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We're going to need some more details.

How old are you both, where have you taken her, how was the sex, where did you meet her..

>>17634362
>>17634362
mid 20s
only dinners and museum and park and movie
no sex
met after her school or her work, always
she is shy, I think

>>17634370
Could just be life troubles getting to her. Most women internalize everything so you can tell when shes being moody. Did you ask if everything was okay during that cold date? If yes, how did she respond?

Women still assume that men can read their minds so it's up to you if you feel like dealing with that.

>>17633894
Dick, either marry her or leave her alone. Degenerate

it's easy
first you get better at posting b8

>>17633904
I have had many relationships with girls who have given it up to their first love.

why can't I be him?
not bait, seriously

You could take up reading or some art media

>>17633795
Maybe some hobbies?
What do you do making 120k ?

>>17633795
How old are you?
What job are you doing?

>>17633773
All women act like children. So really, whats different? Just slap her around a bit on the ass when she gets out of line.

>>17633873
We don't live together at the moment, but we live close enough to where we're able to go on dates, and we do work together. I can't spank her in public, and definitely not at work.

How would I go about disciplining someone over the phone, or on skype?

I don't support it, but it doesn't hurt to try. ONLY do it if you feel comfortable.

>>17633768
I will know if it was a knee injury or clamydia in a few days I guess.

I'd do the same if a guy knowingly gave me clamydia. If she gave it to you while being aware, destroy that bitch with your hatred

>>17633768
fuckin take a chill pill bruh

you're this mad and don't even know if it happened yet?

goddamn

sounds like you would enjoy marijuana

>>17633709
Psychedelics are generally a more personal experience than other drugs, so if you're going to do one alone then that's what I'd recommend.

>>17633709
painkillers are great for that. when ive got an afternoon with nothing to do i make some tea and watch movies/vidya on them

>>17633699
Stay off the internet.

My parents are like this too. Tune them out, but act like you're listening. I get screamed at if I do bad on anything, which rarely happens

>>17633699
if you want to improve talk to a school counselor about it or your teachers and see what you can do to get those grades up. Is there something distracting you from school work, like depression or anything?

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>Summer 2016. Working at different University live with brothers and parents.
>Learn brother is smoking fairly frequently and climbs out on the roof to do so.
>I lose my shit. Rather than go down stairs to the yard and smoke he wants to be three stories above a drive way stone? He says he would never fall, I say if he did fall he would die, he agrees but keeps saying he would never fall.
>I tell my folks like a tattle tale. They say they know and that he’s old enough to make his own decisions. I still feel like I’m his big brother and he’s a fucking idiot, I want to help him but everyone doesn’t seem to want me too.
>Only one who agrees with me is Step-brother who agrees my brother is self-destructive and stupid. But step-brother is a jerk so he’s no real help. He’s in school in another state most of the time too.
>Time passes. College time again. Brother got accepted to same college as me. “This will be great a real chance to bond with my brother after we missed out on the high school years.”
>He’s still distant. Never see him and can’t contact him.
>He takes three classes a semester and my whole family gets the feeling he isn’t taking the whole thing serious.
>Saturday Night. 10:00 PM. Get a call from the dean’s office. OHSHIT.Jpeg

>>17633686
You're a fucking lame.

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>Brothers in the hospital. The school wants to send him back to parents (1.5 hours away). Get dressed, get money, get uber, get there. All the while my phone is losing battery, parents phones are off and I have to get my Grandmother to try and call my parents while I sort this shit out.
>Keep in mind due to doctor/patient shit NO ONE IS TELLING ME WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENED! All I know is my brother is in the hospital and I don’t know if he’s missing an arm or fallen down the stairs.
>Jogging from ER to ER. Fuck my life.
>Finally see brother. He’s seriously fucked. Covered in blood stains cuts all over his body. Soaking his cloths in blood. Bloods under all his finger nails. His feet are covered in blood it looks like he was walking through a pool of it.
>Parents finally pick up. They’ll be down in the morning. I promise to stay with bro until morning.
>Try to figure out what happened. Turns out he dropped acid (something he’s done before) and had a trip that made him think he needed to kill himself (something he’s tried before). So he cut himself to pieces in his dorm room and stumbled like a slasher victim into the dorms hallway.
>He’s still pretty high and I’m freaking out a little so we don’t talk much. He promises he will never do psychedelics again. He sounds pretty genuine but I don’t believe him. I express my disappointment and remind him how this is exactly like smoking on the roof.
>Now dad is sending him back to the rehab place.
>Mom just lost her job and doesn’t have the cash to keep supporting him. She’s lost literally every member of her family to drugs or alcohol. She convinced she’s going to outlive her son.

>>17633681
Not necessarily the MDMA, but drugs in general have a way of changing your perspective. I'd be careful of trying to chase your high, but sometimes you need something to break you out of your mental routine, and drugs definitely can do that. Doesn't happen every time - in fact, I'd say your first time is usually the most eye-opening.

>>17633681
Drugs have always been a cool kid thing. You're a cool kid for drinking alcohol and taking drugs in school. Then you're a cool kid for going to rehab and overcoming your addiction and people think you're so strong when it's the opposite.

>>17633702
What are you trying to say here? MDMA Is not even addictive and I am not planning on taking it for at least another 3 months.
It opened my eyes and made me better than I was.
>>17633701
It was my first time being on MDMA as I said, definitely let me see things from other perspectives.

I have no advice. But I think your kids together will probably be very beautiful.

>>17633671
Your boyfriend is an asshole, he shouldn't be putting you on that situation. If you decide to go anyways, annoy the shit outta him by telling him to translate

>>17633721
:-)

>>17633647
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kaNO09cPS6c&spfreload=1
meditate

>Keep it bottled up as long as possible
>think about suicide on a daily basis
>have random burst of anger/emotion
>try not to piss off everyone around you

that's what I do and I've survived this long

>>17633647
Is your life shitty? How wide is the gap between your goals and your reality?

>>17633620
If you live in NYC I'll be your friend.

>>17633622
I live in Europe.

>>17633620
So, having loved a girl for twelve years only to have her emotionally cheat on me, I will say this: I regret nothing. She followed suit with other females in her life when she chose to split the relationship off with me - in the end she wouldn't even kiss me anymore, and this got just plain fucked up considering I used to pull hard on her hair and make her feel insanely passionate about the sex we used to have.

On the other hand, to be with this girl and hear some of the kind things that I did over the years was quite amazing. She would make kissing noises to me from across the room, randomly, and I would do the same for her. It was cute, stupid, but fun and joyful, playful, and real. Then she upped her fitness tests because she detected she had a shot with a different ronery guy who made more money than me as a faraway programmer (perhaps like yourself). He is a bit older than me and perhaps a bit richer, idk.

Better to have loved and lost, I guess, but now I'm facing suicidal tendencies I never thought I had, and this is pretty damn fucked up. Good luck, man...

The best advice I can offer is to put yourself out there. Volunteer, talk to many people of all walks of life - be genuine as fuck. Eventually, someone somewhere will stick with you and express interest and love will happen naturally, but you've got to expose yourself!

Lol, what a shit thread. Is this b8?

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>>17633614
I have terrible anger issues. I have gotten better at keeping my cool but out of nowhere ill loose and break something. So far ive
>punched two holes in my bedroom walls
>punched out a window
>yesterday slammed my phone down on the table and shattered the screen
I dont know if its because im in my 20s and all the testosterone or something but im scared ill hurt somebody one day.
The worst part is, it feel REALLY good. Ive tried the whole count to 10 bullshit but all that does it bury it down and I explode later. It feels so much better to let it out

>>17633630
anger makes me happy
>3 holes in walls
>2 in ceiling
>4th phone
>went to therapy, didnt work
i wanna join a gym or something, but i got confidence issues, so that probably aint happening any time soon

Have you tried turning it off?

yeah I hate when that happens. you should probably cut it off before it gets infected

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>>17633606
pic related, OP

It should be consisered case by case...cant be generalized

>>17633613
This.

Well this girl says I don't do anything to help her problems when I've been totally supportive and then I got mad about it.

>>17633613