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How do I be a good boyfriend? I've had a few relationships and I wasn't the best. Now I'm with a girl I really do like and care about, and I don't want to fuck this up. What do I do?
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Keep making time to show you appreciate her. Do cutsy shit to show you are thinking about her etc. If she is a good one, she will do the same in return.
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>>17636178
What is cutsy shit?
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>>17636183
For example, suprise her with her favorite coffee drink or candy without being asked. If the opportunity arises, show that you have her back 100%.
If you live together, suprise her when she gets home with dinner ready...plan out a 'date night.' Girls eat that shit up.
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I'm currently working as a packer at a dead end job in a supply company, and I'm currently looking for other jobs where i can earn more money cause i'm making less than minimum wage right now. My question is how do you handle telling your boss you want to quit your job? Do i tell them i'm leaving for health reasons? Or I want more pay? I'm quitting because its hard work lifting and packing stuff for little pay, and all these long hours have taken there toll on my back and my feet. I might have to get surgery eventually for all the pressure standing for hours on end have put on my legs and feet. I have special insoles for my work shoes, but the doctor told me they don't really help and i may have to get surgery in the future.
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>>17636163
Find a new job first and put in your 2 weeks notice. Easier to find a job when you have a job. Tell your boss you are leaving for more pay and better working conditions.
>cause i'm making less than minimum wage right now.
Give this info to the DOL after you leave for the lulz.
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>>17636163
How in the fuck do you end up working for less than minimum wage?
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>>17636201
I didnt choose this work myself, it was found for me by a work bureau, and I get payed less than minimum wage cause my pay is partly welfare, and my boss is taking advantage of that. I work part time three days a week, but if i work full time, my pay will just stay the same as it is now.
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/Adv/ how can i quit internalizing all of my anxieties and past traumas? Im 23 and ive basically done nothing with my life. I'm uncomfortable talking to my parents, the pain of my past and the uncertainty of the future has me scared stiff. My body is so sickly and I don't sleep well at all. Any wrong ever done to me, no matter how small, I remember clearly. Even though I'm not alone at all I feel so alone and miserable. I'm nearing wits end.
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do something with your life. or rather do some things with your life.
you're only 23. draw a comic. write a book. or an audio play. or make a video game. or build furinture. learn how to animate. do whatever you feel like. just see a project through. start it small. like if you do a comic, try to just do one self contained story across twenty pages. then expand that in to 4 issues. then if you still got it in you, try to do 12 issues for a year's worth of 'content'.
trust me when i say you are not even close to your wits end. you are at your 'basic bitch' end. the rabbit hole goes much deeper.
it doesn't matter what you do, just do something.
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>>17636147
To get out of your head, get out. Physically helps, as you can distance whatever it is that happens at home from your activities, but putting your thoughts and feeling out in an artistic manner can help too, as Anon said here >>17636259.
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>>17636284
Im terrible at art though. If i was as good at artwork as i am at video games it wouldnt be a problem but here i am
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>Had GF through junior/senior year of HS
>Was a bit more academically driven than her
>We applied to all the same schools except I applied to some higher ones
>I got into a decent public school
>She got into nothing but the safety school, a school so low I only applied there to make her happy
>she's heartbroken
>she begs me to go to the lower school with her
>say no
>she gets mad
>Fight for like a week before I realize that we're basically done, this is irreconcilable
>go to the State school, break it off.
>she's heartbroken (I tried to be nice about it i did)
>Don't see her for several months over the summer up to now
I just found out she tried to kill herself (but failed). I'm probably going to ignore it. Advice please
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Well if you're probably going to ignore it then what else do you want? Someone to tell you not to?
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>>17636146
That's a shit situation man. But you broke up, you don't talk. Send her a nice card if you feel obliged to do something; cards don't invite replies. If she does try to get in touch, just say that you don't think communication would be healthy for either of you.
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>>17636151
I'm just asking if you all feel that would be the best thing to do
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Alright, so my girlfriend told me she was raped a couple years ago, and she has a hard time being sexual or anything. Also because of this and a couple other things, she tends to push people away. How can I help her, and how can I keep from being pushed away?
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Rape her
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Gradually get her to associate sex with tenderness, passion and love again, rather than aggression and loss of control.
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>my girlfriend posts pictures of herself on instagram
Why would a non-retarded guy stay with a girl that does this?
It's a red flag and 99% of the time she's doing it for male attention.
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Almost every girl I know posts selfies on instagram, if it is a redflag for you, just be glad someone like you got laid.
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>>17636050
That's like 99% of the girls in my area.
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Are you sure she is your girlfriend and not a one-way crush?
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/adv/, do you know of any sex toys that offer much pleasure to the dick that are not technically an onahole/fleshlight, but something smaller and easy to wash and put away? Or something that vibrates and is convenient?
I've had 2 onaholes in my life but the problem that I found is that they are hard to clean and each cleaning process reduces the effectiveness of the onahole and eventually loses potency.
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>>17636034
Your left hand - convenient, portable, innocent looking and easy to wash
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>>17636156
Nice try but seriously though, what is out there that I can use that is not my hand?
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Tenga 3d.
They look inocuous as fuck, feel amazing with lube.
I've got 2, don't even bother to hide them. Girlfriend has never even asked what they are or noticed them.
Anyone here ever told someone you loved them and not had it reciprocated? Or maybe the other way round? How did it make you feel, and how did you handle it afterwards?
I'm this close to asking my male best friend if he loves me regardless of the repercussions (I'm also a guy, but I know 100% that he's Bi and am approximately 50% sure he has feelings for me too), I'm just scared that if I don't get the answer I'm looking for I might fall apart.
The answer will likely inform a lot of my life goals for the near future though so I think I'm just gonna go for it. Anyone been in a similar situation?
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Telling someone you love them and them not reciprocating (if you really do love them) is easily one of the most tormenting mental pains I have ever experienced so be careful.
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>>17636029
Why don't you test the waters before going full "anime love confession" way?
Just get closer physically, and see how it goes.
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>>17636029
everyones done it. not in the gay way, but we've all been there. i wish you luck.
that being said, if you're going to 'fall apart' over an imaginary relationship not coming to fruition, then you're not ready for a relationship. either stop being dramatic, or go find yourself first.
but if hes bi and you're gay and you're long term friends ad netiher of you are particularly ugly, chances are he at least has some sexual tension with you.
>>17636591
you've lived quite the cushy life.
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>29
>no actual friends
>never had a girlfriend
>would still be a virgin if not for hookers
>self-employed and able to work from anywhere over the internet
>making good money but I absolutely hate the "career" I've chosen
>honestly don't know what else I'm even good at or want to do for a living
>have become cynical about everything and everyone
How do I fix my life? I feel like everything I've done so far has been a colossal waste of time and I can feel any remaining opportunity in life gradually slipping away. I hate getting older and I think I'm going to really freak out when I hit 30 a few months from now and realize that 3 fucking decades of my life have gone by with absolutely nothing to show for it.
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How do I become you? I want to work from anywhere over the internet.
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>>17636027
>>self-employed and able to work from anywhere over the internet
Travel. Go somewhere new.
>making good money but I absolutely hate the "career" I've chosen
So work fewer hours and start doing something else?
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>>17636031
I don't know, I just kind of fell into it. I had some interest in programming since like high school and learned it fairly well on my own, at least well enough to be able to get jobs as a web and app developer. But once I actually started doing it for a living, I realized just how boring programming really is and I pretty much fucking hate it now. I just do it now because it's the only thing I'm able to do to make a living.
You definitely don't really want to become me.
>>17636033
I don't know what else I even want to do. I feel like my life is empty and meaningless and that there isn't anything that can fill that void.
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fuuuck high school dating
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Im a senior at a high school and there is this girl that I really like and would like to be in a relationship with, but I almost don't want to ask her out if its going to risk us not being friends anymore.
We have one class together, we sit next to each other. she is in to all the same stuff that I am and thats partly why I'm afraid to ask her out because even though we aren't dating she is still a good friend. We have hung out a few times out of school. she recently had a date to homecoming but I don't think it was like a real date because she wanted to get drunk with me after the dance.
Should I just ask her out, or should I try and keep the friendship we already have?
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>>17636018
You're a senior in high school. Odds are, three years down the line from this, you won't even talk to her anymore as "friends." Ask her out while there's still time. I made the mistake of not doing this, and almost 10 years later I still regret it. Just do it.
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>>17636026
Thanks man, that makes a lot of sense.
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>>17636018
>I almost don't want to ask her out
Every
Fucking
Day
Look thisbid what you do. Become good friends, learn about her, and start to see how she thinks of you. That's how you start a successful relationship and why kvs are always stupefied that they can't just talk to a random bitch.
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Any med fags here can give me some advice. My premature ejaculation problem is crazy. It takes me like a minute to get a boner and even less to cum. I've used creams sprays and pills and whatever.
Should I see a urologist or just kill myself?
Like what should I do? I'm 24 and missing out on a lot of fucking.
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That's alpha as fuck m8.
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kegels for men has helped many men with achieving harder erections and delaying ejaculation. It basically gives you more control over it
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>>17635991
Idk, I heard masturbating helps.
Definitely see a doc if it really is hella bad.
Or maybe flip it and just have like, 20 rounds of sex. then you cum like 20 times, and you have hella sex. Problem solved.
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Okay anons, before i start this, i want you to know i'm a horny teenager.
So, i recently got a girlfriend who i really love, but she's really hit me with a dilemma. She is super sweet and super kind but she acts really flirty around my friends and it pisses me off, i've spoken to her about it and she says that she would never cheat on me or do shit with them (i believe her 100%) but thats not the problem. Around me she is super sweet and innocent but around friends she is super flirtacious, i asked her why she isnt flirty with me and she told me that i'm the type of guy who she would want to start a family with, but my friends are the types of people she would hook up with and then never call back. Now, i'm a horny teenager, and i really love this girl, but i dont know if i can date a girl who flirts with my friends more than me. Help me please, i really dont want to break up with her but at the same time i dont wanna be some beta cuck.
What do i do?
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>>17635953
>What do i do?
well stay with her while look for another girl to fall in love with. Keep yourself open to new opportunities.
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>>17635953
What you call flirting she calls being friendly. Some people are naturally more expressive and open than others, but that means nothing about their feelings or fidelity.
look, either you trust her or you chain her to the bed and make her wear a burka outside.
I'd go with trusting her.
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>>17635974
this is a man or woman speaking ?
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Well holy shit it has been a while
How have you guys been?
What the fuck do I do?
I'm pretty much failing all my classes, I don't even know if i am even going to graduate High school
I really wanted to go to college, but I don't know anymore
I would just do Military but I fucking hate the outdoors and I live a super hot super humid place to make it worse and I seriously doubt they would let you change locations
Holy shit I just want to move the fuck out already my parents are fucking insane, I don't even fucking know if i can make it 7 more months
Are there any real decent jobs you can get out of HS? or without hs?
How dumb would it be to stay in HS and then later on take out huge student loans to be able to move out of state?
I mean if I fuck up i'm gonna off myself by 26 if it turns out horrible anyways.
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Go to a trade school.
Take solace that you're not a virgin.
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>>17635955
>Take solace that you're not a virgin.
Haha......yeah.....................
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>>17635924
The world will always need
plumbers
bus drivers
electricians
mailmen
construction workers
barbers
cops
truck drivers
government office clerks
garbage men
etc, etc, etc
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Do you ever find girls really attractive in real life, but then see their photos and find them less attractive because they don't look as good as in real life?
i'm pretty unphotogenic too, so I make sure to go with my IRL instinct rather than judging on photos.
also i've met some girls who look amazing in photos but it doesn't actually come out that well IRL.
maybe we can discuss this further
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(I should have said people not girls, I want to include all genders in this conversation)
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>>17635918
Holy fuck that's the same person ????
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>>17635923
yep, she has a pretty face to be fair
Is flight simulation an autistic hobby that will ensure I always remain a virgin?
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>>17635912
nah my friend plays it, he's a pretty traditional guy.
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It probably just means you have some German Ancestry.
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>>17635967
The fact that I'm into flight simulation or the fact that I'm a 30 year old virgin?