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>>17558287
Are you thin? You can pull it off with the right home structure (your pic is related, also muscled women), but it looks awful on fat or average women.

If you aren't sure, just do it. It'll grow back. I work with a chemo patient who lost all her hair and it's grown back in under 6 months. Looked especially cute coming back in.

>>17558303
Goddamn phone. *bone structure.

In worst case scenario you could buy a wig. In best case scenario you'll be super happy with your decision and feel confident in yourself. Hair grows back

I just want someone to care that I've been a good boy all day.

And I don't know how to make this feeling stop.

No, they actually grow up. Sure, the feeling of missing those careless days will never completely vanish. But it will only bubble up very rarely anymore after a while. What helps is to fully accept your responsibilities. Usually that comes when you have kids on your own

>>17558413
When does it wear off?

I can't have kids.

>>17558232
1. Underage. GTFO.
2. You're really going to let the temporary rush of a movie dictate your potential future career, ignoring what you've wanted to be since you were 10?

>>17558232
>Biochemist since I was 10
Ask yourself four things
>1. Why did I want to become a biochemist in the first place
>2. Why do I want to do any of those three things now?
>3. Within my motivations, which ones reflect accurately reality
>4. Between the answers to question 1 and 2, which is most likely to stay that way for the rest of my life
You'll have your answer.

>>17558286
Not really a movie but just all these things I've been hearing in my seminar class about how my teacher wanted to be a marine opened my eyes to a new world

no fucking clue, might wanna go to a doctor even if it isn't an std

I still don't understand who in their right mind would come to /adv/ instead of going to a doctor, or even a site that's actually meant for medical advice.

Who in their right mind comes to an anonymous forum site to ask a medical question when they could just ask a doctor

ASK YOUR DOCTOR

"its ok we all have our dirty secrets"

>>17558209
"As long as it's me it's alright since it's impossible, anybody else and I'll seek help for you"

>>17558241
>Seek help for you
Is that a nice way of saying "I will call the police"?

What are you even remotely interested in? Is there anything you've ever looked at and though "that looks fun, I'd like to get into that"

>>17558207

pretty much this. and its easier to get into this stuff than you think.

I loved dodgeball in middle school, now i play it every week.

This weekend i went to a nudist hot spring and there was slack lining there. was surprisingly good at it, made it more steps than anyone else there. now im going to be doing that every other week.

>>17558207
I really want to travel but I am limited since i have a part time job. I think its cool to build things but I prefer destroying things instead. I watch anime and read manga. idk I dont think ive experieneced enough to get a feel or something I would like

Okay so my dad died on January 10, 2013 of cancer and I only cried twice once at his funeral and once I heard the news. It never really made me sad and I hate when people go thru the entire "I'm so sorry" spiel. Really dude I don't know just stay strong and hope for the best my family is a bunch of assholes so I didn't really go to anyone I just bottled it up inside myself.

>>17558198

people come here and ask how to cope like theres some sort of mechanism.

your'e sad. you're going to be sad. and later you'll be less sad. and later you'll be more nostalgic.

>>17558198
Jesus Christ dude. Sorry to hear that.

>>17558175
make a step by step plan on how to achieve it
ignore those who say it's impossible because it's your personal goal
if necessary ask for help
surround yourself with friends who will be honest and supportive

>>17558194

mostly this. also have fun back up plans.

i want to be a television showrunner. i might never make it.

so as a back up i produce web series. and that fulfills me all the same.

Work your fucking guts out for it. Don't half step like a bitch.

>>17558167
What hobbies do you have?

That's a question you'll be asking yourself every time you get along with a girl. Just keep at it and see what comes of it - takes a while to -really- get to know a person.

>>17558167
Depends on how far you two have progressed and how long you've been seeing each other. If you only had a couple dates I don't thinks it's an asshole move to see other people while you make up your mind. Don't rub it in her face but I wouldn't even try to hide it. Hiding it is what makes it shady because it implies your doing something bad.

>>17558136
tests won't show shit for at least a week or two.
get the morning-after pill.

>>17558136
you just go out one day go to a pharmacy and buy a test, they can work 2 weeks after the sex (read directions) but usually work 2 weeks after you were suppose to have your period.

The morning after pill only works up to 3 days after you had the sex.

They both cost around 50 dollars from the pharmacy.

If he didn't cum before he had sex with you and didn't come in you then it should most likely be okay.

>>17558136
>get the morning-after pill
This, it costs like fifty dollars in Texas but it's worth the peace of mind. Go to any pharmacy or planned parenthood.

I bet you don't feel it was worth it.

Are you sure that wasn't some cheeky banter anon, I have a feeling she didn't actually mean it

If she actually took the little age gap seriously that'd be hilarious

>>17558116
It's entirely possible with her sense of humor, but I was too tired and not quick enough to say something witty in response to really find out.

a week is enough to get back together

>>17558104

thanks for the optimism but this has happened already a couple times. she is unstable and i think there is no coming back from it this time.

>>17558095
Legally, whether your name is on the lease or not, she needs to give you 30 days notice.

>>17558079

if there was a step by step guide, you wouldn't feel the desire to ask the question, would ya?

philosophy / spirituality has been a personal journey for every single person who has ever existed. we use broad terms like existentialism, or nihilism or even different religions to summarize the ideas we feel most comfortable with, but no two people agree exactly on what every little aspect of each of those mean.

theres a few apparent typos in your post but im going to assume you mean certain thigns and go from there

>im an absolute zero who cannot bring meaningful impact onto the world

a big issue here is that you assume men or people or beings are meant to bring 'impact' to the world, and by impact i mean what you probably mean by 'meaningful impact', as in, somethign that will effect the majority of hte world in a noticeable way.

there is no reason to assume anyone is 'meant' to do this, or really anything. if you believe in no god, no spirit, no bigger plan, than anyone who 'changed the world' did it out of odd luck and circumstance, not out of any sense of destiny or any desire to change the world. no one does the thing they did that changed the world in order to change the world. it just happens.

people simply do what they want to do. sometimes in the casual sense (just being a mom, or running a business) and sometimes in the greater sense (fighting for the rights of others, taking down the government, etc.).

but 'changing the world' never gave anyone a lasting sense of fulfillment. we are not movies, waiting for one moment of destiny to give us permanent feelings of bliss.

life will always continue to move and you will always look for the 'next step'.

you arent dead or killing yourself, so where you stand now, finding the meaning in life is the meaning of your life.

>>17558114
>>17558114
>if there was a step by step guide, you wouldn't feel the desire to ask the question, would ya?
Yes i would because i would think whenever it's universal guide or it's personal one.
>'meaningful impact'
To some extent i agree to you but there's a good part that person could tell himself that he's been doing action which could be called meaningful by himself.
>killing yourself
That's up for a question, i've been feeling out of place since childhood like there's something wrong with me fundamentally.
I wish i could start finding meaning in life but i have no dreams or goals. Nothing interests me that much that i could start achieving it. The worst thing that there's something inside which is slowly boiling.

>>17558137

what? is english your second language?

Is this love thing really a meme or something? Last time i liked a girl so exclusively was when I was 15. This is cringeworthy

>>17558022
It's pretty common actually.

>>17558008
You should text your undying love for her

>>17557981
>Should I keep talking to them?
Of course, treat them like you'd normally treat them. They don't need to feel more alienated from society than they already do.

>>17557981
don't let it bother you. trying to constantly analyze them is going to drive YOU nuts, and make you look like a dick if they catch on.

>>17557987
I just don't know what the implications are for me. So far it's been their aggressivity.

>>17557992
Didn't even caught on they had it until they told me.