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I'm Asian and my boyfriend is white - we've been dating for about a year or so. For the past month or so he's been setting his steam display pic as generic Asian girls and it really bothers me. I can't pinpoint the reason. I'm an artfag and I'm super big on individuality and basic instagram hoes have always been a pet peeve of mine. Also makes me feel as if he just has yellow fever and that's why he's dating me. I don't know, I've just got so many thoughts. Do I have a right to bring it up? Not in the way that I'm telling him to change it, but in the way so he knows that it bothers me.
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>>17746921
Tell him that it makes you uncomfortable and have an honest conversation.

It sounds like he has a case of the fever but don't jump to conclusions until you've heard his side of it.
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>he's been setting his steam display pic as generic Asian girls
Well that's not normal
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>>17746921
based on that alone he sounds gross t b h
for real though if it bothers you, bring it up. it shouldn't be that big of a deal for him to just use other shit.

but most guys would probably make it a point of pride to not bend to their girlfriend's will because muh """pussy-whipped""", so if he's shitty, he'll be shitty. if he's cool, he won't be shitty.

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>be me, interested in acting
>my girlfriend, forever supportive, writes a short film starring me
>part of it is ready
>she tells me over and over I'm such an amazing actor
>apparently some other friends who've seen it say the same

How do I get people's honest opinions? My girlfriend always thinks I'm amazing, my friends don't want to hurt my feelings. I think I was non-shitty at best, but not deserving of all this praise.
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You'll never get fully honest opinions from people close to you, every business owner, artist and creative employment of any type knows this.

Screen it, send it off, get it up on the internet, whatever is best to get eyes on it and opinions.
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>>17746898
i done acting a bit in college because i done media. i was horrible at it but one of my friends was amazing. best thing you are doing is explain to your friends that you want an honest opinion because it is going to worse for you if they lie. only other option is to show people online and get feed back or ask more people you know in real life. i think acting is one of them things, some people have it, some people dont.
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To clarify: everyone is HEAPING praise and it's a little fishy. I don't think I was amazing. I felt good when filming it, but when I saw I thought "meh"

>>17746913
I agree. And I think I can definitively say I don't have "it." The majority of student actors are utter trash, so I think people found me amazing just by virtue of not being dogshit

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Hey /adv/, I'm 31 but look 23. I've never had a piercing of any kind or gotten a single tattoo.

I'm considering getting one; well two actually.

I was considering getting: "Knowledge is power" on my forearm and "Ignorance is bliss" on the other.

No faggot cursive fonts, just something tasteful. Not sure which direction or shape I want them to be in yet.

How stupid/cliche/gay is this idea?

Also: No, it won't effect my profession.
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>>17746838
Written tattoos are shit, you can do better than that.
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It sounds amazing actually. It will fit your fedora and matching scarf as well.
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Tattoo artists actually tend to be extremely skilled artists
Don't waste their talent marking you up with words

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I'm 23 and he's 43. He and my mom split when I was three, and I never liked going over there because he was always working and my stepmom was very cruel. When I was 14 he stole my laptop and I stopped visiting.

I didn't see him again until I was 21. He apologized and said he wanted to patch things up. I forgave him and tried to be part of the family again. But after a couple weeks, he would just stop talking to me. It's been a couple years now, and every so often he'll act like we need to have a relationship, I give it my best and after awhile he just stops contacting me, "forgets" to return my calls or texts, has to cancel plans, etc.

A few months ago I moved across the country and before I left he wanted to have dinner together. The time he picked, he was "busy" and said he'd reschedule, then never got back to me. Now he'll text me or try to call me every couple weeks and other than letting him know I made it here safely I haven't responded. I don't know what to say, I just feel tired of it. We've been through this multiple times for years.

Today he sent me a snippy text asking if I was going to ignore him forever, apologizing for his mistakes and saying he loves me. What do I even say to that? It's like he doesn't see the pattern here.
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>>17746756
Do your filial duty. Respond to him when he contacts you, send a communication yourself for every one he sends.

I personally talk to both my parents (they're divorced) at least one a week, each. Feels good, being virtuous and fulfilling my duty to them despite our striking differences
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>>17746756

has he done anything positive for you as of late? given you good advice, bought you something that you needed, helped you work out some problem? If he has, maybe try to be a little more lenient. If he hasn't, straight up tell him him being flaky and not being a good father is not enough for you to put any effort into the relationship.
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>>17746764
Why? He's just going to guilt trip me.

>>17746770
He sometimes gives me money for Christmas/birthday but other than that no. In fact, I can't really think of a single time he ever did anything like that.

He has always kind of expected me to just want a relationship with him. Even when I was a kid he would get really upset if I wouldn't call him but wouldn't return my calls.

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so
i have a huge crush on someone. i never really acted on my feelings on crushes before, because i didnt think it was right. but this time the girl actually seemed like a person i coukd trust.
i am a reserved but direct person who pretends to be outgoing. i really dont talk about my feelings to other people at all.
the problem is that my feelings are very strong towards her, i get really insecure around her, excited, typical teenie crushes- even though im 18. its because i never have done such a thing before.
so ive asked her out. she didnt give me a real reply until i urged her to give me a decisive answer, which led to a rejection.
i stopped talking to her for 2 months, until i coulnt take it anymore and talked to her again. this time, i straight up told her that ive liked her for a long time etc basically told her that shes my crush
she said to me that shes sorry that she doesnt feel the same about me- obviously
i told her that i wanted to change her mind- since she barely knows me-.i asked her out to go out with me in my car. she seemed to be willing to go out with me this time, but then said it was too late (11pm) and she had work to do. but she said that she generally had no problem with going outside at night. so i asked her out again at the same time the night 2 days after. she rejected me again.
so i asked her, why not? and she answered me, saying that she fears that she might not feel the same about me and that she doesnt want to hurt me.
i wanted know her honest feelings. she never outright rejected me, she keeps on using language which always give me the feeling that shes quite undecided about me. so i asked her: what do you think about me?
she said she doesnt know what to think about me, as i expected.and that i have a confident facade, while not being actually confident. and that she wants
in that second i literally stopped even giving less shit and told her about my 100% honest and true feelings. i told her i only act really insecure around her 1/2
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i also told her how i feel about her, that shes really intelligent without forcing it, that i actually only know her from class, that shes unfunny but has a funny way (cant describe it ), that shes remindig me of my mother, that she has huge tits and a big ass and that i feel like i can somehow relate to her, because she has similiar interests and that ahe should be kinda honoured that i like her this much, considering i never really try to hit on girls, because of religious reasons
basically, i spilled spaghetti pretty fucking hard
she apologised and said she didnt want to fish for compliments (i kept on using insulting language during my autistic spaghetti episode), that she didnt want me to tell her my feelings forcefully and that she doesnt know what to say.
i told her to delete the messages. most of our communication (90%) up until now was electronic.
i felt ashamed to just tell her my feelings like this, so i blocked her the next day. but then i stopped feeling ashamed and deblocked her the next day, after ignoring her at school.
today, we met at school again. i tried to avoid her, but then forced myself talk to her about what happebed.i reiterated what i told her via chat. she told me that she didnt think that it was embarassing. and that she thought it was kinda weird that i wanted to go out with her at night. i asked her again: i really want to get to know you. i know that you dont feel the samd about me.
she thought about me, then reluctantly said that someone else already tried the same with her, and that it didnt work out. but in a very calm voice. i noticed that she felt uncomfortable.after a while of thinking again she said that she didnt want to give me any false hope and that its better not to try
i said ok and went home. i messaged her another really spaghetti like message, in which i told her that i dont love her, and only really like her, that i wont stop trying until i hear a definite no and i will try it, even if it has a 0.1% chance of working
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i also told her that i think that shes afraid of talking about her feelings, and that i might have the wrong impression about her
and that she definetly has a wrong impression of me
i finished it with saying that i apologise for stressing her out, making her feel uncomfortable and annoying her
i finally offered her that, if there is no chance of this ever working out, i will stop messaging her now and treat her like everybody else at school. she just has to ignore my message and i will immediately do so.
she replied, saying that i am an interesting person and that she doesnt feel the same about me and doesnt know if that will change in the near future. she also told me that she tried going out with someone else whose feelings she didnt reciprocate, just to see if that would change, and that it didnt work out and that she ended up hurting him unwillingly.
and finally, she implied that i still have a chance by saying that what she told me were her honest feelings. and that she knows that it is ridiculous to get to know me only on a friendly basis.

i already replied to that but i want to hear your unbiased advice. have you ever met a person like that? or is it just the age? shes 17. why cant she just tell me to fuck off? i really dont get it. also, generally advice on acting less insecure around your crush.
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>>17746741
and that she wants to know why i like her, and why i want to get to know her*

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I can't fucking focus at all when trying to study.
My grades are slowly getting worse and I'm falling behind in my uni classes, but even when I plop down in the library and try to force myself to study, my mind ends up wandering and I get distracted so easily. Help?
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Drink coffee.
Or get adderall.
They effectively strive for the same purpose.
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>>17746745
I thought you had to get prescribed for Adderall.

Coffee doesn't really affect me anymore for some reason, I might have gotten too used to the caffeine amount or something.
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>>17746747
get it from someone who does. Or get it on the dark web(whatever is easier). You can also get amphetamine sulphate which is basically the same thing but much cheaper(buy a scale)

it's frustrating that uni is like this, but schooling as a whole(in the us at least) is fucking retarded

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I`ve been forcing myself to do my school work during my spare time and all it`s done is made me more tired and stressed. what do i do?
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Have an alcoholic beverage and relax.
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>>17746667
i`m not old enough
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>>17746674
Steal a bit from your parents "stash"

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So about 3 months ago I broke up with my gf of a year and now she wants to get back together. She was my first real relationship and I lost the v card with her The only thing holding me back is what my friends and family think. Wat do?
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If you want to be with her and she would be good to you, screw what anyone thinks. Take her back.
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if you really love her, give it another try, life is too short
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Why'd you break up?

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My teeth are okay, but i got an infection next to my wisdom tooth in my lower jaw.

I went to the doc today, because i read on the Internet that it could get worse and infect my whole body.

And he said it need's to be pulled out.

I never had problem with the teeth before.

He gave me penicillin and next week i should let the wisdom tooth get removed.

He made an xray of my jaw, but he even said it needs to be pulled out before he did the picture.

I saw it and apparently the tooth is grinding at my bone, he said there will always be bacteria and food leftovers get stuck in there and it would inflame
again.

I am scared, i never had problems with that teeth, it's just the flesh around it that got infected.

Should i just take the antibiotics and just don't go there next week?

I want to keep my beautiful wisdom teeth.

It looked something like that pic.
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Dude, you're insane. If you've never had an inflammation of the nerve of your tooth, be warned: it's pain like you had never gotten to know pain before. You will be crying out on all fours.
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>>17746590
>i read on the Internet that it could get worse and infect my whole body.
Your main worry should be it traveling to your brain rather than the rest of your body
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>>17746590
had the same thing happen to me back in july

i ignored the dentist and went on about my life. the infection spread to my entire left side of the jaw and I woke up with a massive headache one day. headache lasted a week because the oral surgeon had gone on vacation and couldn't extract my tooth. I was in pain for about 2 weeks after the extraction, meds and antibiotics took care of me though. you won't be able to chew solid food for a bit, no big deal.

moral of the story: get that tooth extracted before you get a massive week long headache

Looking for advice on how to masturbate more efficiently. Most of my cum ends up on my chest and stomach, and since I'm pretty hairy, it's a fucking pain to clean it off every time. I end up using at least a dozen tissues each time I fap. Are there any techniques that could make it easier and faster for me to clean up afterwards?
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Use a cum towel


A towel only you cum in and don't use to wash your face or dry your hands

I keep mine under my couch for convenience

After a few weeks you should wash it because the cum crust will start to hurt wiping your dick


>my cum towel, 1 week sense last wash
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ITT: Degenerates

>b-but its normal!

Not when you look for 'efficient ways' to jerk it, stay pleb.
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>>17746547
How else can you learn the advanced methods?


Collaborating and sharing ideas. That's how Window's was invented

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Treat Queens like whores and whores like Queens. Do the Chads here find this to be true? Now looking back on successful flirtations, they have been successful when I follow this rule. Are there any other fundamental things you have picked up on when flirting with women?
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Chads treat all women as whores.
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>>17746553
Guess I'm not a chad then
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>>17746559
Generally speaking, Chads don't come to 4chan so your reply was assumed.

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Hey guys does this weed look good?
What strain is it?
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you can't tell a strain by a picture.


Also no, You asked this the other day and you also got ripped off by paying 100 Irish dollars for a half gram shy of a quarter
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>>17746381
>100 irish dollars
kekd so hard

meh looks ok, if you got it in ireland then its alright. looks p crystally and shit.
have you weighed it?
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>>17746625
>he thinks this is OK weed


>this is OK weed

No sticks, stems, or seeds, and 140 Trump dollars an ounce

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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>>17745587
FIRST
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Do women judge how large their poop was relative to previous ones too?
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>>17745602
well yes, but the subtle difference is poop comes out of us whereas dick comes into us so the preference is opposite.

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How do you approach a girl /adv/?

what's he first thing you say?
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Be confident. Not Chad levels of over the top assholishness, but just relaxed and nice. Pretend like you know what you're doing when you walk up to her. Walk with your pelvis forward, not by a lot, but just enough to be standing straight. Say something to her, anything. Talk. Fuck.
Also be attractive
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>>17744681
Say what though
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>>17744670
don't do it anon it only takes one smile and she will ruin your whole life for ever. she will divorce for everything you got even your retirement money or in baby jail for not paying her child support. stay strong don't enslave yourself to the pussy.

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First off I want to say. I am treating this as a breakup.
>be with a girl for 5~ months
>she thinks we need a break
>I go no contact
>I was the one to send the last text and it was on a good note
>She starts liking a few of my posts on fb yesterday

That's it, so like I said treating this as a break up. However there are some items I want back from her that I brought over. About how long should I wait on this "break"?
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What's your goal? If you wanna get back together I'd just wait until she actually texts you and ignore the facebook likes and shit. Once she texts or contacts you in some way, set up a date or hangout or whatever and go from there. After like a month or two hit her up and get your shit back, if you really want it I guess, then resume no contact.
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>>17745291
I would like to get her back but I've already come to terms that it's very unlikely at this point. If we did get back there would be some goddamn ground rules and communication we would need to discuss. Give me recommendations on both scenarios senpai

>Wanting to get her back
>Wanting to get my shit back
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ask her for your shit back and send a friend for your shit. Them proceed to delete her from any social media and your phone.
Btw, you'd want that friend to be someone that won't fuck her.

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