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>>17635237
Sorry english is not my native language. What can I explain again?

>>17635240
This
>I'm thinking on confessing the random acess to her phone and asking for the lie, but that would be a major play, and can finish everything between us. Should I confess, or try very hard to dig her lie into myself untill I forget?

What I've gathered from the rest of your post is that she asked you to check something on her phone when you saw what I presume to be nudes. You asked her about them, and she said they weren't new. And now you think she's lying. Is that correct?

>>17635226
Bump.

You mean during masturbation?

I'm male, so I'm not sure about you, but I've been on escitalopram for 3 months. At first it was incredibly hard to reach orgasm, but now I'm almost back to normal. Jaw clenching and the initial fatigue are basically gone.

You'll be fine you faggot. Unless this shit goes on for hours you'll be fine. Just stop being a fag

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>>17635218

Funny enough, I'm not a fag, I got into this because my gf talked me into pegging, then I got into anal masturbation.
So, you say I'm gonna be fine? I just went again to the toilet and shat a little bit of mocus and bright blood, but not much.

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>>17635224
So you hold the fantasies of a fag.


But yeah you daijoubu. As long as it doesn't last more than an hour or a few hours probably. But if its still happening half a day later..

>>17635185
She's toying with you dude, if a girl wants to fuck you, she'll do it. She's just messing you around

>>17635185
Repeat the party. She literally spelled it out for you, dumbass.

>>17635192
Indeed, but will I get something from that?

>>17635175
Nothing, I don't think having a kill list is that abnormal.

>>17635194

But telling people to kill their neighbors in front of their neighbor's children is fine? I'm okay with his stupid beliefs, but that's pretty fucked up.

>>17635201
Oh yeah I see what you mean now. That's a bit rude.

>>17635105
>Like what are you guys interested in or would want to know?

You're asking the wrong question lad

What are you interested in and would want to teach?

>>17635109
Oh okay, well i don't know, I'm really busy woth school and work that I don't really have time to watch the news or see what's going on around, and I don't have hobbies or anything, the small amount of free time i get i'll spend a little time on 4chan or be at the gym, that's why i'm here, to see what you guys think

>>17635117
Then head over to >>>/pol/

Im sure you'll find something.

Just fuck her.

>Anyone have a situation like this before?
Sort of
>How can I see if she's down to hook up without runing what might just be the beginning of a close friendship?
Based off your post it seems you can already tell/have the social ability to find out
> Also advice for cheating on GF with coworkers?
Make an informed decision. This will greatly alter your relationship in one way or another, and is very possible you will be giving it up for this encounter. That could very well be worth it in some scenarios, but its something you need to consider. Technically speaking it isn't ethical insofar as you entered this relationship with her probably under the pretense of monogamy and if she cheated on her, its likely you would come here for help and get hundreds of "dump her" responses.

I cheated on my girlfriend, and we aren't even friends anymore. Chances are that you probably take your relationship for granted considering that you are contemplating cheating. Well, nothing is granted my friend.

Best of luck

>>17635085
you sound awfully selfish for wanting to cheat on your gf

They sound like reasonable and understanding people, have you tried telling them what you've just told us?

>>17635072
yet another case of "you know the problem, you just don't want to deal with it the way you have to"

the problem is that you can't accept their help. anyone who is willing to stay with you and help you to hopefully feel better obviously wouldn't be doing it if they minded, especially if you tell them multiple times.

if they do not mind, and want to help, fucking let them. this is doing a service to them. letting people help you is also helping them.

i have a roommate like you. i've known him for years. he gets all.. for lack of a better word.. autistic when i try to help him with stuff. its not something he can't do himself, and its not a big deal. like maybe i'll turn off the light when hes done in the room he was in, because he forgets sometimes. or i'll wash his plate in the sink or whatever.

no big deal. i wouldn't do it if i minded. but he still minds. and it feels really shitty when you want to help but they absolutely refuse to help.

tl;dr you probably make them feel shitty by refusing their help.

>>17635075

Yeah I told my friend that today as a heads up. He just keeps suggesting medicine to me. Thing is he's a paramedic. So it's his job to take care of people. Plus he's a loyal friend and his wife is really nice to me. They seem like the type that would actually hang around and until I'm better and try to take care of me. I just hope they can leave me in the hotel for a few days and just go enjoy themselves why I try to recover on my own

I'm a independent person. I do everything by myself and never get help. So I can't accept the thought of someone trying to take care of me. I don't deserve it.

Why in the world would you want to work at home? Home is home, save it for relaxing after a day of work

Working from home is becoming more and more popular, try any office job really.

>>17635055
1.) I live at home with my mom and grandma and my grandma basically needs someone to be home with her at all times.

2.) I have tinnitus and that's really fucked me up in many ways. As for how it relates to jobs, super quiet places give me headaches and super loud places make me afraid I'll make my tinnitus worse being there. My original plan was to work somewhere quiet but unfortunately I can't do that anymore.

>>17635046
What's next?

She has desires to cheat on you and probably already has, break up with her. That is literally the only answer.

>>17635046
Oh, and long term relationships from high school never work. Even normal girls want to slut it up in college. But with one into "polyamory" (slutting it up) it's 100% guaranteed.

Break up with her and find someone else OP

>>17635046
Her dress is a red flag at this point
Get out asap OP

Have more money before you move and look for a job before going. No one will hire a shit smelling, dirty hobo with no address. Have at least enough money for a month's worth in rent so you can find roommates or a room instead of living on the streets. Remember winter is just around the corner. Gets cold on the streets of New York.

Get a shitty job where you are now and ask to be transferred to NYC. A few of my coworkers did this so it would be easier to move across country.

>>17635051
Yeah but I have no skills and shit and there's no jobs out here at all. I don't think I'd be a shitty smelling hobo I can still shower

Trust me if I could have a job and transfer there I'd do it

>>17635051
This guy's right about winter, thats when a large swath of the homeless die

I dont know why poor people think moving to big expensive cities is a good idea

I use songkick for concerts

Where do you live?

>>17635047
New jersey

1. do you smoke, if yes then stop
and 2. see a doctor.

>>17635021
1. No
2. Was already considering, anything to do in the mean time?

>>17635039
take mucinex, or the plain robitussin that does NOT have dextromethorphan. you want something that only has guaifenesin. that will loosen phlegm. also drink a ton of water. it might seem like it's making more phlegm, but it will really just water down what's already there and help it move out faster.

>>17634952

Alcoholism? Yeah. The fallout from alcoholism? Luckily, no.

The best I can say is that I understand the struggle, my friend. In my general experience with /adv/, you won't get much support, just a "go to AA" answer, because apparently it's infallible and works for everyone.

At the end of the day, I think the only hope is discovering our own willpower, if we can.

i quit a year ago. i wouldnt have stopped except i started getting some really nasty and scary physical reactions to all the drinking. my heart was fucked up and i had bad indigestion to the point of passing blood.

after that i decided drinking was not worth it anymore so i quit cold turkey. i had anxiety attacks for months afterwards but those are 99% gone now, though i dont think ill ever feel totally right again.

my family and a doctor i went to see told me to go to aa but i never did and dont think i will. seemed like bullshit.

end of the day its up to you if you really want to quit. once i made up my mind it was easy not to drink because the choice was to either feed the beast and drink more or not drink, get my shit together and feel better eventually. but it has to come from you, no one else can make you do anything.

start slammin or snortin, because without limiting youself with alcohol these drugs take over your life

its either alcohol or a hard drug

pick ur poison
weed can help, but u still drink or do harder shit

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At one time I owned a site like 4chan had billions of views, mostly a legal nightmare with fbi though..

>>17634942
I don't see it?

>>17634966
Nice get! It's there, you just have to look really close.