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>>17559500
Vidya.
Anime.

Ignore those worthless females and the real world in general.

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Ask for threesomes.

>>17559500

Why does it suck?

How old is she?

Literally, don't fuck with this. I cannot stress enough how bad this sounds. Don't fuck w crazy man

>>17559482
21

not sure man. we then went to bed. then she got up earlier in the morning and left. at like 7:30am. I text her.
>"u good?" -me
>"yah I had to go home to get my anti seizure medication" -her
>"hopefully I can see you again next week"-her

we go along fine, we text and no worries. not sure if she didn't want to hookup on the first time we hung out or what. or wants to be seen more then a fuck buddy / hookup ?

"How clueless am I?"

>>17559459
The general idea is that, through those generic things, you learn about more specific things, things that are either important to her or of common interest between the two of you. Once you have those found out, you can start having deeper conversations about them.

>>17559477

Yeah, ive been trying that, trying to pick apart some of her intrests, like how she likes music and is going to college for it as a result.

its just that i want to have something i could talk about once we finish talking about the first topic

Yeah, realize that nobody is paying you any particular attention, positive or negative.

>>17559460
What you mean anon? Hard to believe when people insult you and or attack you

>>17559471
You are not the object of their insults and attacks.

>>17559443

Truck through.

Exercise in the mornings.

>>17559443
If you can't fall asleep, just lie there in the dark and think happy thoughts. You probably will doze without realizing it - you can sometimes even dream you're still awake - but even if you don't, quiet rest is almost (not quite) as good as actual sleep.

>>17559417
It's okay.
I think all guys know by now that women aren't capable of love or loyalty, so if they dump us, we're not that surprised anymore and just move on to another slut.

>>17559417
It's not "just" depression. It's absolutely something worth breaking up over, especially if he doesn't even acknowledge it himself.

I can understand wanting to help, but you have to realize you probably can't, especially if see above. In fact breaking up with him might've been the best thing you could've done, since depressed people often do not seek help and change their ways until the absolutely have to, until everything in their life comes crushing down.

If you had stayed with him you probably would've had to endure months or years of the same behavior you broke up with him over. At some point you have to look out for yourself and I think it's better you do it sooner than later.

Let's be honest, you're an asshole. You say how long you've known him, you suspected he was depressed but weren't sure. Clearly you don't love this guy. Leave him the hell alone, he deserves better than you.

nothing i can say can really help you

you need to help yourself, and that probably starts with a change of attitude and reaching out to a few people to try to make friends.

>>17559408
I'm really sorry to hear about that OP. I don't know much, but I know herbal supplements. I take sceletium tuberosum and zembrin pills daily for my depression (herbal SSRI - if you need a MAOI-B try St. John's Wort pills, but beware - they make me puke and they have other side effects; I used to take them with CBD oil to mitigate that). For panic attacks, the mildest calm medicine I know of is chamomile and valerian. In fact CBD oil could potentially help you with your anxiety, but I would try a TINY bit first to see how it goes - I like Charlotte's Web.

But I am wondering. What are you taking the benzos and antidepressants for in the first place?

>>17559408
I am feeling the same way, OP.
I don't know what is that but I just can't seem to care about anything or anyone anymore.

Depends, what is your condition like? What are you able to do?

>>17559405
It was rocky mountain spotted fever that went chronic and undiagnosed for ten years until last month I was on antibiotics. Right now all I can do is walk around the block once a day. Taking a shower requires one hell of an effort.

>>17559442
I sometimes wonder how many people are actually on this board. Because I know I saw you in another thread.

Are you on medicalbux or some shit op?

>>17559361
Remove the fucking thing, its hideous.

>>17559361
This is something you want to talk with your tattoo artist about. Just make sure it's a better one the whoever gave you the ones you already have.

Uhhh thanks..? Assholes!


I don't have a "tattoo artist" to ask; I live in a small town with not many professionals laying around; so a friend freehanded this on me.. It's not even close to being finished and I plan on paying someone to improve it; was just looking for a bit of artistic advice before I could afford to consult with a professional.

I wasn't expecting such rude responses!

>>17559354
Dude, you have 2 options:

Option 1: You let her go und wait for the next "love" of your pathetic life.

Option 2: Fight for her and make her yours! Theres no other way.

you have been used, well done
forget this bitch
her relationshit is as good as dead but even if she becomes yours, she will jump ship whenever she gets bored

dont develop crushes on shy whores

>>17559354

Its so sad that you think she has feelings for you

remember, her boyfriend was in your shoes before, if this is happening to him, its going to happen to you too, women like this only care about themselves and once you're not good news anymore, you're fucked.

try finding a decen girl next time instead of playing the white knight saving the girl from the dragon.

Is this thread really necessary?

Are you fucking retarded or something?

This is not even an actual advice thread. You're just making a very dumb question that can be answered by google or simply not living on a dungeon your whole life.

>>17559302
You post this identical question once a week. Go away.

Yes, but nobody would date you.

>>17559278
Tinder. OKCupid. Farmer dating websites (whcih does exist.) Now go do what makes you happy.

>>17559278

outside of farming you'd go to emet girls, and in those sorts of communities you meet girls who are looking to settle down. farming communities dont have girls that want to go out and 'find themselves'. slim pickings and you just settle for what you can get.

and of course its not going to last forever. but are you really sure being a farmer is how you imagine it to be? growing things is fun, i rememebr when i grew three sunflowers. but an entire farm stops being 'growing things' and more 'wow im a slave so america can eat'.

>>17559292
I've largely grown up in a farm setting, I would say I have a pretty good grasp of what farming is like. And its honest, hard work makes me feel good

>>17559271

depends on the calorie count x how much you drink. know your calorie limit and stick with it. while alcohol does slow that jazz down in general, if you're going to drink at least aim as low cal as reasonable. there are vodkas with very few calories so if you can stomach that, go for it.

but if ur gonna insist on beer just count yuor calories, experiment with how much you drink of each on seperate nights, and make your decision then.

light beer may be low calorie (or not, im not actually sure) but you may drink more to compensate on how little buzz it gives (even as a light weight htat shit does fuck all for me)

>>17559281
I don't like to buy liquor because I have self control problems and will get way too drunk. I do love red wine is it better to drink? I'll kill a while bottle a night though.

>3 beers a night

Youve got bigger problems than your weight (no pun intended)

>>17559247
What'd you eat today?
Drink water afterward

>>17559253
Hmmm Captain Crunch, little bit of chicken, grapes, not much at all really.

>>17559253
What'd you drink?
May be it was something from the day before or because you haven't eaten enough?
Well drink a glass of water after
Is your stomach sensitive towards certain foods?
That gives you stomach pains? gas?

>>17559239

first and foremost accept that this is not a game that can be won. there is no specific path, there is no button mashing combo, there isn't some cheat code.

whatever she wants to do, she is going to do. you can't come up with a way to make it work.

this isn't depressing. its freeing. the universe has pretty much pre arranged this so its not a slight against you. asking her out is not the test, it is simply the confirmation. there isn't necessarilly a wrong way to go about this because there isn't some right way to make it work.

that being said, you dont really need to say your 'feelings'. when guys go into their feelings with a girl they havent had much time to truly bond with, it can be uncomfomrtable. it shows a level of investment. you may think of it as a crush developing but because the girl doesn't see you that way she sees it more as a delusion, a constructed relationship in your head that you've made.

just asking her out wont give this implication. it will just show interest in her, and thats okay. even if she rejects you just asking her out on a legit date isn't bad. as simple as
>we've been hanging out a long time, and i want to do something special with you. lets go get dinner, this weekend. you like sushi right?

and just react to her reactions. even if she says no, thats it. your life is the same as it was an hour ago, so no big deal.

>i dont know how to build chemistry with her

otuside of broad strokes (re: hanging out) you cant really 'build' chemistry in the conscious sense. thats just manipulation, even in an innocent way, and it doesn't lead to anything good.

at the end of the day the only advice anyone needs in romantic situations is
>ask her out

thats it. literally nothing else matters.

>>17559264
Thanks a lot! Yah in "building chemistry" I meant more like hanging out and getting along which seems harder now that for some reason she acts somewhat colder around me than she used to. Thanks for the advice, it think I'm gonna ask her out. I was just worried it would come out as stupid like "why is he even asking me out, we don't get along that well". Though maybe it's mostly just me over analyzing everything her too much.

I act cold when I like someone so I don't come off as liking them.