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>live in the middle of nowhere
>parents push two health care majors on me I didn't wanna do
>Dropped out of program both times because I was going to fail
>Drifted away from friends in this three year period
>May have a amphetamine addiction
>No job
>I start school for my third time next week
>I love the field I'm currently in
>Im too embarrassed to leave the house due to my past failures
Is there any hope for me?
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No1 will really care about tour failures by now.
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How old are you and what's your financial status? I think there's always hope but some people set the bar very high for themselves and it takes an extreme amount of effort to get over.

I think your first objective should be to get over your insecurities.
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>>17453686
I'm 24 and my parents are wealthy I'm dependent on them
How do I start to get over them?

Sometimes I am disappointed with the fact that nobody in my social circle is enthusiastic about the same thing as me, and when I tell them about my enthusiasm, they don't get why I like it so much and think of me as annoying. Anyone else here experienced this as well?
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>>17453671
Tell us what it is, it would be pointless to generalize something that varies generally.
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>>17453690
I am from Korea. I love learning Spanish. Many people around me just see it as "the language spoken in some shit-tier countries on the other side of the world".
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>>17453671
I really hope someday you will get one real problem instead of posting the same thread, over and over.
Get a therapist.

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First world problems incoming:

I went to a highly ranked university and an elite preppy high school. The type of school where people would throw bitch fits for not getting into Harvard and complain about settling for Stanford or something. Everyone wanted to go to the best schools and be lawyers or consultants at big name firms. I got real sick of that shit and disassociated myself from that grind. I dropped out of my engineering program in Uni into librul arts, found myself a chill job after graduation that wouldn't leave me in poverty mode.

I told myself that if I just got a normal 9-5 day job I can tolerate/enjoy, get some hobbies, get jacked and bang some sloots, I'd be happy.

Browsing LinkedIn today I realized that my high school and college peers are way ahead of me. A lot are going to big name Med/law/business schools, others have some really cool jobs at big name firms. While I was chilling, they were studying getting into top 3 law schools and shit. Now I feel like I have to "upgrade" my life situation to catch up with these people even though I haven't spoken to a lot of them in years. On one hand having ambition is cool but on the other, shouldn't I not be comparing myself to others? What should I do?
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>>17453651
B.e yourself
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I'm in the same boat. I've watched sunsets over the Austrian alps, walked with elephants in Africa, shit my brains out backpacking in Asia. Experiences molded me who I am today, but that don't mean shit on an application list pool with 4.0's and fancy research projects. What am I doing with my life....
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jus b urself

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A relative of mine signed some online contract for marrying a foreigner. How fucked is she?
Luckily she's still married to her original spouse, but she only has 20 days to cancel the divorce with her original spouse. What can be done?
Is this just a tiny scam or is this insanely deep and dangerous? Can everything be reverted?

Is there still time to not screw things and fix everything?
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My relative doesn't have much money, so is he not in danger?

Or can the bastard issue a loan to a bank from her name? take the money and run away with it? leaving her with the huge million loan?
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Respond fast, /adv/
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/adv/ this is the one time you can actually help someone in need.

Give me info, what can be done.

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Why does a girl that have had multiple partners bother people on here so much.

I've had two GFs, both virgins, and both didn't put out for penetrative sex. I would kill for an experienced girl who knows how to act sexy.

Before I was ever in a relationship, the thought of dating a non virgin did not seem appealing. After being with some, I can say I would take a girl with a high body count easily.
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because they're all insecure virgins.
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>>17453608
I don't get it either
What I do in my spare time isn't anyone's business. If two people weren't even together at the time why would it matter?
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>>17453608
This will probably sound very selfish, but I like the idea of "shaping" her in a sense. I like the idea of a pure girl, if she had none or only a few partners before me, it means she's upholding traditional values and is not a slut like so many girls appear to be(obviously excluding ugly/fat girls who didn't have any choice in the matter).

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I'm currently living abroad and I make grammatical mistakes when I'm speaking. This kept me away from talking to girls. Do girls even care about this? Would speaking with mistakes make me less attractive?
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>>17453606
If you aren't exotic and hot then yeah that's a problem but just actively work on the language and it will be better. Which language are you talking about?
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>>17453615
German haha. And what do you mean by "exotic"?
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>>17453618
Darker/lighter than guys in that country. Like if you are good-looking and stand out from the rest of the guys but make some grammatical mistakes it won't matter if you got the exotic looks. Of course there are girls who don't care about that if you are looking for love. But for hooking up, that works.

Will work part-time at a company a month later. Worked there once before. Last times things went very well. I understand many the staff at that company has changed so my experience this time may be different from last time.

How to prevent myself from being disappointed at how things are because everything may be very different? Can things be even better than last time?
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>>17453601
*many of the staff
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>>17453601
Do as you are meant to and work. That is what you are there for so do your job.
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>>17453985
Yeah.
It's just that last time my coworkers were kind and the working atmosphere was nice. I understand that things can be very different this type. Is it possible for things to be even better than last time?

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How old were you when you figured your life out, and how did you do it? How do I find some direction in life? I've done everything people suggested - I went travelling overseas. I've had numerous psychedelic trips. I graduated from college. I've spoken to people I respect who have known me for a long time. Each one has left me genuinely more confused as to what I should be doing with my life and where I should go.

None of my interests really jive as career options (writing, reading, music, alcohol, hiking, working out). Or, not the sort of career I want to have anyway. I want a career I can throw myself into; one that'll be financially stable and offer me a great chance at a full, passionate life. Instead, I'm about to turn 22, with a useless double major in chemistry and philosophy, and no job prospects, no future goals or plans. No girlfriend nor real desire to get one.

My feels like it's just one big blank sheet of paper and I hate it and I hate the fact that neither I nor anyone I can talk to can seem to give me any answers as to what I should be doing.
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You sound like you're good at a lot of things but great at nothing. That's not a good way to be. You need to find one thing and become amazing at it. Fuck the rest off. You'll never stand out being multi-talented but mediocre. And passion comes with mastery, not before it.
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>>17453566
I feel you anon, i'm 28 and still trying to figure this shit out.
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>>17453566
you're overthinking this shit, life truly is all about the journey and not knowing where it will take you next is the fun part.

just always remember, if you're not happy for more than 2 months you need to change something

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My girlfriend recently gave me permission to start cumming inside her, but I'm now realizing that I can't. I usually just use my hand to finish. Last time, I tried for about 1.5 hours, and although I get really close, I can never get to the very very end. Tried multiple positions but nothing seemed to help. I don't think I have a death grip or porn issue, since I rarely ever masturbate anyways, but I guess it's possible. I don't think it's nerves, either, but again I could be wrong. I never have any trouble getting it up; I seem to be sexually healthy except for this.
Does anyone have any tips for dealing with this problem or just making myself blow faster in general? How do those guys who only last 2 seconds do it? I need to borrow that ability.
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>>17453557
Could be to do with sensitivity or mindset. Maybe get more touchy feely? Maybe if you dont focus on finishing si much it could work. Maybe cowgirl position too as she has control?
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I have the same problem but guess what, just keep going, its fun feels good and the longer you do it with her and better the sex is for her. Happy gf = happy life.
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>>17453557
Turn gf around and let her lay on her belly and thrust in her V-hole. Somehow it makes me cum instantly like that.
It's probably not as tight as your hand, since she is all wet and all it could even feel like anruined orgasm

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What are you supposed to do when you have a crush on a guy but don't want any sexuals?
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He's a good chunk older than me - at least over six years, but could easily be ten - and the kind of a guy who gives off an intimidating first impression but is actually a very kind, sensible person. He just can't help having a rough face and low voice and a way of talking he himself described as "annyoing to some people".

He doesn't go to bars anymore because some drunk boy will eventually be hell bent to try and fight him.
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I don't know how to proceed with this.
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Should I just ask him out? He's never talked about outside-of-work interests besides alcohol and I know his stance on pubs and bars now.

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What up /b/...

Tonight, I decided to get extremely high, I went all out on the dabs after a month tolerance break.. I've now ended up talking to an 18 year old trap and shit just got emotional... What do..

PS. Im engaged and have been dating for 6 years.
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1) this is not /b/
2) your dumb
3) this is bait
4) go for it you fuckin faggot, enjoy killing yourself later when you regret it
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>>17453545
Ugh... I knew this would get flagged for bait, I'm sorry dude.. I diddn't mean to put /b/ in the text there, I'm just really high right now. Im being serious, please...
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>>17453548
go sleep and look over your messages when your sober so you can see that your making a life mistake then. goodnight anon.

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How do you keep track of socks? I'm constantly losing mine, and have no idea where they go. I would like to buy high quality socks, but I cannot hold onto them. Underwear too. It's really annoying.
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Fuckin wash your own underwear and socks instead of letting your mommy do it then.
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Buy a whole bunch of the same kind of sock, so that all your socks will match regardless. Get one of those laundry sacks that people use for washing delicates, put only pairs of socks into it, wash and dry in the sack, then take out and match immediately, don't just pile them into a basket. And if applicable, what >>17453539 said.
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>>17453534
When you take off your socks, roll them together. Leave them in the laundry basket like that and only unroll them when you're putting them in the washer. Haven't lost a sock in years.

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Roast me
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>>17453516
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You have kind eyes and I like your hat and body language. Have a nice day
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D-dad?

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answer: yes
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Are you triggered?

Answer: yes
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>>17453503
I'm sure prison also sucks, but you can't leave when you want to.
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>>17453503

Not really, 4Chan never sucked any dick so i don't i think so.

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How does one get over feelings of inadequacy? There's this girl I met recently and I feel I'm not good enough for her. She's intelligent, funny, beautiful and just an amazingly unique person and I'm such a loser in comparison.
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If u act like ur lesser than her, she won't want u, act like ur a good catch, it's all about mindset
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>>17453501
Imagine, gor a moment, that you were not inadequate. What exactly would need to be different about you for that to be true?

Make this happen.
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Maybe i can give you some insight as to the perspective of the other side of the coin, since i seem to have the opposite problem.
With every girl I date, I feel as though she is holding me back/that I can do better than her. Although the girl I'm dating right now has a profound positive impact on me, I still resent her for her flaws/shortcomings.

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