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No pleasure from anything 2016-08-11 23:15:15 Post No.17452057
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No pleasure from anything
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I think I've been this way for a long time but I've always mostly attributed it to circumstances rather than a deeper personality issue. Lately, though, I've started to believe it is mostly down to me.
There's nothing in my life I ever get excited about. I don't have any hobbies, I never ever feel like I'm having fun, things I know that I probably should be enjoying I'm not. I used to really enjoy videogames, had to stop because I couldn't afford it, then when I tried getting back into them I just didn't care. There have been a lot of books that I really enjoyed in the past, and they probably still have some power for me, but it's hard to pick something knowing that I may not enjoy it (I've exhausted a few 'best of' lists). Music has never been my thing. TV shows come and go - game of thrones was something I looked forward to but that's it and even then I wasn't that invested.
Most recently I was in a homosexual relationship (my first relationship). Kissing was comfy and I had a few blowjobs which were nice but wasn't that into it. I classify myself as mostly straight so I thought that was why I didn't think much of it. A couple of days ago I hired a female prostitute. Something I've been thinking about for years but never felt the need to go for it. Picked out somebody I was attracted to from a website, not my top choice looks wise but she seemed safe - not a trashy local or a trafficked minority.
The whole experience felt totally ordinary. I had a little shudder of nerves when she opened the door (was a little paranoid some guy would jump me) but apart from that I didn't feel any different. My heart rate didn't go up much, I wasn't panicking or thinking to myself "wow, I'm really doing this". I just went through the motions and left like nothing had happened. And it's not like I don't like the idea of sex, I think about it quite a lot, masturbate regularly, fantasise about people I know etc but the actual experience was just ordinary.
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I'm holding down a job. I don't have friends at work but the people I work alongside seem to have a neutral or positive opinion of me. I'm not very engaging but I'm always polite and good humoured. It's very rare that I feel upset, I wouldn't say I ever feel 'numb' but I do feel quite detached a lot of the time. I'm not sleeping much which I know probably isn't doing much good but even when I was sleeping well I don't think there was much difference. I've been on antidepressants during the occasional time of crisis but never stuck with them.
I don't like living this way. I know I'm missing out on enjoying what's in front of me. There's a lot in this world I won't have but I can't even get happiness from what's mine. How do I change?
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>>17452057
aspergers is real.
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>>17452140
It sure is but I don't see how that's relevant to me. Sure, I have some social issues but not in an aspie way - I'm not some goofy oblivious mess. I don't suffer from sensory overload, I don't have any aspie special talents or interests etc.
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Hello /adv/, I would like to ask for some help on career prospects. How can I become the next Führer?
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>>17452036
Find a college with a strong Pre-Fuhrer program.
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>>17452036
Suck at art.
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>>17452081
kek
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Messaging a girl on OkCupid 2016-08-11 23:08:41 Post No.17452034
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Messaging a girl on OkCupid
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2016-08-11 23:08:41
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Ok people, I'm a Brit and have just stumbled across the American girl on OkCupid I feel that I've fallen for immediately and want to get to know her better. Trouble is, I tend never to get messaged back. What can I say to make her interested in keeping the conversation going?
She's a feminist and pretty /thicc/ which makes it harder.
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>>17452034
What makes you think you'll have better luck messaging someone from across an ocean? If you can't even get replies from bitches near you, you're probly not that desirable, which means some broad thousands of miles away won't give you the time of day.
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>>17452061
Oh she's American in London. I don't do Long Distance. Should've made that obvious.
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>>17452061
>you're probly not that desirable
Thanks for destroying my already broken ego btw
Gonna go cry in bed and sleep
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Do I masturbate too much? 2016-08-11 23:07:45 Post No.17452030
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Do I masturbate too much?
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2016-08-11 23:07:45
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Im starting to get concerned because I now masturbate almost every single day. I read 2 articles that said it doesnt matter how much you masturbate, rather how it fits into your life style. I typically masturbate directly before showering, and if I'm busy all day I wont go out of my way to fap, I'll just not do it. It doesnt control my life at all, and if I need to go a few days without it I easily can, no problem. So is it still healthy and normal to fap everyday?
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>>17452030
Yeah, basically it is defined as a problem once it starts interfering with your life. So as long as you can resist jacking it when you should be doing other things you are good.
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>tfw so horny you could bust a nut to the lightest touch while out and about
>tfw you get home and its like trying to beat out the devil
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>>17452030
you are probably fine, anon.
i used to fap to porn basically everday, sometimes twice a day or more. once i started to get sexy with my gf i found it really hard to cum.
really though, it does depend on your lifestyle as >>17452046 said. if something like what happened to me comes up in the future, you might want to rethink whether it's a problem or not
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Hello /adv/
I have these moments where one small moment or confusion will unlock a whole bunch of insecurities in me, I'll stop trusting the person I'm around and believe they are unquestionably judging me, I'll think of 10 billion different things in life that frustrate and anger me and I'll go into near rage, I'll start punching myself in the head and little things like being touched or hearing a car engine starting will freak me the fuck out.
What the hell is wrong with me? Does this have a name?
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It means you're scarred from something, or multiple somethings, and need help. Feel free to confide in friends or anonymous faggots if you like, but they won't fix your issues. You need therapy, from someone who actually knows what they're doing, and doesn't know you personally, or they might be biased.
You have an overactive imagination and always expect the worst. I used to be like you, but now the only thing I have to deal with are trust issues, which I can put off when I recognize I'm thinking badly, illogically and irrationally.
Go see a professional, get your mind un-fucked.
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Yeah what the first anon said.
You gotta fix urself
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Excellent waifu taste there. I want to cum in her 2D pussy so hard.
Yeah, you've got some deep seated shit that needs looking into.
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Heya people,
First of all I know 4Chan is not my private doctor I am just looking for someone to talk to?
I something to be worried about. It's about an illness that I might be having. I has brought me under a lot of pressure.
I have been taking some Valerian and vitamin c.
Is it possible that I have triggered an stress response? What are the most common symptoms? What else can you tell me that might help?
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>>17451983
> Blurry pic of two tan-coloured bowling pins
You are suffering from hypochondria, I would suggest not browsing web doctor sites as a cure
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Op here.
Yeah I had nothing else on my phone man. Not pic related.
Yeah I have been reading a lot of medical sites recently. I am not sure if the information is true or just over exaggerated to scare and somehow maybe scare the person reading it.
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What's the illness that you're concerned about? Or if the stress response is the illness, then what has been stressing you?
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Growing hair [MAN] how to deal with the akward stage? i am really upset with this shit.
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>>17451981
If you can, get a specialist to "fix it". Tell her you don't want anything cut off too much, just enough hair to make it look nice. If thats not possible, wear hats. If you don't look good in hats, use a lot of hair gel.
This shit aint rocket science.
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>>17452004
lol
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I am a man and I've grown all the hair and I don't know what you're talking about
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I've had rocky mountain spotted fever for ten years. Now that it's been diagnosed and getting treated with minocycline, I'm having a really rough time with pain and depression. The pain is a constant really huge discomfort in every part of my body, and the depression is chronic. I'm on SSRIs and percocet, but it isn't enough. This is not fun. Do you have experience with depression or pain? What do you do for it?
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You carry on, OP.
There are a lot of ways to help yourself out, like medication and exercise, but ultimately, it is going to take time.
When it's hardest, just remember, all this will just be a story in time. Maybe it will take a hour, or a day, or a year, but sooner or later, all this pain and depression that is consuming your daily life will be just a single memory among a thousand others. And you'll be stronger and wiser for it.
So bide your time. Take medication. Get some exercise, and some rest. And wait for your time to shine again, because it's coming. It's a certainty.
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>>17451987
Thanks bro. It means a lot.
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Bumping for interest. Anyone else got any suggestions?
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What are the pros and cons of adderal?
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>>17451962
Bump, in your country this stuff is allowed?
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>>17451968
USA, if prescribed then yes its legal
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>>17451973
and how easy is that? Banned on Brazil
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How to be think fast and act like Tyrion,Saul goodman and this types of person.
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Have a very good script writer and director.
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>>17451948
Same way you get good at anything. Through repetition and experimentation.
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>>17451959
I am very good with argumentation, but i don't have the balls to do with some people "Cops, people trying to kill me or important people".
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How do I tell my christian parents that I converted to islam and that im going to marry a muslim man? Im scared to lose them
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>>17451935
Just say you found a new Abrahamic religion you want to pursue spiritually for now.
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>>17451935
Are you underage?
Do you need your parents permission to get married?
If not then why is this an issue, just be an adult about it and be open.
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>>17451935
Troll thread.
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I feel like years of depression and anxiety has scarred me badly.
My concentration is messed up. I zone out easily during lectures, movies, books and conversations which makes pretty much everything feel like a burden - even watching movies or playing video games.
My memory is similar to that of a senile old man. I often forget what I just read, what happened earlier during a movie or instructions someone just told me.
I read that long term stress causes the hippocampus to shrink and I guess mine is close to non existent by now.
I feel like a wreck most of the time. Either exhausted or on the edge. Usually the latter.
This week I've been tense from morning to night. Waking up with a headache. Pounding heart, hard time breathing ,speaking and concentrating for the rest of the day. Why? No fucking clue. Some subconscious worry/fear I guess.
I work as a developer/coder and somehow manage to perform quite well due to experience/flow. But I'm obviously not good at organisational bullshit.
How to deal with this? Meditation, exercise, diet - what else?
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go outside and exercise.
Take walks.
talk to randoms.
The problem with spending a fuck ton of time by yourself is you come to conclusions about everything and believe you are right about everything. even when you are being narrow minded or paranoid.
Basically get out and expand your social life even if it feels like a burden.
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Omg this is like Im reading about myself :(. My memory is totally fucked up, so is ability to focus. Even on video games. Where are you from if I may know?
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You may have ADD, see a therapist. I was diagnosed as a kid, now 25, never medicated and have felt this way most of the time.
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How do I deal with shitty people disrespecting me? Ignore them? 2016-08-11 22:10:04 Post No.17451846
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How do I deal with shitty people disrespecting me? Ignore them?
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Basically there is this cunt of a woman that works at my school library. I borrowed some books but she didn't renew them when I asked her to (she told me she did). I got a hold on my account. Anyways I tried to take a book out and she gave me this speech about there being a hold on my account.
Problem is the way she asked for my name, and who I was, it's like she was talking to a retarded child. She started acting this way after I inquired about a work study job, to which she lied to me about there being 35 applicants. Anyways I got hired somewhere else. But now this ugly fucking cunt is giving me lip every time I try to take a book out like a nagging slave owner.
How do I deal with this bitch? not the only situation. I run into shitty people like this all the time who are waiting for some sort of conflict. I have poor coping skills so that's why I am asking here, you guys are pretty good at this social stuff. Ofcourse I can't punch my way through life.
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>>17451846
is that fucking lilly kruk
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>>17451846
Where is all this pride coming from?
You don't sound like some respectful nor stable person to begin with.
Why do you want respect from every single person you meet?
After that you can work towards confidence to make people respect you.
If you don't get the respect you think you deserve then don't let them filthy peasants affect you.
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>>17451849
Hottest 10yo
There's this girl i know from quite a while (almost 3 years now). I always liked her but i've also always been too autistic to ask her out. Now, we don't really know each other that much, we just speak occasionally when we meet, i have her number (not because i asked her, got it thanks to the birthday party of a common friend) but i never really bothered chatting with her. Now that i'm less of an assburger and i didn't see her since 3 months ago would it be awkward to ask her out or whatever? I'm only asking because we also have a good amount of common friends and i really wouldn't like to look like a creep in the eyes of basically everyone.
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>>17451844
I would skip the whole i always liked you since its redundant, avoid emotionally vomiting on her and just ask her out.
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>>17451855
Of course dude, i know how to do it, what i'm asking is what's the worst case scenario in the asking itself if it doesn’t work
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>>17451887
You keep on living your lives normally. A date isnt a big deal, if she's mature enough you'll be able to stay friends with no awkward feelings. If she's not, then she wasnt the right girl
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the girl i am dating is blatantly ignoring me. Half way through conversations she will stop replying to me but i will see her online on whatsapp so she is clearly talking to other people. should i bring it up or just stop giving a shit about her? fair enough if she wants to talk with other peoples but its the fact that she is clearly on her phone and deciding to not reply to me.
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You're being to controlling and reading too deep into things. Next time she does it just fuck off and do something else. girls hate a nag.
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>>17451827
yeah, i do feel as though i am being insecure and such but still. she is clearly ignoring me, if she gave a shit about me, wouldent she have the decency to at least reply? it suggests that she doesent care. im sure she wouldent like it
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>>17451832
You're right.
Solution: don't be too needy, let it continue on for a while, confront her and gauge reaction.