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(in college) my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years had cheated on me back in may 2014. back then, he told me he just made out with the campus slut in her dorm (she was messaging him and was in his classes)

in april he had told me the truth, that he fucked her. he didnt want to tell me because he was afraid itd hurt me, etc etc

we've made it a long way since then, but, i cant really get over it. i have PMDD and i get really emotional, depressive and angry around my period, but i try to stay away from him during this time.

ive been thinking alot about our past and i cant help but cry whenever i think about it. it hurts so much

what should i do? i love him and we plan on marrying each other etc etc. but its just that im hurting so much. hes very closed off too, so he knows im hurting but cant do much to emotionally support me besides apologizing.

advice please?
i dont want to leave him
sorry for grammar, too depressed to correct it.

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any tips and tricks you may have because this is fucking hard

>uk
>gf studying in the us for a year

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how retarded am I and how do i turn my life around?

I'm too scared to talk to almost anyone. I fell in love with a girl I used to see around campus but the longer I waited the harder it was to say hi. So of course after a couple years i graduated and never saw her again. eventually I found her fb profile and check it every now and again.

finally i see her profile pic with some guy who it looks like she would be on a date with. It feels like my heart fell into my stomach and im dizzy as hell and having a literal anxiety attack and am nearly crying.

I don't even know these people and never talked to them but I'm going into a depression over this wtf is wrong with me?

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Hello Im a 19 year old who is having trouble finding a job... What are some jobs you anons reccomend for somebody with no prior experience and is currently a NEET? And where should I look for them? Are there any websites with listings for low experience jobs?

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Considering going to a massage with 'happy ending'. Everything I'll say here is based on some fuckup forum that reviews escorts from my city. Few people rating her positively so I kind of trust it.

Girl is from my country (European) and seems to do actual massages, no half-assed ones. Body looks very decent.

50€ - 1 hour massage, ends with handjob or blowjob (no condom)
70€ - 1 hours massage, adds full body contact, also ends with handjob/blowjob
90€ - 1 hour massage, mouth kisses, 69 and vaginal sex. Lets you cum on her body.

The girl looks very professional, with a personal flat (can't invite her over because I live with family) and careful with hygiene (forces you to take a shower before doing anything).

Really tempted. I've only had sex once in my life with a one night stand, 2 years ago, and I'm sexually frustrated as fuck. 21 years old currently.

Not sure if I should just deal with it and wait until I find a gf, or just go in there and enjoy myself.

Opinions? Would I be a loser if I go there?

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Sup /adv/

Got a huge decision here, maybe you guys can help me out? Ill try and keep this as short as possible.

Been married to an amazing woman for almost a year. She's one of the most loving and compasionate people I've ever met and also hot. We get along amazing and have great sex too. But she got this job that made her depressed and she started drinking alot and gained a bunch of weight. I begged her to quit drinking and start living a healthier lifestyle, even to quit her job so she'd be her oldself. Either way shes been a wreck for the last 8 months.

So 2 months ago, I'm throwing this party and she gets drunk and passes out as usual. I ended up fucking one of my friends that I've known for over a year. She's also an amazing person whos inspired me greatly with her down to earth personality and love for life. She's also incredibly sexy. I've been going between both but I need to pick one because they both love me and I can't keep leading them both on.

Before you mention poly, I've tried and they hate each other so not gonna happen.

Do I choose the woman I married, the one who gave her all to be a mother to my son and has changed? She quit drinking, is happy with her job and lost 30lbs. I know she'd do anything for me as she believes were soulmates.

Or do I accept that her weakness pushed me away and move forward into a fresh relationship with an equally amazing woman? She's also crazy in love with meand would do anything for me too. I feel like I could easily see myself spending the rest of my life with her as she's an incredible soul. By the way, pic related, it's her. Second is my wife.

I love them both and they each have their own qualities. My wife I feel I probably love more, shes been an amazing partner but my new gf is sexy and fun and we have much potential for growth together. There's so much more to this and emotions are high between all of us. Any thoughts or encouragemens is appreciated!

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I have to think this group has some experience with this.

Basically, was on Reddit, looking at Gonewild.

I just saw my niece.

No idea what to do.

No, it wasn't hot, it's really upsetting. She just a little girl to me (she's over 18, but will always be that little girl).

Do I tell her parents?

I don't want to start a chat saying I was looking at young girls online when...

I think she has made a huge mistake, but I don't want to even admit to seeing them.

Any ideas?

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This is super specific. Is anyone here a nurse who works in endoscopy? Or knows what it's like to work in this specialty? Thinking of applying. UK fag here.

Also: least shit specialty in your opinion?

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>21f, moved from u.s to ireland temporarily
>on a one year work visa
>took a year off from school to do this (was having a lot of issues, needed a serious break)

>go a decent uni back home, have a decent cv, decent references (have a two yr degree from a CC if that matters).
>experience in managerial, admin, reception, research, recruitment, etc
>applied to 170+ jobs, customised my cover letter for each employer (didn't send a generic one)
>have gotten one response for a skype interview in which the interviewer bailed last minute (wtf)
>so technically- ZERO responses

I know I can't green text for shit.

Anyways, I realize it might because I have a 'strange' name (ethnic name), and start assuming that they are profiling on the basis that my name isn't 'white.' I'm annoyed AF because I asked some people who live here, and they said it is true, and that they only want to hire 'actual' Irish people with Irish names.

I wanted to spend a year here and was super excited about it, but now it's turned into a nightmare of being stuck in a house literally slaving away doing check in/housework @ a B&B and do the family's laundry, make lunch/dinner, clean non stop, in exchange for room and board (been doing this for the past month). I've learned a lot and it has been humbling to do this....but I'm stuck in rural bit of the country and I haven't talked to/met anyone new or even around my age for a month+ (it's just me, my 'hosts' and 2 bratty, spoiled kids). I want a proper job.

I'm really sad and it eats away at me more and more every day. In fact, my anxiety is starting to come back and it's making this trip the reverse of everything I wanted it to be. I don't want to be homeless in a foreign country. I have no one to go to for advice about this, and I don't want to tell my family bc I put so much enthusiasm into being here...I don't want to go back and spend a year doing nothing (uni starts again next fall).


Any advice on this matter would be so, so appreciated.

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What are the best painless suicide methods?

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I want to go to college, but I feel like a second class citizen that shouldn't even try for some reason.

The thing is I was born into a rather poor family, everyone has had simple jobs that didn't pay well and even to this day my mom is struggling to survive, so I have to help her out.

I wanted to quit my job and live of my savings while in college, but when I was looking around for more information on that one colleges homepage I saw some pictures of graduates and after reading their stories I felt like they were on a completely different level.
They look like they were meant to be successful since they were born, they have a flawless résumé and I'm pretty sure most of them come from an already successful family.

I feel like like I have the potential to do achieve something, but I'm aware of myself and the fact that I'm definitely not a genius though.

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Advice on what I should do to my face?

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Sup guys. I'm naturally horribly depressed. I got ditched by my friends in a bad way today and right now I can't really take much anymore. I'm tired of feeling abandoned, and I'm tired of actually being abandoned. I can't stand being alone like this.

What do you guys do? How do you deal with this?

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I'll try and keep this brief. I don't know if I should just focus on my AFSC and anything to do with it or learn a trade on the side as a back up? My plan was to learn a trade on the side while in service but I'm ambivalent.

Looking for some opinions, input. If you want more details just ask.

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I have a bit of a conundrum here.

I met this girl online recently, and we've now met up a few times, and she is clearly very interested in me. She basically flat-out said she wants to date me. She's a cool girl, very attractive, into gaming, cute, submissive, smart, would be pretty much everything I'm looking for.

Trouble is, I'm 33, she's 17. 17 is legal here, so from a legal standpoint, it's not an issue, but man... we're literally getting into old enough to be her father territory.

I have been single for a few years now, though, and I suspect the sex would be fantastic, and it'd be real nice to have someone to cook for and have fun with again. I just don't want to hurt her, and I know there are gonna be issues dating someone that young. I just don't know if it should be a dealbreaker for me or not.

Thoughts?