If people typically start having sex at 14~ why is it illegal to have sex with someone who is 14~?
Teenagers are both considered childrens and adults at the same time.
>>17744389
>why is it illegal to have sex with someone who is 14
here in england the legal age was 13, and the state changed it to 16 with a view to deter awfully young women from prostituting themselves. now a days its probably to stop older people from taking advantage of younger, and the state probably believes it discourages people of 14 from having sex.
>Teenagers are both considered childrens and adults at the same time.
theyre considered children. nice mental gymnastics though child predator
>>17744389
>If people typically start having sex at 14
People don't typically start having sex at 14. That is.... not accurate.
>why is it illegal to have sex with someone who is 14~?
Because having sex is not an act that someone with a 14 year old mind has the proper mental faculty to make.
Its the same reason you're not allowed to drive until you're 16, you're not allowed to drink until you're 21, you're not allowed to rent a car until 25 or buy cigarettes until you're 18. There are certain ages that the general psychiatric and developmental science world has decided is old enough to properly make an informed decision and 14, unequivocally, is not old enough to to make that decisions about who they have sex with or their reproductive health.
We don't give credit cards to 12 years olds because they aren't ready. They don't understand the consequences. This is the same thing.
Teenagers, also, are not considered adults. They're children. Nice try, though.
shoot away
>>17743609
post doctor diagnosis or you're a self diagnosing 12 year old.
Why did you see "/adv/- advice" and assumed we would care at all about you being schizophrenic, let alone enough for you create a thread just for yourself
>>17743614 i was diagnosed
>>17743616 move along with your happy life :)
You're an aging whore
{I posted this and the thread completely disappeared. Was so confused but hey new one I guess!)
you get so offended at the obscene questions I ask you but I wouldn't have to ask them if you weren't such a liar. You lie so much and keep so many secrets that it would be ridiculous to trust you. You say "We have no trust in our relationship"... as if this is a shared issue.
I have never lied to you or kept any secrets. If TRUST is your concern between us then it's 100% purely on you to make it better. Stop lying, stop twisting shit, stop keeping secrets, stop talking behind my back, and stop blaming others for your misdeeds.
If not, you will look back at your past and regret that you are not the woman that I paint among stars, raised my children, and lived with my honest, loyal, and passionate romantic love.
You are leaning on the wall.
I love you, I truly do. I do think you are a good person but you are straddling the line tiny baby.
Trust in the words I give you. I have only ever had your best interest in mind. If I believe I have to leave you in order for you to truly know how far you have fallen and need help... then I will. I wanted to be the one to love, share, trust, and grow with throughout my life but you actively work against my while begging me to never let you go.
The terrible people you've surrounded yourself with, your "friends". are influencing you in the worst possible ways. Look at the type of people they are, look at their actions, how they have treated you in the last few months. Do they truly share your same world views?
Or do you just love the fact they tell you exactly what you want to hear rather than actually provide real help and support. They ENABLE your bad behavior and you're spiraling. Watch that video again, the one you sent me with the woman and the markers. That is where you are heading.
I love you so much, but I'm too much of a pussy to make a move and don't want to ruin what we have
I was suspicious about it before, but now I really think you're just using me at this point because you think I'm smart and your priorities are so fucked up you're in danger of failing your classes. Most of the time you talk to me now, it's when you're asking questions about assignments you know that I know how to do. If you are using me, fuck you. You're a terrible person. Learn how to do your own goddamn homework. I know all that other shit you do is so important that you'd stop seeing me over it and risk failing, but that's what happens when you care so much about stupid bullshit. I'm not your goddamn tutor. If that's what you want, you could at least be honest about it and stop treating me like you have zero respect for me.
My girlfriend left me. How do I make the immense pain go away? I have no friends. I don't drink or do drugs, but I've had to take sleeping pills to be able to sleep through the night. I'm barely functioning at work and school. Please help.
Run. Get up and go for a run.
Go to the gym and workout the pain.
It works as an amazing motivator to get her out of your system.
Feel the pain, don't run from it. Cry and scream if you have to, you'll feel like you're losing your mind but it's important to grieve.
Store your shared belongings away, or anything that might remind you too much of her. Some people advise deleting the person from social media, I prefer to hide them and archive chats –if they haven't already deleted me.
Immersing yourself in hobbies and exercise didn't help my pain subside the way way people said it would. Periods of meditating or reflection, long walks and non-judgemental conversations with family helped me.
Be honest with people about what you're going through, the decent ones will understand. I kept a lot of suicidal thoughts and depression very close to my chest, after my last break up, and I only began to tackle them when I was honest to my love ones about my feelings.
In time you might be able to recontextualise your memories and be glad for the good times you had. Right now those thoughts give me comfort. One day, hopefully, you can see the experience as a net positive for both you and her. All relationships end, even the perfect ones. This is a crucial part of life. Change is the only thing that is certain, so we should embrace it, all the mind rending agony that comes along with it too.
>>17746886
Exercise. Get in the shower let all of that shit out then improve on yourself . It worked wonders for me
An asian qt i been seeing might have givin me the "hurp durp" herpes.
Wat do?
Face or genitals?
>>17746868
Genital
Happened couple days ago
>>17746884
Why did u fuck a herpes puss, son
So /adv/:
I got my learner’s permit when I was in High School and I took drivers lessons afterwards. I took the actual test but failed twice, and never really cares after that.
Im 21 now and I live by myself in the city, and I get around via bus. It sucks but it gets the job done.
I want to stop being a beta and get my actual license. How can I practice when my parents live nearly 45 minutes away from me and I live in the city. Is it honestly just better for me to wait until I move to a more suburbian place?
Illegally its the only logical way. I failed my written test about 4 times passed the driven part the 1st time it was ez.
>>17746786
What state do you live in?
Also I would check some driving schools. some places if you have your permit and take their course you get a waiver for the road test.
>>17746851
Pennsylvania
>go to my parents house for a visit
>17 year old brother is there
>his grades are shit
>smokes
>no friends
>complete jerk
>mom leaves to go get dinner
>go upstairs to use the bathroom
>brother starts arguing with dad about why he took his phone
>tells him because of his attitude
>start arguing
>conversation gets really heated
>brother starts screaming at him
>dad ends up hitting him
>arguing increases 10x
>he's now in the front of the house shirtless swearing his ass off for everyone to see as I'm typing this
>mfw
what the fuck do I do here? I'm afraid if this keeps up, he's going to end up hurting himself.
go sit with your brother
don't even necessarily say anything, just sit with him. it will calm him down.
>>17746768
There's no much to do anon.
Try to talk to him calmly about the things you find pronlematic(in a non preachy fashion) and try to be a good role model overall. Teenagers will do whatevwr thw fuck thwy wanna do, just hope he'll leave this stage sometimes soon.
if you're a girl, just fuck him. he'll calm down.
if you're a guy, just fuck him anyway.
Is the friendzone thing just a meme, /adv/? I'm falling for a girl that I'm semi-good friends with, but all the talk of friendzone and 'missing the critical window to make a move' make me not want to ask her out. Is it impossible for friends to start dating?
It's difficult to know if she likes me back as she's a very warm and welcoming person to everyone but we have been getting closer. I don't know, /adv/... what do? Just ask her out? Is friendzoning real or is it a euphemism for being rejected that has nothing to do with being friends? People constantly tell me that they've often gotten together with good friends and that those were their best relationships. I sometimes think coming on here does more harm than good.
the friendzone is not real, made up by neckbeards who are salty because the person they like doesn't like them back.
shit dude, if you like someone, they don't owe it to you or anyone else to like you back. it's not a friendzone, they just don't like you that way. get of their back.
anyway, you're just gonna have to ask her if you want to start something with her. just be like "yo my man my dude my guy, i've developed some feelings for you and i want to spend more time with you. want sum fuk?"
if she likes you, cool. if not, move on.
>>17746777
> "yo my man my dude my guy, i've developed some feelings for you and i want to spend more time with you. want sum fuk?"
I'm guessing that means to stay upbeat when saying it. Unless I should actually ask that bae for sum fuk.
The friend zone is very real. It's jyst not what people make it out to be.
>>17746777 has it wrong for example.
It's not about them owing you anything. It's about when you ask them out and make your intentions known, but rather than rejecting you politely, they trap you with false hope. "I'm not looking to date right now" or "maybe one day, but not now" are all common excuses.
Those ARE rejections though.
The best way to avoid the zone is to make your intentions known, and accept a rejection with dignity and move on. I know it seems like a girl is the one. But she very well might not be. There's millions of women inn this world. Good luck.
GF demands phone to check my messages to old friend with benefit. I make it my point that i only talk to her on a friendly level but have no interest with her relationship wise, and old friend is about 150+miles away. Shes known about her for a while. Shes insecure and i tell her im been dating her (gf) about every week
for about the last few months. (Dating for 3+)
She says we shouldn't keep things private.
Help?
OP > 3+ years
Either drop ur gf or drop ur friend
I was in a super-similar situation, my gf was pretty insecure about this girl I had dated for a little bit. We were still talking about all kinds of stuff (we had a ton of shared interests) so of course my gf got paranoid. I more or less reiterated that there was nothing weird going on, and it was just the same as me talking to my bros or similar.
About a year and a half later, she couldn't resist and snooped through a few month's worth of chat history on a tablet we shared. Found nothing, because there was nothing, and then I held it over her head for a few days after.
Just tell her that nothing's happening. And then ask to see her phone too, if you're being "fair."
Is it wrong to sleep with someone you know is in a relationship even if you know the relationship is shitty?
>inb4 yes inb4 no inb4 +160 replies going nowhere
Ask yourself this question:
If you were in a shitty relationship, would you want your SO sleeping with someone behind your back?
>>17746609
Its a gray area. The cheater would prob be cheating anyway if it wasn't you. As long as you aren't friends with the person getting cheated on who cares.
I'm 18 by now my beard should fucking grow why doesn’t it grow goddamnit how do i make it grow faster
Wait another year or two before killing urself
Change your genes
wasn't able to grow a beard until 25 and at 30 I look like a fucking lumberjack, don't worry about it so much.
What's up with girls and grudges? A roastie friend of mine just dug up the fact that I didn't take her side back in 2004 when she got into a bad fight with a mutual friend. I'd forgotten about that.
Bitches remember shit.
It's what they do.
>call a woman beautiful a hundred times and she'll never remember
>call a woman fat once and she'll never forget it
>because an elephant never forgets
gf her
>Her: hey, will you go out this weekend?
>Me: yep I guess so. You?
>she doesn't respond.
What did she mean by this?
>inb4 she meant you to go out with her, dummy
I ain't american and neither is my countrie's weekend/party culture, I can assure you she didn't mean that.
Your first reply should have put the ball back in her court in a direct way, ie:
>I'm free, want to hang out?
Because you did not show your intent she has no way to reveal her intentions. Women expect men to initiate.
>>17746586
To add, you can still just say what you should have said the first time round.
>>17746586
No way, I said. Shit doesn't work like that here. If two people want to meet on a saturday night, they'll be fine just by knowing that each other will hang with his own crew. In some moment of the night, one of them will text/phone each other like "hey where u at, come to this pub, I'm there". Something like a saturday night date is weird.
>autistic loser
>failed college a year ago
>still pretend I'm a student so my parents won't kick me out
>literally lying to their face every day
>they're about to find out in a month
>don't know what to do
Should I just leave without saying anything? They will raise hell and I can't handle it. I just want to disappear. But I have little cash that's not enough for rent. I was thinking take a train somewhere and whatever happens, happens?
>>17746323
Grow up, apologize, work hard to make it up to them. Stop focusing on only yourself.
>>17746328
this. stop being such a baby.
>>17746328
>Grow up, apologize, work hard to make it up to them
Why do you assume I am the only one at fault here? I have nothing to apologize for. Part of why I'm in this situation is because of how they raised me. Sure, it's my fault as well, but it doesn't matter anymore.
Hey /adv/ I haven't had sex in over a year and I can't get the thought out of my head. No amount of masturbation is making this urge go away. What should I do? I'm too ugly and/or autistic to get a girlfriend so that isn't an option.
bump
How about a game of "pretend"?
>>17746445
What does that mean?