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I need your help /adv/

My friend has a girlfriend, He is happy in the relationship after some past girls did a bunch of bad shit to him (Cheating, Lying, that kinda stuff)
With me being his friend I inevitably got somewhat involved in their relationship. I hung out with both of them and his girlfriend sorta became my friend.
Then like an hour ago, his girlfriend texted me saying that how she wasn't happy in the relationship and how she really likes me and would rather be with me. I'm obviously not gonna take my friend's fucking girlfriend so I didn't say anything back.
I want to tell him, but I'm starting to second guess myself. He is so happy that he "finally found a girl who isn't a scumbag", and I know that he will be very hurt by this. Not only because his girlfriend pretty much cheated on him, but because she thinks that "I'm better than him". He has self-esteem issues and will probably get upset at me too. He might think that I'm doing something that he's not and will get upset at himself.

I just don't know what to do.
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Go for it, anon. I think your friend will understand if you fuck his girlfriends brains out
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>>17453472
Tell him the truth. Don't steal his girlfriend. Besides you wouldn't want a girl like that anyway and if you're a real friend, you wouldn't want that to happen to him either. He deserves the truth.

But also let the lady have the chance to repent. Tell her you feel wrong about it and urge her to tell the truth to the guy. Because she is leading him on when she feels that way. If she doesn't it is your job.

Tell him gently and in a friendly manner. Tell him you care about him and this is what his girl is doing. You may hurt his feelings but he will hopefully recover and hopefully make you out as a friend later on. I would want my friend to tell me the truth than to me to find out. It has happened to me before; a friend told me.
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>>17453472
Tell him ASAP. There's nothing for him in this relationship, and the longer it goes on the more hurt it will have in store for him. Be graceful and humble.

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I need some academic advice.

I'll be starting an intense 2 semesters worth of physics courses. Taking about 5-6 courses a semester. For the first semester it'll be optics, math applied physics (dq, vector differential and integrals), therm, intro to modern physics, intro to classical phys lab and solid state electronics.

For the latter semester, it'll be electromagnetism, modern phys lab, mechanics, electrical circuits, and math applied physics II (laplace transforms, fourier analysis, complex analysis). All the courses 200 level, except for electromagnetism and modern phys lab (300 level courses).

Should I make adjustments? I can move electrical circuits to my first semester or swap it with a course mentioned before. I also have the option to replace math applied physics II with optoelectronics, is it wise to do so? I'm an ME major and a prospective student for a masters in aerospace, so I'm not sure how useful it will be to learn about laplace transforms, fourier analysis, complex analysis for physics.

On a last note, how difficult will it be to maintain a "decent" GPA (at least a 3.5) with this course load?
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I'm not from the US so I don't know if that's a lot, but why can't you spread these courses out over an extra semester?
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>>17453466
Load it all up as you are only young once. Knowledge is power. I'm also on the same boat as you fighting for my engineering degree.

The path we have chosen is difficult if not punishing. But you have to create balance and work ethic. Dont work so hard you wont have a bit of time to play too. The mind snd body require rest.
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>>17453466
They're level 200 and 300 courses, stop tripping. If you got an A in your 100 courses, and you apply yourself in the upper courses, it'll work out.

The course content doesn't really matter, as the higher the course level becomes it just focuses on areas you've already built a foundation on.

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Is it possible to find a partner who won't stop being cuddly/affectionate after a few years of relationship?

I'm a really cuddly person and every relationship I was in, the partner would just stop being like that eventually. Is being cuddly just a "honeymoon phase" or are there people who actually enjoy it forever?
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>>17453401
It really just depends on the person. Some people like cuddling, some don't. After the honeymoon phase ends, people also go back to wanting their space and being touched all of the time can be annoying if you're no longer blinded with love all of the time.
That said, I love cuddling. My girlfriend and I cuddle any time we are watching a movie at home or are lying in bed. I'll usually cuddle with her until she falls asleep and then I'll roll over and chill on my computer.
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Depends on a person, me with my current bf cuddle always after three years, another ex wouldn't even properly kiss after six months.
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The longest I've been in a relationship was 7 years and even towards the end when our relationship was turning into shit I had the massive need to cuddle.
Then again, I also want to fuck 4-6 times a day, so what gives

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Is it narcissistic to think I am better than normies?
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probably
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>>17453350
Yes. You aren't a special snowflake.

To possess that attitude is detrimental. Have respect for your fellow human being. You don't know their life and what lessons God has blessed them with. What makes you so special you won't turn to dust like everyone else when you perish?

It is realistic to understand differences in the economic system and maybe perhaps in differences in DNA structure such as body proportions. It is also realistic to identify differences in knowledge and acquisition of information. But it is better ultimately to be humble and take pleasure in being respectful to others no matter their circumstances. Otherwise you are just another insufferable asshole to be around.
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>>17453355
What if I just secretly think so but never tell anyone outside of 4chan?

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how do I stop playing League, fapping and being depressed sack of shit?
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>>17453289
Get a hobby
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>>17453289
Is League really that enjoyable that you can just exist there most of the waking minutes of your life?

Genuinly curious; I've lost interest in pretty much every game I have tried in the last year and I need something to immerse myself in.
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>>17453323
No it's just a time hole. It's addictive because people who blow time there don't know where else to spend their hours.

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I've realized that humans are evil at their core. What makes us worth prosperity?
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>>17453276
Who hurt you?
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cum-skins are the evilest. they are born prosperous.
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>>17453276
Jesus is what makes everything worth it. People are lead by their evil ways and act upon their evil desires. Love and Light is the only answer in this land of darkness.

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>I'm 29
>live in a room in a house owned by 52 yo woman with two adult sons
>they visit on weekends, there are two other tenants
>always been attracted to her, finally hook up
>moving to her sister's, but this landlord offers me free rent if I stay
>free vs 780 a month...
>landlord mentions not having other tenants in the future, which means more privacy and no sneaking around to hook up
>don't want my balls to be owned by 52 yo woman
>need money very badly

help?

pic related
>looks like her a bit
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>>17453266
Dunno, you can still always move out whenever you want
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do it for free rent
save it or some shit, use it for drugs or alcohol idk what
leave at some point

there u go
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theres nothing wrong with trading sex for rent, thats what being a live in girlfriend/boyfriend is all about

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My job lately has been extremely draining. I've been on the verge of just leaving, walking out.
Probably because I've been so emotionally drained and feeling sick from the bullshit. I've been sworn at, called stupid, and having shit work etc., then there's the derogatory comments about my occasional pimple, or when I am tired or if I don't dress sharply.

But the thing is, it is never said directly to me. It's always in passing or as a whisper within an earshot. And it's always the same guy. The owner of the company...

What would you do? I've been here for over 1.5 years and my direct manager and I get along. Prospects for future are good too... But lately it's been getting bad (I don't know why?) but the guy with all the power doesn't like me and it's starting to really affect my health and psyche.
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>>17453254
Well if you can't invest your 100% effort into the job and the person who hired you notices why even bother? The time you have spent there is irrelevant if you can't give it your best shot and the owner csn see your effort.

Quit. Quit if you can't give the job your best shot. Quit if you can't handle the taunting. Have some self respect. Find the job you will be happy working and find an employer that can appreciate you.

Pray that you will be blessed with the right path appointed to you by God. I was in the same shoes as you and I outright walked out. I didn't give it a single thought. Under appreciated, overworked and berated; I quit because the money was not worth it.
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>>17453254
>What would you do?
I'm in a similar situation. There have always been issues of favoritism with my boss, and although I'm one of the favorites, two really good co-workers that are repeatedly shit on are not. And the boss is using me as a way to shit on them, which I don't appreciate (only offering me opportunities, cutting their hours to nothing and trying to give it all to me, etc).

To add on to that, we have a new girl (3-4 months) that doesn't do her job. She'll pretend to go somewhere for an errand and will disappear for 3 hours, just talking to people or playing on her phone. So she'll ask us at the last minute, in front of the boss, if we'll help her out... or she'll just leave the workload for another person the next day. She's made antagonistic comments to those two co-workers I mentioned and physically harassed one, all in front of the boss. The boss just laughs. She'll also bombard people with emotional sob stories as soon as she walks in the door. So not only is she physically draining, she's emotionally draining. Both suck, but I can usually deal with one or the other. But both at the same time? It's driving everyone insane.

We've complained to our boss, her boss, and the person above that one. Nothing's really getting done though, so all three of us are leaving at the same time. Now the boss is in a panic because it's all down to her.

If the owner is there regularly and has no plans of transferring ownership or retiring, I'd cut my losses and start fresh. It'd be a little different if you were there 10 years, but 1.5 is nothing. Money is great, but not at the expense of your health and mental well being.
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You're hearing voices. See a shrink.

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I keep having this reoccurring night mere. I've had it 3 times in the past few weeks.

I'm usually in my house or a version of my house than changes back to my original house over time.
I am usually with other people I know and it starts with other people coming into the house and talking to us, as if they are showing us something or playing s game, they seem like normal people at first but they are actually ghosts.

Over time they get progressively worse to that point where they start screaming and chasing you, or holding you don't so you can't leave the house.

They WONT GO. You can not make them go. They disspaewr snd you think they are gone but If you travel by yourself will get absolutely trapped by one of the ghosts. They will torment you and only you.
Once you are trapped all my friends and people i trust disappear. They are never there to help.

The whole house is always dark, the lights are never on, and everything always seems slightly different but it changes back to normal over time. Such as the dream I just had I was in a mansion version of my house and when I entered a normal room and left it was my original house again.


It may not sound scary but it really fucks me up whil I'm there. And the scenario of the dream always changes too.
Last time I was on a game show where and this time I was in a mansion version of my house where I was meeting up with old friends and the first encounter was a scientist who wanted me to be apart of her experiment, where she ended up gassing me or something like that, and I was drowning in the gas, then she started screaming and wouldn't stop screaming.

The ghosts also pretend to be other people. I always forget that they won't leave and seeing other people gives me relief, but then the ghost walks towards you and you realise it's like a fucked up zombie version of the original person.

You also can't leave the house. Something stops you always.

What should I do?
I've had this dream 3 times in the last few weeks.
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>>17453253
i had a dream that a pretty girl i met online stuck a sounding rod into my penis and it felt like i wanted to throw up


its fake dude just ignore it, by writing about it you are helping yourself recall your dreams

t. experimented with lucid dreaming
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>>17453253
The only answer is to learn how to dream lucidly and become the master of your dreams.

Everything in the dream realm is created by you and, with experience, controllable by you.

Learn some reality checks and keep a dream journal.
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>>17453337
>>17453271
How to lucid dream?

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HOW THE FUCK DOES SOMEONE STOP WATCHING PORN?

I've had porn since I was like 12. This is fucking impossible. I'm 21 years old.
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Why would you want to anon? Is it because porn is unrealistic, and unethical? And doesn't prioritize female pleasure, instead coaching the women to say "mmmYIIEAHHH~" ad nauseum? They do make feminist porn that kind of addresses that.
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>>17453229
>Is it because porn is unrealistic, and unethical?
Someone's never heard of amateur porn.
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just dont watch it lol.

i didnt have power for 2 months one time that helped out a lot. im also 21

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How would I go about making a website look less sketchy?
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>>17453221
The black background makes it look like a early 2000s porn site

Try making columns and putting a graphic of the game next to it along with some contact information
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>>17453231
I'm keeping the black because anything else hurts my eyes. But your on to something with the personal shit, I'll try linking back to my personal site. Thank you.
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Try having a look at Bootstrap. The tutorials give you an idea of how to get an initial something going. Also if you're looking for design inspiration, AWWARDS has always been solid.

Im 25 mildly attractive i guess. When im happy in life cant seem get anywhere with girls. I am currently borderline suicidal and girls keep hitting me up constantly. Why cant they like me when im happy?
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>>17453219
Some girls like that dark and mysterious thing. You might also give no fucks when you are depressed and they respect that. They also may like the drama.
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>>17453219
FUCK YOU
I AM ETERNALLY DEPRESSED AND NO ONE LIKES ME
I HATE YOU
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>>17453219
Why do they call eagles birds of prey when they're the predators?

The world may never know

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How does a man prevent his daughter from growing up and turning into a whore?
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>>17453215
Islam
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>>17453217
>>>17453215 (OP)
Without being muslim
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>>17453215
Don't try to hide information to her and don't make sex a taboo.
Don't set strict rules but make her understand she is responsible of her actions.
Don't talk shit about her friends and boyfriends.
Be a good example - show her how much having a good relationship is better than casual sex.
Support her and don't judge her.
Be a good parent, be present and loving.

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Help. I don't know why I do this.
I never believed in fanboys, thought I'd never be this crazy.
Recently, I decided to buy a console. I have no idea why. I knew it would run terrible. I did it anyway. I bought a PS4 because of all the funny meme videos their fanbase made. The chad wardens, the Chris chans, the Greg millers. I wanted to be a smug prick too !

I know it's bad for my eyesight to play at such horrible frame rates, but I just keep doing it.

They say it might have something to do with my abusive childhood. We didn't have money growing up, so I had to settle with the PS1. A console that had horrendous loading times and pixel graphics that made everything look like minecraft. It had no 4 player, but that was fine as I had no friends anyway.


I don't know why I keep doing this to myself.

any /adv/ice?
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Kys ingame muhman
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>>17453213
Sell your console?
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>>17453342
This.

It's not so much that consoles suck as it is that the curent console suck.

Maybe when they try to do 4k with their new gimped consoleputers you can ignore all the fuck-ups they include for free.

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Started an LDR 4 days ago, it's been lovey dovey so far.
I happen to be flying to Europe for a family event, and will be near her for a week, so I can meet her at some yet unspecified time.
I think we're both anxious or apprehensive now that setting up a date is on the table.
I'm a kissless handholdless 20yo virgin, while she's 30 and has been in prior relationships.
How do I make our first meeting go as well as I possibly can?
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More info:
>she has mental disorders including taking meds for depression, social anxiety and BPD
>I have bipolar, social anxiety, and likely BPD
>we've skype called and played video games
>she sent me lewds and has been pretty flirtatious so far
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Give her a fake name so she can't stalk you when shit will inevitably hit the fan.
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>>17453190
I personally think you're young and have got a lot more to offer in finding a suitable mate your age. There is a possibility she is using you to get access to your country as well because the age difference is enormous.

But. If you are indeed indifferent. Maybe set up the date and see how it goes. But I have a feeling she doesn't feel as you do and is just going along to take advantage of you.

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