Cheating on my GF with new girl at work

Just fuck her.

>Anyone have a situation like this before?
Sort of
>How can I see if she's down to hook up without runing what might just be the beginning of a close friendship?
Based off your post it seems you can already tell/have the social ability to find out
> Also advice for cheating on GF with coworkers?
Make an informed decision. This will greatly alter your relationship in one way or another, and is very possible you will be giving it up for this encounter. That could very well be worth it in some scenarios, but its something you need to consider. Technically speaking it isn't ethical insofar as you entered this relationship with her probably under the pretense of monogamy and if she cheated on her, its likely you would come here for help and get hundreds of "dump her" responses.

I cheated on my girlfriend, and we aren't even friends anymore. Chances are that you probably take your relationship for granted considering that you are contemplating cheating. Well, nothing is granted my friend.

Best of luck

>>17635085
you sound awfully selfish for wanting to cheat on your gf

>>17635085
>i love my GF
>i'm lusting over my coworker

no, you don't love your gf. the sooner you accept this and break it off with her, the better it is for everyone.

>>17635115
Setting judgement aside, I think OP has some repressed problems affecting his relationship or [perceived] ability to maintain one that he isn't confronting.

>>17635110
well it's my first real relationship and seems to be headed towards me marrying her. She wants me to propose.

>>17635119
>>17635122
I love her. It's just I'm getting a little bored of sex with her since we have sex every night and I haven't had many sexual partners in my life. Only 4 and I want to try with other girls for fun before I settle down.

I'm 25 and didn't lose my virginity until I was like 20.

>>17635115
Not selfish,

Oh god don't do it. She's going to get you fired.

Gender reversed, this thread would be full of people calling OP slut or whore.

>>17635144
OP, who cares if you want to experiment or whatever. It is unfair to ask your girl to be monogamous and then fuck behind her back.
If you want to stay with this girl and love her, keep your dick in your pants.
If you want to fuck more girls, leave her so she can find someone better.
You're a selfish piece of shit.

>>17635144
Again OP, you just have to make a clear decision. Ideally, one made over the course of a few days with minimal input from your penis.

You have to understand, it sounds like cognitive dissonance to us when you say "I love her" and "I want to cheat on her" in the same breath. But, the way I interpret it is that you have emotional feelings for her but don't have any sexual attraction to her. And, again based on my own experience in life i'd implore you to reconsider your relationship, as this will be essential regardless of what you choose to do now.

I was in similar shoes to you before. I had a girlfriend when I was 19, after only having sex with one other girl in my life two months prior. When I was dating her, I thought sex was a given and it would be super easy if I wasn't in a relationship. You really need to acknowledge that you are taking your relationship for granted by even considering this question, and weigh out which future is most important to you.

Its not selfish, but its extremely naive to want to keep your dedicated relationship AND have multiple sexual partners. If you want both, consider talking about an open relationship (but im sure thats not what either of you had in mind before).

>>17635159
>You're a selfish piece of shit.
This type of rhetoric is both unnecessary and ineffective.

>keep your dick in your pants
>leave her so she can find someone better

Your post rings of repressed sexuality. Since you're on this board, i'm advising you to take time and examine yourself.

>>17635172
Because I despise cheaters?
He is a selfish piece of shit. He is not taking in any consideration his girlfriend's feelings or this girl's feelings - he just want to get his dick wet. He is not thinking of the consequences and repercussions of it.
People who are able to betray their loved ones are horrible. And his girlfriend deserves someone better than him, anyone does.

I have a happy relationship, 10 years together, had sex pretty much every day. Very much not sexually repressed.

>>17635181
It's because you speak to OP like he is an completely unrecognizable monster, when in truth, he's human just like you and probably contains many similar qualities. The fact that you need to condemn him so dramatically is worth noting. There's something in OP that you are so unconsciously allured by that it warrants such a response from you.

>I have a happy relationship, 10 years together, had sex pretty much every day. Very much not sexually repressed.

This is exactly what I mean, and the use of "had" instead of "I have" is also pretty significant. Ill be up for 20 more minutes if you want to talk.

>>17635206
We are on 4chan, not on the kindness and niceness forum. I speak to OP like I'd speak to any person on here.
He is being horrible and inconsiderate for thinking about betraying a loved one like this. Thinking it is normal or fine to go behind someone's back and breaking their trust for his own enjoyment is disgusting.
He is being very selfish.

I don't think I have anything I'd like to talk about. How am I repressed if I am in a long term and happy relationship, and I frequently have sex?

>>17635214
why are you arguing with a tripfag dude

>>17635206
>OP states to love his girlfriend and wants to marry her.
>OP wants to fuck a slut (yes, she is one. She was informed OP was taken and pursued him harder) he has known for a laughably short period.

I just started a new job the last week of August. My coworkers and supervisor are nice people I'm getting to know--some my sex, some not. But asking one out on a date? Within the first week? The fuck?

If that isn't a red flag that something is up with your coworker, I dunno what is.

>>17635221
Because I am puking in university bathroom and I have nothing better to do.
I'd even reply to Pegasus.

>>17635214
>I speak to OP like I'd speak to any person on here.

Not true, you are speaking to me very differently.

>He is being horrible and inconsiderate for thinking about betraying a loved one like this.

Someone can be horrible and inconsiderate just for the thoughts they have? If that's the case, aren't we all horrible and inconsiderate? Surely the unconscious desire is harder to control and censor than ones real behavior.

To you 4chan is
>not on the kindness and niceness forum.
If this is the case, why would you need to scrutinize OP ?
Juxtapose

>I don't think I have anything I'd like to talk about.
and
>How am I repressed if I am in a long term and happy relationship, and I frequently have sex?

>>17635235
He is actively planning how to cheat on his girlfriend. He says that the only reason why they haven't fucked yet is because they didn't have time to. He is asking for advice on how to cheat.
This is much more than "huh, that girl is hot, I'd do her" - he has a plan in mind, and just didn't have a chance to put it to practice.
It's like saying that if a guy entered a bar with a explosive vest and didn't really blow up he is not a bad guy because, after all, circumstances blocked him.

>>17635244
I'm feeling tired, we will have this conversation in the future

>>17635085
First of all the mandatory, your a shit bag and you don't deserve your girl. At least do the right thing and break it off with old girl before you get your dick wet in new girl.

That being said if you feel this way before you even get married then it won't be any better after the marriage. You have to convince her to open the relationship up. Because it sounds like even after this work slut your still going to have some lust for strange pussy. Which is kinda normal but you have no self control.

Completely normal to want to fuck other people, being a lying cheating asshole about it, not so much.

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>>17635085
Don't shit where you eat. You may lose your job and reputation.

Cheating will change you, and women tend to be pretty good at picking up non verbal cues. Your gf will suspect you unless you're a professional actor and can keep your shit hidden. Once she finds out she will be so broken, but not like you care about that anymore.

If you cheat then you lack integrity. Your coworkers already suspect it, and if one of them hates your guts what's stopping them from contacting your gf and letting her know you're stuffing your salami on some other girl?

There is a chance to catch STDs.

Possibility of being accused of rape.

Even if you fuck the girl at work don't think for a moment that her pussy is exclusively getting pounded by you. Big red flag there senpai. Also if you drop your gf and decide to get on with the girl at work what's stopping her from cheating on you in the long run?

You could fantasise about it and probably get off to cheating gf/wife/husband porn.
Or why not cosplay and pretend? It might also make sex fun for both of you. If not cosplay then use toys and/or bdsm?

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>>17635085

>I love my GF

Unbelievable, just unbelievable, why is it that every time a vermin scum of the earth comes here asking us for advice on how to cheat, how to lie about cheating, how to deal with cheating, they always make sure to remind us that they love their girlfriend/wife/husband?

Like, can you just own up to being a scumbag all the way without having to be so half-ass about "b-b-ut I love my gf" If you loved her you wouldn't be plotting for ways to break their heart by cheating.

The solution is simple, break up with your current gf cause you clearly *DON'T* love her and go test your waters with new flavor of the week girl. It really is that simple but you wanna pull that I can have it both ways type Icarus shit.

You're an idiot.