So guys, I just went to burger king because I had cravings and was too lazy to cook something, one of the cashiers there, she looks like 18-20, I'm not sure, gave me her number on a seperate paper with my order, I'm really confused now, what should I do now, should I talk with her when I'm finished with my food, should I just send her a message when I'm back home? I have no idea what to do.
Better talk with her, arrange a date and say that you will call her.
Don't you dare talk to her if you're still in the store, she gave the number to you discreetly because employees aren't supposed to fraternise.
Leave casually when you're done, smile if she sees you go and call her in a day or two.
>>17637061
What should I even say when I call her? Or is a text message better? I'm a hopeless neet, so I was never in such a situation, it's so weird that someone would do that.
My parents are paranoid. They think I'm not studying because they see me on my phone like 2/10 times when they walk into my room without knocking, they ground me for no apparent reason, they don't let me go out because I hadn't told them ''early enough'', which means one or two days before I'm going to meet someone, they don't like seeing me texting other people because they immediately conclude that I'm addicted to my phone. Furthermore they're now bombing me with extra classes and extra shit I don't need and dad wants me to resolve every exercise under his supervision. Phones are allowed in school but I can't bring mine. I can't hang out with '' too many '' guys because it's unnatural and they might rape me (yes they think this is also a possibility) but one year ago they were afraid I was antisocial because I only hung out with 3 girls, which is too small a number for them. Dad finds even the smallest detail to yell at me and I just find myself crying in my room every night like the weak piece of shit I am.
What do I do /adv/?
Unles they're being abusive (which from how it sounds they aren't), your only options is to deal with it until you're able to move out.
Just be grateful that you don't have parents that either don't care enough to stop you screwing up your life or let you do whatever you want, no matter how self-destructive thinking it's the only way to have a good relationship with you. Both of those things are worse than your current situation.
>>17637011
Dad would hit me in the past but only if he had been very angry
>>17637011
Don 't be deluded OP. Do what you want instead of wasting your time, but make sure you can support yourself. You'll have to when you're older, anyway.
They won't stop being like that with you, but the more you involve yourself with the things you enjoy and more imporantly, others, the better off you will be.
Also, since you're a girl and it seems to be easy for you to be obedient, you might as well hand them a schedule for your texting and schoolwork, so they dont insert themselves in your life always. That should definitely work, but didn't for me because i couldnt stand it at all.
Hey /adv/
Building a computer and I am stuck on monitor.
Is 1080p resolution enough for 24'' monitor or should I get 1440p for 24'' monitor?
Is 1920 x 1080 enough for 24'' or do I have to buy 2560 x 1440?
Thanks
>>17636947
I thought 4k was the new standard.
If you don't care about 4k though, 1080 will be fine. I use it for my 22' and everthing is crisp and clean.
>>17636947
1080p is perfect for a 24" monitor.
1440p and 4k are very, very expensive, and to be frank, I don't recommend it since it's still somewhat newer technology, not supported by most software or games. Especially 4k.
1080p is perfect for the state of technology at this time. Go for it.
>>17636947
my 2 monitors are 24" at 1080p, looks good to me.
What is your dream in life, /adv/?
How realistic is it?
I want to be happy and find my own importance in life.
Looks like I'm doomed.
>>17636941
My dream is to teach people self defence.
My current occupation is teaching the police and prison officers safety techniques.
I'm pretty much there.
I tried teaching self defence to Joe public, but most people wanted to attend belt factories like Karate clubs and get a black belt in two years, or they didn't like actually having to spar and get bruises.
If I want to give my dream job another shot, I'd need another form of income, because I wouldn't make any money doing it on my own.
I want to be part of world leading scientific research
I don't know, I'm starting college at 24.
What are some things I can do with no car or home of my own that'll let me meet girls or just make friends?
t. Community college student with enough cash for bus fare
go to parties
>>17636935
I've never been invited to or heard of a party from any of my classmates.
>>17636955
then you're a loser, fix that
I am a decently attractive guy, I dress well, im not grossly overweight, im not cringey but I want to know how attractive will i have to be to get girls to just melt for me? I have a weird fetish and its my biggest turn on, its when a girl just lets herself go and goes primal. Idk if that has a name or not but I also get really turned on at the thought of women saying they dont like sex or its gross but if you slip a dick in then they melt and start to softly moan and love it. I want to get to that point of sexual attractivness but I dont know how to being.
How big is your dick?
start by leaving 4chan forever
>>17636950
Normal, but I want something based on the first time they would see me.
Long story short
>girl messages me on tinder
>go on coffee date
>says she's not interested in dating or a relationship but wants to keep talking
>text for just about a month
>she moves into new place invites me over
>I give her flowers
>she makes me dinner
>watch movies smoke weed
>don't make a move and spend the night on her couch
How autistic is this text to send?
Any advice?
>>17636924
Bumping for much needed advice
>>17636924
Cut 2/3 of that measage. Ur welimcm
>>17636924
>seeking a relationship on tinder
Tinder isn't meant for that. She told you straight up what kind of relationship this is. You'll get dragged along if you don't see it as such.
I'm a really happy excited guy but when I act so happy estatic girls get really turned off me for some reason.
Im actully a hansome guy
Im starting to think girls dont like happy guys.
>>17636907
we dont have pictures so were not gonna pretend you're attractive.
you could also just be cringy annoying and silly and define that as 'happy'.
its possible to be happy and composed. you might just be a clown.,
>>17636927
its possible to be happy and composed.
Define composed cus its seems more like your saying hiding it.
>>17636907
You're probably acting spazzy or creepy without realising it.
My girflriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now, and I have noticed that we have been having a lot lot less sex the past few months. We maybe do it every few weeks, when we used to do it every day and all that.. When I ask her about it, she just says she is self conscious about herself and stuff like that (never give her any reason to think that, she just doesn't feel comfortable with her sexual things and whatnot).
Is something the matter, or what? She says it is no issue, but I am getting tired of masturbating
>>17636880
My ex girlfriend did this stuff too. I'd be on the lookout for shit, because she accused me of all sorts of things dealing with other women (except that I don't HAVE other women all over me) while she had tons of guys coming out of the woodwork right after we started dating.
Something is the matter, but she won't tell you what it is.
>>17636899
She hasn't been accusing me of anything at all, so I dunno if something is up, but I will keep my guard up a tad more I suppose.
maybe she feels less close to you and you have to spice things up? maybe go out somewhere different together? try wooing her again a bit more and see if the sexies come back
Guys, i want to start the dating game and flirt with men a lot.
Unfortunately, I am a female nerd and have a mentality of a neckbeard. (Manwhores everywhere, i am not like the other girls, etc). So no "bee yourself" for me.
Is becoming moe and getting into korean fashion a good idea? How many men would dig something relatively shy, clumsy and innocent?
This way I'll just have to be nice and approaching to everyone, right?
>>17636832
>female
>trouble dating
Pffffftt hahahahahahahaha fuck off.
Im always wondering why people look for happiness in dating or fucking, it will not make you happy. live your life for yourself
>>17636839
Because society has put such a stigma on prostitution that the only way to get laid is to do it the old fashioned way of getting a girlfriend. I don't want a girlfriend. I just want to fuck on the regular without dealing with some dumb bitch's emotional garbage. But, no, men like me don't get freedom like that. At least not in America.
is video game addiction real?
i'm 27 years old. almost exactly 8 years ago i was sitting alone in an apartment with piles of trash, unwashed clothes, and dirty dishes around my computer chair. i was skipping class in lieu of playing world of warcraft, neglecting my personal hygiene, smoking ounces of weed a month, and suicidal. i broke down and joined the army. spent three and a half years on active duty, one year in afghanistan, etc.
i just got my official, full discharge from the army last week and realized that i have gotten literally nowhere. i am in EXACTLY the same position i was in before i joined the army, minus the weed. i have gotten literally nowhere and nothing has changed and i don't know what the fuck i am doing.
i was actually on-track for a semester but -- big fucking surprise -- the minute wow: legion dropped i let EVERYTHING in my life slide. the only people i talk to are online, the only real life companionship i get is from my cat.
i want to stop but for some reason the prospect of quitting and letting down the people i play with is almost unconscionable. how the fuck do i stop?
Mental addiction to anything is real. The best way for you to stop is to just quit and find something else to dedicate your time and energy to. MMOs are life destroyers if you let them rule you like that
I would still keep in touch with the people you play with. One of my biggest regrets is cutting myself away from MMOs because I saw them as a bad influence. But that time you spent online, you meet alot of genuine like minded people. Its been a solid 6 years since I last played MMOs but the people I played with felt more genuine and kind than most people I see in real life.
Just limit yourself to less time each day on MMOs. I would honestly limit the game aspect and spend more time on WoW talking to those people you are friends with whenever you are on. Start by limiting yourself i.e.maximum 2 hours a day.
Replace your computer with a Chromebook. You can't play WoW on that and can probably do all the school work you need to (unless you need technical software like MatLab, in which case use Linux).
Why does doing anything that could be remotely good for me feel so impossible?
Even something as simple as keeping a jounral so I can keep track of my thoughts and maybe add some organization to what I'm dealing with seems like such a daunting task to me.
It's fucking pathetic, I don't understand what's causing me to be so fucking useless.
You are feeling apathy.
Like many people in first world countrieshave it doesnt have an apparent cause but is is there.
I am trying to fight against apathy and depression so I will tell you what have worked by now.
Be patient and wait for useful thoughts to come.
Being observant and writing things down in your journal may be enjoyable for you, and help with stimulating your mind. Which can then make sure you get along with thinking about how to not be useless.
>>17637085
Sorry for the crappy writing.
First I apply a 2 minute rule in my day. This means that if I have some task that can be done within 2 minutes, I will go straitforward to xomplete that task. I break down tasks into smaller one so I can keep applying the rule.
This may help a bit. I will put some other advice.
So anons, what made you come to /adv/? What makes you stay here? What's a problem you currently have in your life?
(The purpose of this thread is to try to get advice for your issues, and give advice to others, it's like "questions that don't need their own thread")
>>17636751
/b/ was in a period of nothing but porn and generals, so i looked at all the other boards and started exploring.
namely /tv/ /x/ and a few others, but those two plus /adv/ lasted the longest.
got bored of /tv/ as i wasnt up to date on most stuff, and the culture there was just shit. 4chans known for everyone being ego centric but god damn /tv/ was the worst.
/x/ was nice, but i couldnt take most discussion seriously and it wasn't active enough for the parts i do like, plus its just kind of a cyclical info dump.
i work in a sort of 'self help' industry, and /adv/ appealed to me because of that. longest ive bene on any board. i tend to take breaks when i find myself getting cynical though.
and im certainyl getting cynical fast this time.
>>17636762
I'll admit, I went to /b/ first and wasn't ready for all the porn, so I went to /r9k/, after a little while I bounced between both. About 3 months ago I started visiting /co/ (and still do) and almost 2 months ago I started coming here
>>17636777
i only go to /co/ for steven universe tbqh desu fampai
Im in the market for a new battle doggo. I have some preference in an outdoor/hunting dog.
I have my eyes on Vizsla as a breed, but I want to know which dog would be easier to handle with 5-6 hour work days?
I intend to buy a puppy btw
Maximum budget 800$ or so
Thanks boys
>pic related, may he RIP
don't buy a purebred, there are thousands of good doggos in need of rescue who will be killed otherwise
>>17636703
Puppies? And where would be a good place in MN to look?
>>17636739
Yes, Google your local shelter
>normies told me that if I can't get a gf I should get a whore
>go to Vegas to get prostitutes
>get rejected by whores because I am too young or too ugly.
What now normies?
>>17636609
>be OP
>go to vegas
>see one prostitute
>ask her how much she charges
>she thinks im underage so doesn't bother
>come here and say that all the whores in all of vegas rejected me for the same two reasons
kek
go ask /r9k/
>>17636619
I don't understand why he would go to vegas to get a street hooker when he realistically could have done that in any city in the country. You're supposed to drive out of Clark county to one of the legal brothels on the county line and go there.