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I was taking a nap when my bf came in to play Xbox on mic with a friend.
Their chatter eventually woke me up a bit but I rolled over and tried to go back to sleep.
While lightly sleeping I hear my bf setup a code name for his ex ("I was talking to the one with the white Benz...you know Chris...yeah so when I say Ben you know who I'm talking about" (ex name is Christine)
And he quickly mentions how he's been talking to Ben about how he wouldn't be opposed Ben moving closer to the city we live in. (He moved 700 miles three months ago to be with me) The mic is muted on the other end but bf's replies are like
"Yeah, I know i said I learned my lesson but...you know..."
Shit like that.
Anyway I "woke up" and sat up and got some water. And I'm wondering what to do or where to start.
This isn't a "we'll always be friends" type of ex. Long term, heavily involved, last girl before me, kind of ex.
I want to calmly confront him but what do I say?
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>>17562397
>confronting someone who is hidding something
Great way to make him better at hidding stuff from you.
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OK so do I not say anything?
It's so stupid because I wasn't lurking or snooping. I was sleeping. He couldve texted his friend or not have been in the same room as me but he chose to do it in my presence while he thought I was unaware and he chose to be sneaky about it. What would you do?
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Deffo confront him
How long have you guys been together and how long were they together?
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After breaking up with my gf about a week ago, I've approached four attractive women- one of which straight up shot me down from the get go, and the other three gave me phone numbers.
I like to think these approaches went well, but I don't really know. I made two of these three girls laugh and they both seemed receptive.
The first ended up having a boyfriend (which I don't know if that's actually true, but it doesn't really matter, I guess) and the second one (who I actually hit it off, really, really well with, it's a real shame things didn't pan out) also was legitimately taken.
The third, just today, gave me her number, texted me for a while, but straight up said she wasn't interested when I asked her to eat.
Could I simply not be very attractive? I'm new to this and I know rejection is part of the deal, but going 3 for 3 like this is a little discouraging. Can people share their average success rates with approaching women/asking them out?
Thanks
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>>17562350
That's not a very big sample size desu
where did u meet these bitches
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>>17562366
At my university, two of which in the student center and one at a bus stop
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Go to a club.
Was she just "putting me down" nicely?
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>>17562343
seems genuine she's just shy or retarded
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>>17562346
>if it weren't for my anxiety I would most likely just come over rn
nah she's into you, she's just playing hard to get.
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How do i keep a conversation going?
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>>17562340
Keep talking.
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>>17562340
I want to know too
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>>17562369
Isn't that weird?
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Texting this hot girl. She's very smart and she wants to debate me about who should be our next president. I want to call her a nickname that'll make fun of her in a flirty playful way. She's a debater and a hillary supporter. Help me out /adv/
>Pic semi related
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>>17562335
What's the nickname?
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>>17562345
Oh my bad. I forgot the question. What nickname should I give her? Something that starts with "ms."
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>>17562356
Oh
That'll be hard to pull off without being cringy. I can't recommend anything because I don't know her, sorry.
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Why do virgins never receive any moral support? 2016-09-13 01:06:10 Post No.17562304
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Why do virgins never receive any moral support?
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They don't get help at all, they don't even get people encouraging them in their efforts to lose it, every one is silent or discourages them
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the best way to be done with virgindom, is literally just doing it, even if you won't feel proud afterwards
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>>17562304
Competition. The game is already hard, no one wants to add more players to the pool.
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>>17562309
Way easier said than done
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>tl;dr relapsed yesterday and still have drugs left
I was a pretty bad drug addict back in my hay day. I was using something at least every weekend, and it eventually because almost an everyday thing. I'm not talking about weed either, I'm talking meth, benzos, ecstasy, coke, opiates (pills at this time). This lasted about a year, but I started to slow down quite a bit.
Then some really traumatic shit happened and it propelled me into that lifestyle full-force. I was homeless for a time, did some things i'm not proud of, and pretty much lost my mind from the drugs/PTSD.
I got back up on my feet after I stopped trying the AA shilled ----bullshit----, and was sober for 8 months! minus beer, but that was at most once a week. Then yesterday an old dealer texted me and it just triggered me to use again. Long story short, I ended up getting about 2 grams of heroin by the end of the day after driving my dealer around and finding his dope (it was in his wallet...idiot, but he broke me off). I also found crack in my truck from who knows when while I was cleaning it out looking for his product and smoked that, and smoked some meth when the pipe was offered to me. Oh and I got some xanax too.
Anyway, I feel really guilty. I've been able to stay away from the heroin since yesterday, and wanted it to be only a weekend thing, but I can tell that's going to prove to be fucking difficult.
I don't want to flush it, I have about 1.5 grams left I would guess, which translates to $140ish dollars. It's hard for me to justify just tossing that shit away, it'd be like taking a lighter and burning $140. I could maybe sell it back to my dealer for a cheaper price though and getting some of my money back...
i just don't know what to do. I don't want to go down this path again, but I keep finding myself thinking about it. If you've never shot heroin, it's a very very good feeling...so idk. thoughts?
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Use it. It's a waste otherwise. Just stay away from the heroin and meth from now on buddy. We don't want you to die early
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>>17562310
Just did a shot... it was pretty great. not as good as yesterday but still p good
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>>17562297
Cut contact with everyone that has anything to do with that shit. Everyone. Get a new phone, new phone number, delete the contact info or destroy the old phone if you have to. Your life is worth more than a phone.
Remove all things that could trigger your desire for this shit again, remove all those people from your life who might possibly trigger it. If you have any drugs left, actually go and flush them, because your life is worth more than whatever is left is worth.
Head down that road again and it leads only one way: complete ruin. But I am sure you know that. So don't just put up road blocks, nuke the fucking road and head the other direction. Fucking DO IT.
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how do people in general effectively handle themselves in pressure situations? is there a certain tactic when it comes to being able to think critically and clearly when shit gets real?
i'm talking about ANY intense situation where you need to think fast.
>inb4 just stay calm
i'm the nervous type, that shit doesn't come naturally to me
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>implying inb4 discounts valid points
Literally breathing, telling yourself to think logically and ignoring emotions always works for me.
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>>17562213
This. Being nervous is like dreaming. The trick to conquering it and taking control is to realize your nervous. Then you can start to notice how it's effecting you and what you need to change to start thinking correctly.
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>>17562257
>literally breathing
>recognizing and understanding emotions
so basically meditation?
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For the past 2 years, when I knew I would be having sex (which isnt all that often, once every month or so), I would take a pill or a half a pill of sertraline (ZOLOFT). I would take this because I am, by definition a 2 pump chump, 2 pumps in a girl and I would orgasm all over and it is the most humiliating thing. And SSRI's are proven to be able to help that issue. I was prescribed them a while ago but I only take them the day I know im having sex and they do work if you take them 4-8 hours pre-intercourse. The 2 pumps turn into 3-5 minutes and if im actually on the drug often then 10 minutes or more. The problem is, I get some pretty bad side effects for the day I take it and the day after. And they seem to be getting sort of worse, can it have anything to do with the pills reaching an expiration date soon? I am experiencing insomnia, dry mouth, anxiety, exhaustion and not eating enough. All of this from taking a half of the medication.
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bump
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>>17562176
not a doctor, but having taken pills before, I would say don't do them.
Pills have never helped anyone, at least not for mental issues. I was on pills for a good 12-13 years of my life, and they did NOTHING to help me. I'm better off without them. The only thing they did is make everything foggy, and make me gain fat.
It's the same with my brother. He has/had really bad anger problems, and he still isn't perfect now, but he is entirely off meds, and if anything he's better.
That being said, it can be dangerous to go cold turkey. Depending on the pill, you might have to titrate yourself off. Ask your doctor or something.
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>>17562514
I did state that I only take 1 pill or so every 2 months right? So i dont take them daily
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So I just moved into my apartment today and I realized that my landlord straight up lied to me.
>When signing the lease I specifically ask if the apartment has a dishwasher
>landlord says yes, so I sign the lease
>fast forward to today when I move in
>taking inventory and "oh shit! there's no dishwasher"
>tell her about this, she says sorry and says the most she can do is take $5 off my rent
>I'm tired from moving furniture all day so I just take the $5 off and call it a day
Did I just get fucked? it seems to me that $5 is extremely low for a dishwasher.
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>>17562156
Sounds like you kind of got shafted. Don't really know what can be done about it though. Just going to have to hand wash everything. Some things have to be hand-washed anyway.
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>>17562156
yes, you got fucked
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This girl's face is fucked goddamn. Literal jew nose
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How do you deal with living somewhere where even the "entry level" positions want 1-3 years of experience, multiple references, and certifications? The places I can work at never get back to me either.
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You realise that you're not above working wageslave jobs and you get one so you can build up the experience and references you need, and you get the certifications you need.
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Don't wait for them to call you for a follow-up, call them.
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>>17562138
I'm applying for wageslave. I'm talking about fast food and retail.
I'm not even qualified for warehousing in my area because certification is a thing.
>>17562139
What about all the jobs where they just tell you to apply online and wait?
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever. It takes hard work, time, and effort.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't fucking know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off.
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Guys,
would you find it insulting if a chick wanted to bring out vibrators/toys (for herself) the first time you had sex?
Assuming this is not like your long term gf or anything either, but just a hookup.
If yes, how many times should we bang before that conversation can happen?
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You should bang yourself with broken wine bottle you worthless slut
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So I am studying abroad now and this girl I know from home is probably going to visit me. The thing is I dont want her to come.
It is not that I don't like her but its because I like her. I have fallen in love with her a few months ago. We started hitting off and everything went well. Thing is she is more into girls but said I was the first guy she really likes. I told her to take the time she needs etc. and that we can take it slow. The next few weeks we met, we talked and we had a lot of fun. After some time we talked about the situation it in an very honest and mature conversation and she was straight with me and told me that she can't imagine not being with a girl one day cause she prefers them physically. Though she likes hanging out with me. I was kinda relieved for finally knowing whats up but also very sad after that day.
A few weeks later I helped her through a class in uni by giving her private lessons. For that I put my feelings aside cause I knew she needed someone in that moment otherwise she would fail uni completely. But I felt that I still have feelings for her. Though I tried to not show anything and concentrate on her cause she seriously needed me there. Of couse we talked inbetween and had a drink sometimes. It was great as always and made me feel happy for the time being with her. She also had some family issues and I helped her through talking and sharing thoughts on it.
>continued in next post
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>continue
My issue with this is I don't know how to tell that I don't want her to come this without sounding like a massive beta faggot or a stupid selfish cunt. I tried to be there for her when she needed me and have put myself on second place cause I knew it was the right thing to do. But I will probably go mental if I keep seeing her....at least until I find someone else in my life that makes me happy or I generally get a happier and better life. We talked and met so much that I can say she is everything I ever desired especially spiritually.
Also am I being selfish? Is this normal? I just want to stop thinking about her cause I want to be happy again one day and I need time for that.
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>>17562087
She very clearly cares a whole lot about you. You should feel good knowing that someone out there feels that way, even if it isn't necessarily in a "let's spend the rest of our lives together" sort of way.
I'd consider you try to put yourself out there more, meet a whole array of people. You're still young, be adventurous and spontaneous. It's not too late for you.
Go ahead and even try to pursue this girl you've fallen for, if you want. Who knows? She may fall for you, too.
As for your situation with being worried about her visit, really think about if you want to see her or not. Sit down for an hour or two, list out all of your thoughts.
If you don't want her to come visit you, then tell her you don't want her to spend all of that money to come see you and that you're too busy overseas and send your regards. Try to make up for it and bring her home a souvenir.
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>>17562287
>You should feel good knowing that someone out there feels that way, even if it isn't necessarily in a "let's spend the rest of our lives together" sort of way.
I guess I should yeah.
>I'd consider you try to put yourself out there more, meet a whole array of people. You're still young, be adventurous and spontaneous. It's not too late for you.
Probably a good idea.
>Go ahead and even try to pursue this girl you've fallen for, if you want. Who knows? She may fall for you, too.
Nah man. I'd rather have no relationship at all with her than having one and then 6 months in her telling me she needs some pussy again.
>If you don't want her to come visit you, then tell her you don't want her to spend all of that money to come see you and that you're too busy overseas and send your regards. Try to make up for it and bring her home a souvenir.
this might be a good excuse I guess
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Hi! Robot here.
Last wednesday I met a girl who works at a coffee shop (not a Starbucks). Me and a friend went there to look out for cover during the rain, so we ended up staying in her shop for like 15 minutes. I noticed she was nice to my friend, in a way that shop owners are nice to their customers, but she was extra nice and really talkative to me. And weird thing is, despite being a complete turbo autist, I was real talkative back to her and we had a nice conversation the time I was there.
The thing is, I didn't ask for her number, not even her name. I can't stop thinking about her and I want to go back, but the shop is not at walking distance and if I ask for a ride, seems like I'd need a real good reason for one and an even bigger one for going to that part of the town.
So my question is: What the fuck do I do now?
This is the first girl that has shown interest in me in a really long time, plus she was good looking.
And how do I get to talk to her again without getting pepper-sprayed for being a total creepo?
I don't want to scare her, /adv/. I just want to meet her again.
Please help me.
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You missed your chance. Date one of the other 7 billion people on the planet.
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>>17562055
this, honestly
sorry OP I know the feeling but "I met you once and you were nice to me so I engineered a scenario to meet you again" always ends in disappointment.
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>>17562063
Oh fuck. Really?
Should I just move on then?
But, she wasn't just nice to me. I really unironically think we kind of clicked, for lack of a better term, so I really have my hopes up.
I didn't consider giving up so soon.
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what is the most romantic thing a person could ever do to you?
Consider the laws of science the only constraint on this.
Please, state your sex
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Strap me to a chair and give me a lap dance, then I'd break the straps and penentrate until it came out the other end
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shoe on head
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male
>her leg locking while I'm about to cum and she says she loves me