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>>17451798

Do not isolate yourself from other people. You'll regret it once you start to feel like climbing out of the ditch you're in right now.

>>17451798
>Yeah sorry I had some things on mind and couldn't answer
>I just delayed the answer for a week! Beat that!

Brush shit off positively or just be honest.
Like >>17451804 said, don't cut contacts.
Right now you're in the "I wanna be alone" phase; then will come the "I'm so lonely phase" and afterwards comes the "I'm actually the one who drove myself to loneliness in the first place" phase.
Avoid that.

>>17451813
i feel like im in all the phases desu
all my contacs are unauthentic

stress, caffeine, eyesight problems

>>17451796

Go see a doctor.

>>17451796
Heat, direct sun exposure, chronic problems, stress, chemicals, concussion,
See a doctor.

>>17451779
MAKE

What is your overall goal?

Information that people might find or youtube "star" or somewhat popular.

If you do it because you like it, keep doing it.

>>17451788
um goal wise all i want is to make videos really its super fun and i would eventually like to play with fans or stream with them

depends on the girl.

It sounds like you are more in to her than she is in to you.

BUT, it could be she is not used to returning affection or she is really comfortable around you and doesn't feel the need to return the affection.

The best course of action is to have a discussion about how you see the relationship.

>>17451764
>Are girls always like that?
No, my gf even touches me and hugs me when we're at the store or if we're ordering something at the restaurant. Your gf might be getting her hugs and kisses from someone else, I don't know.

i have a feeling theres more to this than we know.

>>17451748
You will definitely thank yourself few years later for starting smoking. Smoking is healthy, cheap, totally not disgusting and very sociable way how to improve your daily life.

>>17452038
Jesus Christ, smoking the occasional cigar is different from chain smoking cigarettes all day you D.A.R.E. faggot

OP, just ask the person in the shop if you're not too autist. They're there to help

>>17452157
His points still stand. Cigars aren't healthy, quality ones aren't cheap, and they usually taste like shit.

>>17451736
Let me beat that pussy up

>>17451736

Practice is pretty much the only thing you can do. Stretching daily is a must. Yoga or something like that might help. However, some people can't do splits and stuff like that due to anatomical reasons, so if it seems that you aren't improving at all, it might be that you simply can't.

>>17451812
Girls generally are lazy when it comes to sports, they don't even put in the effort of showing up to every training.

>>17451735
(continuing here)
my depression kicked in once again we had a fight, a big one, we figured it out and we apologized to each other, and I sweared to my dead father that I will destroy this depression, because I was tired of hurting her, now she came back from the trip and she is acting kinda funny, she doesnt want to play with me,nor talk, she is acting weird and distant, I asked about that and she told me she was tired because long trip, at first it made sense butshe kept ignoring me for the next days...

Everytime I ask her what happened she ignores me, so today I asked the million dollar question:

"The feeling that united us is gone right? you don't feel love anymore"

She told me that she didnt know, and that she didnt want to talk about this, so she changed the theme of the conversation


I don't know what happened to her but its bad, very bad, I need some help guys, Im off my meds because preescription meds and I can't get more till september, and im super stressed and anxious about this, what the hell happened to her? I've never seen her like this, this secrecy of hers is hurting me a lot, I need some light on this guys

Thanks for reading and sorry if it was too long, I needed to vent seriously.

>fucked around
>she says she just wants to be friends.

Drop her man. She clearly stated its not happening. you should move on.

>>17451761
I want to believe its something else because we know each other very well, I know she is not the kind of girl that just fucks around.

I can't drop her dude, she helped me a lot, a fuck ton, and I also helped her a ton too, we also made a promise long time ago that we wouldn't abandond each other, I can't break that, not with this person, she is everything to me.

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>>17451729

Watch SLC Punk you fucking poser.

>Picture very related.

>>17451729
I think you should come work in my coal mine for the rest of your life for free because that what everyone likes in a person.

Act however you want man. If you want girls talk to girls. Eventually one will like you for who you are. And if one likes you for who you pretend to be. They will be driven away when the real you leaks out every now and agai.

>>17451738
>my looks are deteriorating bla bla bla
man you just /r9k/ posted

is that movie really good?

>>17451697
So just because she has a breakdown gives her the right to fuck up your life?
She is delusional, just as you; be really fucking careful because you two can drag yourselves to pits you wont even know where they came from.

>>17451697
your moms being a cunt. Tell her you are not moving with her and i guarantee she will not move. If she tries to guilt you or otherwise make your life difficult tell her she is choosing to leave and you have your own life you dont want to give up for her drama.

>>17451823
She quit her 20 year job shortly before the divorce and she was planning on going back to college but the divorce fucked that up. I know I'm only fucking myself over but I'm still worried about her, I just want her to be in a stable way. I just dunno how to gently break it to her that I don't wanna go without hurting her. You're right though, I know I shouldn't further fuck myself by going with it on a whim.

>>17451677
Lol you deserve to feel like shit

>>17451724
Thanks, gr8 advice

>>17451677
You are a human, you have desires.
Part of being human is to learn not to listen to them.
You have the possibility to live on with her and never repeat the stupid shit you've done. She'll never know and you have learned the lesson not to be an asshole.
You can break up with her if you think the guilt is too much and your morals are too high, or if you are afraid that this mistake will repeat itself and you dont want to hurt her.
There are also... other choices you can make.
Either way I guess you already know the answer to your questions by now, since you did this willingly and at the back of the head you knew the consequences of your actions, you just chose not to think of them too much.

>>17451675
She's busy getting railed by Jamal

>>17451679
This. Sorry OP.

>>17451675
You didn't fuck up, she's just not into you. Sorry homeboy

>>17451672
You be you, boo. lol. You need to take charge and grab life by the balls. Don't let some bitch control yours.

Yeah your girlfriend wanted to cuck you lol she sounds like a bitch dump her

you were getting cucked boy. it's a good thing, should be the end of your unhealthy relationship.

go put actual oils in your hair now. come to think of it, this should be a fantastic learning experience.

my uneducated guess is that the foreign stuff you put on your head will keep your scalp moist and in one piece until your body can heal and start producing natural oil again.

again, uneducated.

>>17451656
I slept with olive oil the night after.
Mom just applied something called Locoid that's supposed to reduce redness and itching, but it's burning sorta like when you dye your hair which has me worried.

I have some coconut oil and olive oil so I'm considering rinsing this shit outta my hair and using either of those instead.

I really don't wanna start losing my hair.

Sodium lauryl sulfate is a salt of a sulfonated fatty acid. Its a detergent and great foaming agent. It is as much as a detergent as a bar of soap, Dawn dish soap, hand soap gel, etc etc.

It dries your scalp by washing away all the oils, leaving your scalp prone to drying and thus irritation.

It does NOT cause hair loss, pls dont spread nonsense.

t. Chemist

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>>17451643
I told you we could get married homegirl

tl;dr
>parents didn't directly love me enough
>their marriage is falling apart
>they're only together because they have to be
>lots of domestic abuse
>don't feel safe at home or anywhere
>nowhere to belong

So I think my intense desire to be loved and to have somewhere to belong keeps making me fuck up in life. I'm pretty broken

>>17451680
Would you like to be my son?

>>17451618
Is this real life? Tell her to take a long walk off a short pier.

>>17451618
post her tits

"I understand. Good luck to you in life."

Then cut off contact. If she can't see you in the long term, then it's bound to fail anyway.

Alternatively, explain whats wrong with your attitude and try to change that if you want to stay with her. I don't think remaining the same will keep her around at this point though.