So my fiance and me were having sex and it clearly wasn't working for her so I ask her if she wants me to do something different , she says no so I finish. I ask her what's wrong and she told me she'd appreciate it if I exercised more and watched what I eat.
This kinda hurt as she's always said she's attracted to my body and I've maintained the same weight throughout our relationship. Recently I've neglected exercise due to school and work but it's not like I even gained 10lbs.
Is this a red flag? Am I overreacting?
Probably nitpicking because you didn't make her cum. Either way, everyone could probably work out a little more and eat better. Just let it slide, there will be bigger arguments to get worked up over in the future.
>>17500396
A red flag to lose some weight hambeast.......wait this isn't fit
>>17500396
How much do you weigh?
>>17500396
>>/fit/
>>17500484
180lb
6'0
it seems like a possible red flag that she brought this up during sex. Personally it seems more reasonable to say something like that a different time. Could you imagine if you said that to her while she laid their naked in front of you? ha. equality.
anyway, its not really a red flag besides that. Get in shape. You cant expect someone to be attracted to you physically all the time, if you change over time. Now obviously this is different if its been 25 years and 3 kids later.
I'm talking your situation though. And plus take her out of the equation you should work out for you. Your doing exactly what some women (and men) do once they are married.. let themselves go.
>>17500396
abort
why are you in a relationship that is based on aesthetic?
I had someone do something very similar to me before, and since I was fairly new to relationships, I just gave in. I started trying to form myself to fit what they wanted.
It was a huge mistake.
>>17500733
When are more likely to share their true feelings during or after sex because hormones.
>>17500396
It's no easy getting and staying aroused with a tubbo lying on your stomach huffing and puffing.
>>17500396
>So my fiance
Stopped reading
>Year of our lord Jesus christ 2016
>Getting engaged
I am currently having an affair with an engaged woman, that should tell you something buddy.
>>17500713
you are huge then, I weight 70 kg and have same height