i've been with my gf for nearly two years, she has been with her boyfriend for five years. she's attractive, petite, fit, and has a very "fun" personality. i'm kind of /fit/ and my facial aesthetics is mid to low-tier. people seem to enjoy my company and humor, classmates are convinced i'm smart.
we see each other four days a week for class. i see her more than i see my gf at this point. i'm not sure how it is for her and her bf but she has told me that she hardly has any "quality" time with him since class started. i feel like we're both flirting with each other to make up for the fact that we're not seeing our respective SOs as much as we'd like. i think we're also just attracted to one another.
>unnecessary touching
she touches my arms a lot. my gf says i have a nice body/arms, girl in question has complimented me as well, they both like to be touchy. she leans onto me, rests her head on my shoulder, and has, on several occasions, simply grabbed me to embrace for seemingly random reasons. i'm not telling her off cause she's qt3.14 and the flirting feels nice. it has gotten to the point where we're giving each other massages on a fairly regular basis. it started with her offering to give me one (due to a migraine i had) and we just trade-off when either feels like we want one. for example, she will feel tightness or pain somewhere and just take my hand and ask me to help her out.
>look to each other for a reaction
someone makes a joke or something unexpected happens? she immediately looks at me to gauge my reaction. i know this because i look at her to do the same. eye contact, acknowledge what happened, and we both laugh about it if it's appropriate.
>routines in place to facilitate further interaction
class is over and we're gathering our things, sometimes i speed up to be more inline with her leaving or she just simply waits at the exit for me, and we walk each other to our cars.
>lunch on a few occasions
help.
>>17707280
desu she sounds like a slut. Just keep it casual don't go too far, if you still love your gf, if not then just go for it and fuck her. Either it can turn bad in both ways with you dealing with her bf, and the drama you will have to go through with your gf, or it could be happy ending (highly unlikely). Just be careful OP think with your brain not your dick.
>>17707358
i don't think i'm the type to cheat. i don't know that she is either.
i suppose we've come to an unspoken agreement to keep this as casual flirting till we get bored of one another.
she gets touchy with me even in front of my gf though. i tend to stay away from her 1 on 1 if i'm with my gf, i usually try to interact with her bf instead to show him i'm not some guy from class trying to steal his girl. we were out last weekend and my gf wasn't happy about how close we seemed. granted, my gf gets jealous and anxious about these sorts of things very easily.
i dunno. the girl in question gets flirty with other guys too. it's why i'm asking the original question. it usually isn't as out in the open as with me though.
>>17707420
You can control what you are doing so stop it before it goes any further. You shouldn't give a fuck if she flirts with you more or a fucking gorilla. Really, are you this desperate for attention? Stop it
>>17707440
the attention is pretty nice senpai. i was a 25y/o virgin before my current (and first gf). attention from attractive females is a fairly new thing to me.
>>17707448
I understand that but stop it and don't be a dick just for attention. You are better than that OP surely