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Sup /adv/
Broke up with my ex gf of 3 years at the end of March (7 months ago), after breaking up I was angry etc. and we made up and decided to stay friends a week later. We kept hanging out, staying at mine etc until about June. Then she started weaning me off, but I was ok with having broken up with her at this time. Note that we went through hell and back, I fell into a horrible depression, was getting mobbed at work. Eventually I got really angry that she would just come to my place to sleep, after having hung out with her friends. We had pretty much stopped having sex except for once a month maybe. She would ditch me when we went out together to be with her friends.
As she started weaning me off, I noticed it, and by July I had realized my mistake and wanted her back. I would say this occasionally but not press it. She gave answers like oh just give it some more time, wait till August etc. By August, I was deeply regretting it all, I had a few one night stands and they were very unfulfilling. I realized I just wanted her back. At this point she told me to give her space and don't contact her. Then I learned I had to leave the country, and after she came back from being abroad in October she told me she doesn't want me contacting her anymore. When we met then we both cried on each others shoulders, and I apologized and all, but she told me to move on.
Fast forward, end of October I gave her my cat because I was leaving. We hugged deeply etc. Told me to now stop contacting her. Last week, I talked to her again, and she told me she has a new bf and I learned this was the case since June. She had kept it from me, all the while giving me hope until August. She said she was afraid of me and that I wouldn't leave my (our) cat with her. Said she forgives me, but never wants to go out with me again, and will not see me or let me see my cat when I get back.
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I think I'm just addicted to her... But it hurts. This girl, I was thinking of spending my life with. Even after 7 months, though the first two I was fairly ok... maybe because I still hung out with her.
On the other hand, I am getting close but I worry that I will never be satisfied with another woman. I don't want to date/marry someone who has had many sexual partners. And my ex was very kind to me. But I'm 24 and every decent looking girl will have had more partners than my ex (which bothered me as well).
what do /adv/?
If by some chance I get a chance to get back with her months later should I? Despite that it will bother me that she has had a bf for months since, without telling me?
How do I stop obsessing about how many sexual partners another girl has had?
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>>17747726
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move on brother
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>>17747762
What about the second part? I keep thinking nobody is going to be as kind to me as her, and I worry that I'll feel like shit about the next woman who has had more partners than me... since my count is fairly low (this long term gf, and 6 other one night stands)
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How do I stop liking boys?
I'm a feminine looking young guy who really wants to be attracted to girls, get a girlfriend/wife and have children at some point, but I'm just barely turned on at all by women and extremely turned on by guys who look similar to me. I've felt ashamed of it and how faggy I look ever since I realised it.
I really don't want to be gay, because it's basically impossible to form a healthy family with two male parents, and it's extremely difficult to find someone who I find cute that is not very mentally ill and/or promiscuous and doesn't have a cancer personality.
Any help? Or should I accept that I'm gay, and if so, why? Especially since I would like to have a family...
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>>17747722
You don't really get to choose whom you are attracted to. Just be thankful it's guys and not little kids.
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>>17747722
Don't listen to >>17747742
Homosexuality is a choice
Seek the Lord to escape your addiction to sodomy. You feel wrong about this attraction for a reason.
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>>17747722
find out why you like them, and you'll notice is also findable on girls.
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>meet qt on summer job
>successful flirting
>holy fuck I'm in love
>as summer progresses she grows increasingly insecure and slows things down
>starts mentionning a bf while I know full well she doesn't have one
>finnaly confronts me about being intimidated by me
>she's a junior who's starting a new cycle after failing medical school, I'm a sucessful masters student who skipped a year in high school and got into college at 16
>spend my time working my ass off in college, reading for pleasure and lifting while she's your average junior carefree party-goer, albeit smarter and mousier than most
>"You're so different from most guys I know, you're like an adult"
>tell her we're only two years apart (21 and 19), she's just being insecure and there's no reason to be intimidated
>summer ends and we go our separate ways (same town, different campuses)
>text her once, no answer
>don't insist
>think about her non-stop
>cut to yesterday
>roll into MacDonald's during lunch break looking /fa/ as fuck
>run into her
>she comes over and hugs me
>chat for a bit, she's there with a "friend"
>looks at me from head to toe mirin hard (she had always seen me in supermarket uniform before)
>eve spot a lip bite
>get my order and ask if I may come over to her table
>all of sudden she starts spilling spaghettis and whispers to me that her "friend" is actually her bf
>Me: "Oh I see. Don't wanna make things weird, no?"
>Her: [spaghetti spilling intensifies]
>Me: "Your call, really"
>Her: [spaghetti spilling to the max]
>this is getting nowhere, time to disengage
>"See you then", I poke her shoulder and get seated away
>quickly glance at her table
>fatty frat boy type already halfway of his sandwich while she just got seated
>ignore them for the rest of my meal (my back is turned on them)
>finish and get out
>she's staring at me all of my way out, ignoring fattypants
So, what just happened? Is that "bf" yet another fake? She obviously has the hots for me but something's off there
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Doesn't matter. Keep doing what you did.
If that guy was her legit bf: I'm sure you will find another chick.
If is a fake bf: she cleary don't value your presence with her.
Also
>manage to make her as your gf
>she start to look at another guy in the same way as she did with you when she date the other guy
In any case, nothing of value was lost.
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>>17747720
maybe she doesnt like fat dicks like yourself? I mean honestly just because you're getting your masters at 21 doesn't mean you're entitled to date her or anyone who doesn't want to date you. If you want to get a real girlfriend then go out and socialize and meet people and party n shit don't stay stuck to your studies like some cuck waiting for a woman to rescue him or come along and take interest in him, women just aren't that way.
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>>17747801
I mentionned it because that's the reason she gave me as to why she was intimidated by me. I don't see myself that way.
Also
>tripfag
>giving lectures on humility
Pick one
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tummy ache.....
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Ginger ale dawg
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moms asleep and i dont wanna walk to the gas station this late because the guy that works night shifts there always looks really upset like he doesnt wanna be there and he usually stares at me like i did something wrong and it makes me really uncomfortable and then my tummy will just hurt even more until i get home... theres usually people walking around too and whenever i see someone i really wanna cross the street to avoid them but i feel like theyll notice and think im scared and if theyre really bad people they might follow me and maybe try to mug me because they know im weak i dont think i could handle being mugged i would probably never leave my house again if that happened and mom would really worry about me i dont wanna cause her that kind of stress...
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Well that's a can of worms you just opened.
Chamomile tea, warm lemon water, mint. All of those help. Could always check around the jouse for antacids or the like
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So I forgot my mom's birthday which was ironically today. She texted me at midnight asking me what my problem was, and that everyone texted her happy birthday except me. If I had to be deadly honest, she has quite a temper and becomes and stays angry easily. This makes it way harder for me, especially since I have to live with her at the moment.
I see no conceivable way to recover from this. I got her a $300 bracelet and a card for her birthday last year and made her eggs benedict for Mother's Day, but I doubt she'd care.
What in the living fuck do I do?
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Just make up some bull shit man. Depression, death of a friend, whatever.
Just take her out tomorrow night to dinner.
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>>17747667
I live with her until I can finally move out in January. I'm 23. She's out of town until Monday morning. It's too early in the morning to call her.
I'm freaking out man. She's probably going to make me pay a ton of money to make up for it.
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>>17747670
She isn't going to make you pay anything you fuckwit. She doesn't control your bank account, she doesn't fore you to do anything.
Just apologise, say you had some things come up that made your day really hard, and tell her that you'll take her out to dinner on monday when she's back. Just call her when you're both awake / midday.
Harden the fuck up and grow a set of balls, she doesn't own you.
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anyone wanna type a psych paper for me in the next few hrs? $50 to whoever does it
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already toook the two tests will send results to whoever needs them
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>>17747566
WhTs ur skype ans how many pages?
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How in the world do you expect us to write a paper about how YOU felt when doing these tests? Also Jesus Christ, this seems like the easiest paper to write ever
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Accidentally hit my wife 2016-11-09 08:00:14 Post No.17747556
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I come from a very democratic background and my wife and I are democratic. Ill cut out the background info that goes here. Basically she voted for Trump because she thinks Clinton is a bad person. In a fit of rage with Trump won just now I slapped her. Shes crying and shouting how I never accept her opinions and Im oppressive while locked in out bedroom probably destroying my stuff.
Im tired as fuck right now and just want to sleep after Trump ruined my childrens future. But now I have to deal with this as well. What can I say to make my wife put off the angry conversation until tomorrow. I just feel too defeated right now to have it. Not asking on how to make it up to her. She'll come around and accept my apology after a serious talk and some time. Im just too tired to do it right now.
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this is obvious bullshit, but somewhere some democrat probably did hit his republican wife and that guy is a fucking loser.
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>>17747556
Grab her by the pussy, she'll instantly forgive you.
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>>17747563
My wife is not republican. She is democrat. Part of what I cut out is her view on she hates Clinton. She gave the illusion of hating both this entire time but still being democratic.
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I'm a white man and I've always had trouble asking out black women. I know a black woman and I really like her. I just automatically assume black women aren't interested in me. Many black women who I have known have been very strong, confident, and out spoken and I find that very attractive but I wouldn't even know where to begin with asking a woman like this out.
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>>17747449
I think a lot of people find that difficult. Just ask her out, and play it cool. Putting extra thought into it just exacerbates the feeling.
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here's a tip, ask her out like any other woman. I mean I'm just saying dude, why does her being black make it any different? either she's into you or shes not.
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>>17747479
I think I'm just over thinking it like this Anon said >>17747467
I already have trouble asking women out but when shes a strong confident woman it makes it that much harder.
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I didn't vote and I honestly I don't give a shit who's president. I'm a college student and I know almost nothing about trump or Hilary besides what other people tell me mostly about trump.
My co-worker is a huge Hilary supporter and says shit like it's my duty to vote and always talks about her. It's not looking good and I'm pretty sure she's gonna talk shit. It's also only the two of us working together for a few hours.
How do I get out of talking to her? I'm a huge pussy and I just don't want to get into an argument or hear someone's shit.
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>can we not talk about politics please
Then start talking about something else, if she brings up politics again reread this post and repeat it's advice.
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Don't bring it up, if you can't avoid it do as >>17747427 says, if that doesn't work just listen politely, it's not worth getting into an argument over for a few hours, she'll be over it by next shift.
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>>17747427
>>17747431
I'm just worried she won't listen and she'll give me shit about not voting. She's the type to talk to rant and talk to herself as well. There have been times where she's reading an article and if she doesn't agree with it she'll just start talking to the computer screen and occasionally talk to me about it and ask for my opinion and I'll always just nod and agree with whatever shit she's yelling about.
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How can I build up my sexual endurance?
Whenever I have sex with women, I usually come really soon and end up having to make up excuses when I try to keep pumping and my dick goes limp.
Please help
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how embarrassing
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>>17747389
Yup, but none of them have actually noticed yet
I've been able to convince them that I just can't get hard because of the condom and then they usually get self conscious about how they look which makes them try harder
Still though, when I have sex with a girl I want a relationship with, I can do that every time
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1. Wear a thick condom.
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2. Please her in other ways, use your mouth, your hands, toys. I think most women would prefer someone who can please her in any way and do than someone who just pounds away (that doesn't always work).
...but a big problem with guys that comes earl y is that they usually pass out or lose sexual interest afterwards - if you can keep up after you cum than it really doesn't matter that you are early, if you can't, than please her first.
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Can someone redpill me on what the actual consequences are of Trump winning? He won't have any real power with Congress going against him, right?
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He has a crap ton of power, he's the president of the us... He gets to appoint a lot of people including people who can go after Hilary
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>>17747312
He doesn't need congress to declare war
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>>17747321
He literally does.
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>Live with parents
>Work a decent job, work 40+ a week
>Paying off loans
>Be kind of depressed
I want to move out, badly. But rent is basically 2k for a shitty little studio, that's half a room, a microwave and a bathroom the size of a closet.
I have a car that is my daily, but also kind of a project.
>No space to work on it
I also want to get another motorcycle, sold my old one, which i know will mitigate my feelings a little.
But everytime i look at something to buy, that i know would be fun, i just think about all the expenses and just end up sulking.
These loans arent going to be repaid anytime soon, getting too old, and i'm not down to live with roommates.
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>I can't keep living the way I do, but I refuse to make any sacrifices in my life
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What's sacrifice? Living with roommates?
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I live in a super expensive area, but studios are still only like $1,600/month max. I managed to land one for $1,000/month by spending a lot of effort searching on foot and not being immediately desperate (took a week).
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does losing your virginity change you as a person? if so, how?
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Generally what happens is you have a pretty bad experience and leave not really understanding what all the fuss was about. I mean, you're exactly the same as the person you were before, all your pros and cons are still there, you just have had sex once. Often you're really too nervous or too tense to really enjoy it and to really 'have sex'. It's kind of like learning to ride a bike. The first time you do it, it's pretty shit and you nearly die. After a year you're fine.
I lost my virginity at 15 and it gave me an incredibly big ego boost, I felt very manly. The truth of the situation was that I was incredibly cringe worthy and became the laughing stock of the school.
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>>17747251
>big ego boost
yeah that's what I was thinking. that must feel cool, but I don't think it applies when you're older
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>>17747225
how old are you
basically no, but it might shift your thinking and lead you down a road, but you can do the same with no sex
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> Meet girl on tinder
> She takes me to a nature park and we make out...she strokes my hair
> Finger her and gonna fuck but I say "nah I wanna date you again, I like you let's save it"
> Date her once a week for month or so, we have been on 8 dates
> She is super busy; college and work full time
> I am head over heels for this girl
> Feel like she is losing interest in me since I told her my feelings for her
This is pretty painful. I am not sure if I am imagining her losing interest in me. This really sucks...should I call it off and save myself some hurt?
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>>17747190
Fuck her before you do that
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>>17747195
I fucked her a few times. I just really like her :(
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>>17747199
If she lost interest then that's it
You can't force these things OP, sorry
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Just told a friend I like them
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How do I deal with the anguish that comes with waiting for a response?
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git wasted
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Enjoy the adrenaline, man.
You're either about to enter one of the best periods of your life or one of the less "good" periods.
It's exciting.
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>>17747076
I feel like I can't move