our generation fucked up and are useless idiots.
Time for our generation to try and rebuilt and not repeat their mistakes.
>>17450053
Basically this.
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>>17450090
How do I go about doing this. Like any tips
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i'm manically depressive and currently in a depressed stage. i have an important interview coming up in a few hours. when in my depressed phase, i have troubles saying coherent things and sometimes i can't even pull off a natural friendly smile.
do you guys have any tips for me?
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sure someone on here must've been in this situation before?
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dunno sorry mate
try to put everything out of your mind temporarily, push through it. act. just let the words come out.
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Have had the exact same situation as you... my interview went fine though, just go with the flow be in the moment . Sounds cheesy but spend the next couple hours just deep breathing and remember how you feel when you are happy