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How can I have sex with my gf without a condom and not worry about getting her pregnant? Is there any male birth control that exists? I rather do it myself than leave it to her
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>>17748150
No, just condoms.
You can get her on some forms of birth control like the implant or the IUD, that are far more reliable than the pill because of lower human error.
In general, don't fuck her without condom if you don't trust her blindly.
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If you go for the bar option with your partner just be careful as some women have side effects of putting on a lot of weight while i never bothered me as i loved her no matter how she looked it does get awfully annoying having to tell her she looks fine every 2 minutes.
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>>17748168
>>17748180
Should I try a vasectomy?

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Does anyone of you have solid advice for making money online?
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suck dick
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cam whore
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Not pretty enough.... no really guys

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What do you thinking what should girl do to be rated like slut ? And what is slut ,your opinion
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all women are sluts without exception
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>>17748042
"Slut" is an easy-to-use all-purpose insult to any female (Men can't be sluts) the name-caller doesn't like. Most of the time it isn't even directed specifically at its actual meaning, which has to do with sexual looseness. And even when it is used in that limited way - to damn a woman the speaker considers sexually too free and indiscriminate, the definition of "too" is different for everyone. So by calling a woman a slut, the speaker is exposing more about his/her moral standards than the slut's.
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A slut, to me, is an easy woman that sleeps around all the time, acts trashy but oddly demands respect despite a lack of self respect.

A healthy, safe sex life is fine. When the numbers are high is when concern sets in, be it male or female honestly. I've had friends in both camps and those that slept around like crazy had some very fucked issues that made me distance myself from them.

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I hope this is just stress induced hives.
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It's almost mirrored on my opposite hand.
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>>17748022
It could be samata
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>>17748022
It's an allergy perhaps. Is it itching you?
have you touch/eat something that could cause you allergy?

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Hey /adv/, I need help. I'm a straight guy going to college, but lately, I've been having fantasies about my best friend and I having sex. He has a girlfriend, and while I still like girls a lot, I'm kinda at a loss. What can I do?
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You might be gay. I think you need to address it because you accidentally drunkenly hook up with a gay guy.
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>>17748007
But I still want to fuck girls.
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Guess youre fucking bisexual

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I was with some friends and we started talking about sex and stuff.But the way they talked about their exes ih she used to swallow,another did anal,and other vulgar shit it just sounded so messed up how bad they talked about each one.I had sex with just 2 gurls but never feel the need to describe our intimacies in detail...am I in the wrong?
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Nope.

I think it's kind of weird.

Though one time, my best friend and I got drunk and looked at old nude pics of each other's exes. That was about it.
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>>17747975
99.9% of what men say about their sexual history is lies. And the more extreme and perverted their stories, the surer you can be that they're lying.

(Putting aside the "don't kiss and tell" rule of being a gentleman, someone who has a satisfying sex life has no need to talk about it.)
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>>17747975
Nah, your feelings are correct. Lots of guys talk like this, but it kind of reeks of insecurity. I work with a guy who tells me shit like this about him and his girlfriend, and it just seems like he's trying too hard to impress me or something.

Especially if they're talking about their exes in your case, I think it's kinda petty too. Like "yeah she broke my heart when she dumped me, but at least I got to cum on that bitch's face." It's gross behavior all around

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She broke up with me out the blue a month ago, and since then we've just been on/off arguing, but this morning I found out the real reason. Backstory?

>Before me, she was single for a year, never had anything serious. I come along, 8 months together, was her first kiss and first everything else.
>We were really close, opened up to each other, I always treated her good and done cute things for her blah blah blah.
>But at some point she kissed a guy, she admitted it to me right away, was crying, but she write me a 3 page letter of how sorry and stupid she is, we get back together up until a month ago.

I seen her yesterday for a bit, kept things light, gave her a hug and that was it. But suddenly she had a change in her mood and she told me when she hugged me "all the bad comes back to her", I said what bad, and she said "when I grabbed her that time". This is back when she cheated on me, I was upset, she started walking off and I tried to stop her, because I was like wtf shouldn't I be the one to walk away. She tried pushing me away to get past me but I held onto her and this all built up until she screamed at me to let her go. She said I really hurt her. I just don't know how this has been affecting her all this time (she don't like or see her dad so maybe he treated her like shit?).

I've told her how sorry I am, and that I didn't know she was keeping it in this whole time. And that I never meant to hurt her, emotions were running high that day and it got the best of me but that's still no excuse, because I hurt the thing that was closest to me. Told her I feel pathetic and if she no longer feels safe with me, then that's a mistake I have to live with. I just owned up to it, but she tells me sorry isn't good enough and just wants me to go away.

I know she still loves me, but what can I do? Do I just disappear for a while and not contact her?
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I really hope they block you.
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>>17747918
Here is the nut again
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>>17747918
Lol she plays on you. She cheated on you and then she acts like she doesn't feel safe with you because she wanted to be on top of the situation. She wanted you to feel guilty like you are now! But you acted right,as everyone would act! She was wrong for cheating you!

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I noticed a hard lump in one of my testicles and lately my sexual drive has gone down and it's been harder to achieve erections.

Could this mean anything other than impending doom?
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>>17747883
Why havent you seen a doctor? You do realize the finger up your butt is going to save your life. Stop being a bitch
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>>17747887
I'm 20, so the finger-up-the-butt age didn't come yet, and I have a doctor scheduled for friday.

But really, it feels like a little ball attached to one of the testicles. It's hard. Doesn't hurt though.

Could this be ANYTHING other than cancer? Fucking please.
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>>17747883
you dick ain't gonna fall out, but go to a doctor, to see where the problem is coming from.

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So I can't come with a condom. However, when I go raw, my dick hurts when I have sex because I"m uncut. The hood goes down all the way.

Anyway, what's the best lube I can buy for this so it doesn't hurt?
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halp pls
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Get circumsized. I cant thank my parents enough for choosing the right thing for me instead of leaving me in the position to make decision.
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>>17748094
Don't fucking do this. I can't come unless i have sex for 2 hours, and still most of the time I have to finish by hand or bring it to a point just before.

Condoms make me feel absolutely nothing.

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I broke up with her because she was a cheating cunt but I still think about her every day. I don't like her, or want her back and I have a new girlfriend, but she's always in the back of my mind and it's pissing me off

will it ever go away?
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>>17747842
Seems like you are not that in love with your new gf. Well,just forget your ex,she cheated on you,she is a whore. I think it's all about egoism.
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>>17747842
Your new one is probably just a rebound. Dont think too much about it.
Then again you were betrayed by your Ex. Thinking about it does not help much. Youll be cracking jokes about her in a few weeks
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I have same problem except I don't have a new gf.
I'm Sad nearly all the time.

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Hello /adv/

I do not feel that I deserve to live, and that I'm just a leech on society and my loved ones.

>24 now
>Minor qualifications
>Rubbish jobs all life
>No savings
>Living off handouts and couch surfing
>Trans
>Social phobia since 13
>Can't stay sober for more than a few days
>Just want my heart to stop pounding and tearing my hair out over small things
>Business I've been working on starting with friend is turning into a disaster, he never shows up to meetings or answers his phone
>Can't take the stress, suicide revolves through my head all day
>Just want to calm down but never can

Should I just get it over with now? It's been at least several years of yo yo-ing with substances and work but the past few months it's all really gone to shit.

Pic unrelated.
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>>17747809
Do you abuse lots of stimulants?
The withdrawl effects will give you moodswings that can multiply the anxiaty and depression many people can feel over unrelated issues.

Best thing to do is to stay away from drugs and go see a therapist. You may have a lot in your mind and nobody to talk to that would genuinly care about making you better.
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>>17747817
I avoid any stimulants like they're the manifestation of Satan. I can't calm down as it is.

I've been to see a few therapists. One, before I started to come out to people, who told me I needed to harden up and not worry. That was it. I was prescribed valium but couldn't function on it.

Current therapist will prescribe HRT but is closed off to the anxiety problems.

My friends, or at least the people I know, seem to just tell me I need to get out more and leave it at that. I do get out. Ive mentioned the issues with anxiety are making me suicidal. I don't know what else to do.

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>(insert girl here) may or may not have taken up a bunch of black dicks
>(insert girl here) would initially withheld sex until she may or may not have sex with me (which is not a problem in of itself but still contributes to cuckoldry)
>a million guys are probably after her and she has a metric fuckton to choose from
What even is the point of dating girls in 2016? Why would I want to cuck myself?
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>>17747799
>Why would I want to cuck myself?
Some individuals find it very arousing knowing their gf (or wife) is getting a lot of attention.

On a serious note, I know its a dream lots of guys have to get the virgin, but in the end you need to realize that if you want to screw around, the girl will also want to do it.

Then comes the question, why would an alledged asprin-cycle want to withhold sex?
Most likely because she would not want to give off the message that she is too easy.
Do what you want with that, but you cant have it both ways
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>>17747807
OP never said he wants to screw around, he wants to DATE. Can't you read? imbecile
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>>17747799
On the same boat as OP,

Broke up with gf of 3 years 7 months ago, and I just don't want a life with a girl who has had many dicks in her and intimate relations as we will have. >>17747726

ffs that will be the mother of my children, but this blocks me from say 99% of decent looking girls

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Is there any way to be naturally a nicer person? A lot of the time I gotta try since im just naturally a massive cunt.

And when I do try for some reason it doesn't feel right and really against my nature.
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either realize being nicer will benefit you or become more mindful of the stupid shit you're doing
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Stop thinking your personality is something you're born with, if you want to be nice then just think more on your actions and words.
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Practice.

You shouldn't be conflicted about improving your personality. If you don't want to change bad habits you should own up to it and go from there.

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Is it possible to have a life of loneliness?
Personal blog ahead....sry
I am 24M have always been diagnosed with social anxiety never had a gf, have 4 friends and an incredible closeness to my parents, who basically are all I love on this earth.
Now, at my first payd sexual interaction ever, I probably got genital herpes, no way I want to spread it to anyone,my plan now is to live in a limbo in my room and working my job to support the family till when they are on this earth, then I really don't know...
There is people who have serious diseases and blah blah, but I know this "little" thing could lead to killing myself in a not yet defined time.
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>>17747741
Depends on your definition of living. You can be alive while alone alright. Not so sure about actually living though. You have friends and a close relationship with your parents though so you're not even close to being alone yet. Trust me, when you get down to exactly zero relationships with other people, it's a whole nother ball park.
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>>17747748
>Yet
>Trust me, when you get down to exactly zero relationships with other people, it's a whole nother ball park.

This is exacly what scares me to the point of terror...
I'm just being a little bitch I guess
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Living a lonely life is hardly ever the single or major factor in suicide. You know you still have your parents and friends, people that will clearly be upset if you kill yourself. Killing yourself out of loneliness is usually for those with absolutely no one left.

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Recommend things under $30 to order from Ikea.
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foam mattress topper
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Don't spend the last of your money on some pointless shit. Do you really need a cheap object from Ikea?
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>>17747775
>Do you really need a cheap object from Ikea?
gift card/free delivery offer. not like people don't do this on amazon every day.

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