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>>17745405
Your explanation is as bad as your relationship. Learn to tell a coherent story.

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>>17745405
OP cont’d.
>Fight her on it.
>Got bad advice early that she wanted proof that I loved her.
>Told her I wanted to propose. We had talked about it but I told her how I’d have done it.
>It gets worse.
>Wreck of myself.
>Let my head go places it shouldn’t.
>Been cheated on in the past. Two long relationships I’d been in before ended when girl left for someone else.
>Got scared.
>Sent stupid text “When did you fall out of love with me.”
>Still not sure why. Combination of sadness and anger.
>Leave her alone for a few days.
>Call her and leave vm apologizing. Saying I think I understand what she’s looking for. And why.
>She texts me that I need to move on. She doesn’t see a future.
>Call her and tell her that’s bullshit. Ending in a text is fucked.
>She says she didn’t want it to be messy.
>Tell her she’s my best friend and I’m not trying to get back with her. Just want my friend back.
>She says she needs time.
>That was the last time we spoke.
>October 5.
>I called her and left a voicemail a week or two later.
>Nothing.
>I had bought us tickets to go to New York together in the summer.
>Told her to still go. Wanted her to see her best friend there and have a good time.
>Text her have fun. No response.
>She hasn’t said a thing to me in a month.

Did I fuck up, /adv? Did I poison the well because I couldn’t let go at first?

>got dumped and threw a fit about it
you don't need any advice

>>17745397
Sounds like shitty low blood pressure, so gotta get more iron. Also just eat more and actually watch calories.

Ideally it's always better to consult a doctor, so as long you don't live in a shithole where healthcare isn't free, go do it, even for small shit.

>>17745407
But I DO eat. I eat just the same as I did before my weight dropped.

>>17745435
The same in number of meals or literally the same stuff? Besides, just eat more. Perhaps your body is using more energy now.

>>17745357
Fuck her and transfer, its the best thing for you

I fucked a grill i was talking with that had a bf of 7 years and we started liking eachother a lot luckily i was going on a internship to another place for 3 months so truly this was the best for the two of us.

>>17745357
You simply do nothing.

>>17745663
Fuck off degenerate.

>>17745665
Life has been giving me too much shit to care for others, i look out for my hapiness and i regret nothing.

>>17745321
its a constant reminder of how stupid you are that you can never totally get rid of

>>17745322
you may be right. I hope to rid my self of my stupid decision but it may never go away.

>>17745321
if you are a female you give off masculine vibes and trashy vibes. I find them more acceptable in men.

These aren't anywhere near impressive stats. Youtube views don't mean anything, what matters are subscriptions.

>>17745282
Not Impresive,But not that bad.
but I'm ''famous'' in my country.
1k Subs.

Alot of people know me, I've got 2 facebook accounts with 20k+ Viewers.

>>17745289
>1k subs
>famous in my country
wow lad

Just directly contact local corporations, preferably big international ones that only have a small presence in your local market or only just entered it. Don't bother with small start ups since they're mostly going to pay you with their products rather than cash.
But really if they're not approaching you already, you can't expect much with those numbers.

>>17745260
>any tips on memorizing it??
Don't. It's called using cue cards

>>17745260
write it down and transcript it over and over.

>>17745273
We are allowed to use 5 note cards, so that could work

pic unrelated :^)

>>17745202
>>17745207
Yeah nah Im definitely way more interested in the pic now

We honestly have no idea how you operate, what your relationship is up to this point, etc. Just stay calm and remember that anxiety exacerbates awkwardness.

>>17745202
Let this be a lesson to you in posting a pic that's more interesting than the thread.

>>17745100

Same here OP. I've been fucking depressed for years and over the past 5 months it's just gotten worse. I am absolutely fucking shitting myself in 2 classes which will bring down my GPA significantly. Honestly, just fake it till you make it. Pick something that you in the least semi enjoy and will get you a job. I am probably going to go to law school (which I don't have a passion for) because I won't have the grades to go to med school (something I do have a passion for). Either way just push through so you are not a NEET at 35 posting on /b/ relying on neetbux and bottle recycling to get by. As for few friends, consider yourself lucky. I have 1 good friend (for like 7 years this guy has been great) and a female friend I fuck sometimes. That's all you need. Most people are shit. If you ever feel lonely just get a dog.

Are you in Highschool right now or College?

If you are in College
- speak to your academic advisor to assess your chances of passing and maintaining a good GPA - you can be put on academic probation for having a low GPA even if you pass depending on where you are, so consult - sometimes you have to cut your time and money losses by dropping a class at a point where you are still allow to drop it without the grades showing up on your GPA.

You should also consult your student groups, if you are an Arts and Science student at the University of Toronto, for example, they have an Arts and students Union. If you are at some place like Seneca College, it's just this one lone Student Council. But they are there for you.

If you are in High School: Congrats! You are at the point in your life where you are still allowed to fail. Find out the following: how long you can stay in highschool, how many classes you can fail, what GPA and what prerequisite you need to get into the college you want.

Sometimes it's better to drop some courses in highschool and graduate a year or two late, even if it mean graduating a different class. You want to enter post-secondary life, be it college or full-time-job (the poor student's gap year), ready for a fight and not falling down exhausted after passing by the skin of your teeth.

have you considered suicide? It's really your best option.

>>17745089
Just use your voice. What are you afraid of?

>>17745091
Kiwi Farms, Encyclopedia Dramatica

>>17745134
Thats the risk you take. Embrace your own identity.

Muster up the courage to let her go.

She gave up on you the second she said she wasn't sure, so save yourself any more torture and start moving on.

I'm sorry buddy. I can't imagine what you are feeling.

sorry dude. move on. if the relationship erodes over a 1 hour distance, then it wasn't meant to be anyway. i wouldn't even count that as LDR. she has clearly moved on -- don't change yourself for her, it's just desperate to rekindle something that's already dead

wouldn't be surprised if she's using this "week" away from your to bang other dudes. just move on and find someone else.

You've already lost her.

I wish I had the image to go with this.

It's not nice to make fun of people with mental conditions

>>17745046
A. Fuck him

B. Post pics, preferably a video

Step 1 quit saving thumbnails

I'm on my parents insurance still so I'm not sure how that part works, but as far as I know you get insurance, then go on zocdoc (an online directory) or something and simply look for general practitioners in your area who take your insurance. You can go to that guy for a general exam, and then for any problems he doesn't have the expertise to help with he'll recommend a guy for you.

No shame in being behind on doctor visits, op. Plenty of people are in your same position. Kudos to you for taking action.

>>17745017
You should get a primary care physician. When you get your insurance plan you'll probably have a list of clinics and hospitals they'd prefer you choose from, so you'll be able to pick one up there. A primary care doctor for an adult usually practices internal medicine or family practice/family medicine (which obviously includes more expertise with children and pregnancy). In rural areas you will find more family practice physicians than internists.

Generally, you should see this doctor first for any issues that come up, and he/she will refer you to a specialist if necessary. You don't necessarily need a referral to see a specialist (I have literally walked into an audiologist's once, for instance) but often your insurance requires it and it's a good idea because your primary care doctor will usually have a good idea of what you need and who you should see for it.

Eyes and teeth you see optometrists and dentists for and they are a way more straightforward and businesslike process. If your health plan includes vision and dental than see the above advice but if not it's like any other thing you go to a business for. My vision insurance basically reimburses me for one eye exam and one pair of glasses (or $300 worth of contacts) every year and everything else is basically just walk in pay cash.

>>17745008
>I don't feel a thing for most things
What things did you tried so far? Why didn't you feel anything about them exactly?
What things do you actually like?

>>17745008

Me neither.

When i've felt most passionate about stuff is when I'm tired and still want to do X, be it drink a beer, play a videogame, draw something, etc.

My advice about finding what you truly love is to get into some sport, get tired everyday and force yourself to try new stuff. When you find something that's not addicting (like playing LoL and browsing 4chan) and that you still want to do regardless of how tired you are, then you've found something that you can truly enjoy.

Personally, I used to love going on graphic design forums and just doing some shitty amateur editing of stock photos and anime shit. It was 90% a waste of time but I learned to use Photoshop through it and it has served me later in life.

Same boat.
When I graduated college the speaker went on about how a "Person without dreams is already dead"
All I could think about is how I must have died years ago.

All I want is money now.
The only parts of my life that are enjoyable are the small things.
Cooking, reading, hanging with friends, having a good beer.

I don't care about much else.

bumping for visibility

>>17744972
I really don't think the DEA chases down people who are accused of USING drugs, especially when the accusation comes from some guy on the Internet who's obviously butthurt about something else. If he was spreading rumors that you're trafficking, making, or dealing drugs, they MIGHT look into it. But if he's just saying you guys took some ecstasy then nobody will give a shit

lol nothings gonna come of that. Fucking miley cyrus sings about doing molly on the radio, you think the DEA is busting down her door? The police have better things to do, and I'm (almost) certain they wouldn't even have probable cause. Civilians can't just throw around accusations and get the police to search houses based on that lol

>>17744936
Ask him

>>17744936
what if he does think that, would that change your mind?

>>17744936
So what? If you want to do it, just do it.